WALK AWAY WHEN NOT APPRECIATED | BRENE BROWN | YOU NEED TO WATCH THIS | MOTIVATION SPEECH

you know one of the hardest lessons life teaches us is about valuing ourselves enough to walk away when we're not appreciated it sounds simple on the surface but the practice of it is anything but we stay in situations relationships even jobs long past their expiration dates hoping things will turn around we think if we work a little harder give a little more or just hold out for a little longer the appreciation we deserve will come but sometimes it does when we continue to show up for people or environments that don't see our value what we're

really doing is slowly chipping away at our own self-worth we're telling ourselves maybe they're right maybe I'm not enough this message is subtle often so much so that we barely notice it at first but over time this lack of appreciation turns into a kind of self-doubt until we're left questioning our own worth understanding your worth is the Foundation of self-respect and fulfillment in life it's easy to think of worth as something that others assign to US based on our accomplishments appearance or talents but true self-worth is an internal measure it's a deep-seated belief in your

own value that doesn't depend on the opinions or approval of others it's knowing that you bring something unique to the world simply because of who you are not because of what you do or how others perceive you when when you understand your worth you set the standard for how others should treat you it empowers you to say I deserve kindness respect and appreciation is self assurance can be transformative because it shifts the way you see yourself and the way you allow others to treat you rather than seeking approval or validation from outside you create a

powerful inner Foundation based on self-respect people who recognize their own worth are less likely to tolerate relationships jobs or environments where they're not valued they're not afraid to walk away from situations that don't serve their growth because they know they deserve better they understand that being appreciated and valued isn't a luxury it's a basic requirement for healthy meaningful connections self-worth also acts as a compass helping you make decisions aligned with your values when you have a strong sense of worth you're not as swayed by external pressures or the fear of judgment instead you become Guided

by an inner voice that tells you what is and isn't right for you this internal Compass builds resilience helping you weather criticism and setbacks without doubting your intrinsic value however understanding your worth isn't always easy we live in a world that often encourages us to compare ourselves to others leading us to question our own value but when you take the time to cultivate self-worth by by reflecting on your strengths celebrating your accomplishments and embracing your uniqueness you begin to shift away from these external comparisons so you start to realize that your worth is inherent and

unwavering understanding your worth is about honoring yourself enough to recognize that you deserve appreciation respect and kindness when you truly understand this you stop seeking worth in places where it's not given freely and you allow yourself to walk away from situations that don't align with the value you place on yourself setting boundaries on what you tolerate is one of the most powerful ways to protect your mental emotional and even physical well-being boundaries are like invisible lines that Define where your limits lie signaling what you're willing to accept and what you won't allow into your life

they help clarify what you need from others and from yourself creating a personal space where you feel safe respected and valued think about boundaries as a form of self-care when you set boundaries you're telling yourself and those around you that your needs matter that your time energy and emotions are not infinite resources to be freely used by others often people struggle with boundaries because they fear coming off as selfish difficult or unkind but boundaries are actually an expression of kindness both to yourself and to those around around you by establishing clear limits you prevent misunderstandings

resentment and burnout creating healthier relationships built on mutual respect boundaries can be different for everyone and may vary depending on the relationship or context in close relationships boundaries might mean saying no when you need time alone or asserting that certain topics are off limits if they bring up difficult emotions in a workplace setting boundaries could involve limiting after hours work calls or communicating your needs when taking on new responsibilities boundaries help ensure that your personal values are honored and that you're not pushed into roles or situations that feel misaligned with who you are but setting

boundaries isn't just about what you say no to it's also about what you say yes to when you define your limits you make space to focus on things that bring you Joy growth and fulfillment by protecting your time energy you can invest in relationships and activities that nourish and uplift you rather than drain you one of the biggest misconceptions about boundaries is that they create distance between people in reality healthy boundaries can bring people closer when you communicate your limits clearly you prevent misunderstandings and reduce the likelihood of resentment or burnout boundaries help create an

environment of respect where each person feels understood and valued relationship ships that honor boundaries are based on trust as each person respects the other's needs and limitations establishing boundaries also requires practice and courage it can feel uncomfortable to set limits especially if you're not used to it or fear disappointing others but each time you set a boundary you're reinforcing the idea that you deserve respect both from yourself and from others it's a powerful affirmation that you're willing to advocate for your well-being even if it feels challenging at times boundaries are not about shutting people out

they're about letting others know what they can expect from you and what you're willing to give learning to say no without guilt is a key part of setting boundaries often we feel that we should always be available helpful or agreeable to others even at the expense of our own peace but it's okay to say no when you need to in fact it's healthy no can be an act of self-preservation a way to safeguard your own weal beinging when demands become overwhelming boundaries help prevent burnout and keep you from overextending yourself ultimately boundaries are an essential

part of self-respect they allow you to protect your personal resources prioritize your needs and build relationships rooted in mutual respect setting boundaries takes practice but each time you establish a limit you're making a statement that you honor your own needs this self-respect forms the the foundation for healthier more balanced relationships and a more fulfilling life noticing when your energy isn't reciprocated is a crucial part of building meaningful relationships and maintaining personal well-being many of us give generously whether it's our time support or emotional energy hoping that this effort will be valued and reciprocated by those

we care about but sometimes we find ourselves in situations where the energy Flows In Only One Direction where we're the ones consistently investing while the other person barely meets us halfway uh recognizing these imbalances is essential because constantly giving without receiving can lead to emotional exhaustion feelings of resentment and a gradual erosion of self-worth when you're the one doing all the giving it's easy to fall into the Trap of rationalizing the lack of reciprocity you might think they're just going through a tough time or maybe I'm expecting too much there's a time and place for

understanding of course relationships are rarely perfectly balanced at all times but when the imbalance becomes a pattern it's often a sign that the relationship isn't mutually supportive if you're always available to listen to encourage or to show up but the other person rarely extends the same effort it can take a toll on you emotionally and physically healthy relationships are built on Mutual exchange this doesn't mean every interaction must be perfectly balanced but there should be an overall sense of give and take when you invest in a friendship partnership or even a professional relationship it's natural

to hope that the other person also cares enough to contribute equally you deserve to feel valued and appreciated and reciprocation is one of the clearest signs that your energy is recognized and respected when that's missing it's often an indicator that the relationship may not be as healthy as it should be recognizing this lack of reciprocity can be challenging because it requires you to observe patterns rather than isolated incidents sometimes we feel guilty for noticing these things as though we're keeping score but this isn't about keeping a tally it's about being mindful of how the relationship

makes you feel over time do you feel supported respected and appreciated or do you feel drained neglected and undervalued it's important to check in with yourself and be honest about the answers people who are constantly giving without receiving often start to feel resentful even if they don't realize it right away over time they may find themselves becoming less enthusiastic less willing to be there or even emotionally distant this isn't because they care any less it's simply a natural response to feeling unappreciated when you feel that your efforts aren't reciprocated it can lead to a subtle

yet pervasive sense of frustration which if left unaddressed can damage the relationship identifying unreciprocated energy is particularly important because it allows you to make empowered choices once you're aware of a one-sided Dynamic you can decide whether to address it adjust your level of investment or even step back from the relationship addressing it doesn't necessarily mean confrontation sometimes a gentle conversation can open the door to a more balanced relationship you might find that the other person simply wasn't aware of the imbalance and your honesty can lead to growth and positive change on the other hand if

you notice that despite your best efforts to communicate the other person remains indifferent to your needs that's a clear signal that it may be time to reassess your involvement choosing to step back from a relationship that consistently drains you isn't selfish it's an act of self-care you have a right to protect your own emotional resources to be in relationships that bring Mutual joy and support rather than consistently leaving you feeling empty furthermore recognizing when your energy isn't reciprocated also invites reflection on what healthy balanc relationships look like it's about valuing yourself enough to understand that

you don't need to keep pouring into people who don't pour into you it's not your responsibility to keep everyone afloat especially at the expense of your own well-being healthy relationships should uplift you not drain you when you start recognizing the signs of unreciprocated energy you become better equipped to surround yourself with people who genuinely appreciate and reciprocate the energy you bring being mindful of this Dynamic can also prevent you from repeating similar patterns in future relationships when you understand what one-sided relationships look and feel like you're less likely to fall into them again you become

more attuned to your own needs and boundaries and this awareness helps you to cultivate connections that are genuinely fulfilling recognizing when your energy isn't reciprocated can be painful especially if you're deeply invested in the relationship but it's also liberating because it gives you the power to choose relationships that genuinely add to your life rather than subtract from it at its core noticing when your energy isn't reciprocated is about respecting yourself it's about acknowledging that your time effort and emotional resources are valuable and deserve to be met with appreciation and reciprocity it's an act of honoring

yourself and ensuring that you're surrounded by people who uplift rather than drain you relationships should be a source of mutual support and if they're not it's a it's okay to realign your focus by choosing to invest in relationships that value and reciprocate your energy you're prioritizing your well-being and fostering an environment where you can Thrive letting go can be one of the most difficult and transformative acts we face it requires a leap into the unknown a willingness to release what we've held on to and an acceptance that something or someone may no longer be aligned

with our journey the fear of letting go is rooted deeply in our desire for security and our resistance to change we often fear that if we let go we might lose a sense of identity stability or even love but learning to let go is a powerful expression of self trust and a profound step toward personal freedom and fulfillment the fear of Letting Go often arises from attachment we become attached to people places beliefs and ways of life sometimes long after they've stopped serving us this attachment can make us cling to familiarity even when it limits

our growth or causes pain Leto asks us to look closely at these attachments in question whether they still support our happiness health and purpose if they don't it might be time to release them despite the discomfort that comes with change at the heart of the fear of letting go is often a worry that will be left with a void and emptiness where that relationship habit or belief once existed this fear of the unknown can feel paralyzing but it's essential to remember that Letting Go doesn't mean you're losing something instead it means you're creating space for

new experiences healthier relationships and personal growth life constantly evolves and we need to let go to make room for the new possibilities waiting to unfold the fear of Letting Go can also be rooted in self-doubt we worry that without this person job or routine we won't be enough or that will somehow be incomplete we convince ourselves that what we have is all we'll ever have and that releasing it would be a mistake however learning to let go is an act of trust in oneself it's a statement that says I believe I am capable of handling

whatever comes next when you trust in your ability to face what lies ahead you open yourself to the chance of finding New Joys opportunities and connections that better align with who you are coming Letting Go requires courage because it involves confronting our deepest fears fear failure rejection loneliness and regret often we hold on to relationships and situations not because they are good for us but because we fear the discomfort of facing life without them but holding on to what no longer serves us can be far more painful in the long run it keeps us stuck

in patterns that drain our energy dampen our spirits and and limit our potential letting go on the other hand is an act of Liberation it frees you from the weight of what's holding you back and gives you a renewed sense of possibility one of the greatest challenges in letting go is the belief that things will somehow improve if we just hold on a little longer work a little harder or give a little more we convince ourselves that we're just one step away from turning things around but this mindset can keep us locked in a cycle

of waiting where we delay our own happiness and well-being and hopes that change will come from the outside true transformation comes when we decide to let go and create change from within by releasing our grip on what we can't control we gain the freedom to focus on what we can our own choices actions and mindset letting go is also about making peace with the past many of us hold on to situations because we're haunted by what if questions what if things could have been different what if I had tried harder what if I never find

something or someone better these thoughts tether us to an idealized version of the past keeping us from embracing the reality of the present Letting Go means accepting that the past cannot be changed in that by focusing on it we're only robbing ourselves of the present it's about recognizing that each experience even the painful ones has shaped us into who we are today and that we're strong enough to face what comes next next without clinging to what's already behind us Letting Go doesn't mean that what we're releasing is unimportant or that our feelings about it are

invalid it means acknowledging that it has played its part in our journey teaching us challenging us and helping us grow letting go is an act of gratitude in some ways a way of saying thank you to the Past for the lessons it brought while recognizing that it's time to move forward for those who find it especially hard to let go starting small can be helpful begin with minor habits routines or even thoughts that no longer serve you notice how releasing these things creates a small shift in your life as you grow more comfortable with the

idea of Letting Go it becomes easier to tackle larger areas like relationships or beliefs where you may be holding on out of habit rather than genuine alignment with your values each small Act of release strengthens your sense of self and makes room for what truly matters ultimately letting go is an act of self-compassion it's about recognizing that you deserve to be free from what's weighing you down and you deserve to be open to new possibilities it's about trusting that when you release what no longer serves you you're making space for what does Letting Go may

feel daunting but it's one of the most powerful and loving things you can do for yourself by embracing change and releasing fear you're allowing yourself to evolve and grow knowing that what awaits you on the other side is a life aligned with who you are and who you're becoming when we think of Courage we often imagine heroic Acts or grand sacrifices for others but true courage is not always about bravery in the face of external challenges sometimes it's about the quiet yet profound decision to put ourselves first redefining courage as putting yourself first means recognizing

that valuing own needs goals and well-being is one of the most powerful acts of self-respect and Inner Strength putting yourself first isn't about selfishness or neglecting others it's about honoring your own worth and giving yourself the care and attention you deserve many people struggle with this concept because Society often glorifies selflessness leading us to believe that the needs of others should always come before our own but constantly prioritizing others at the expense of your own health and happiness can be deeply damaging when you put yourself first you're choosing to prioritize your energy mental Clarity and

well-being which ultimately empowers you to show up more fully in all areas of your life in reality putting yourself first often requires Great courage because it means stepping outside of ingrain beliefs and societal expectations for those who have been conditioned to constantly care for others or to be endlessly available Shifting the focus inward can feel uncomfortable or even guilt inducing it takes courage to say I need time for myself or I deserve to pursue what fulfills me setting aside the fear of judgment or criticism you're acknowledging that your needs matter that you are worthy of

the same love and respect you so freely give to others one of the hardest parts of putting yourself first is learning to say no without feeling guilty courage in this context means being willing to establish boundaries even if it disappoints others or challenges their expectations of you when you say no to what drains you you're saying yes to what nurtures and sustains you courage is about embracing that you are not obligated to meet everyone's expectations or to fulfill roles that don't align with your values and well-being it's about realizing that your time and energy are

limited resources that deserve to be spent on what truly matters to you putting yourself first also means Having the courage to prioritize your goals and dreams many of us put our Ambitions on the back burner because we're afraid of failure or because we feel responsible for supporting the dreams of others but if you don't pursue what lights you up you risk living a life filled with unfulfilled potential and regret courage is making the decision to invest in yourself to work toward your aspirations even if it means sacrificing Comfort or taking risks it's about believing in

yourself enough to chase after what makes you feel alive even if it means temporarily disappointing others or letting go of certain expectations redefining courage as putting yourself first also involves making self-care a priority self-care isn't just about taking time for relaxation it's about maintaining a foundation of physical emotional and mental health that allows you to live with resilience I and vitality it's not indulgent or frivolous it's essential when you practice self-care you're building the strength to face challenges and setbacks with greater Clarity and calm this requires courage because it often means taking an honest look

at areas of your life that may be causing stress or unhappiness and making choices that support your well-being even if they're difficult in relationships putting yourself first takes courage because it challenges the idea that self-sacrifice is the highest form of love we often equate love with giving endlessly but true love and connection come from a place of mutual respect and balance when you prioritize your own well-being and relationships you're setting a standard for how you expect to be treated you're showing others that love and respect should be reciprocal and that your needs are just as

valid as theirs this courage to put yourself first helps build healthier more fulfilling relationships based on respect rather than dependency or sacrifice putting yourself first also involves the courage to be authentic it's about shedding the masks and roles you may have adopted to please others and instead showing up as your true self this can be intimidating especially if you spent years seeking approval or validation but courage is choosing authenticity over acceptance It's realizing that being true to yourself is more important than fitting into someone else's mold when you put yourself first in this way you

attract people and opportunities that resonate with who you really are rather than who you're pretending to be finally redefining courage is putting yourself first means letting go of the need to justify or explain your choices to others Society often pressures us to explain our decisions especially if they go against the grain but you don't owe anyone an explanation for why you prioritize your well-being or why you make choices that feel right for you courage is standing firm in your decisions knowing that you are the expert on your own needs and happiness it's about trusting that

the people who truly respect you will support you in putting yourself first without needing you to justify it putting yourself first is one of the most courageous things you can do because it requires standing up for yourself in a world that often encourages self-sacrifice it's an act of honoring your own journey of choosing to live in alignment with your true desires needs and values by redefining courage in this way you create a life that's authentic fulfilling and rooted in self-respect courage in this sense isn't about grand gestures it's about consistently making choices that honor who

you are and what you need to thrive when you put yourself first you Empower others to do the same you model a path of self-respect resilience and authenticity that inspires those around you by living courageously for yourself you make it clear that everyone deserves to live in alignment with their true self and that kind of Courage the courage to put yourself first is transformative it allows you to create a life filled with purpose joy and integrity and that's the most profound Act of Bravery there is believing that you deserve to be appreciated is a fundamental

step toward cultivating a life filled with respect joy and genuine connection it's a conviction that your presence your energy and your efforts hold value just as much as anyone else's many people struggle with this belief often feeling Unworthy of recognition or validation some were raised in environments where appreciation wasn't expressed leading them to downplay their contributions or even to feel uncomfortable with praise but deep down each of us has an inherent worth and believing that we deserve to be appreciated is about acknowledging this intrinsic value when you believe you deserve appreciation you're more likely to

surround yourself with people who see and respect your worth it's a belief that guides you to seek out relationships and environments that uplift you rather than drain you if you constantly give but receive little recognition or respect in return it can wear you down over time leading to feeling of invisibility or resentment when you know that you deserve appreciation you become more attuned to these Dynamics and more empowered to make choices that honor your worth you become less willing to tolerate situations that disregard your value and you're more likely to advocate for yourself ensuring that

your efforts are met with respect believing you deserve appreciation is also a practice of self-respect it's an acknowledgement that you don't have to prove your worth or bend over backward to be worthy of recognition too often we slip into the habit of overextending ourselves hoping that if we work hard enough or give enough we'll finally earn the appreciation we seek but the truth is appreciation isn't something you should have to earn through constant self-sacrifice you are already deserving of it simply because of who you are and the energy you bring into the world believing this

on on a fundamental level can help you break free from the cycle of overgiving and embrace a healthier more balanced approach to relationships and work another important aspect of believing you deserve to be appreciated is recognizing the power of your unique gifts each of us has strengths talents and perspectives that are uniquely our own when you believe that these qualities deserve recognition you're more likely to share them openly with the world you're less inclined to hold back shrink or high your light instead you Embrace what makes you unique and understand that these qualities contribute something

meaningful this belief is not about arrogance or expecting constant praise it's about valuing your own contributions and understanding that they bring richness and depth to the lives of those around you believing you deserve appreciation also sets a standard for how you expect to be treated When You Believe in your worth you're less like lik ly to tolerate disrespect neglect or dismissal you become more mindful of boundaries and more Discerning about who you allow into your life people who genuinely value you will naturally show appreciation and by believing you deserve it you're reinforcing the type of

relationships you wish to cultivate this belief doesn't mean expecting to be appreciated by everyone rather it's about expecting it from those who are genuinely invested in your well being and who see your worth clearly it's common to fear that expecting appreciation makes us demanding or self centered but this is a misconception expecting appreciation is simply about honoring the fact that relationships should be reciprocal just as you show appreciation for others you deserve to receive it in return true appreciation isn't transactional it flows naturally when people genuinely value one another when you believe you deserve appreciation

you create a healthier more balanced dynamic in your relationships where everyone's efforts and contributions are acknowledged believing you deserve to be appreciated also strengthens your resilience life can be challenging and in difficult times appreciation from others can provide a crucial source of support and encouragement when you believe that you are deserving of appreciation you're more likely to open yourself to receiving it allowing others to uplift and encourage you when you need it most this belief enables you to let go of self-doubt and opens you to the positive feedback and recognition that can help you persevere

through tough moments appreciation from others is not a weakness it's a reminder that you're not alone that your contributions matter and that you are valued another important facet of this belief is its impact on your self-image when you believe you deserve appreciation you're less likely to internalize negativity or allow others dismissive behaviors to diminish your self-worth you understand that your value is not contingent on external opinions but rather on an internal sense of self-respect and dignity this belief Fosters a resilient self-esteem one that's less affected by external validation and more grounded in a strong sense

of self this internal strength creates a ripple effect in every aspect of your life helping you to show up confidently and authentically knowing that your worth does not need to be proven to anyone believing you deserve to be appreciated also encourages a culture of mutual respect when you embody this belief you naturally Inspire others to recognize their own worth and to expect appreciation as well it Fosters an environment where everyone feels seen and valued where contributions are celebrated and where each person feels empowered to bring their best self forward this mindset promotes a deeper sense

of connection allowing relationships to flourish based on genuine appreciation and respect believing you deserve to be appreciated is not just about receiving external recognition it's about recognizing your own inherent worth and the value you bring to the world it's about standing firm and the understanding that your contributions your energy and your presence matter when you Embrace this belief you invite healthier relationships set boundaries that protect your well-being and cultivate a sense of self-respect that empowers you to show up authentically in every area of your life it's a mindset that not only transforms how you view

yourself but also how you engage with the world around you ultimately by believing you deserve to be appreciated you're giving yourself the gift of self-love self-respect and the courage to expect and accept the recognition you truly deserve