Answering Uncomfortable Questions With My Personal Assistant
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Iman Gadzhi
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what is your biggest turn off she has long nails and she's typing and you can hear done you know what I hate loud chewers loud chewers I'll be honest I don't really notice it too much some people are very sensitive to that yeah I'm very maybe I'm allowed chewer so ladies and gents this is Amara River Rossi III what fourth the fourth she runs gaji which is our eyewear business wears many hats between the different companies and she's also my lovely executive assistant so and bestie friend your hands are so tiny Amara put out some questions on her Instagram we'll pop her tag right there are you ready are you ever insecure about the Judgment you get I think insecurities are very interesting because they tell you a lot about yourself you need to understand when something affects you how much of it is truth and how much of it is just your mind playing with you but I think sometimes the criticism is important we started posting on Tick Tock in the summer and I had no idea what was going on I remember one day finally in November I went on the app and I was like I look like a [ __ ] so you could say oh don't focus on the haters but you read the comments and it's like these are all very valid points which is in short form a lot of the statements that I make about my life just come across very braggadocious and this that when you gragadocious new word for you when you clip it in a very short segment for me it doesn't affect me I will take heat of it I always believe people don't hate me people hate that I became the man that they could have been and I understand that and I think you have a lot of confidence in who you are and knowing that like you remember what it was like when I was younger I was getting hated 13 or 14 for being an outcast and and being alone at lunch and reading books and doing all this stuff yeah I know I guess I'm I'm used to the hate you're a legend let's get into some more juicy ones yeah let's see if you can guess two words one starting with b second one starting with C the viewers want to know body count yes um well mine yeah I'll see my body count is no one's business I think it's very weird no quite quite frankly and I think it's very weird when guys will try to flex their body count if I'm ever again to more serious romantic relationships I don't think they need to know mine I want to know theirs of course but for me personally I don't think you should ever ask a girl's body count say you met a girl she's really like a queen but you find out she's like a crazy body count she didn't she had different views would you judge her on her past in the whole online world I see like guys and they're like oh she slept with eight girls I'm so tired oh she said hey girls [ __ ] [ __ ] yeah guys will be like oh she slept with eight guys yeah and I'm like okay let's actually break down the math so let's say she's 24. because they're like guys will be like that's Haram you know that's crazy and I'll be honest most of the guys who are seeing this are guys who have no real experience in the real world and being with women in different countries because that's another thing depending on the country and where a girl was raised very different you know how she was raised for example I know this is a generalization but a girl in the U. S with a 10 body count I'm a lot more understanding of it because I understand your external influences you there are certain countries for example like America that are just simply more promiscuous you know it's more acceptable that a girl is just sorry I don't judge anyone for their body count I just think in life you need to see people for what they are for sure but yeah my body count is no one's business so stop asking me ask him about his body count sure you got people to guess yes I don't even know your body count and I don't want to know I just think it's weird if you keep counting past this none of my business yeah I think it's weird too the guys who write lists for me it's the weirdest [ __ ] it's a bit weird next question what is the single most important thing in life for me I care about fulfillment and fulfillment is doing hard things from the age of nine from the age of 12.
I was telling my mom these things like I feel a sense of responsibility I don't know what it is I don't know what it is Inside Me Maybe the conditions that you're aware of you know my childhood and whatnot that I was sprung up on me from a young age I just needed to be responsible for people and things for me fulfillment comes from that sense of responsibility what's the most important discipline you learned without a disciplinary figure I. E father everything this sounds horrible but a lot times father that you have you you may love him unconditionally love him but that doesn't mean that he's a good role model yeah like very few followers are actually good role models and the issue is if he's not a good role model because he's your father you're going to end up absorbing maybe 20 maybe 80 of his beliefs yeah and his worldview so if he's not a stand-up character that can lead a lot of people astray the advantage that I had it goes wrong most of the time but for me luckily it just match the work is I had a clean sleep because I had a clean sleep I could be the man that I want to be but you say clean slate but I think also you have carried a lot of trauma so how is that shaped you and affected you because it's not necessarily a clean slate I mean it more from a tangible perspective okay worldview wisdom beliefs I think from the perspective of love it's just I guess my view of Love is a lot more pragmatic than other people do you think love the love that you're talking about yes the truest love is when you wake up next to a person you're not even actually that attracted to them you know all the bad things about them you know all the negatives all the downside but you still go there's no one else I'd rather have by my side to me that's actual love and that is hands down one of the best feelings in the world that's home that's home it is home and you know some would say I have a very depressing view on love but it's I wouldn't expect a depressing view what does it feel like having the hottest assistant in the world you made that up no I didn't yeah you did no I didn't if I could have a attractive EA who is unreliable untrustworthy all of this stuff but you know they just look good or I could have super loyal super trustworthy and not particularly attractive I would take that every day I'm just lucky I have both so we've gone through thick and thin and thick and thin I'm very fortunate to have both what do you think a high value woman is supposed to be like well bear in mind what I think is high value it's different for different people but we're asking you so I want your answer I'm not asking I can Steve over there I have value for me it isn't much it's it isn't much you don't have to do much okay you have to do it very well for me the dream relationship is the movie The Gentleman like the relationship that they have where he is this absolute killer and he goes out there and everyone knows don't [ __ ] with him and she is his Queen by his side and she understands the mission and she understands when do I say things when do I not say things how do I represent not only me but us as the king and the Queen and also protect the entire Kingdom and what's the things that I tell the kingdom what are the things that I don't tell the kingdom that is just the dream perfect woman he does this she does this and they're completely equal but in their own right yeah you know what do you want to be remembered for Integrity honor of course I've made mistakes here and there everyone has I'm still so young I've probably had 300 years of life experience put into 23 years but at the end of the day I'm still very cognizant that I am quite literally a child even if it made my life substantially harder I always made the right decision and I feel like I've done that from a young age obviously very interesting I documented everything yeah from the age of 15 16 there's videos of me when I'm 16 and I'll set the gym us to the gym you're doing absolutely nothing nothing's changed as well but it's crazy just to see the things that I was saying I remember in one video I found a backpack right yeah you know maybe 3 000 pounds worth of equipment in there I could have sold it I could have taken the three grand I could have used it at the time I definitely at the time I really needed the money to buy new equipment I was just starting the business properly and I went on this like one week goose chase to find the person who owned it and returned it to him you know his wife had just given birth in the hospital he left the bag and how did I not know this story because you ain't about it you don't watch my YouTube videos as religiously as you think you do oh as if you ain't about it Ops I kind of built that sort of code of honor from a young age and I try to live by it day by day what is your criteria when hiring people do they fit the company culture and then the other thing is this is going to sound absolutely horrible I hope this doesn't get clipped up too much are they cool don't want no needs in this company no first of all you have no lame people if I would say a dinner table and just be like and by the way this doesn't mean they need to be loud gregarious no well most people don't realize when I'm at a dinner table I'm usually the quietest yeah you don't say a word I don't say a word again so fun to be around yeah okay you know so you don't need to be the loudest person on the table you just need to bring something right and the other thing is no fuck-ups this sounds terrible but some people are born [ __ ] ups wait sorry [ __ ] ups in the sense of like make a mistake or just generally [ __ ] up we all know those people that will miss flights yeah lose their phone lose their kids carelessness they're just [ __ ] ups I pray for them that something will happen in their life that will make them snap out of it but some people are [ __ ] ups and there's nothing you can do about it it's funny some people think that has nothing to do with business if you're trying to hire someone to represent your company to be a part of a team their personal life has everything everything everything to do with them as their character how are you meant to judge their character without knowing things about their personal life you can be a [ __ ] up just go work at another company for me who works for you I think that's probably the favorite thing about the team it's like we're all just a bunch of friends and then I have to tap myself and I'm like wait these are my colleagues I love my team and we're all so different but we all fit the pieces it's so weird so different I just think it's the most like fulfilling thing ever when you look to that person to your left you look to the person to your right and I just feel like we'd all go to war for each other for sure of course you can I'm so dehydrated you want me to Sky it should I Chuck it do it do it someone's gonna clip that that's cool no don't worry about it it wasn't like I was thirsty or anything I'll just go [ __ ] myself I just realized this is the first time you've been on the YouTube single yes searching for a wholesome kind loving she's not asking for much gentlemen if you fit the criteria Super Rich super compassionate very very rich have a lot of research super super rich wait what was another day remember we were talking outside I said you want a billionaire you're like no no I don't want a billionaire just like 500 million I mean a girl can dream what advice would you have for your female audience especially those of a younger age range I'd say listen as a woman it's very important to be self-sufficient to never have to rely on a man but do that without saying stupid sentences like I don't need a man I just can't ever imagine myself saying I don't need a woman for me if I die alone without the presence of a queen I think that was a very shallow and unimportant life I think as a woman be strong be powerful but then when you meet the right person understand when to be submissive and when to be fully trusting there's a lot of power in doing that in submission of course yeah there's a lot of power in it again it's just identifying and being content with like what you both bring to the table listen when you're 18 as a woman have fun date whoever date your high school Crush if you're 21 maybe even if you're 23 but I think by the time you get to 25 you need to seriously look the man that you're with and go could this be the father of my children also like it takes a long time to get to know a person for the first year he could be the most amazing present and then the second year life hits him hard and he turns into a completely different person then I have the choice of like okay do I write it out is he the father of my kids am I going to write it out five years pass and I'm like I've seen every side of him and I adore him it takes a long time to get there but if you want to be 30 and meet a person at 30 you don't know that person until you're 33. no it's true women need to be smart about their timelines in the same way men need to be smart about their timelines I definitely definitely agree and by the way if you're in that situation that's how the chips fell right yeah for example my mother I don't think I've cried real tear I don't know maybe 15 years I cry like once a day no actually wait no breakup good cry every now and then is honestly sometimes I just cry to cry and I feel amazing after I will cry when I see my mother get married like that will probably be the happiest day of my entire life and I think about it a lot and I also know that put some stress on her so my point is if you're a 45 year old woman and you're alone the things I'm saying I'm not trying to look down at your situation you're never going to get a map it doesn't mean you're never going to get it doesn't mean any of these things but that's also why I give guys advice if you're a guy from the age of 20 to 25 and you haven't made something of your life I mean something really big of your life stay at home yeah work do you believe it's a man's job to mold a woman into like the perfect woman I think women have so much power and I think the modern world doesn't want to highlight that like I think at the end of the day if you've got a true queen that King will always confide in her there's certain things where a woman will shape and mold a man and that's more from an emotional perspective spiritual perspective spiritual perspective teaching him that life isn't always just tension you know how to ease up but I think from a world view perspective it is a man's duty to mold his partner his wife at the end of the day I understand I have very Traditional Values but I think there's certain perspectives in World Views that a man needs to mold not only his partner family by his family on is religion a priority for you faith is important for me and Faith I've had from a young age Faith prayer I think religion is just what textbook do you believe is correct I see it as a guide religion in general is like a very beautiful thing I think what I like so much about it is the discipline that comes with having a religion like for example in Islam like there's a lot of sacrifices that you make for God and you do that because you have so much faith and belief in love for God and I think that's amazing what do you think about that all religions are speaking the word of God is who do you think delivered it in the correct or like what resonates most what resonates and which playbook for life do you think is the correct one I have not made that decision yet bear in mind my name Iman means faith in Arabic I don't know maybe something changes but I don't exactly see myself dying Christian I think realistically when I die I do die a Muslim yeah I was also technically born a Muslim I've just went on a little side quest and strayed away from it but I still live my life with faith and even from a young age I live my life knowing that you know I have to answer to God and God sees everything yeah he's all knowing all seeing so I just like shaking you on a good point yeah it's like little T-Rex hangs that's not very nice would it be better if I had some [ __ ] big chunky hands no I'm just saying you have potentially some of the smallest hands I've ever seen now I'm insecure okay I think we should set the record straight once and for all because 99.
9 of these questions have been to do with the non-existent sexual Chemistry Between You and I have we ever had sexual fantasies about each other the story of how we met my friend wanted to have a party so he told me to arrange so having a house party who's having a house party yeah you remember who so you arrive all white I remember all white and I'm like kind of Manning the door it's so funny because we were like 14.