Younger Women HATE When “Older Guys” Do This | 7 UNATTRACTIVE Habits

tons of people will tell you that younger women often prefer older men and it's true qualities like experience maturity and a sense of stability naturally make older men stand out but here's the problem most older men don't know how to use this advantage in fact I've seen countless guys in their 40s 50s and Beyond who keep making the same mistakes when it comes to younger women and the result they blow their chances time and time again these men despite all their potential find themselves stuck single and frustrated but here's the thing when you make the

wrong moves you don't just lose her respect you lose the chance to Showcase your true value and that's a waste considering the natural advantages older men already have wisdom stability and the ability to offer something more meaningful than younger guys can the good news is fixing these mistakes doesn't require you to change who you are it's about recognizing where you're going wrong and becoming The Confident grounded man you are meant to be today I'm going to break it down for you the seven most common mistakes older men make with younger women avoiding these will not

only transform the way women see you but also Elevate how you see yourself so stick around let's dive into the first mistake mistake number one idolizing her let's say you find yourself in front of an attractive younger woman she's beautiful vibrant and maybe even intimidating what's your first instinct for many older men it's to freeze up or Panic you think I can't mess this up she's way out of my league from there you start overcompensating you give her special treatment go out of your way to be polite agreeable and avoid saying or doing anything that

might upset her you stick to Safe boring conversations trying to show her how perfect you are but here's the kicker all this effort to make her comfortable does the exact opposite it makes you uninteresting women don't fall for the man who puts them on a pedestal they fall for the man who stands confidently beside them as an equal the root of this mistake lies in how you view her by idolizing her you're subconsciously placing her above you as if she's a prize you don't deserve this mindset makes every interaction feel high stakes you overthink second

guess yourself and ultimately project insecurity and the truth is this behavior isn't just unattractive it's exhausting it signals to her that you see yourself as less valuable which instantly lowers her perception of you the only way to stop idolizing younger women is to normalize your interactions with them make it a habit to talk to women of all ages especially younger ones without attaching so much significance to the outcome when you interact with more women you start to realize they're just people flawed quirky and human just like you that realization breaks down the pedestal you've put

them on and lets you approach them with calm grounded confidence and remember this you are not auditioning for her approval she's not some rare trophy to be won she's another human being who can choose whether or not she's compatible with you and that's a two-way street once you adopt this mindset the fear of losing her Fades because you'll know there's always someone else out there and that my friend is where your real power Li mistake number two messing up the age question picture this you're having a great conversation with a younger woman things are flowing

smoothly and then she drops the question so how old are you for many older men this is the moment they start to panic most guys respond by either nervously blurting out their age or awkwardly trying to change the subject their body language shifts their tone becomes uneasy and suddenly The Confident man she was intrigued by seems to shrink before her eyes here's the issue when you act insecure about your age you're sending her a clear signal that you see it as a problem and guess what if you think it's a problem she will too this

fear of the age question comes from a lack of confidence in your own worth Society often makes older men feel that dating younger women is inappropriate or taboo and this pressure can lead to shame or self-doubt but here's the truth your age is not the issue the problem lies in how you frame it if you approach it with hesitation or insecurity you're inviting her to see it through the same negative lens the next time this question comes up Own It confidence is key here and there are two ways to handle it playfully or directly a

playful approach can diffuse any tension and even build attraction for example you could say something like I'm actually too old for you we'd never work with a Sly smile or pretend to count on your fingers and say I'm 700 months old how about you if humor doesn't feel natural to you keep it simple and direct say your age with a calm confident tone I'm 47 followed by a slight pause and a smile then casually steer the conversation back to something engaging the key here is to show her that your age is a non-issue when you're

comfortable with who you are she'll be comfortable too confidence frames your age as an asset not a limitation remember the way you handle the age question sets the tone for how she perceives you so next time don't shy away own it and move forward like the grounded self assured man you are mistake number three leading with money far too many older men believe that their financial success is their Ultimate Weapon when it comes to attracting younger women they think if I can show her how much I have she'll be impressed and I'll win her over

so they lead with their wallets this can take many forms bragging about their high-paying jobs fancy cars luxurious Vacations or the expensive restaurants they frequent some even take it a step further buying gifts paying off bills or sending money to women they barely know and while this might grab her attention initially it's not the kind of attention you actually want here's the reality when you lead with money you reduce yourself to nothing more than a walking ATM yes money is attract active because it signals stability and success but if that's the only thing you're bringing

to the table you'll only attract women who are interested in exploiting it these women aren't looking for connection or respect they're looking for what you can give them if you want to avoid this trap stop making money the focus of your interactions let your financial success show naturally over time as part of the bigger picture of who you are shift the emphasis to your personality your values and the unique perspective you bring to the table the women worth your time aren't looking for someone to buy them things they're looking for someone they can connect with

when you present yourself as a well-rounded confident man who happens to be successful you'll not only attract better women but also set the foundation for a relationship built on mutual respect not transactions money is a tool not a crutch stop leading with it and start leading with your character that's what truly makes you stand out mistake number four positioning yourself as a mentor many older men fall into the Trap of positioning themselves as a guide or mentor to younger women they think if I show her how much I can teach her she'll eventually see how

valuable I am so they focus on helping her with her career giving life advice or offering guidance all while hiding their true romantic intentions at first this might seem like a harmless approach you're showing value right but here's the problem when you take on the role of a mentor you strip away any sense of romantic or sexual tension you become someone she respects or admires but not someone she sees as a potential partner worse when you finally make your move it often feels awkward and forced she wasn't expecting it and instead of feeling flattered she

feels uncomfortable why because you've spent all this time positioning yourself as a teacher not a lover if you want to younger woman to see you as more than just a friend or Mentor you need to establish a flirty fun vibe from the beginning don't wait weeks or months to reveal your intentions by then it's too late instead sprinkle in playful teasing light compliments and moments of connection early on this sets the tone for a dynamic that's both engaging and romantic and remember women can sense authenticity don't pretend to be a mentor if that's not what

you want be upfront with your energy and let her see The Confident charismatic side of you the key is balance show her you're wise and experienced but don't let that overshadow the fact that you're also someone who knows how to have fun and create chemistry when you stop hiding behind the mentor role you'll find that genuine attraction comes much more naturally and you won't end up in the dreaded friend zone mistake number five trying too hard to look young one of the most common mistakes older men make is trying too hard to appear younger whether

it's dressing in styles that don't suit them using slang that feels forced or chasing trends that clearly don't align with their personality the result is always the same it comes across as unnatural and inauthentic younger women don't find this effort attractive in fact it often has the opposite effect instead of seeing you as confident and self- assured they see someone who's insecure about their age and desperately trying to fit into a mold that doesn't belong to them this creates an instant disconnect here's the truth trying to look or act younger doesn't make you more appealing

what makes you attractive is embracing your age with confidence a well-groomed stylish man who knows how to carry himself will always stand out more than someone pretending to be something they're not invest in a wardrobe that reflects your maturity while staying sharp and modern focus on your health and fitness not not to look younger but to feel your best at any age and when it comes to conversation Don't force yourself into the latest slang or cultural Trends speak with authenticity and wisdom that's what sets you apart from younger guys remember younger women are drawn to

older men because of their life experience confidence and stability when you try too hard to look young you're undermining the very qualities that make you appealing in the first place so stop trying to compete with the younger crowd it's a losing game instead lean into who you are and let your confidence and presence do the talking that's what will truly make you irresistible mistake number six overloading the conversation with your achievements older men often make the mistake of turning conversations into monologues about their accomplishments they think listing their career successes educational background or past achievements

will impress a younger woman and make her see them as high value while there's nothing wrong with being proud of your accomplishments overloading the conversation with these details can backfire here's why when you dominate the conversation with what you've done it shifts the focus away from her instead of creating a connection you come across as self-absorbed or worse as though you're trying too hard to validate yourself younger women aren't looking for a resume they're looking for someone who genuinely L listens connects and engages with them attraction is built through shared experiences understanding and emotional connection

not by listing your accolades the solution keep your achievements in your back pocket let them come up naturally in the flow of the conversation or better yet let her discover them over time Focus instead on being present asking meaningful questions and showing genuine interest in her thoughts and feelings a confident man doesn't need to constantly prove his value his demeanor Speaks For Itself by Shifting the focus to her and creating a balanced conversation you'll build a connection that feels genuine and effortless mistake number seven neglecting your physical presence one of the biggest mistakes older men

make is neglecting their physical appearance and presence over time it's easy to fall into the Trap of thinking your achievements personality or experience are enough to carry you but here's the truth attraction is as much about how you present yourself as it is about who you are you don't need to look like a fitness model but letting yourself go physically sends a clear message you're not putting in the effort and that can be a major turnoff neglecting your grooming dressing sloppily or not maintaining a healthy lifestyle can overshadow the best parts of your personality younger

women are drawn to older men because they exude stability and strength but when your appearance doesn't match that energy it creates a disconnect it's not about looking young it's about looking like the best version of yourself to fix start with the basics keep your grooming sharp trimmed facial hair clean nails and a modern haircut go a long way upgrade your wardrobe to something classic and fitted focusing on Timeless Styles rather than Trends and most importantly prioritize your health regular exercise and a balanced diet not only improve your appearance but also boost your confidence and energy

physical presence is an extension of who you are when you take care of yourself it shows self-respect and that respect is contagious a man who invests in himself is a man worth investing in so there you have it the seven mistakes older men often make with younger women let's quickly recap idolizing her messing up the age question leading with money positioning yourself as a mentor trying too hard to look young overloading the conversation with your achievements and neglecting your physical Presence at the core of all these mistakes is one common theme not fully embracing who

you are younger women aren't looking for someone who's perfect they're drawn to someone who is confident self-aware and authentic when you let go of insecurities stop trying to prove yourself and focus on becoming the best version of Who You Are Everything Changes at the stoic Golden Rule we believe in helping men not just attract the right relationships but also live with purpose and strength fixing these mistakes isn't just about dating it's about transforming your mindset and building the life you deserve if this message resonated with you reflect on where you can improve and start applying

these changes today becoming better isn't just a goal it's a journey thanks for watching and I'll see you next time on the stoic Golden Rule [Music]