You don’t like yourself? Create a new version of yourself

you should do you should just stay the same do whatever you're doing and don't change because the world needs to accept you as you are and that's it is something i will never ever tell you why because that's the worst advice ever the world does not owe you anything people don't owe you anything we are changing every single day we are always trying to get better always trying to improve ourselves always no person is the same person as he or she was from the day that they were born so saying that oh don't change yourself

just accept yourself it's just not realistic and this channel is all about realism i do not like to sugarcoat things sugar coating does not work i'm not the nice guru that will tell you that everything will be okay no it will be okay when you make it okay because your life is literally in your hands and in your hands only nobody's coming to save you nobody will save you not your mom not your not your spouse not your children nobody will you want your life to change you have to change hey guys my name is

liz and welcome to my channel okay so today we are going to talk about the fact if you don't like yourself you have to create another version of yourself literally we see celebrities talking about this a lot you see beyonce beyonce says whenever she goes on stage she is not beyonce she is sasha fierce a very good example of this as well is david goggins david goggins is a navy seal who um he was he grew up and he got him into poverty he uh gained a lot of weight he lost weight he ran marathons

this man did incredible stuff if you don't know him please check him out but basically they all say create another version of yourself and when i heard those stories i was like wow that makes a lot of sense and i started doing that as well so you have me right liz she's just you know herself liz is very lazy liz liz does not want to do anything like honestly if you ask me what the perfect thing for me would be if i do not want to be the higher version of myself is literally go back

home go live with my mom rely on her financially just stay in my room delete all my social media because i do not like the attention that comes with it and yeah just stay like that comfortable in my bed in my room but that will get me nowhere so i created an alter ego somebody that is confident somebody that uses her platform somebody that goes after her goals somebody that wakes up in the morning and goes to the gym and does not care whether she wants to or whether she doesn't she just has to get

up and do it somebody with a very hard mindset somebody when she gets told that she's ugly she doesn't look good because i get told things like that daily on my social media somebody that created tough skin because she has to take it all in order for her to achieve what she wants to achieve so you don't like yourself you create another version maybe even act if you start acting like it you'll become it there is no other way i don't think i don't understand why people say like oh my god this is like magic

it's not real how is this magic if you start doing what the higher version of yourself would do obviously you'll become her this is like very logical you see uh you have to think about it right how does the higher version of yourself look like what is she wearing or what is he wearing who do they date where they hang out how do they spend their time what's their career even down to the haircut what's the haircut like what does what does this person look like in your head i cannot tell you that you know

what best you looks like maybe the best version of you has a little weight to lose maybe the best version of you has a little way to gain maybe the best version of you has muscle to gain you notice all these things for yourself i cannot tell you this because i do not know what the highest version of yourself looks like i only know what the highest version of myself looks like so once you got that you got that goal in mind you know what the highest version of yourself looks like you have to start

acting towards it so you have to start planning your goals for example i'm telling you in my head okay the highest version of myself i know her perfect weight i have a very petite frame and too skinny does not look good on me because like i told you guys i had an eating disorder i was there i looked sick sick sick i looked like i was dying does not look good on me a little weight but like toned looks the best on me and i know that this i can achieve through gym and fitness and

weightlifting so every single day when i wake up and i do not want i do not want to go to the gym but i think to myself okay what would the highest version of myself do right now the highest version of myself gets out of bed says thank you god for waking me up today thank you for this blessed day this day is going to be so good i started with positive affirmations i put my gym shoes on and i i get off to the gym that's what the highest version of myself does and every

single day even if i like pick a meal right uh i love sugar i love like sugary foods and stuff but i always think what would the highest version of myself do would she get this dessert because my issue is sugar causes breakouts with me and i get inflamed i do not digest it well it's very bad for me i even i think i have an allergic reaction to sugar because i get like a rash in my face as well so this is really not good for me so i always think like okay what would

the highest version of myself do because the highest version of myself has really nice skin so the highest version would not take that dessert she would take maybe caffeine instead like something like a coffee or a tea that will suppress like um that suppresses my craving for sugar right so i do that instead because that's what the higher version of myself would do same thing with reading books i do not i cannot concentrate i do not want to read books at all at all but the highest version of myself she needs to finish the books

because she knows books are knowledge and knowledge is key knowledge will get you so far in life i cannot explain this enough the more you know the better the highest version of myself is also very confident liz is shy she does not want to go out in public she does not want to speak she just wants to be ignored in her room safe where nobody can judge her nobody can talk about her nobody knows anything about her but the highest version of myself has a platform and she wants to use that platform for the better

she wants to use that platform to help people this is something i'm very passionate about this is my passion because right now i was doing this giving advice making videos having my tick tock i would never ever promote anything because i did not want my my followers to buy something that i did not use myself so i will get so many questions for brand deals and emails and offering me a lot of money and i always declined because either i use it myself and i promote it or i don't promote it at all and i

do not care about the money that's how passionate i am about this i did this thing for a while for free right now i am making money off of this not through brand deals and stuff but i am so the money now is just a bonus but i was doing this for a year for free because i love it i would wake up sometimes at night i could not sleep because ideas would run through my head oh my god okay you have to film this video this video is nice i'm very creative my mind is

always running so i love to wake up in the morning i love like cultivating my new ideas telling you guys my new ideas talking to you guys i love it this is something i love you have to find your own passion see i get messages people ask me liz what is what what is something you would recommend that i have to do as a career choice what is something uh what is what is my passion and stuff i cannot tell you what your passion is babe i can't at all you know even my sister right

who is literally my own blood she does not want what i want because this is not for her she says liz i'm so proud of you and congratulations for everything you've achieved but i do not want what you want i would never put myself in a position like that for people to judge me and this is very hard you have to create such tough skin to be to be a public figure or to be an influencer or even a celebrity this is so hard because the tiniest things people notice about you and they start saying

and you start looking yourself in the mirror differently you can be the most confident person ever but when so many people say it over and over again you're like oh my god is this true do i really look like that you know you s it's almost like a body this formula you create in your head it's insane so you really have to get tough skin for that and a lot of people do not want this but see i believe that god gives us passions because that's what we're supposed to do god doesn't give you just

like a talent or a passion just like that you know why do you not want to go climb the mount everest for example why is that not your passion because it was not for you you know deep down inside what you were meant to do and if you don't have a passion or you think you don't think about what am i really good at what would people even pay like ten dollars for for me to do like for example me i'm very good at giving advice i have always been given advice since i was a

child i gave advice to my mom when i was five years old about how she should uh work her marriage out and stuff what she should do i have been doing this for a while and i am good at this and when i speak i speak from the heart and when people when my followers on instagram ask me for advice i give them advice for free but you think if i would ask them like okay i'll give you advice but send me ten dollars they would 100 give it because this is how good i am

at it every single person is good at something it might be like as small as cooking maybe a really good cook big pies start selling your pies do things like that big other foods and maybe you're very good at managing a team why don't you start a management company maybe you're very much into social media but you don't you don't want to be seen start um a social media company where you make other people famous but you're on the background you know these are like things you have to think about like what am i really

good at what would people pay even ten dollars for to get real honest with yourself like really i am so so tired of these people always sugarcoating stuff always being like oh no always be kind to yourself in my opinion that's toxic you cannot always be kind to yourself sometimes you need a reality check for example i suffered from a depression for two years severely i would not leave my room like not at all my mom would come into my room in the morning to check if i was alive if her daughter was breathing and

like if i think about it right now it's very hard for me to even talk about but that was my reality and i do not want like pity or something you know i got over it and i became this version of myself so it's a blessing but at that time i remember i would i would always talk to my mom and i would tell her mom like i have this desire to help people and maybe it was because i felt so helpless myself that i wanted to help other people and my mom was like liz

like what are you talking about just get nine to five like a normal job what are you talking about youtube social media like are you insane and i didn't even have any social media back then you know and i was like no mom i i want this i need this i want to help people and she was like she looked at me she's like liz you can't even help yourself and that really hurt me i remember i went up to my room and i started crying i started bawling my eyes out and i was like

why does she hate me she's so mean to me and all these things and then when i was done crying the next morning i woke up and i was like wow my mom is right how am i trying to help other people when i cannot even help myself and then i remember i i i did my skincare i put my um i i changed my pajama again and i went back to sit on my bed and i was like in my head just waiting until it got evening again like every single day i would just

sit on my bed and wait until it got dark again and then at that day particular i went to the mirror i looked at myself and i was like liz you're pathetic you are so pathetic look at yourself these are your youngest years every second you're getting older and you have voices that wasted the last two years in your room doing nothing so then from that day on i i remember i made a plan i was like okay we have to think what would the better version of me do so then i started like okay

the better version of me would start maybe getting out of her room you know going outside maybe get some fresh air so i started doing that i started going for walks every single day i would make sure i would get my ten thousand steps in um i started eating eating healthier i started like making myself oatmeal i enjoyed doing that then i started listening to like podcasts um motivational things um you know i used to listen to this before but now i started hearing them i started really like listening the most important thing i have

ever done in my life is believe in the law of assumption and believing god because i started to communicate with god you know i used to pray like i'm muslim so i would uh pray five times a day and stuff but i would pray and just to pray and that's it and then go to sleep and cry but then i started praying like talking so i said every single time when i uh when i did my prayer i would sit and not every single time because that's like that's also like pushing it and that's too

much but like sometimes when i was really feeling down i was like look i talked to god like he was my best friend i was like look i don't feel good and this is what i'm feeling right now and i don't know why and and i know you're the only one that can help me and you know what i give it to you you know what's best for me then show me the way i ask him show me the way how do i do it so when i started talking to him like that i swear

i swear every single thing i wanted to manifest started manifesting into my life because i started talking to god see you guys are expecting things to come into your life but did you ask god did you ask the universe did you ask if you don't believe in anything just ask you know you cannot expect help if you don't ask for help and you don't you cannot expect good things to come if you don't even can accept help from people you know sometimes god puts people into our life to help us to upgrade us and if

you're constantly dismissing people and being like no i got it on my own how will you ever get there and then you keep asking like god why don't you help me god says i send you this person but you dismiss them or dismiss her completely let go of trying to control everything like i was always trying to control every single thing in my life i needed control i was so afraid of not having control in my life and this comes from early childhood trauma because like when i was uh in my younger years i never

had control there was a parent that always had control over me and i felt just like i was nothing you know and when i grew older that gave me a sense of like oh okay i need to control everybody around me and everything that happens into my life because that's the only thing i have but then i i realized that when when i started talking to god and when i started seeing that whatever i asked him is happening i started to trust him so i let go of every desire i had i asked once i

would ask once i would say this is what i want and specific you know if it was money that i wanted like for example uh i needed to pay a fine i specifically asked i need money for this fine this is how much i need please help me and i would always also practice gratitude before i would say thank you god for having a bad sleep and thank you god for having food on the table thank you god for um the smallest things i would say thank you for before i went to bed and then

i would talk to him i would say like hey this was my day this is what happened like even literally like he's my best friend i would tell him everything and then i would be like okay so right now i have this fine to pay can you can you make sure i have the money and like really sometimes i swear like out of nowhere i would get money and this was like scary stuff like scary and then i knew okay whatever i ask him will happen so i started to trust him and now whatever happens

if even if it's good or bad i trust that it's for my better when somebody leaves my life that i really want it i know that god knows he's not good for me i know that he knows what's best for me so i really do not stress anymore like i i cannot tell you guys how much i trust him because i have seen every time i've asked he has delivered and he has not failed and when i did not get what i wanted i got something better instead that's how much you have to trust and

you have to start assuming like the world is designed for you to succeed that's how the highest version of you would think so from now on i want you to adopt this mindset of what would the highest version of myself do you walk into a room you have a meeting you might think oh no i'm so nervous i can't do this or you have presentation for school you think oh no i'm so nervous i can do this what would the highest version of yourself do shoulders back walk into the room and start talking talking like

these people are all you know what whenever you go somewhere think that everybody's in love with you like really honestly do that that will make you more confident you really have to think like oh my god these people are obsessed with me you have to tell yourself affirmations like that before you have a big big project look into the mirror say i am powerful i am amazing i am gonna kill this day ask god say god today i want you to help me to talk better to to deliver to have the best presentation ever god

please stand by with me today and i swear when you start talking you talk like you've never talked before because he literally helps you ask for help you'll receive help see recovery getting the better version of yourself become the highest version of yourself it's not linear it hurts it takes accountability accountability leads to guilt because you have to see all the things you've done before it takes uh going through the process of like looking at yourself differently looking at yourself like why did i act this way why did i do this um if you are

trying to heal from trauma it often means that you have to relive the trauma to heal from it and this hurts and you know what you're gonna have so many bad days as well but i still have bad days you know i have days where i wake up and i'm like wow i really don't like this i really don't want this but then you know when you change your mindset you change your life have my bad day i always think what would the highest version of me think right now you know what would she do

and i know she thinks that you know she she believes in god she believes in the universe she believes that everything's working out for her so she knows that this bad day is actually a blessing because how can we appreciate the good days if we do not have bad days we would not even know what good days were if there were no bad days you know so i'm telling you when you are trying to recover from something when you are trying to become a better person you will have good and bad days but it's it's

the process that will make you fall in love with life you know oftentimes it's not the thing that we get like for example if you want an expensive watch right the watch itself does not fulfill you but the process towards the watch the working towards it the anticipation the oh my god i'm gonna get it tomorrow that's what makes you happy and then when you get it you're like oh wow is this it but you forget like the whole process before that's the exciting part so oftentimes when people try to lose weight and stuff they're

like oh wow okay so i got here now but like going to the gym seeing every single day that scale go down and being like oh wow and looking better feeling healthy you're drinking a lot of water your skin becoming plump eating healthy having energy that's the process that's the happiness so you have to look at things like wow i fall in love with the process of getting things not the thing itself but the whole time that takes that takes to get there the bad days the good days everything you take it in and you're

like wow i love this process another thing is do not tell me what you want or what you want to accomplish what your ambitions are i could not care less to be honest with you show me what you've done show me what you're doing because for example when i started my uh whole social media thing and my uh stuff my mom she would be like liz what are you doing it's embarrassing you're not accomplishing anything i mean i was gaining a little followers but i wasn't going anywhere you know and now that i started making

money off of this my mom is one of my biggest supporters why because i showed her what i was capable of the years before i would always talk about it and be like oh my god mom i want this i wanted to be like yeah yeah whatever liz whatever you're a little dreamer whatever you know but then now when i'm serious about this and she sees me signing contracts you see me she sees me physically doing this stuff she's like whoa that's my daughter and now she supports me and the bigger i get the more

support i'll get from my family it's just that way so i have people sending me messages as well like yeah liz my family doesn't support me i don't know what to do now i don't want to do it hey look if you tell big dreams to small-minded people they will never support you because they do not understand they haven't done it themselves why do you think uh you can do it you know big issue with a lot of people these days is you want to talk you want to talk before it happened okay so why

are you putting this evil eye on yourself because i believe in evil eye i really really do every single time i told somebody something a goal of mine or anything before it actually happened it did not work why because people you know what people don't know they cannot ruin you guys have to become more private about your life you're always putting everything on social media see i am on social media but i'm private i do not want to answer personal questions why because i do not want anybody knowing anything about my personal life because it's

personal i do not know who's watching me i do not know who's praying on my downfall people are watching me because they love me but people are also watching me because they hate me and i'm aware of that and at the end of the day evil eye does exist i believe in it so i will not talk about things that i want to accomplish before they're accomplished you know i will show you guys that i'm accomplishing it and i'm that i'm doing it but i will not talk about it before it happened and that's why

a lot of reason why you guys are not succeeding is because you talk too much and you do less i hope you really enjoyed this video i'm telling you you don't like yourself you create another version you start behaving like the best version of yourself you start figuring out what the best version of yourself looks like smells like dress like um what's the career is what the passion is like anything you know this for yourself if you don't you figure it out i love you guys so much like it's insane like the way my uh

social media is growing and especially my youtube because i love youtube because it really gives me a connection with you guys i just love this so much and i'm so grateful and i'm so thankful for you guys and i swear every night before i go to bed i pray for you guys i pray that everyone that's watching me that wants to succeed will succeed and i know you guys will but i cannot do this for you the only thing i can do is provide you with content and you guys have to actually do it you

know i cannot hold your hand and be like come on let's do it together i can't i wish i could i can't so get honest with yourself start start becoming the higher version of yourself start acting like the higher version of yourself and you're gonna make it you really are i love guests so much thank you so much for watching