Os 13 Sinais Ocultos de que Alguém Próximo Odeia Você Secretamente, Segundo Carl Jung

Have you ever had the feeling that a person close to you, someone you live with, maybe even called your friend, in fact. . .

doesn't like you? Someone who seemingly treats you well, but something about their energy feels. .

. off? Maybe the smile is there, but the look.

. . empty.

The conversation takes place, but the feeling is of exclusion. And even though everything seems normal on the surface, there is something in the air — something that bothers, that hurts, even without words. She never said anything directly.

There were no fights, no offenses. But still, there is an unease in the air. A subtle discomfort that appears when you are together.

You feel like something is out of place—like her friendliness is staged. And worse: you start to doubt yourself for thinking that. What if I told you that this could be disguised hatred — often unconscious — coming from someone close to you?

And the worst part: almost always, it comes from those you least expect. Family, friends, colleagues, even someone you have a relationship with. But there are signs.

And today, you will learn to recognize them. This type of dynamic is more common than it seems. Psychiatrist Carl Jung called “shadow” the set of repressed aspects of our personality, which we do not accept and, therefore, project onto others.

Often, someone cannot support in you precisely what they deny in themselves. Your light activates her wounds. Her success exposes the frustrations she hides.

And the result? Disguised hostility. In this video, I'll show you the signs — the almost invisible behaviors — that reveal when a person harbors resentment or even hatred towards you.

. . in secret.

These are signs that go unnoticed even by very aware people. But when you learn to recognize them, everything changes. And before we start with the 13 main signs, I want to show you a subtle and little talked about pattern: the language of silence.

Not all rejection comes in words. It often manifests itself through silence. A silence that is not empty, but full of intention.

Maybe you've noticed that the person who used to include you in conversations, in plans, in the small details of everyday life, has started to shut up. Little by little, she stops sharing important things with you. Respond to your messages briefly.

Avoid talking when you are in a group. And the most curious thing: with others, she acts normally. This is one of the most ignored signs of hidden hostility.

All of this comes camouflaged with an appearance of neutrality. Because it's easy to justify. You think, “She’s busy,” “I must be imagining things.

” But, deep down, the absence of communication is a form of communication. And she's saying a lot. Comparing the way this person interacts with you and others can reveal much more than words.

If the coldness is selective, there is something there that needs to be looked at more closely. The answer, often, is not in confronting this silence, but in observing. Noticing this pattern clearly is the first step to breaking the cycle of doubt and self-punishment.

When silence begins to speak louder than words, it's time to pay attention. Because, often, he reveals a truth that the heart already knows, but that the mind still hesitates to accept. Now that you understand this subtle pattern, let's delve even deeper.

You need to know the thirteen classic signs that reveal when someone close to you hates you. . .

even if they never say it out loud. The 13 signs that someone close to you may secretly hate you are: 1. That person never criticizes you directly.

She makes jokes, sarcastic comments, innuendos that seem harmless but get to you. If you react, she defends herself by saying, "It was just a joke. " But deep down, you leave the conversation feeling smaller.

This isn't humor, it's disguised aggression. Comments like: “You are so brave… to wear that on the street. ” “Of course you got this job, you were always lucky.

” Basically, it's not humor. It's poison served with a smile on your lips. 2.

Constant feeling of discomfort in her presence. You can't explain it, but something isn't right. You enter the room and the energy changes.

The conversation slows down. Small conversations feel heavy. The eyes avoid yours.

It's as if your presence bothers you, even when no one says anything. You feel emotional fatigue after interacting with her. And this discomfort doesn't appear with other people, just with her.

This feeling is not paranoia. It's perception. Your body notices before your mind does.

3. Hidden rivalry. She never attacks you directly, but she always seems to want to prove something.

Every time you achieve something, she responds with indifference or tries to outdo you. You tell her good news, and she immediately mentions something she did herself . You express pain, she responds with something worse than she has ever experienced.

It always seems like a silent competition. As if she needs to prove that she is better without even saying a word about it. 4.

Emotional indifference. You share a pain, and she reacts coldly. You share something important, and the response is, “Oh, I get it.

” You vent, and she changes the subject. Or, even worse: he reacts with irritation, as if his emotions were a nuisance. As if it were a nuisance for her to deal with her feelings.

This lack of empathy is one of the clearest signs that something is wrong. This is emotional contempt. 5.

False benevolence. It helps, but help comes with control, making you feel like you're in debt. He gives you advice that seems kind, but puts you down.

She supports you, but makes a point of remembering that you only made it because of her. This help generates debt, dependence and submission. And behind that, there is an intention to maintain control.

It's not help. It's manipulation with the appearance of generosity. 6.

Talking badly behind your back. You find out from a third party that she made comments about you. Nothing overtly offensive, but with subtle hints: “I like him, but sometimes he’s difficult.

” These are small phrases, which little by little erode your image and cast doubt on others. Anyone who praises you from the front and weakens you from behind is not trustworthy. 7.

Contemptuous body language. Even when the words are polite, the body says something else. She avoids his gaze.

Cross your arms when you speak. Smile without covering your eyes. The jaw tenses.

The tone of voice changes subtly. The body doesn't lie. And your body captures this before you even realize it rationally.

The body speaks before the mouth. And when a person feels contempt, it is impossible to hide it all the time. You feel the mismatch between words and gestures.

8. Subtle social exclusion. You start to be left out.

Meetings, gatherings, groups. The excuses are vague: “It was last minute”, “I thought you wouldn’t want it. ” Little by little, you become invisible.

And the group, influenced by it, starts to exclude you without realizing it. It is a slow but deeply painful exclusion. 9.

Relief or satisfaction in your failures. You share a frustration and notice a strange gleam in her eyes. She doesn't celebrate her mistake.

But he also doesn't show compassion. There is a comfortable silence on her part. Sometimes a slight smile, a comment that insinuates you deserved it.

She tries to console, but the tone is cold. Inside, she is relieved. Because your failure confirms something she secretly wishes: that you weren't doing so well.

10. Ignoring or minimizing your achievements. You share an achievement or good news, and she responds coldly.

A lukewarm reaction. . .

He says it's not a big deal. Or change the subject. Or say something of your own to divert attention.

Your success bothers you. Not because she hates you, but because seeing you win confronts her with her own failures. Celebrating your growth can feel like a threat.

11. Negative comparisons. She starts comparing you to other people in a negative way, always highlighting what you haven't yet achieved.

Even if it's not direct, these comparisons make you feel inferior, like you're always in debt or not good enough. The relationship is no longer built on genuine affection and starts to be shaped by a sense of competition and constant criticism. With every compliment or victory you have, there is a “compared to”, as if what you do is not enough without measuring up to other people.

This attitude, which may seem like an attempt at “help” or “guidance”, in fact carries immense emotional weight, as it is never a constructive comparison, but rather a way of to diminish you. Sooner or later, she makes her game clear: “So-and-so got this, why didn’t you? ” And you realize that it is not support, but a way of making you feel inferior and always in debt, as if your happiness depends on living up to the expectations she imposes.

12. Spirituality as manipulation. She uses spiritual language to invalidate your feelings.

He says it's his ego. That you need to vibrate higher. Which is being negative.

That you are being proud and should be more humble. Instead of welcoming you, she judges you with phrases disguised as evolution. Phrases that seem wise, but are used to silence your pain and delegitimize your feelings.

This is not spirituality. It's emotional control masked as light. 13.

Your intuition. This is the most powerful signal and often the most ignored. You feel.

Even when everything seems normal. Even without proof. The feeling doesn't go away.

Your body warns you. Your mind tries to rationalize. But deep down, you know something is wrong.

And this knowledge does not need justification. Intuition is raw wisdom. Now that you know the key signs, it's time to look at even more subtle but equally destructive behavior : when you're turned into the story's villain.

There is a subtle but deeply manipulative mechanism that many people use to justify their coldness: turning you into the villain of the story. This is one of the most insidious signs. .

. when the person starts to reverse roles. It is a silent, almost imperceptible process.

She begins to distort her attitudes. Small statements from you start to be interpreted as arrogance. Do you show firmness?

She calls it pride. Do you set limits? She says you are moving away.

She creates a version of you that fits her narrative — a narrative in which she is the victim and you are the villain. This behavior is subtle, but extremely exhausting. You find yourself trying to explain her intentions, trying to show that it's not as she says.

But everything you say is turned around, reinterpreted, used against you. What's behind this is a need to protect her image. Instead of admitting that she feels envious, jealous or uncomfortable, she shifts the responsibility to you.

And by doing so, he gains support from others, shielding himself against any direct confrontation. The tip is to observe the patterns. Notice how she changes her speech according to the audience.

Notice how your small behaviors become reasons for veiled criticism. And most importantly: don't get into the justification cycle. Be coherent, firm and true to your essence.

The truth may not convince everyone right away — but over time, it always holds up. Little by little, she builds a narrative where you are the problem. Not because you did something serious, but because she needs to justify, to herself and others, why she treats you with disdain.

This inversion allows her to preserve herself as the victim in the relationship. You start to notice this when mutual friends drift apart without explanation. When they perceive you with suspicion.

When you hear phrases like “she said you walk differently”, or “I thought you were mad at her”. All this without you having changed anything. The strategy is clear: by making you the problem, she frees herself from the blame.

By blaming you, she protects herself. This is protective reversal. The best way to see this mechanism is to observe the coherence between who you know you are… and the way she tries to define you.

Understanding that someone close to you may secretly harbor resentment or even hatred is, without a doubt, painful. This realization becomes even more difficult when the person in question is part of your inner circle — a long-time friend, a dear family member, or someone you trusted. However, recognizing this type of dynamic is the first step to breaking the cycle of emotional exhaustion.

By accepting that this person's behavior is not a reflection of something wrong with you, but rather of your own limitations and frustrations, you gain the power to change your relationship with them — or even decide whether they deserve to remain present in your life. Confronting this person directly is not always the most effective solution. Many of these attitudes may be unconscious, motivated by insecurities and repressed resentments.

Exposing this can only reinforce the person's defense and manipulation mechanisms, resulting in more emotional distress for you. What matters is what you do with that knowledge, and how you choose to protect your inner peace. The first recommendation is: stop seeking validation from those who have already demonstrated that they are not capable of giving you genuine support.

The key is to take care of yourself, be true to your worth, and set healthy boundaries. You don't need to justify your existence to anyone — especially to anyone who tries to dim your light. Second, learn to observe these signs without allowing them to define your reality.

Your peace is non-negotiable. When you recognize patterns, you can make more conscious decisions about who deserves your time, energy, and attention. Finally, try to surround yourself with people who support you, who encourage you to grow and who share your essence.

True relationships are based on respect, trust and genuine affection, not manipulation and emotional games. Remember: you deserve to be alongside those who celebrate your light, not those who try to extinguish it. Prioritize your peace, and the right people will approach you.

Now that you know these signs and understand how the hidden dynamics in relationships work, you may begin to see certain behaviors around you more clearly. Relationships that once seemed neutral may actually be silently draining you. This video is not an invitation to distrust, but to lucidity.

By looking closely. Respect for what you feel, even when you can't explain it in words. If this content touched something inside you, then it did its job.

That from now on, you feel stronger to consciously choose who deserves to be by your side. We'll meet soon. Until then, take care of your peace like someone taking care of a sacred territory.

Because that's what she is. See you in the next video.