15 Rules To Win At Life (Part 1)

life is a complicated game filled with moving pieces changing environments changing rules and unfortunately it doesn't come with a rule book so we asked ourselves what would be the common traits and patterns shared by hundreds of people who we believe are winning at life turns out there are several actions or rules that guide their behaviors and in this video we're going to share them with you without these you're unlikely to win the game of life so with that said let's take a look at these 15 rules to win at life Welcome to alux the place

where future billionaires come to get inspired number one have a vision for your life because you can't achieve the life of your dreams if you never dream about it the first thing you need to do in order to win at the game of life is to establish for yourself what winning even is without a proper vision of what life should be you have no idea of what you're supposed to achieve and when you've made it many people believe they know the general idea of what they want from life but so very few take the time

to make it clear so here are a couple of questions to help you establish a vision for your life where are you what is your environment like in this dream life how are you who are you as a person what kind of memories do you have how healthy are you how do you feel alive who are you surrounded by what kind of people do you have around you do you have someone special who you share your success with what do you do for a living how do you spend your time and these are just a

few of the core questions you should ask yourself in order to determine the vision for what you want your dream life to be once you have this figured out at least you now know what you're shooting for and then it's just time to make it a real ity number two know who you are and what you stand for the more you know about who you are the less control the world has over you making it and losing it yourself in the process sounds like a pretty bad deal to us what's the point of achieving financial

success if you can't sleep well at night see your loved ones or be surrounded by superficiality all the time if you want to win at life you should know who you are what your values are and what you stand for as an individual these are clear lines defined by someone who understands the importance of living a fine life one without regret small actions can have regrets that last a lifetime so be sure to give this proper thought number three comparing only to your yesterday self who cares if others are winning or losing if you're standing

on the sidelines we share the world with almost 8 billion people and each one of us has our own story to live you are responsible for yourself for your growth and the way you go through your life stop comparing yourself to others and start comparing yourself with your past self if your focus is on your growth at some point you'll find yourself a lot happier you'll realize that everyone is fighting a struggle of their own with their own personal expectations of what their life should be like it's okay to find people that inspire you people

you can learn from but don't compare the first chapter of your book with the last chapter from somebody else's number four set clear and empowering goals there's no elevator to success you have to take the stairs and every goal you hit is a new Step goals are like Milestones or like interesting quests you have to go on in your life achieving your goal is like leveling up and improving your own stats smart goals are precisely defined and make the journey a lot more interesting so find goals that inspire you which reside at the edge of

your comfort zone because these will Empower you most and help you move that needle forward number five discipline your mind and actions many people shrug at the thought of having to be disciplined but here's the reality the more disciplined you become the easier your life gets but very few people Master discipline and this happens because it's a hard thing to do not because of its complexity but because of the commitment only those who really want it put in the time to acquire discipline as a tool in their portfolio mastering discipline is probably the most valuable

thing you can do if you want to win at life afterward it's just a matter of time until whatever goal one sets becomes a reality and if you've always struggled with this we got your back okay you don't have to fight against this forever we designed the alux app with the key purpose of leveling up your life across what we call the five pillars of a good life Finance relationships intellect emotional wellness and physical health you can try our app out free of charge for a full week to sample its value and on day five

of the trial we'll send you a reminder just in case you don't want to continue so there won't be any surprise charges on your card but truly my friend there's so much value in there I have a feeling you're going to want at least a monthly subscription it's only $29.99 a month but if you download the app and scan the QR code on screen you'll get 25% off the yearly subscription we're edging closer into the final quarter of 2024 so if you get started today you'll be heading into 2025 already a few levels up from

where you are right now alux.com slapp number six all growth happens outside of your comfort zone the sooner you step away from your comfort zone Zone you'll realize it really wasn't all that comfortable to begin with growth comes from trying new things it comes from failure from success and it comes from uncomfortable conversations if you're just starting out the best way to learn more about yourself and the world is by throwing yourself into it how sad would it be to live your life in a small bubble without getting to lean into who you really are

to find out there are millions of other things you find fascinating once you leave your comfort zone you'll start seeing new dots that can be connected dots that weren't even visible to you before we want you to think hard about the following statement okay if things don't happen for you it's because you're in a place where things just don't happen and that place my friend it is your comfort zone number seven you only need to get it right once it doesn't matter how many times you fail because at the end of the day a single

win could last you a lifetime okay many good ideas can slowly push you forward but a single great idea can make you rich or get you the life you dreaming about the best thing is ideas are totally free it's time to come up with interesting Concepts that could potentially change your life failure is irrelevant as long as you can try and try again if you're serious about this it becomes more like a numbers game and it's all a matter of time before one of them works out number eight be a traveler not a tourist the

world is meant to be discovered not just checked off a list this is one of our favorite rules in life and whenever we do something exciting we repeat it to ourselves there's a dramatic difference between being a traveler and being a tourist tourism is a product that's being sold to you where you are and you're not in control of that experience so you're not in control of your life travel is when you venture out into the unknown and take the world in its new format don't mistake travel for simply going to a different place because

it is deeper than that look at different parts of your life and see if you're a traveler or a tourist you'll be shocked when you realize just how much of your life is currently being put into specific Lanes by somebody else number nine be grateful for what you have but thirsty for more gratitude makes sense of the past brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow there's nothing wrong about wanting more for yourself we're meant to exceed our condition to explore and to evolve you need gratitude to ground yourself to understand how far

you've come but you also need an appetite for life to understand how far you still have to go number 10 reading books can be your competitive Advantage a person who reads lives hundred hundreds of lives but those who don't live only one books are still heavily underwrite because most people don't understand what real value lies in them they look at books as forms of entertainment instead of seeing books for what they really are literal knowledge vaults someone's life experiences mistakes failures successes everything someone has learned in 50 to 60 years can be downloaded into your

brain in just a couple couple of days time that's amazing number 11 listen much more than you speak nobody learned anything by hearing themselves speak if you want to win at the game of life it's time for you to focus on real growth the type that comes from actively paying attention to the world around you it's time you become a sponge of knowledge and quality information there isn't one person around you that you can't learn something from and the brain has its weird problem where doesn't allow information to go in as you're talking so shut

up and pay attention okay there's a good reason you've got two ears and only a single mouth number 12 forgive but don't forget those who don't forgive are prisoners to their own hatred and those who forget well they're poised to repeat the same mistakes if there's a common theme throughout this video it's that of growth from all perspectives forgiveness isn't about making peace with someone no not really it's about you making peace with yourself and allowing yourself to move forward the dangerous part is that events in life have some sort of cyclical nature which means

they have a tendency to repeat themselves the forgive but don't forget rules sounds kind of aggressive but it's more of a defense mechanism that'll protect you as you evolve into a different person a person who isn't going to be hurt by the same you were hit with in the past number 13 never quit the game you might lose battles you might struggle but the game is lost only when you give up the only moment a game is over is when you completely throw in the towel in order to win at the game of life you

need to be persistent it's not going to happen overnight okay you might need to make changes you'll need to Pivot innovate rewrite to make sure that you get it the challenge is maintaining this level of adaptability long enough until you get it you might quit a particular challenge but never ever quit the main goal because without it you'll have to face a life deprived of the very thing that makes life worth living if times get hard remember to rest not give up number 14 respect others playing the game everyone is the centerpiece of their own

story with their own struggles and hardships so show them the respect you show yourself respect effect is one of those things where people understand its value and importance too late in life there's a certain Elegance of going through life as a respectful individual and you'll find that by living that way the world will show you respect toward you as well it's a trade-off that you make with the world and we need to see more of it okay understand everyone is trying to play their own version of the game a version about which you know nothing

about so treat the janitor with the same respect you treat the CEO and number 15 do not play it safe only those who risk going too far can find out how far they can really go hey you get One Life to Live so why not make it epic at some point in your journey you'll realize that playing it safe will not get you to the promised land you dreamed of be bold about your life take calculated risks where the rewards are worth it there's no other way of getting it without pushing your chances and if

you fail who cares okay you can try again and again and again if you have to however many times it takes the last thing you'd want is to be on your deathbed filled with regrets of a life you haven't lived now these are the essential 15 rules to win it life and we hope you wrote them down next week we're doing part two of this series now because you're a true alexer and you always watch until the very end we've got a bonus for you number 16 realize that you have already won you are alive

okay you made it you're already in the game because here's something crazy your chances of being born are like one in 400 trillion you've been lucky enough to get a shot at this life to enjoy it in this time frame to make the most of it this is a wild ride that not many people will get to experience and you've got the lucky ticket it's up to you to choose which Adventure you want to pursue next and that in our book is already a win if you want to confuse the hell out of people who

never watch our videos Until the End please write I won in the comments and thank you for being an alexer we'll see you back here tomorrow my friend until then take care