WHEN A MAN HURTS YOU, CONFUSE HIM LIKE THIS || JOE DISPENZA MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH ||

imagine this you've given your heart to someone trusted them believed in them and then out of nowhere they hurt you maybe they betrayed you ignored you or made you feel invisible and right now your mind is screaming for answers why how could they do this but let me ask you something what if instead of reacting you became unpredictable What If instead of reacting the way they expect you flip the entire script see most people when hurt either Chase or collapse but not you not anymore because today I'm going to show you how to make them

question everything they thought they knew about you and by the end of this you won't just heal you'll be in control stay with me because what I'm about to share will change how you handle pain forever imagine this you're standing in front of your phone staring at a message that just shattered your heart maybe it was cold distant or Worse nothing at all silence the very thing that now fills your mind with a storm of questions why did he do this what did I do wrong should I say something and in that moment your body

aches to react to demand answers to prove your worth but here's the truth the moment you chase the moment you seek validation from someone who hurt you you hand them power and that's exactly what they expect they expect the text the tears the late night paragraphs explaining your pain they expect the anger the desperate attempt to fix what they broke they expect you to play the role they wrote for you but what if you don't what if instead of reacting you did the one thing they never saw coming silence not Revenge not manipulation just the

sheer undeniable power of your absence now I know what you're thinking but if I don't say anything won't he think I don't care won't he just move on ah and here's where it gets interesting because silence doesn't mean weakness silence doesn't mean surrender silence when used with intention is the loudest response you could ever give let's rewind for a second have you ever noticed how people panic when a Wi-Fi signal drops it's like the entire world crashes in an instant they tap they refresh they restart their devices because the absence of connection makes them desperate

to restore it that's human nature people don't fear noise they fear emptiness they fear the unknown and when you stop reacting when you remove your energy you create a void a void that forces them to sit with their own choices and here's where the fear kicks in not yours theirs because suddenly you're unpredictable suddenly they don't know what's going on in your mind and let me tell you there's nothing more unsettling than not knowing where you stand with someone who once needed you think about it what happens when you remove something that was once freely

given people start to Crave it the moment you stop explaining stop justifying stop proving your worth that's when curiosity takes over that's when they start to wonder wait why isn't she saying anything did she move on that fast is she actually happy without me and that's where the power shifts now let's make one thing clear silence is not a game it's not about waiting for someone to come back crawling it's about something much greater it's about reclaiming your value because every time you chase someone who hurt you you tell yourself that their validation is more

important than your self-respect but the moment you step back the moment you allow silence to do the talking you give yourself a chance to breathe to heal to rebuild and I know I know it's not easy your mind will scream for closure it will beg you to send just one more message to get one last explanation but tell me this is begging for answers ever made someone love you more has proving yourself ever changed the way they treated you no people don't change because you convince them to they change when they realize what they've lost

and sometimes the only way to make them realize that is to remove yourself entirely but here's where most people go wrong they stay silent for a few days maybe a week and then when the anxiety becomes unbearable they break they send that hey just checking in message they give into the fear that silence means being forgotten let me tell you something real power isn't in temporary silence it's in unwavering self-worth it's in knowing that your presence is a privilege not a guarantee and if someone chooses to disregard that then let them feel the weight of

your absence because in the end silence isn't just about confusing them it's about reminding yourself who you are imagine this someone thought they had you figured out they believe they knew exactly how you'd react how you'd respond how you'd fall apart at the first sign of distance they were confident that you would wait Chase overthink and stay predictable because that's what you've always done right but what if this time you did something different What If instead of following the script they assumed you would you flip the entire game most people are predictable they react out

of emotion out of habit out of fear someone pulls away they chase someone ignores them they beg for attention someone hurts them they demand an explanation it's a cycle and it's exactly why so many people lose their power in relationships because the moment someone knows your next move you become easy to control they don't have to respect you because they already know they can get away with anything but not you not me more see the most dangerous person in the world is the one who cannot be predicted the one who doesn't react out of desperation

the one who moves on a different frequency completely detached from the expected pattern because unpredictability is power it keeps people on their toes it forces them to pay attention it makes them Wonder question and most importantly doubt their control over you think about it what happens when a character in a movie does exactly what you expect you get bored you lose interest but the moment they do something completely unexpected your eyes stay glued to the screen that's human psychology people are drawn to what they can't fully understand now imagine applying that same principle to your

life imagine responding in a way that no one saw coming someone expects you to beg for their attention you disappear without a word word they think you'll sit around waiting you're out living your best life posting pictures with a glow they've never seen before they assume they've left you broken you rise higher than ever unfazed Untouchable and that's when the fear kicks in not yours the theirs because suddenly you're no longer in the palm of their hand suddenly they don't know how to handle you and there is nothing more unsettling than losing control over someone

you thought you had mastered but here's where it gets interesting when you become unpredictable you trigger something deep in the human mind curiosity and curiosity is one of the strongest forces of attraction the moment someone doesn't know what's going on in your head they start paying attention they start questioning they start wanting to understand in the moment they want to understand you they start valuing you in ways they never did before but let's be clear this isn't about playing games it's not about pretending to be something you're not just to get a reaction it's about

shifting from reactive to strategic it's about breaking patterns that have kept you stuck in cycles of pain and disappointment it's about refusing to be the predictable person who always gives more than they receive because here's the truth people don't appreciate what's easily available they don't respect what they can manipulate but the moment you become someone they can't predict that's when they realize they have to step up or step out and either way you win most people hear the word unpredictable and think it means being erratic impulsive or Reckless that's not what this is this is

about moving with purpose about responding in way ways that serve your growth not your momentary emotions it's about keeping people on their toes not by playing mind games but by refusing to be someone they can take for granted so ask yourself when was the last time you truly shocked someone with your growth when was the last time someone underestimated you and instead of proving them right you left them speechless because that's where your power is is not in explaining not in proving not in begging for understanding but in becoming so unpredictable that they have no

choice but to respect your presence you ever wake up one day and realize you're tired not physically tired but mentally emotionally and even spiritually drained tired of feeling stuck tired of waiting for things to change tired of looking in the mirror and not fully recognizing the person staring back at you it's a dangerous place to be because this is the moment where most people either break or transform and right now you have a choice you can keep living the same story making the same excuses accepting the same disappointments or you can decide right here right

now that the person you are today is the weakest version of yourself you will ever be again because this this is where it starts the glow up the transformation the moment you step into the most powerful version of yourself not just on the outside but in your mindset your energy your entire existence now let's be real most people think a glow up is just about looking good changing your hair hitting the gym buying new clothes and sure that's part of it but a real glow up the kind that turns heads shifts rooms and makes people

wonder what changed that starts from the inside because you can change everything about your appearance but if your energy is still weak if your confidence is still shaky if your mindset is still stuck in Old patterns nothing really changes so let's talk about it where does a true glow up begin with one decision the decision that from this moment forward you refuse to be anything less than exceptional the the decision that your past does not define you your heartbreak does not weaken you and your setbacks do not limit you because here's the truth every single

thing that tried to break you was actually building you you just didn't see it yet but let's make one thing clear this isn't some overnight thing a real transformation it's a battle it's you versus you it's fighting against the version of yourself that wants to sleep in instead of grinding that wants to stay comfortable and instead of growing that wants to hold on to the past instead of creating the future and if you're not willing to go to war with that weaker version of yourself then nothing changes now here's where people start getting uncomfortable because

leveling up means letting go and that's where most people fail they want the glow up but they don't want to release the things that are weighing them down the toxic habits the negative selft talk the distractions the people who bring nothing but drama and Chaos into their life but you can't build an Empire while carrying dead weight so ask yourself what are you holding on to that's keeping you from stepping into your power who are you entertaining that drains you more than they inspire you what daily habits are keeping you stuck in the same cycles

of frustration and self-doubt because your glow up isn't about add more it's about removing everything that dims your light and here's the part no one talks about when you start evolving it's going to scare people not everyone is going to celebrate your growth some people liked you better when you were insecure when you were easy to manipulate when you needed their validation and the moment you start carrying yourself differently the moment you start demanding more from life you're going to see who's really in your corner some people will distance themselves some will try to guilt

trip you make you feel like you're changing too much and that's fine because you're not here to stay the same just to make other people comfortable you're here to become the version of yourself that doesn't beg for love that doesn't shrink to fit into places you've outgrown so here's what's going to happen the more you invest in yourself physically mentally emotionally the more your energy is going to shift the more confident you become the more magnetic your presence will be people will start noticing they'll start questioning they'll start wondering what happened and that's when you'll

realize the glow up wasn't about proving anything to anyone it was about becoming the kind of person who doesn't need to prove a damn thing imagine this you're sitting there heart pounding staring at your phone waiting waiting for a text a call a sign that you still matter you tell yourself you won't check but then your fingers move on their own unlocking your screen scrolling refreshing nothing and that nothing feels like everything like rejection like abandonment like proof that you weren't enough now pause breathe ask yourself why does this person have so much power over

you why does their attention or lack of it determine how you feel about yourself and most importantly what happens if you simply stop caring most people live their lives like puppets strings pulled by the reactions and approvals of others someone ignores them they spiral someone shows them affection they light up it's an exhausting way to exist because it means your happiness is always in someone else's hands but what if you cut the strings What If instead of reacting instead of overanalyzing every little shift in energy you chose something far more powerful because here's the truth

indifference is power the moment you stop seeking stop chasing stop needing a certain response from someone you become Untouchable and that terrifies people think about it have you ever noticed how the less you care the more people want your attention it's not magic it's psychology humans are wired to chase what feels uncertain to Value what isn't easily available the moment someone senses that they no longer have control over your emotions they start paying attention but let's rewind because I know what you're thinking how do I stop caring how do I turn off feelings like a

switch you don't indifference isn't about suppressing emotions it's about shifting your focus it's about realizing that no one deserves the power to control your peace because the second you let someone dictate your mood they own you and you you're not here to be owned now here's where things get interesting the moment you adopt true indifference you become unpredictable and unpredict predictability is the most attractive energy you can carry it makes people wonder it makes them second guess and most importantly it forces them to re-evaluate their own behavior because let's be real people expect a reaction

they expect you to text back immediately to overex exlain to prove your worth and when you don't when you simply exist without needing their validation that's when the game shifts and I get it this isn't easy indifference requires discipline it requires you to fight against every conditioned response that tells you to seek approval but ask yourself when has obsessing over someone's attention ever made them respect you more when has overthinking ever led to happiness never indifference isn't about being cold it's about being in control it's about knowing that you are enough regardless of who acknowledges

it it's about walking into any situation any relationship any conversation and knowing that if someone leaves it doesn't break you it frees you and the best part the moment you master this you become the kind of person people want to be around not because you're playing games but because your energy is rare you're no longer desperate no longer grasping for attention like it's oxygen you are self-sufficient whole and detached from the outcomes you can't control and that that is the ultimate power imagine walking down a street looking for a place to eat you see two

restaurants one is completely empty the other has a line out the door which one do you choose instinctively without even thinking you gravitate toward the one with the crowd why because if everyone else is there it must be good right this is the power of social proof the invisible force that shapes decisions controls perceptions and determines what people see as valuable it's the reason why people want what seems in demand why they chase what peers exclusive and why they respect what others already admire and if you understand how to use this to your advantage you

can shift the way the world perceives you without ever having to prove your worth directly now here's where most people get it wrong they think value is something you declare that if they say I'm confident I'm successful I'm worthy people will just believe it but that's not how human psychology works people don't don't believe what you tell them they believe what the world around them reflects about you if something is valuable it doesn't have to beg for attention it attracts it naturally think about it why do people gravitate toward influencers with millions of followers why

do Luxury Brands never have to convince anyone their High status why does a person suddenly become more desirable the moment others start showing interest in them it's all social proof the unspoken rule that if something is already desired it must be worth having and this applies to every aspect of life relationships business influence success if you walk into a room and no one seems to acknowledge your presence people will assume you're not important but if you walk in into that same room and others turn engage react to your energy it changes everything because here's the

uncomfortable truth people don't decide what's valuable based on pure logic they take cues from their environment they look at how others respond and if they see admiration attention and demand the perception shifts now let's talk about how to use this because social proof isn't about faking importance it's about positioning yourself in a way that naturally creates the perception value it's about understanding that people are drawn to momentum to things that seem to be already thriving to things that they feel they should want have you ever noticed how the moment you stop chasing suddenly people start

paying attention mention the moment you stop proving your worth suddenly others start seeing it that's because desperation kills social proof the second you start acting like you need validation you lower your perceived value but when you move with confidence when you create your own momentum when you become someone who attracts instead of begs that's when people start taking notice and here's where most people struggle building social proof takes discipline it means stepping back and creating an environment where value speaks for itself it means resisting the urge to explain your worth and instead demonstrating it through

action presence and results it's the reason why the moment you surround yourself with high value people others assume you must be high value too the reason why a packed event feels more exciting than an empty one the reason why someone in demand instantly appears more attractive and once you understand this you stop wasting energy trying to convince people of your worth instead you create a life that proves it without a single word because the reality is people don't question what already seems established they follow what looks credible they trust what others have already validated and

if you position yourself right if you build right environment if you cultivate the right perception then suddenly the same people who overlooked you will start seeing you in a completely different light there's a force that we all feel but can't quite understand it's an energy that moves us drives us and sometimes even paralyzes us it's mysterious but at the same time it's undeniably real have you ever felt it that sensation of being on the edge like something is about to happen but you just can't put your finger on what it is that's the mysterious energy

I'm talking about and today we're going to dive deep into its power and its influence over our lives in the First Act of our journey let me take you to a place where you feel like you're stuck it's like walking through a fog unable to see your way forward you want more you want to break free but there's something intangible that's holding you back this is where most people live caught between the comfort of what they know and the fear of the unknown they feel a powerful force pulling them in different directions but they don't

understand what it is this energy is elusive it's not always visible to the naked eye but it's there controlling the direction of our lives and here's the truth that energy has been working on you shaping your thoughts decisions and actions every fear you've had every doubt you've experienced has been Amplified by this invisible force it creates tension doubt and uncertainty all the while pushing you toward change it's like being in a car with the engine running but not knowing whether you should drive forward or park now imagine that you're standing at the edge of a

cliff the wind is strong your heart is pounding and the world below looks so small small and distant that feeling in your stomach fear right but that fear is tied to something much bigger than just this moment what if I told you that fear this energy is also a sign that something extraordinary is on the horizon you see that mysterious Force isn't here to hold you back it's here to challenge you it's the engine that fuels the Breakthrough you're meant to harness that fear that urgency to propel you into your next level of growth but

here's the catch most people never break free why because they let that energy control them instead of using it to their advantage fear turns into hesitation hesitation turns into procrastination and procrastination turns into regret the energy that could have been your ally becomes your enemy what would happen if you broke that cycle what if you stopped let letting fear rule your life and started seeing it as the tool it is the tool that drives you to evolve the truth is fear excitement urgency they're all part of the same mysterious energy and when you align yourself

with it you unlock a force so powerful that nothing will ever stand in your way now take a moment to think about how your energy shifts when you're excited when you're on fire when everything feels like it's falling into place your entire mindset changes it's like the universe is moving in your favor but have you ever noticed that when things start going well that feeling of excitement can quickly turn into anxiety the energy shifts again this time creating doubt and fear why does it do that why can't we just stay in that Peak stage forever

here's the truth the mysterious energy is constantly shifting it's not about maintaining a constant state it's about recognizing the shifts and learning how to move with them how to ride the wave of change instead of being crushed by it let me take you back for a moment remember that feeling of being stuck in the fog well that's just the beginning you can choose to stay there but you have the power to break free and once you do something incredible happens you move into the next phase the shift happens that energy you've been feeling it's not

random it's purposeful and just like that you find yourself at the crossroads of something powerful the question is are you ready to take the leap are you ready to face the uncertainty with confidence or will you let that mysterious energy continue to work against you because let me tell you something this is where the real magic begins the shift from Fear to excitement from uncertainty to Clarity and I promise you it's coming the question is will you be prepared when it arrives now we're nearing the climax of our journey but I want you to keep

something in mind the most dangerous thing you can do is ignore this energy it's like having a lion in your living room you can pretend it's not there but that doesn't make it any less real the truth is if you're not consciously aware of this mysterious energy it will control you without you even realizing it and that my friend is the true danger the energy that could have been your greatest asset will instead become a force of Destruction but if you're able to face it if you're able to harness it you unlock something so powerful

that everything around you begins to shift the final transition is this when you find step into that power when you stop resisting and allow the energy to flow through you you become Unstoppable the energy you once feared becomes your greatest Ally it's no longer a mysterious force that controls you it's the fuel that drives you forward it becomes the energy of transformation of growth and of Limitless potential you are no longer a victim of your circumstances you are a Creator a master of your own energy and this is the point where everything changes this is

the moment that defines who you are and who you're about to become but there's one thing you need to understand this energy while powerful doesn't work on its own you have to show up you have to act and in that moment of action when you push past your fear and uncertainty you'll feel the energy shift again and this time time it's all on you will you rise to the occasion or will you let this moment slip by the mysterious energy has always been there waiting for you to claim it the choice is yours what if

I told you that your pain could become the very thing that drives you forward that every struggle every moment of suffering could be the key to unlocking your greatest potential what if I told you that there's something so powerful so urgent that it could turn your darkest moments into the brightest opportunities let's talk about purpose over pain it's the foundation for overcoming adversity the reason we push through the hardest of times and the force that can transform every obstacle into an Avenue for growth in the First Act of this journey let's face the truth head

on life is tough there are moments when pain feels like a heavy weight that you can't shake off it doesn't matter who you are where you're from or how much you try to avoid it pain finds a way to touch all of us it could be the pain of a broken relationship The Sting of failure the weight of a difficult decision or the emotional toll of losing something that meant everything to you we all feel it and when it hits it's easy to fall into the Trap of letting that pain Define us we feel small

we feel weak we feel lost we want to shut down run away and hide from the hurt because it's easier to numb ourselves than face it head on but what if I told you that you're not supposed to run from the pain what if I told you that in reality your pain is the spark for your purpose I know that might sound crazy especially when you're drowning in despair but listen closely this pain the one that feels unbearable is trying to tell you something it's a signal a sign that you're on the edge of something

much bigger than you could have ever imagined pain doesn't exist in a vacuum it's connected to something greater your purpose and your purpose when discovered and embraced is the one thing that will carry you through but there's a catch most people never discover their purpose because they are too consumed by their pain they're so focused on the hurt the disappointment the loss that they fail to see the lessons embedded in each experience now let me take you to a place where the fog of pain starts to clear this is the moment where the shift happens

you've been stuck spinning in circles feeling hopeless you've asked yourself why me why is this happening what did I do to deserve this but what if I told you that pain is in person person it's not a punishment it's a tool a tool designed to help you grow to push you to rise above your current reality and that's where purpose enters the picture purpose isn't something that happens in the good times no it's forged in the fire of adversity it's carved out of the struggle the hardship and the setbacks it's the light at the end

of the tunnel that you can't see just yet but it's there your purpose is the reason you keep going even when everything inside you screaming to give up and once you discover it nothing can stand in your way but here's the thing that will stop most people from Ever discovering their purpose the fear of the unknown fear grips Us in ways that make us feel paralyzed like we're stuck in a box with no way out the unknown is a scary place but the truth is the unknown is where all the magic happens imagine for a

second that you're standing at the edge of the cliff looking into the abyss the wind is howling and your heart is pounding you have no idea what's down there but you know it's the only way forward you can stand there forever too afraid to jump or you could take a leap of faith trusting that something greater is waiting for you on the other side that leap is what discovering your purpose looks like it's not easy and it's certainly not comfortable but without it you'll remain stuck unable to experience the transformation that only comes from embracing

the unknown now here's where the urgency comes into play time is your most precious resource and you can't afford to wait forever for something to change you see pain will always be a part of your journey it will show up often when you least expect it but you get to decide how it impacts you you can choose to let it break you or you can choose to rise above it the clock is ticking and every moment you waste a ignoring the lessons your pain is teaching you is a moment you'll never get back this is

your opportunity the more you let your pain dictate your life the longer you stay in a state of confusion frustration and regret but when you choose to embrace your pain and use it as the fuel to propel you toward your purpose that's when the real transformation begins that's when the fear melts away and excitement takes its place that's when you feel Unstoppable but here's the catch you won't feel that excitement unless you make the choice the choice to face the pain to acknowledge it and to use it as the Catalyst for change so where do

you go from here this is where the real work begins if you're waiting for a sign this is it you have to decide now the moment of truth is here do you choose to let your pain keep you trapped or do you choose to rise above it to Define your purpose and claim your power you can sit there waiting for everything to magically change but nothing will change until you make a decision it's all up to you the mysterious force of pain has already made its presence known but now you get to decide whether it

will be your prison or your Launchpad purpose over pain that's the secret that's the key and it's all in your hands but let me leave you with one final thought the Journey won't be easy there will be days when the weight of the world feels unbearable there will be times when you question whether this is all worth it but that's where your purpose comes in your purpose will give you the strength to push through when everything seems impossible it will remind you that the pain you feel today is only temporary and on the other side

of it lies the life you've always dreamed of so what will you choose will you let the pain win or will you rise transform and claim your purpose the choice as always is yours as you reflect on everything we've discussed it becomes clear pain is inevitable but suffering is optional the way we respond to adversity shapes the course of Our Lives if you choose to remain in the grip of Fear if you let your pain dictate your actions you risk missing the opportunity to transform your life but if you can shift your perspective if you

can choose purpose over pain you will unlock a force so powerful that no obstacle will ever stand in your way the pain you're facing right now is not the end it's the beginning of something much greater your purpose is the key to your freedom it's the reason that when life knocks you down you rise again it's what keeps you going when everything around you says to quit but remember your purpose isn't something that will simply fall into your lap it's forged through struggle through pain and through moments of doubt it's waiting for you to embrace

it don't let your pain be the thing that holds you back let it be the fuel that propels you forward the clock is ticking and time waits for no one every moment you hesitate every moment you let fear control you is a moment lost but every moment you step into your power every moment you choose purpose over pain is a step toward the life you were always meant to live you have the strength the resilience and the potential to turn your pain into purpose now it's time to take action so ask yourself what will you

do with the pain you're experiencing will you allow it to Define you or will you use it as the stepping tone toward greatness the choice is yours and remember it's never too late to choose purpose the journey ahead may not be easy but it will be worth it now go out and turn your pain into your purpose and let that purpose guide you toward the life you deserve