9 Signs She's Sexually Attracted To You

hey guys welcome back to another episode of the self-confidence project I am your host Kimberly and it's a very exciting day for me today because today is my birthday so happy birthday to me today but really what I wanted to do was give you guys the gift of finally talking about the subject that I haven't broached on my podcast so far which is how do you know if a woman is interested in you sex actually how do you know if she's attracted to you so there's a difference between how do you know if she's engaged

and enjoying the conversation or sees you as a friendly person really what we want to dive into and I want to share with you today as a birthday gift is what are the signs the body language signals that a woman is going to begin giving off if she is interested in you sexually romantically she's got a element of Attraction towards you so that is what we're going to dive into in today's podcast so stay tuned for that but of course if you're brand new to this podcast I want to welcome you here we talk all

things life and dating and relationships and just how to navigate this wild wacky world that we're all in right and when you're out there and you're single and you're dating you're in vulnerable positions and it's often when we get into the most overthinking of our lives right what is she thinking what does she want from me what do women want from me and so today I just want to outline nine body language signals that you want to understand and be mindful of and begin looking out for when you start to approach and have conversations with

women in person okay so we're just going to skip all the intro and dive straight in today now when I share with you these body language signals what I really want you to be mindful of is that one of these body language signals in it of itself alone is not necessarily indicator of her sexual attraction to you what you really want to be looking out for is a combination of what I'm going to share with you today so for example we're going to dive into this in more depth in a moment here but one of

the signs that a woman is interested in you sexually or has a element of Attraction towards you is that she's going to start glancing over in your direction and a woman is going to do this very slightly or shyly she doesn't want to get caught now if you are out somewhere in public and you notice that a woman is looked your way and you immediately take this as a sign that she's sexually attracted to you you might be jumping the gun a little bit which is why I think it's really important you understand all nine

of the signals I'm going to share with you today and understand that you want to be looking out for a combination of a few of them to get that sense that she is in fact interested in you because if a woman just happens to look your way it doesn't necessarily mean that that alone means she's sexually attracted to you it's if she does that and combines it with some of the other signs over time that you can be pretty darn sure that she's into you in that way so disclaimer for warning is look for a

couple of these things happening across a uh time Horizon right okay so the first one I've already given it away a woman is going to look your way she's going to sneak glances at you okay and she does this she does this cheeky because well she doesn't really want to be caught right when women look your way it does indicate that she's interested in seeing you learning information that you're giving her from your outward appearance and your own body language and your own movements but she is probably a little certain at this very early stage

about making direct eye contact with you we know that we make direct eye contact with somebody that is very intimate it's very intense which is why we look at people and then we look away it's very difficult to gaze into somebody's eyes in fact eye gazing is a very deeply intimate exercise that couples can do to create a connection to each other so it's very unlikely that two strangers or two people that are only just getting to know one another are going to have a lot of prolongated eye contact with each other because that [

__ ] makes people very nervous so a woman who's interested in you or thinks you're attractive she's going to glance very quickly your way and if she sees you looking at her she's going to look away she might do that obviously right she's trying to gauge your interest without appearing too forward now women do this because you know our Behavior as women is is often rooted in a mix of curiosity but also caution right so she might be very attracted to you but she doesn't want to seem overly eager and so the shy little glances

that she's going to do in your direction are her way of expressing interest while also like you guys do protecting herself from a potential rejection okay so sign number one is she's going to take cheeky little glances in your direction more than one of them okay the second sign and this is likely going to happen if you are now involved in a conversation with this woman a woman is going to start to bite her lips or she's going to lick her lips and she might not even notice that she's doing this because lip licking and

lip biting all right is a very subconscious signal of Attraction it can very much be a way of drawing attention to her mouth and to her lips which as we know are very sensual part of the body it also can indicate in a woman that she has a heightened level of nervousness and excitement so sometimes even when you know in a nonsexual situation if a woman is focusing or studying she might do this while she's really focused on something but in the context of you and her and an environment where you're chatting and getting to

know one another and she starts to do this while listening to you it can be a sign of arousal or anticipation and our bodies are naturally responding to the excitement by moistening our mouth our lips right it can also be a way of her subtly signaling to you that she's interested in physical closeness or intimacy some women who are a little more bold a little more confident a little more devious may not be doing this unconsciously they might be doing it consciously because they know that men look towards movement right biologically men look towards movement

that's why guys you can't can't find anything in the fridge unless it's going hey I'm over here right side joke right so a woman who is aware of this is going to create movement in a very sensual area of her body CU she's into you and she is letting you know in a very small way that she is attracted to you so licking of the lips biting of the lips the second body language say signal that women will give off to men they are sexually attracted to sign number three one that you might not be

aware of she's going to tilt her head to the side Sometimes women just do this we we've all made fun of the whole Legally Blonde like like right the Dy blonde that moves her head this way but if she's really interested and engaged this is a sign of openness receptivity it um in fact can in some cases expose the neck right which is a very vulnerable area of a woman's body and that's going to indicate that she's feeling a sense of comfortability around you she's feeling safe around you she's exposing um a a vulnerable area

of her body but also she's tilting her head because she's she's getting comfortable she's really engaged in what you're saying this gesture uh it conveys trust it conveys interest it also is a big indicator that she's listening intently to what you're saying I don't know why we necessarily do this but when I think about when I'm really involved in what someone is saying I don't have the the most straightforward posture I kind of lean in and and tilt my head and I don't know if it's because it feels like I'm getting my ear closer to

the person and making sure that I'm really hearing the words that they are annunciating right um this signals that I'm engaged and I I want to hear what this person has to say so when a woman tilts her head this can be a sign that she's engaged she's interested she's comfortable and she's sexually attracted to you now a kind of a secondary one to this is when she tilts her head she might even do she will do it sexier than that she'll flick her hair back right she'll tuck her hair behind her ear and what

this does is again it exposes the neck but it's drawing attention to her face it's drawing attention to a sensual area of her body right and it's in this invitation for you to get closer let me move this wild hair out of the way and like also by the way this is where women apply their perfume we apply perfume on the two most vulnerable areas of our body two areas that are very sensual our wrists right and our neck so this also could expose a little bit of the perfume that she could be wearing now

why do women do that yes well it's a you know a little Behavior that's seen across a lot of different species in fact um when we're trying to attract a mate it highlights our sexy features and it signals that we're actually kind of grooming ourselves in your presence well women are not even going to be consciously aware of this but this is what they're going to do and they're really injuring you they're like they're tilting their head and they're really engaged and their eyes are wide and they're listening to everything you're saying and then all

of a sudden you see her neck and she's like ah doughy eyed right okay so it's a sign of Attraction now what she's also going to begin doing is moving closer to you moving closer to you is a very big sign that she is interested in you and she's safe in your present it reduces the physical distance between you which um Can often be correlated with emotional closes closeness so we're close to people that we feel emot close to or we're comfortable around and um and so that's what it does it signals that comfortability now

when we close the distance between well a woman closes the distance between herself and a man um well she's increasing that potential for physical touch right so it's it's her nonverbal cue of putting herself in front of you which is a significant sign of interest but when she moves her body closer to you it's much more likely that uh touch is going to take place which is then the next sign of Interest the next sign that she's sexually interested in you is that uh light touches will begin happening now it's not going to be super

bold right away but it's those light casual touches that can happen on the arm on the shoulder she might like laugh on a joke and then touch your back or touch your forearm right side note by the way if you are um if you are in the restaurant industry and you're a server or waitress whatever you call it these days whatever's politically correct right and you actually touch the forearm of the person um of the table that you're serving the person that is leaving the tip it's it's likely or psychological hack that the person leaving

the tip will leave a larger tip because you've you've created this like Bond and connection right physical closeness sometimes mean emotional connection and so when you have a server who is uh has done a good job but also is kind of bridging that gap between us and them um it's likely that are going to get a larger tip anyways so back to her lightly touching you and so it's not going to be in sexual area it's going to be in very nonsexual areas um but this creates a sense of closeness and familiarity so she's going

to she's going to get a sense of how comfortable you two are when you start to touch one another now this is a very powerful form of communication um she's saying hey I feel really connected to you and I'm going to test how you respond to me so if she touches you and you kind of move away she's going to make a story in her mind that you're not interested in her or you're repulsed by her or you don't find her interesting or you're trying to get out of that conversation so when she touches you

and you don't lean out you lean in or maybe you begin to to start lightly touching her back well now you guys are fostering that kind of safety and closeness and mutuality that is really important in these interaction so light touching really important I've said it to you guys before that when you're on a date as you get to know a woman throughout the course of that evening on your date that you want to be situated next to each other in your seats versus across each other at a dinner table for example which gives off

the whole uh really serious professional kind of interview stuff where again too much eye contact is happening and people can feel really awkward so when you're on a date with a woman you in fact want to um kind of sit at bar tables together right so you can be you know touching shoulders or instead of sitting across from each other at a table maybe you're at a table that has four seats sit on the sides so that you're close to each other so that as the evening goes better and better and better you actually have

that opportunity to reach under the table and touch your leg or be close to her have that kind of almost oops accidental touch that happens because you just leaned in to laugh at a joke and you happen to touch arms right so you want to be situated in a position where that kind of stuff can happen naturally but a woman is going to attempt to touch you and get close to you physically because she's interested she's attracted and she attracted to you and she is testing to see how you respond to being touched by her

now if things are going really well a bolder woman might even start to um reposition herself in her seat okay and sometimes that can be a sign of discomfort but when she is doing it and she's getting closer to you tilting your head and you know exposing her neck biting her lip and all of that and she might even start to um accentuate her cleavage women do this right and this is a much more overt sign of flirtation it's a way of using her body to communicate that she's sexually interested in you this can even

be an unconscious thing right some women will do it consciously but most women won't most women are like I'm not GNA I'm gonna get closer to him and shove my boobs in his face right most women are just going to naturally start getting closer to you and as a result they start to kind of Squish their body together and that can actually accentuate the cleavage which is a pretty big sign that she is finding you attractive she's interested in your attention and she's showing a part of her body that of course is very appealing to

a potential mate okay there's still a few signs left so a woman again as you see a number of these things happening you can really start to take it as a pretty sure sign that she's sexually attracted to you but one of these things on their own isn't necessarily a sign right you might be having a nice conversation with a woman she's not biting her lips she's not exposing your neck she's not tilting your hair but you make a joke that's funny and she touches you on the shoulder you don't want to necessarily go oh

she's super physically into me um she might just be a friendly person that's comfortable with touch it's when these things start to happen a bunch of these things start to happen that you can go okay I'm starting to really understand how to read the signs of women here our bodies are giving a lot of information about where we're at in our minds okay so one of the things a woman is going to do when she is uh quite attracted to you she's going to begin to mirror your gestures now this is something I talk about

a little more extensively in an older YouTube video that I did on your ultimate guide to flirting and I go into a lot more uh definition of about what mirroring is but it's really when we start to subconsciously mimic the body language of the person next to us our partner our dater you know a guy that we've seen in a bar that we're interested in so if we're talking to you and you're standing and you put your hand in your pocket we might kind of reach to put our hand in our pocket or if we

don't have a PO pocket you might kind of just copy that gesture and just like put our hand on our hip or if um you are sitting at a cafe and you decide to take perfect opportunity a sip of your coffee she might go ahead and do the same thing just subconsciously mimicking your body language and maybe you decide you're a little comfortable so you kind of uncross your legs and sit back well she might do the same thing very slowly after you and this is a way of building a lot of Rapport between two

people and it creates uh it creates a sense of comfort and familiarity because what happens when you're really at of syn is it it creates Discord if you're lean back and comfortable but she's like frigid and nervous there's Discord if uh your um you've you know you've crossed your legs and you've moved kind of inwards in your body language and she's kind of just sprawled out probably not what a woman's going to do but if you're there's Discord in your body language this isn't a good sign so when we start to mirror our uh our

date or our partner or somebody that we've Met's gestures it's a common social behavior that occurs when we feel connected to somebody it's our unconscious way of saying um I am on the same same wavelength as you I'm here in this moment with you I get what your body language is saying and I want mine to say the same so that we are comfortable in this interaction she's likely attempting to build a deeper connection with you by mirroring your gestures and your body language and lastly women will play with their hair now playing with their

hair can be a sign of nervousness you've probably seen movies where you know women are really playing with their hair um but if a woman is on a date and she finds you attractive or you've met her and she finds you attractive and she's sexually into you what is she going to do with that nervousness she's going to move her hair around she's going to use her hair as a tool to get that energy out of of nervousness out of her fingertip now sometimes we're just going to do this because it's flirty it's flirty to

like I don't know do this maybe I'm not really good at doing it but like you know again she's drawing your attention to this part of her body so this hair touching this hair twirling is a sign sometimes of that nervous energy and self-consciousness but it can also be a way to draw attention to her femininity and to appear more attractive to you um you know to bring your attention to her beautiful long hair whatever it might be right so just make sure she's doing that in a non weird and awkward way like I am

and so these are these are the body language signals that women will begin to give off over time towards a man that she is attracted to that she's sexually interested in and what's important here like I said in the beginning of the show is that you're seeing a couple of these things happening over time a quick glance your way is not just an outward sign of attraction ction she could just be um she could have just heard a noise and looked over that way or she might even look over because you're wearing something that is

really outlandish that has drawn her attention right but if she's glancing your way and then you're in a uh conversation or if you're even not in a conversation yet but she's glanced your way and then she starts to move closer to where you are um and then she starts to do some of these gestures like even with her girlfriend friend right women will do this too it's fascinating if a woman sees a guy she's attracted in in but he hasn't approached her she'll glance his way and then even if she's talking with her girlfriend she'll

start to do these flirty gestures with her girlfriend they're not for her girlfriend they're for you she'll start to do this and expose the neck knowing that you're over here and can see it and she'll keep looking your way and then she might even make herself look more sexually attractive so women will do this even if you're not in conversation with her but of course you're going to notice this probably more obviously when you are in direct communication with her so I hope this has been insightful I hope this has been helpful look out for

these signs right look out for these signs and women to get a sense because women will not outwardly tell you that they are attracted to you they will let their body do the talking so you want to look out for these signs that she is in fact sexually attracted to you thank you guys for tuning in to today's episode this is my little birthday gift to you guys diving into this topic to help you find a lot more clarity when it comes to women's body language and I hope that tonight as you guys are out

there celebrating that you notice a beautiful woman looking your way ciao