our great teacher Supreme Buddha gave a wonderful explanation for the Love Supreme Buddha said as a mother who loves her only child you should spread that same love to the to every person in this world so when we talk about Mother's Love parents they does not expect anything from us instead they love them love us now when we were small right we were doing so many terrible things to our parents right have you seen that the the babies do so many terrible things to the their parents right they drag from their head they pinch them
they cry they yell but yet the parents still love their children so when someone is truly loving someone it's like it's they they're holding them firmly and they're nurturing them right but if you are a attached to a person you always expect the things from others right you always expect the things that fulfill your desires right when someone is attached and when someone is being lustful for someone that means he's always expecting to fulfill every fulfillment and desire from that person you're not trying to give something always you are trying to get something from that
person right it's like you're holding on to something tightly right suppose you are drawing a cow or a bull you are holding that cow or a bull from a rope so when that animal tries to escape what you have what you are doing is you are holding it tightly right the more you hold it tightly you are the one who is getting hurt right you are the one who is getting H If You Can Let Go what will happen you not getting hurt anymore so when you are being attached to a person you will always
get hurt and you will never fulfill your desires because desires and sensual desires they never get fulfilled there we cannot make ourselves satisfied from those things okay so that is what do you call the attachment in attachment you hold on to uh things tightly there is a great code that describes about love if you like a flower right if you like a flower you will pluck that flower but if you love a flower you will water the plant that flower flower plant so if you love someone what you have to do you have to say
that I need you to be happy with me right I always wish the happiness of your life if that happiness in includes me that is better but if it is not in that case also I need you to be happy that is how you love truly and that is the difference between the true love and the attachment right in true love you don't expect anything from the person but still to try to give the happiness to them in attachment you always expect the things from people and still you will never be satisfied from them so
choose to love the people correctly if you choose to love people correctly then you will be a peaceful person throughout your life bud
