English Conversation Secrets That Will Make You Sound FLUENT!

here's the real secret to better English speaking hello and welcome to the conversation breakthrough Channel today I'm going to explore a common misconception about improving your speaking skills many people think that to speak better you need to speak more but what if I told you that this approach is actually Ming you back in this video I'll show you the real key to becoming a better English speaker here's the misconception let's start by addressing the elephant in the room many English Learners hold the belief that to improve your speaking skills you need to practice speaking as

much as possible it seems logical right after all we've all heard practice makes perfect but when it comes to language learning this approach may be the very thing that is holding you back many Learners fall into the Trap of thinking that more talking equals better speaking so they join conversation clubs look out for language exchange partners and try to talk as much as they can while some of these activities can be helpful to a certain degree they're not the most effective way to improve your speaking skills so here's the truth about language acquisition to understand

why speaking more isn't always the answer we need to look at how language acquisition actually works when we learn our first language as children we don't start by speaking we start by listening for months even years for most of us a year and a half we absorb the sounds rhythms and patterns of our native language before we even say our very first word this process is called The Silence period and it's a crucial phase in language development during this period our brains are hard at work processing and internalizing the language that we hear around us

we're building a foundation of useful language patterns that will later allow us to speak naturally and fluently the same principle applies when you're learning a second language by focusing on listening you're giving your brain the raw material it needs to construct a solid understanding of English this Foundation is essential for natural fluent speech without the proper Foundation it's very difficult to build proper communication skills so what are the benefits of listening now let's dive into the specific ways that listening can improve your speaking skills it expands your vocabulary when you listen to native speakers you're

exposed to a wide range of words and phrases used in context this helps you learn new vocabulary more effectively than memorizing long lists of words you will actually pick up idiomatic Expressions colloquialisms and nuanced words that don't get into English textbooks you'll really improve your pronunciation listening to native speakers allows you to internalize the correct pronunciation of words and sentences you'll start to recognize the subtle differences in sounds that might not exist in your native language over time this exposure will naturally improve your own pronunciation you will get better intonation and Rhythm English has a

unique Rhythm and Melody that can be challenging for non-native speakers to master but by listening attentively you'll start to pick up these patterns unconsciously this will make your speech sound much more natural and less foreign you'll learn grammar in context now you learned grammar rules in school but while studying grammar rules is important hearing how native speakers use these rules in real conversations is much more valuable you'll start to develop an intuitive understanding of grammar that goes beyond memorizing rules you develop cultural understanding language and culture are very much connected intertwined by listening to native

speakers you'll gain insights into cultural norms humor and social cues that are essential for Effective conversation you'll improve your comprehension of English the more you listen the better you'll become at understanding spoken spoken English and this is crucial for maintaining fluent conversations as you need to understand your conversation partner to respond appropriately that's why speaking too much is not good because when you get an answer to a question and you don't understand the the answer how can you reply how can you make a correct response only by learning to listen well can you do that

here are some of the dangers of speaking too much let's address why just focusing on speaking can actually hurt you more than it can help you by speaking more you can be reinforcing mistakes if you speak without a solid foundation you risk reinforcing incorrect patterns poor pronunciation and poor use of grammar unless you're getting feedback you cannot change these practices practice does not make perfect if the practice is imperfect it's much harder to unlearn these mistakes later because of limited input not allowing yourself to listen more when you're always talking you're not giving yourself the

opportunity to learn from others you're limiting your exposure to new vocabulary expressions and ways of constructing sentences you also risk becoming a chatter box constant talking without listening can turn you into what we call a chatter box this is someone who talks excessively without regard for the other person's input or interest in many cultures including English-speaking ones this behavior is considered rude and can put people off unless you practice active listening your conversation will not have much depth without sufficient listening practice your speaking also lacks depth and Nuance you might be able Express basic ideas

but struggle with more complex or subtle communication because you're so busy speaking you reduce your cultural awareness and speaking without listening can lead to cultural misunderstandings or fuxa as you're not picking up on important social cues and Norms balance your listening and speaking speaking now that doesn't mean you should never speak but remember conversation is really a two-way street and speaking practice is important but the key is to find the right balance so here's how to do that prioritize listening especially if your speaking is not that great make a conscious effort to listen more then

you speak when you're in a conversation focus on truly understand understanding the other person rather than just waiting for your turn to talk practice active listening techniques so this means fully concentrating on what's being said asking clarifying questions and providing feedback to show you're engaged here's how you can learn the shadowing technique try a technique called shadowing where you repeat what a native speaker says immediately after hearing it now this is good practice when you're not having an actual conversation listen to a podcast and then when you hear the sentence after you hear it a

few times learn to say it try to mimic what the podcast speaker is saying this helps you practice your pronunciation and intonation while you still focus on listening learn learn reflective speaking after listening to someone speak try to summarize or paraphrase what they said this ensures that you fully understand correctly and gives you speaking practice based on what you've heard create thoughtful responses when you do speak take a moment to collect your thoughts it's better to speak less but more meaningfully than to fill the with unnecessary chatter here are some practical ways to improve your

listening skills let's explore some practical ways to enhance your listening skills listen to English language podcasts on topics that interest you so these are not necessarily podcasts about improving your English if you're interested in fishing listen to podcasts about fishing if you're interested in in business listen to business podcasts start with slower clearer speakers and gradually move to more challenging content find content that you can understand 60 to 70% and then let your brain figure out what the other 30 or 40% is about TV shows and movies can also be useful watch English language shows

and movies initially with subtitles in your native language then with English subtitles and finally without subtitles your goal should be to learn to watch English movies and TV shows without subtitles that's how you can really improve your listening skills otherwise you're just learning to read very quickly audiobooks audiobooks are excellent listen to audio a books especially those narrated by native speakers this will expose you to a wide range of vocabulary and narrative Styles news broadcasts watch or listen to English language news news presenters typically have a clear pronunciation and use a wide range of vocabulary

music listen to English language music and try to understand the lyrics this can be very difficult because singers will slur their words speed over certain words cut off the sounds of certain words but it's still a very useful thing to do this can be a fun way to pick up on colloquial expressions and improve your ability to understand connected speech Yes find conversation Partners it's still useful when you do practice with a conversation partner make a conscious effort to l listen more than you speak ask questions and show genuine interest in what they're saying transcription

practice try transcribing short audio clips this forces you to listen carefully to every word and can significantly improve your listening comprehension listen to diverse accents expose yourself to different accents this will improve your ability to understand many types of English speakers not just those who have a native accent in conclusion while it might seem counterintuitive the path to better English speaking lies primarily in better listening by immersing yourself in the language through active listening you will naturally improve your vocabulary your pronunciation fluency and cultural understanding remember conversation is indeed a two-way street by becoming a

better listener you will not only improve your own listening skills but also become a more engaging and appreciated conversation partner you will avoid the pitfall of becoming a chatterbox and instead develop the ability to communicate effectively and meaningfully so that the next time you're tempted to seek up more o opportunities to just speak pause and ask yourself have I done enough listening today your journey to fluent natural English starts with your ears not your mouth happy listening and watch as your speaking skills soar if you have found this video helpful please like And subscribe to

our channel for more conversation focused learning tips in the comments below let me know how you are using some of these ideas to actually improve your listening skills and remember the next time you're having a conversation in English challenge yourself to listen more than you speak your future englishspeaking self will thank you [Music] a [Music]