19 Personal Development Principles That Made Me $30 Million!

today I'm going to share with you the 19 most important principles in personal development if you are someone who wants to have more success create more wealth grow your business or achieve your full potential understanding these 19 principles will be a game Cher for you these are the same principles that I learned and applied to my own life to go from broke and alone and purposeless to creating a $30 million transformational company with the woman of my dreams and a life I absolutely love now there are a lot of videos out there talking about the success principles of the top . 01% or how to get rich but what I'm going to be sharing with you in this episode are literally the root cause of success so if you want to live a life of purpose if you want to be unbelievably rich and make an impact in the world then you're going to want to stay with me until the end because there's a lot of information out there and wealth and success and personal growth can feel overwhelming and confusing sometimes but I'm going to break everything down for you into 19 bite-sized chunks in today's episode so here we go number one one you create your own reality this is a very important concept to understand that Napoleon Hill talked about in his book thinking Grow Rich your thoughts are creating every single result that you are or are not producing in your life and this is not sometimes it is always there are no exceptions the relationship friction that you're experiencing you're creating the lack of financial abundance and the financial insecurity that you're experiencing you are creating your job situation your business situation your health situation you are creating now this is a good thing because when you're creating your reality and you know that your thoughts are what's creating it you can change your Reality by changing your thoughts and this is not some sort of woo woo concept this is fundamental to the idea of Behavioral psychology behavioral psychology tells us that the beliefs that are formed at a very young age inform the way that you think today so if you grw up believing money was hard to make you're going to have thoughts related to financial scarcity or how money is hard to make today if you developed a belief early on that relationships never work out those are the types of thoughts that you're having today your beliefs determine your thoughts your thoughts create your emotions every time you have a thought the neural networks of your brain light up that electrical activi is then transmitted through your nervous system and you experience the thought as a feeling if you're having thoughts of financial scarcity if you're worried about your health if you're struggling with your career if you're frustrated with your business you're going to insir erence negative emotions and your emotions determine the action you do or do not take so you cannot produce positive results from negative emotions and so if you're experiencing stress anxiety or overwhelm that's going to determine the action that you take often times it's self-sabotage procrastination indecision or hustle and grind those actions determine your results and so those results always reinforce the beliefs that started them see I knew it was money was hard to make you have to hustle and grind relationships never work out none of that is necessarily true but if you believe it to be true it becomes true for you Henry Ford said the man who thinks he can and the man who thinks he can't are both right and what he was referring to is this idea that you create your own reality and that your thoughts or your belief systems are creating the experiences of your life now there's a magic that also takes place and it's not magic it's a fundamental understanding of vibration and energy and that is every time you have a thought you're putting a vibration into energetic reality other people are receiving at an unconscious level your belief systems your thoughts and they are making unconscious decisions to line up timing and synchronicity in your life so that they can help coordinate the outcomes that you believe now this is a wonderful thing if you've got empowered beliefs and you believe in prosperity abundance health and compassion and relationships and achieving your full potential you'll align all of life to support you in achieving those results but if you've got limiting beliefs or you've got resistance or unprocessed childhood dramas you're going to continue to create circumstances and situations in your life that you don't like it reminds me of the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray where every single day Bill Murray is living the same life over and over and over again and he gets so frustrated and bored with living the same day over again that he finds very creative ways to kill himself and the movie is very funny but it's not funny that many of us are also feeling that frustration that depression we no longer want to live the same day over and over and the good news is you can change your day you can change your life with a changed mind that's distinction number one distinction number two every desire you've ever had is already in the process of materializing see there's a lot of information out there that you need to do a bunch of incantations or affirmations or write down your goals every single day or visualize or imagine what it is and really feel the outcome that you want all of those things are fine if you enjoy doing that but not as a means to achieve the end the result which is your materialized desire see your desire is already in the process of materializing the moment that you have a desire all of life begins to conspire to bring that desire into reality this is a very important concept to understand and it's articulated in scripture in Isaiah where there's a line that says something like before they even ask I hear them and before they even hear I have already responded and what that basically means is that life or the universe or God or Jesus or Allah or the unified field or the higher power of your own understanding the system of intelligence that we live in the moment you flare off a desire it's already heard you and it's working to organize all the Cooperative components some of those are coincidences and synchronicities that are occurring external to you and some of that is activating thoughts or ideas in Consciousness that are trying to make their way to you but they can only make their way to you these new ideas if you are in non-resistance and that takes us to distinction number three the key to materializing your results is non-resistance it's not hustle and grind it's not figuring out how to do more in the same amount of 24 hours that you have it's not coming up with the perfect plan that's not the way to produce the results or the goals that you want to achieve in your life the key to materializing your results is actually to learn how to be in non-resistance to downregulate your nervous system to move out of the sympathetic expression of your nervous system in fight or flight which most human beings are living in most of the time which is why most people never achieve their goals and dreams but the key to materializing your goals and dreams is non-resistance when you're in non-resistance meaning when you're not entangled with a limiting belief or you're not stressed or overwhelmed or feeling like there's not enough time or feeling bad for yourself or feeling like things are never going to work out for you all that negative thinking and therefore those negative emotions when you're not in that state of being you have thoughts and ideas that will naturally lead you to produce the results that you want you're available to observe the Miracles and the synchronicities and the coincidences that are showing up in your life and to be able to take advantage of them you can't do that when you're operating from resistance so distinction number three is the key to materializing your results is non-resistance again it's not as complicated as most people make it you don't need a perfect plan you don't have to have a lot of Financial Resources you don't need to have a bunch of time no matter what circumstance or situation you're in regardless of what it feels like today you can change your situation when you learn how to operate from non-resistance principle number four your emotions tell you whether or not you're in resistance see your nervous system is an emotional guidance system and it's informing you of when you're in resistance when you're feeling good feelings feelings like Joy excitement and curiosity that means you're in alignment with how the universe is operating around you you believe in abundance you believe in prosperity you believe that life is always working for you you believe that no matter what challenge you're going through it will transform into a solution you believe that every failure that you experience is not really a failure but it's a setup for your next Success Through learning and through the process when you have these types of belief systems that are aligned with producing extraordinary results you feel good however when you start to have thoughts that are in contradiction to the results that you want to produce oh it never works out for me there's something wrong with me I don't matter see money or wealth is for other people but it's not for me money's hard to make I'm never going to overcome this chronic health condition there's something wrong with my body you move into a negative state of emotion and you move into a negative state of emotion because those thoughts are not in alignment with this omnipotent omnipresent incredibly efficient system of intelligence that we're operating within that can produce any outcome that we desire it is the same system of intelligence that is managing the cosmos it's the same system of intelligence that is operating the trillions of cells in your body in Perfect Harmony it's the same system of intelligence that holds together the ecosystem and the environment of our planet this system of intelligence is inside of of us and it's outside of us the Buddhist called it the great shining body of Radiance that has no beginning and no end the Hindus describe it as amidst and Beyond us it is this fabric of reality that is intelligence itself and it's always working for your greatest growth your greatest prosperity and your greatest Evolution and when you have thoughts that are not in alignment with that idea that life can be easy that abundance is your Birthright that you will achieve your full potential your nervous system is like a lie detector test and it basically says negative emotion the thoughts you're having right now are not in alignment with the natural functioning of the system which is always working to provide for you that's distinction number four your emotions tell you whether or not you're in some form of resistance or entangled with a limiting belief principle number five life is organizing all the Cooperative components to produce your desired outcome now I talked about this briefly before but it's important to understand that not only is your desire immediately received by life but it's working in incredibly sophisticated ways to produce your desired outcome again it does this in two ways it does it internally through the activation of ideas in Consciousness that you begin to have access to you start thinking about what you can do at work to get a promotion or perhaps another job that you could get where you could get a promotion by moving to another position you start thinking new ideas around how to grow your business you start to have ideas around how to work on your health or get back into the gym despite how you feel you start to have unconscious ideas of like what restaurant you should go to or what activity you should engage in where lo and behold you meet your soulmate so it happens in an internal way but it also happens in an external way life is organizing all the Cooperative components to produce your desired outcome you know you could say for example that I did a lot of work to get this podcast to a million listeners on a monthly basis okay I recorded an episode every single week for the course of about a year but life was already organizing The Cooperative components to make my dream a reality it created YouTube it created Apple it gave Steve Jobs the idea for creating a platform where podcasts could be listened to if you think about it most of the work that's taking place to produce any outcome that you've ever created happened external to you in fact 99. 9% of the work is outside of us life is always working for our greatest growth our greatest Prosperity our greatest Evolution and principle number five tells us that it is organizing all the Cooperative components to produce any desired outcome you have principle number six you don't have to hustle and grind to produce extraordinary results in fact hustle and grind is a sign of resistance now I know there's a lot of talk out there by a lot of teachers especially in entrepreneural and Business Development space who will yell at you on different videos or podcasts telling you that you need to get up at 5: a.

m. or you have to hustle or grind it is a Navy SEAL type of mentality and while you can produce results that way and there's nothing wrong with people teaching this method it's not what I prefer and it's not the only way you know yes you can hustle and grind like the Incredible Hulk or you can be a little bit more elegant like Doctor Strange I prefer the doctor strange route and so it's important to understand that often times when we are hustling and grinding and pushing really hard this is a sign of resistance it's an expression of fear fear that we're not going to be able to produce the result fear that it comes down to us taking individual action and forgetting that there's this Cooperative component external to us that is also working to align our success it is a very limited mentality and over time can burn you out it'll wear and tear on your body and your spirit so it's important to understand that the master equation for producing results in your life is not desire plus hustle and grind equals desired result it's desire plus non-resistance equals desired result now I'm not suggesting that you're not going to take action you will but you'll be taking action from an inspired place not from a hustle and grind position principle number seven you don't need to know how you're going to produce the results that you desire this is very important to understand a lot of people get stopped because they get to a place where they go but I don't know how I don't know how I'm going to make a million dollars I don't know how I'm going to launch this business while I've also got my family and my kids and my full-time job I don't know how I'm going to be able to recover my health and overcome this chronic pain condition or autoimmune disease that I've been experiencing for many many years what's important to understand is you don't need to know the how there was a study done in 2009 it was called the Harvard brain study it was featured in in Time Magazine and in that study researchers brought in piano players and studied when they played the piano and they saw which parts of the pianists brain lit up then they had the piano players just come in and imagine playing the piano and they saw that the same parts of their brain lit up now this was an extraordinary Revelation that your brain does not know the difference between reality or your imagination in fact they were even able to measure the amount of neural activity and what they discovered was just by imagining 80% of the brain activity was being produced so this is important to understand because your brain doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality and so as you're allowing yourself to imagine your desired outcomes to imagine yourself being healthy to imagine yourself being wealthy to imagine yourself being successful in your business being a New York Times bestseller to imagine yourself with your soulmate you're actually starting to build a memory in your brain of a future that hasn't happened yet you start to create new neural activity new neurons start to connect through synaptic connections and you literally create a memory as if you had already achieved these outcomes now what's important to understand about this is that if you had already achieved these outcomes you would know how you achieved it and so herein we're able to understand how you can access the plan or the how you start to tap into and tune into the ideas that are necessary in order to produce the result when you give yourself enough time time to imagine and visualize the outcome without thinking you need to know the how you'll have the thoughts you'll have the ideas and going going back to what we talked about before you'll start to activate the coincidences and the synchronicities and you'll look back and of course see that you executed on a plan but the plan is discovered or accessed not through trying to figure out the plan but by actually allowing the idea to exist without killing it thinking you need to know the plan in or know the how in order to produce the result so what again we see is that the plan is a BRI byproduct of relaxing the plan is a byproduct of allowing yourself to imagine without needing to know the how the plan is a byproduct of Desire plus non-resistance now distinction number eight this is very important to understand when you're thinking something that doesn't feel good it's not true we talked a moment before about how you have an emotional guidance system that is informing you of whether or not the thoughts that you're having are in alignment with the nature of reality in alignment with the fact that there is a supremely intelligent system that is is operating inside of you as you and external to you and that it is coordinating to produce the desires that you want it is always operating in your greatest growth your greatest prosperity and your greatest Evolution that doesn't mean that we don't have challenges but those challenges are just chapters within a book leading us to the Final Chapter which is the outcome that you want the mistake that we make is that we call the challenges problems not realize that they're just stepping stones along the path and relaxing through them as they transform into Solutions so this distinction that what you're thinking when you're thinking something that doesn't feel good isn't true is really really powerful this has actually become my daily living meditation when I go through my day and I notice that I move into a negative state of emotion I feel stressed or anxious or overwhelmed when I notice that I don't feel good I take a look at my thinking and often times I'm thinking a fear-based thought oh my God this isn't going to work out for me I should have done something different they shouldn't have said that to me I'm don't have enough time and I have a little Mantra that I use to break that that habit of that thought which is it's not true I don't always need to know what is true of course we teach that through the tools in our coaching programs how to actually discover what is true for you and transform this limiting belief that you're engaged with into a new empowered decision but what's important is you just break the Habit it's like doing a new repetition as long as you don't continue to go down that Rabbit Trail and entertain that untrue thought that doesn't feel good you're making great progress this is actually a process called neural pruning where you're starting to prune out those old Thoughts by not engaging with them how do you not engage with them well you realize that when you're thinking something that doesn't feel good it's not true and you can get into a simple daily practice of just literally saying that to yourself or saying it out loud that's not true and moving on to another thought idea hey it's David quick announcement before we get back to your episode our annual event the powerful living experience is coming up there's a link in the show notes or you 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com get registered and I will plan on seeing you there along with a thousand other impact driven incredible members of our community for 3 days that you will never forget and now back to your regularly scheduled episode now principle number nine the key to getting rich creating results or producing any outcome that you want is to be happy so most of the time we believe that by producing these outcomes or results we'll become happy but the truth is is that happiness is the Royal Road to producing these results we talked about before that when you operate from non-resistance you naturally have the thoughts and ideas and you allow the coincidences and the synchronicities to align themselves in order to produce the results that you want well what that must mean is that we're not trying to get rich or get a better job or improve our health or get into a better relationship in order to be happy happiness is the thing that must come first and what prevents happiness is an unintelligent thought we mentioned this in the previous distinction anytime you're thinking something that's taking you out of your happiness that thought is untrue and so the only thing that is preventing you from being happy is not that you don't have the results that you want it's actually your own thinking principle number 10 when you're in alignment you're in flow you naturally take action and you enjoy the process see a lot of people misunderstand some of this conversation or the idea of law of attraction or thoughts become things as I can just sit on my sofa watching Netflix eating cheesy poofs and materialize a million dollars in my bank account that's not true we talked about it before your beliefs determine your thoughts your thoughts determine your em your emotions your emot determine your action and your actions produce results so actions are very important part of the structure of materializing what it is that you want to create now while you're taking action again of course life is also taking action and it's creating Rendevous or lineups or timing that support you in producing the results that you want but when you're in alignment you're naturally taking inspired action and that's why non-resistance is so important again action is part of it but we want to take action from an inspired place principle number 11 beliefs are decisions this was one of the most groundbreaking discoveries that I had in my own journey of personal growth it's sometimes difficult to wrap our arms around a belief that money is hard to make or that we can't trust people or that we don't matter how do you work with something that is in your head and invisible that you can't really get your hands around and the idea is that beliefs are actually decisions when we were younger we came to unconscious decisions about ourselves about money about relationships about life about the universe and as a result of how the human being operating system works the moment we installed that program or that belief the brain started paying attention to only things that were in alignment with that belief and started omitting or not paying attention to anything that wasn't in alignment with that belief and so we look back on our lives and it seems like we've accumulated a tremendous amount of evidence to support our limiting beliefs we've even had really intense experiences that represent our limiting beliefs but the truth is is that there we've been living in an Al state where we've only been paying attention to the experiences or the circumstances or the situations that support our limiting beliefs when we realized that and we realized that beliefs were decisions we decided that money was hard to make or we decided that we couldn't trust people or we decided that relationships didn't work out we take back our personal power so now as an adult when you become aware of a limiting belief if you understand that beliefs are decisions you can simply make a new decision and the decision that you make is always the opposite of the limiting belief that money is easy to make that relationships do work out that you can trust people that you do matter and there's something extraordinary that happens when you're willing to make a new decision and to hold that decision as true for just a short period of time number one you start to have new thoughts and ideas that are in alignment with the new decision you start to have ideas or thoughts around abundance Prosperity Wellness Connection empathy growth and achieving your full potential you start to have new ideas around growing your business or what business you could start start you start to have clarity around your purpose and as you start to have new thoughts and ideas another extraordinary thing happens your perception of reality also changes there's a part of the brain called the reticular activating system and it's that part of the brain that notices the car that you just bought everywhere on the road it's filtering out 88% of the information that's coming into you on a daily basis and it's only paying attention to the 12% 12% that is in alignment with what you believe so when you realize beliefs are decisions and you make a new decision you start to change your perception of reality and you start to notice different evidence in your life when we're working with entrepreneurs and we help them make new decisions around their limiting beliefs often times they say I can't believe it I started enrolling a bunch of new high-paying clients and they were people that I already knew or people who are already in my network and we understand that because those people were always there but they were invisible because they didn't line up with your belief systems the third extraordinary thing that happens when you make a new decision is now life can work to co-create the dreams and the results and the goals that you have now you start to let in and line up those synchronicities and coincidences and they occur in alignment with these new empowered decisions beliefs or decisions principle number number 12 you must let go of your resentments because they are holding on to some of your limiting beliefs this was something that I discovered in my 12-step work as I did the steps to identify and let go of my resistance some of our limiting beliefs and you may have experienced this are harder to let go of than others if you've been in personal growth for a while perhaps some of your limiting beliefs you've transformed to let go of but others seem to have what people called deeper Roots well those deeper roots are oftentimes resentments see you cannot let go of a limiting belief if you have not let go of the person who represented it in your life so often times There's an opportunity for us to forgive our parents as many of our limiting beliefs were formed with them or forgive other people in our life who either programmed us with these limiting beliefs or who represented these limiting beliefs there's a process that we teach called the Forgiveness framework that is a very powerful process for identifying and letting go of your resentments this is essential if you want to be able to operate at the highest level in your life and operate from non-resistance by letting go of your limiting beliefs principle number 13 there is a delay between when you make a new decision or you transform your belief and when your reality changes we call this the echo effect and this is critical to understand because what happens to most people is they start making making new decisions or transforming their beliefs is that they believe in abundance or Prosperity or Wellness they trust other people they believe that their business will grow they believe that life can be easy uh for a few days and then life shows up in a way that's not in alignment with the new belief that you've established or the new decision that you've made and what most people do is they go oh see I knew it things will never change this stuff doesn't work I have to do deeper work there must be some unconscious hidden trauma what's true actually is that life takes a little bit of time to change the reality that you're experiencing right now today your present moment is old news everything that you're going to experience today and the outcomes that you'll experience and the circumstances and situations they're a result of what you've been thinking from before and so it's very important to understand that there is this delay and the delay is a good thing the delay man allows us to manage our reality in a much more efficient way could you imagine if there was instant manifestation with all of the negative thinking that most people have we wouldn't make it Beyond 24 hours without destroying ourselves so change comes in an incremental process it's almost as if it's a software system where you experience the same problem again and the universe or life or God is saying are you sure you want this change so the important thing is to stay loyal to the new decision allow the circumstances and situations that show up that represent your old limiting beliefs to come and go let go of them don't get entangled with with them and revert back to the old decision don't undecide the new empowered decision that you've made just because there's something that shows up in your life that seems to represent the old it's a normal part of the process it is an echo of the past let it Echo and let it pass on principle number 14 life is doing most of the heavy lifting so we talked about this before there is a power greater than yourself and your willingness to surrender to the path that it is creating is essential Eisenhower said planning is essential and plans are useless and what that means is each and every day you get up with some idea of what you want to focus on and the action that you need to take in order to produce the outcomes of your life and you don't have to be obsessive about it you don't have to write down all your goals you don't have to be a perfect in terms of your organization or your discipline you get up with an idea of what you should be doing and what you focus on and you go and do those things as well as living your life and as you do that life will start to organize and respond it will start to shape its own plan right see life or God or the universe or the field is the great way maker and while it's great that we have an idea of what our plan should be because that's a Launchpad for our activity throughout the course of the day the truth is is that there's a larger plan and our ability to achieve our full potential or the outcomes that we desire is to align ourselves with that that plan and that plan shows up on a daily basis sometimes I have a whole list of things that I'm going to do over the course of a day record some podcast episodes review some copy with my team be interviewed on another podcast work on my next book work on a new training coach my coaching clients and something shows up in the day and the old way I would react to it is this is a problem it's disrupting my plan but the new way that I react to these things is I relax through them because I realize that my plan is not the plan what shows up here today is the plan the plan is being delivered to me sometimes that plan is spending more time with my son sometimes that plan is I don't feel well and I have to rest some sometimes that plan is I have to coach one of my uh employees into a higher level of leadership or somebody on my team resigns and I have to make some adaptations or adjustments things don't always go as I expect them to in fact most of the time they don't and neither do they for you but we can relax and move into non-resistance when we realize that whatever is unfolding over the course of our day is the plan and that we can bring our full presence to it and when we bring our full presence to something it transforms any problem into a solution the problem is not that things show up on a daily basis that we don't expect the problem is that we think that they shouldn't be showing up then we move into non-resistance into resistance and we get entangled with those things rather than allowing them to transform into the opportunities that they're meant to transform into again it's very important to understand while that you have a plan you should execute on it but there's a greater plan at work and our capacity to understand that and be present to it and surrender to that plan as it shows up on a daily basis is the key to our success principle number 15 meditate daily to calm your mind and let non-resistance seep into your nervous system there's a lot of information out there about meditation different breathing techniques different chanting visualization what you should focus on I don't particularly think it's that important what's important is that for 20 minutes a day you sit in quiet and you just allow your vibration to raise you allow the resistance to work itself out through the habitual patterns of thoughts and emotions and you get into position or a place where you can be in non-resistance 20 minutes a day where you're just not focused on thinking about problems again problems may come up as you're in your meditative practice you allow them to come up and you allow them to go but what meditation does is it allows you to hit go back to a new Baseline of non-resistance and as you do that it's like going to the gym you practice non-resistance through meditation and you're able to bring that non-resistance into your day because so much of this work is learning how to downregulate your nervous system so that you're not operating from fight or flight or stress or anxiety or overwhelm and meditation however you do it gives yourself a break from the habit of negative thoughts and negative emotions that we experience on a daily basis and you start to build new muscle fiber new emotional fiber new spiritual fiber of non-resistance simply just by sitting in quiet for 20 minutes a day principle 16 don't obsess about your goals right A lot of people think they need to do goal setting perfectly they write down all their goals they do their New Year's resolutions if you enjoy doing goal setting again the key to creating what you want is non-resistance and happiness if writing down your list and going through it every day feels good to you then absolutely do it but for most people more often than not it creates resistance so the only goal really to be focused on is non-resistance remember your desires have already been placed right you don't have to check them in or check in on them every single day have some patience with it know that through you and through the synchronicities and timing and coordination of life itself you will produce your desired results don't obsess about your goals obsess about loving your life principle number 17 surround yourself with other people who are focused on rootcause work other people who are living these spiritual principles other people who can see when you've got entangled with your old way of thinking or you're trying to push too hard and can remind you that hey the key is non-resistance go enjoy your life surround yourself with other people who believe in the certainty of the goodness of the future surround yourself with other people who are focused on improving themselves personally I believe that personal growth and achieving your full potential is not a do-it-yourself pro project I was not able to do that with my recovery and my 12-step program I had to do it with other people I've done it in my entrepreneurship as well I've done it in my life with my wife and my friends if you want to create anything extraordinary you do it with other people you're there as Arnold Schwarzenegger says there's no such thing as a self-made man it takes a village to produce a masterpiece life and make sure that the people who you're populating your village with are people who aligned with where you want to go principle number 18 don't get too concerned with solving problems what I mean by that is things show up in our life that absolutely need to be addressed but we end up grinding against them too hard Einstein said something really important he said you can't solve a problem with the same frequency or the same energy that created it so often times when a problem shows up in our life we've been taught to focus on the problem get close to the problem think about the problem and there may be some things that you're experiencing in your life right now that you've been grinding on for a while something you've been trying to solve again getting a marketing campaign to work in your business make more money overcome a Health Challenge uh transform some friction in a relationship and when nothing seems to be working try doing nothing step away from the problem and move as Einstein referred to it as move into the frequency of the solution and what that often means is just move away from the problem and go enjoy your life go take a walk take a bubble bath go have a cup of your favorite coffee go spend time with some friends with your family go give of your time and be in the service of other people while you do that you step away from the problem and the problem transforms you come back to it as a renewed person in a positive state of emotion in non-resistance and that's where you want to solve any problem from principle number 19 our last principle there are only two states of being what I mean by this is that there are powerful states of being and Primal states of being powerful states of being are states of being that feel good States of being like Joy curiosity um compassion passion calm peace states of emotion that feel good to you and then there are Primal states of being states of being that don't feel good states of being like stress anxiety overwhelm frustration anger jealousy and boredom what's important to understand is that you're always in one state of being or the other you're either in a powerful state or a primal State and you're never in two states of being at the same time and if you were to ask me what is the key to producing the goals that you want to achieve it's to notice when you've moved into a primal State and use whatever tools or information or philosophy you have to move back into a powerful state of being now what's important to understand is the only thing that determines whether you're in a powerful state or a primal state are your own thoughts remember your thoughts create your reality and you have an emotional guidance system that's determining whether or not the thoughts you have are in alignment with reality whether or not the thoughts you have are resistance or limiting beliefs when you're in a primal state of being when you're feeling something that does doesn't feel good it's a result of one thing and one thing only and that is unintelligent thinking thoughts that aren't true when you're in a powerful State it's a result of being aligned in your thinking empowered decisions empowered beliefs believing that life is always working for your greatest growth your greatest Prosperity your greatest Evolution that you are good enough that you are the one that you are in the process of materializing all of your desires and your full potential the key to winning the game of life is to notice when you've moved into a primal State and to move back into a powerful state of being and you're not always going to be in a powerful state it is natural and normal to move into a primal State as we experience things that we don't expect into our life your nervous system is meant to move into the sympathetic expression of the nervous system fight or flight but what you want to be able to do is be be the master of your own emotions and to notice when you've moved into a primal state to notice the only thing that's causing it is your own thinking and to take a look at the thinking and to work with the thinking to transform it so you can move into a powerful state of being those are the 19 most important personal development principles if you want achieve your full potential and have a powerful living experience I hope you've enjoyed this episode if you did do me a favor share this episode with somebody who needs to hear it if you haven't yet and you're listening on YouTube subscribe and hit that Bell icon so that you get updates comment and ask questions I read all of them and if you're listening on the audio platforms do me a huge favor leave me a rating or review and become a subscriber if you have not yet I love you so much thank you for being here this is something that we're going to continue to do together and I will see you in the next episode hey it's David hop on over to David bear.