The Secret of Loving God! - Charles Spurgeon Sermons

the secret of loving God this sermon was first preached on August 15 in the year 1880 by charles haddon spurgeon the text for this evening comes from the book of first john first john chapter 4 verse 19 we love because He first loved us we love because He first loved us this morning those of us who were here meditated on the connection between faith and love so I thought this evening that we needed to pursue the same subject further hoping that we might still receive divine instruction on this very important theme you must have noticed

how continually John blends faith with knowledge and love as in the sixteenth verse of this chapter we know and rely on the love God has for us all through this epistle he constantly repeats the words we know we know we know we know and perhaps even more frequently he uses the word love knowledge faith and love are interwoven together so closely that they cannot be separated they are interwoven and United like the foundation of a fabric and so they really become one to know Christ to trust Christ to love Christ these are among the elementary

principles of holiness without all of these graces there is no true religion no true Christianity but if these things are in US and they abound in us then we will never never be harsh or unfruitful when you notice that knowledge faith and love are a place like a set of precious Jules in a treasure chest it leads you to see kind of necessary how Airy it is that all the powers of our nature should be renewed our intellects need to be regenerated so that we may be able to know Christ for those who are unspiritual

do not know him they hear about him but they are strangers to him spiritual things are only known to spiritual men and women faith is an act partly of the intellect and partly of the affections and we must therefore have both head and heart renewed by the Spirit of God or we shall not have true faith even though the mind may be purified it will not be sufficient unless the soul is also cleansed because love to God never comes out of a foul and evil heart it is a plant that will not grow on the

dunghill of our corrupt nature we must be transformed by the renewing of our minds or else we can never know God nor trust God nor love God in fact it comes to this as Christ told Nicodemus you must be born again there must be a thorough real radical change not of this part or that but of the whole person he who sits on the throne said I am making everything new and all who come into his kingdom are made new creatures in Christ Jesus just as much as if they had been annihilated and had been

created over again what a solemn influence this truth should exercise over us in what a clear light is True Religions us set before us it is no mere child's play no matter to be settled off and without thought or consideration search yourself and see whether the spirit of God has produced in you the true knowledge the true faith and the true love for otherwise whatever you may think you possess of any of these things is not of God this short text is one from which I have often preached to you and I hope to preach

from it a good many more times if I am spared or it is one of those inexhaustible wells into which you may let down the bucket every morning and always pull it up pool it is a mine with a good many veins of the riches or you may think that you have dug all of its treasures out but you have only to sink a new shaft to find that there is another vein just as rich as a formal one and when you have brought all that wealth to the surface and that may take your whole

lifetime someone else may take another shaft and open up a fresh vein I shall try to explain the text first by showing showing you that our love to God is a fact which deserves an acknowledgment and a confession showing you that our love to God is a fact which deserves an acknowledgment and a confession is it a fact with you dear friend or is it not let every one of us answer this question for himself or herself with some of us blessed be God it is a fact that we do love God and it is

a fact that is worth speaking out and worth writing down the Holy Spirit himself thought it worth while to move John to write down to write down for himself and for his brothers and sisters in Christ we love him some feel that they must honestly confess that they do not love the Lord and there may be others who are quite indifferent as to whether they love him or not but there are some who must acknowledge their affection for him they're very stones in the street would cry out against them if they did not confess their

love to their Lord they feel compelled to say in face of the whole world we love him they do not say it in a boastful way for they give the reason why they love him because he first loved us a reason drawn from the grace of God which prevents any boasting concerning it yet trustfully boldly without a second thought they say it outright so that everyone may hear it we love him others may not but we do and we gather together as a company of his people who are agreed on this point the point that

we love him we love God especially as he has revealed to us in the person of Jesus Christ his one and only and dearly beloved son who loved us and gave himself for us if you asked me why should this fact be acknowledged and proclaimed I answer first because there is no good reason for concealing it why should this fact that we love Christ be acknowledged and proclaimed the answer because there is no good reason for concealing it I cannot imagine a true Christian saying I love Christ but I don't want others to know that

I love him lest they should laugh at me that is a reason to be laughed at or rather to be wept over afraid of being laughed at o friend this is indeed a cowardly fear aren't there some of Christ's servants who live in the fool you of the public and whose names are ridiculed every hour of the day yet has that ridicule ever broken their bones or their heart truly never and if God makes us Christians we ought never to be afraid of such a thing as a sneer or a jeer or a joke on

account of our Christianity perhaps some will say that they do love Christ but that if they publicly declare their affection for him they would provoke opposition perhaps there are some who would say that they do love Christ but that if they publicly declared their affection for him they would only provoke opposition of course you would didn't God himself say so to the serpent in the Garden of Eden he said I will put enmity between you and the woman and between your offspring and hers did you expect the woman's offspring to be loving the Lord and

yet not to be opposed by the Serpent's offspring didn't Jesus say to his disciples if you belong to the world it would love you as its own as it is you do not belong to the world but I have chosen you out of the world and that is why the world hates you you know how the world treated him and shall the disciple be above his master the servant above his Lord so my brothers and sisters if you do love the Lord say out loud we love him for there is no good reason why you

should not affirm your affection for him but on the other hand there are abundant reasons why you must do so firstly you should publicly acknowledge your love for Christ because Jesus Christ deserves and demands that acknowledgment you should publicly acknowledge your love for Christ because Jesus Christ deserves and demands that acknowledgement he is not ashamed of his love for us he left all the glories of heaven that he might take up our calls and when we came to his feet burdened and guilty and full of despair there was not one lovely trait in our character

to attract him towards us yet he took pity on us and loved us and saved us and now he pleads for us in heaven he is not ashamed to call us brothers and sisters so surely we ought bravely and joyfully declare that we are on his side we should not need any urging to make that declaration but if we do let us remember that Christ claims it for he has said if anyone is ashamed of me and my words in this adulterous and sinful generation the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when he

comes in his father's glory with the Holy Angels and he also said whoever acknowledges me before men the son of man will also acknowledge him before the angels of God but he who disowns me and the opposition you see makes the word disown mean he that does not confess me but he who disowns me before men will be disowned before the angels of God come then come then brothers and sisters since Christ demands it and so richly deserves it let the acknowledgment of this fact be made if in fact it is true that we love

him secondly you should publicly acknowledge your love for Christ because it puts you among the most blessed company you should publicly acknowledge your love for Christ because it puts you among the most blessed company I wish I had the tongue of the eloquent so that I could depict for you that great cloud of witnesses up on high who with one voice cry out we love him if I asked everyone who is in heaven this very moment who among you loves Jesus Christ I would immediately hear a response like Niagara Falls in volume but far sweeter

and sound we loved him and above all the human and angelic voices comes the declaration of the Eternal Father this is my son whom I love with him I am well pleased look through all the pages of history and asked the noblest men and women who still seem to live this question who loves Christ and at once up from dark dungeons and crew racks of torture there Rises their confession we love him we love him and from the fiery state where they clapped their hands with joy as they were being burned to death the same

answer comes we love him we love him if you could walk through the miles of the catacombs of Rome and if the holy dead whose dust lies there could suddenly wake up they would all shout we love him the best and bravest of men the noblest and purest of women have all been in this glorious company so surely you are not ashamed to come forward and say put my name down among them though I am the lowliest of them all I wish that the we might include me and my children and my friends that we

might all be able to truthfully say we love him happy are those who enlist in such an army as this which has inscribed on its banners this grand declaration we love him thirdly if you do love the Lord confess that fact because your acknowledgment may influence others if you do love the Lord confess it because your acknowledgment may influence others it may be that some who do not yet love him will be constrained to do so when they hear you say we love him many a child has learned to love Christ through his parents godly

example and many a stranger to true religion has been induced to yield his heart to Jesus by seeing the loving behavior of those who were Christ's disciples so for the sake of this poor world confess your love to your Lord perhaps you will never be a preacher and you needn't wish to be one unless you are divinely called to that office but you can at least confess Christ and by that acknowledgement and by living consistently with it you may draw one or two to the Savior and whose sight every soul was precious beyond value fourthly

you must publicly acknowledge your love for Christ because it may be a great blessing to yourself to declare your love to Christ you must publicly acknowledge your love to Christ because it may be a great blessing to yourself to declare your love to Christ I always look back with deep gratitude to the day when I was baptized you know that we baptized no one except those who profess to have believed in our Lord Jesus Christ so it is absolutely certain that we attribute no saving grace to baptism in water yet at the same time we

have proved again and again that there is a distinct blessing and the observance of the ordinance it was so in my case up to that time I was timid and fearful and afraid to confess Christ but after I went into the waters of baptism and was publicly baptized into his death I lost all fear of man and I think I can honestly say that I have never never been ashamed to acknowledge my lord from that day to this that coming out boldly for Christ was like passing the point of no return or burning the boats

no retreat was possible after that nor have I ever wanted to go back to the world from which I then came out the world has had many a cruel word for me from that day to this and there is no love lost between us I am done with the world as the world is done with me I am crucified to the world in the world to me and you Christian people will find it good when you can also say we have come out of the world and we love Christ perhaps somebody says I would not

be admitted into certain social classes of society if I were to confess Christ society who cares in such society as this my weary soul would rest the man that dwells where Jesus is must be forever blessed be totally committed for Christ unfurl your colors never hide them but nail them to the mast and say to all who ridicule the Saints say to them if you have any cruel or unkind words for the followers of Christ pour them out on me if you call us bible-thumping hypocrites or whatever say what you like about us I am

quite prepared to bear my share of your slander I will even glory in it if it must be so but know this you will hear it whether you like it or not I love Christ and among the people whose names are written down as lovers of the Lord my name shall stand unworthy as I am of such an honor this is a fact which deserves acknowledgement and I would rejoice if I could induce some of you who have never made that declaration to join yourselves openly with the people of God and our Lord's appointed way

now secondly we will take the text in another way and note that our love is an effect flowing from a cause we love because He first loved us tonight we will take our text in another way and note that secondly our love is an effect flowing from a cause we love because He first loved us first it is not the result of effort it is not the result of effort we do not love God because we tried to do so true love cannot come in that way you may say I intend to think and you

may succeed in doing it but you cannot act like that with regard to love no love is not a slave to be at any man's beck and call it is a master and when even the lowest form of log comes on a man it carries him away wherever it will so this highest type of human love our love to God overpowers us it is never the result of effort on our part did you ever hear a mother say I will try to love my child I don't know how she would go about it to bring

such a state of things as that oh no she loves her child naturally she cannot help loving her own offspring I never tried to love my sons I cannot help loving them my love to them is not the effect of any effort on my part it is as free as the dew that drops from heaven we may not know how it comes but we know that we have not made it ourselves secondly love to God is not produced in any heart as a matter of duty love to God is not produced in any heart as

a matter of Duty we love God not because we felt that we ought to love him but because He first loved us a sense of duty is a very proper thing concerning many matters and I don't deny that it is our duty to love God with all our heart and mind and soul and strength for this is the very essence of the law of the Lord but no one ever does love as a mere matter of Duty you love even an earthly object because you cannot help yourself and you love God because he is Kim

finale lovely and because he is so completely won over your heart has to engross your whole affection because he first loved us and that love of his has been poured out in our hearts we have loved him in return as a matter of course we could not help doing so the mighty depths of his immeasurable love high up on the eternal hills flow down into the inmost recesses of our empty hearts and went afterwards a fountain of love it seemed springing up out of them the secret of its action is to be traced to that

great reservoir way up on the everlasting hills so our love to God is not the result of effort nor does it arise out of a sense of duty thirdly our love to God comes by knowledge and faith our love to God comes by knowledge and faith as John says we know and rely on the love that God has for us we have been informed by a revelation in the Bible which we accept as infallible that God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish

but have eternal life we have believed in him that is we have trusted him we know therefore that we shall not perish but that we have eternal life and now we love God for having bestowed on us the priceless gift of his dear son to redeem us from death and destruction furthering the cause of our love to God abundantly justifies it the cause of our love to God abundantly justifies it people say that love is blind but in this case the eyes of love are wide open and far seen love can look to save you

in the face and point to his beauties which fully justifies all its admiration of him and devotion to him we read the story of Christ of his unique life in the human flesh and his sacrificial death for our sins and we say that if we do not love him we would be the most ungrateful of all men as he has laid down his life for us and as he still lives to carry on the work of our salvation as he has loved us from before the creation of the world and will love us when this

world has passed away we must love him it is wasting words to argue over this matter there is a natural and proper order of things an absolute necessity that such a love as Christ is should have the supreme affection of our hearts in return we also feel that because the first loved us is such a cause that it is capable of producing a far larger result and we have ever yet experienced we also feel that because he first loved us is such a cause that is capable of producing a far larger result than we have

ever yet experienced because he first loved us we expect to love him much more than we do at present and we believe that if we loved him so much that men call us fanatics we would be perfectly justified and that if our heart was completely taken up with him if we live for nothing else but to serve Christ if our every breath impulse was devoted to Christ if we lay down our lives for Christ yes if we had 10,000 lives and laid them all down for Christ we think that such love as that which he

spontaneously showed to us when we were his enemies would perfectly justify us for doing all that and ten thousand times more if it were possible so you see my dear brothers and sisters that are alive to the Lord Jesus Christ is an effect produced by a great cause namely his eternal love to us oh if you really believe that he has loved you so sit down and turn the subject over in your mind and say to yourself jesus loves me Jesus chose me Jesus redeemed me Jesus called me Jesus has pardoned me Jesus has taken

me into union with himself Jesus has made me to be a part of the bride the Lambs wife I shall be one with him forever he will put a crown on my head and I shall sit with him on his throne and this may happen within a week perhaps I shall spend next Sunday seeing him face to face with such a hope as this you must love him must you not can your heart resist his charms heart is the heart that does not feel some sweet affection move within whenever the love of Christ is proclaimed

yet we must not try to make ourselves love our Lord but simply look to Christ love first for his love to us will create in us love to him I know that some of you are greatly distressed because you cannot love Christ as much as you would like to do and you keep on fretting because it is so now just forget your own love to him and think of his great love to you and then immediately your love will come to something more like that which you would desire it to be but now thirdly tonight

and I must speak briefly on each point our love is a simplicity founded upon a mystery our love is and simplicity founded upon a mystery we love that is simple enough because he first loved us ah there is a great mystery which none of us can fully understand I say that our love to Christ is a very simple kind of love and I want you to keep it that way because some people treat it metaphysically that is in an abstract manner now what is love will somebody give us a clear definition of it now will

somebody else give another by the time we have two or three hundred definitions of love and put them all together it is very probable that we shall have lost all idea of what love really is it is delight it is contentment it is longing for Association it is well you know what it is don't you for if you don't I can't tell you what it is we get into the region of metaphysics when we begin to talk about love and there we lose ourselves and I have known people try to describe what love to Christ

is and very soon they have gone down into that sea they could not explain it for it is not easy to explain sometimes I meet with persons struggling with this one says to me I have read that I should love Christ with an unbiased love not with the hope of gaining anything not seeking a reward and so on teaching us that we should love Christ simply for his own sake I say to them yes I know of this teaching and that many holy men have thought that they kept to that and I dare say they

have but I also know that love may be perfectly genuine and yet be as far as possible from being unbiased for instance do you doubt the reality of the love of that little baby to its mother no if there is love anywhere it is in that tiny child towards its parent but is that love unbiased certainly not isn't the love of dear children to their father and mother true love and very sweet love - of course it is and we delighted it but is it unbiased no they love us because for years they have received

kindness from us and they expect we shall treat them in the same fashion in the future and I think that you and I will never be able to talk about being unbiased and our love to God when the very breath that we breathe is his gift his daily mercy supplies us with food and we are clothed and cared for by his love we are debtors so deeply drowned an obligation to him that we must stop talking about being unbiased why we are always receiving something or other from our God and so we shall until the

day we die we are beggars at the beautiful gate of the temple receiving daily alms from Christ and in as much as John who was perhaps the noblest of all the Saints only got so far as to say we love because He first loved us I would be quite satisfied if I can get as far as John did and if you cannot say anything more than that you may be very content if you can join with John and the rest of the disciples of Christ in saying we love because He first loved us don't trouble

yourselves about the metaphysical distinctions which some may try to draw if you love Christ it is a simple thing though you may not be able to explain it to others or even to yourself further you must not always expect to display that love to the same extent you must not always expect to display that love to the same extent we are sometimes very foolish about the matter you have an intense affection for your child but you are busy all day long in your shop or your warehouse and perhaps throughout the whole day not one thought

of your boy has crossed your mind does anybody say that you do not love him no your love was just as true as ever but there were other things that claimed your attention possibly you are away on a long trip and one evening as you are sitting down to rest there comes a letter from your child and as you read it you say bless his little heart I wish I had him on my knee at this moment something has come you see to awaken the love that was there all the while for true love in

our hearts is often like the pheasant in the field when someone comes near up they go yes but they were there before they would not have flown up that they had not been undercover so often do the graces of Christians hide themselves away for a time till the occasion for their display arises and then up they start but they would not have started up if they had not been there we were singing a few minutes ago if I ever loved thee my Jesus which is now well if you meant it then you will still love

him tomorrow when your hands are busily occupied at your job or your brain is counting up the long rows of figures which make your eyes ache or you have to wait upon so many customers that you get utterly fatigued you may not be always able to be thinking about divine subjects but if your heart is right your love to your Lord is there all the while we cannot always tell during the day where the crows live or they fly all over the fields but at night we see which way they go as they fly to

where their nests are likewise your thoughts fly here and there during the day but when you get home they come back to your Blessed Lord and Master that is where the home of your heart is for when it gets the opportunity when it is let go as the Apostles word it goes to its own company so may it always be with you beloved but our love to Christ though it is in itself a simple thing is based on a great mystery our love to Christ though it is in itself a very simple thing is based

upon a great mystery the mystery is that he should ever have loved us at all can anybody tell us how it was that Christ ever began to love us I sometimes imagine that I could explain why Christ loved some of you but I cannot conceive why he ever loved me that is a matter which I must leave until I see him but I suppose it was because he just wanted to do so because he determined it by his own sovereign will certainly I cannot conceive of any other reason and if any of you ever think

that you were saved because you were better than other people or that you owe being selected for salvation because of your own free will well I am glad if there are any such good people about but I know that it was not so with me and I think that most of God's people will also say no no no no if there is any difference between us and others it is the grace of God that has made it so let him have all the glory of it there is a difference between some of us and others

whom we know and whoever made it happen ought to have the crown for it if you made your own salvation happen yourself then you can claim the crown but I know that you will not do that if you really are a lover of the Lord but that you will cry out with us not to us Oh Lord not to us but to your name be the glory because of your love and faithfulness so I conclude that we are all in agreement that the difference between us and our former selves and our old companions is one

which Sovereign Grace has made and that is the great mystery although our love and return for it is a simple fact I now come to our last point for this evening and I can only give you a few sentences on it which is this our love is a force sustained by a higher force our love is a force sustained by a higher force our love is a force if you truly love God you will feel it deep within you it is a force that comforts and encourages us it is a force that comforts and encourages

us out of love to God we feel that we can even dare the devil to do is worse against us when love fills us up completely it makes us courageous love to God also constrains us love to God also constrains us with the Apostle Paul we say Christ's love compels us because of this love we often do things which we would never have chosen to do on our own and we leave undone the things we once wanted to do love is as strong as death and when it once gets full possession of a person it

will completely carry them away and love to God is indeed a mighty force of which perhaps we have not any of us proved the full power as of yet but it is a force which is kept by a higher force namely the love of God to us our love for God is a force which is kept up by a higher force namely the love of God to us what a force that is who can ever estimate its power the love of gods and men was so strong that when death and hell struggled against it they

were driven away like the chalk before the wind all our sin stood like a mighty mountain barring our way to God but his love leveled every hill and made a clear path by which we might approach his mercy seat the love of God to his people is omnipotent there is no force in nature that can for a single moment be compared with it it is irresistible for the love of God Concord God himself and brought him down to earth in human form first in our mortal flesh to serve than in that flesh to die found

guilty of an excess of love our Savior was put to death that he might redeem us he could lose his life for us but he could not lose his love to it o mighty force then don't you see my brothers and sisters if there is such a force as this to draw upon that the love of God when it is poured out into our hearts can give our love a greater force than it ever had with that greater force there can be put into our lives and energy which we have never known it is possible

for us to rise to something far higher than we ever have in our past we can do something more than we have ever dreamed of doing and God can use us to perform nobler deeds of self-denial to rise to greater heights of daring and to stoop the deeper depths of humiliation than we have ever done before old strong son of God nothing could stop your immortal love neither pain nor grief nor bloody sweat nor death itself could stop you and by your sacred passion we implore you to let your love drop into our souls till

we too shall become strong like yourself according to our measure and shall be able to contend for you to suffer for you to live for you and to die for you all the while giving this as the explanation of it all we love because He first loved us god bless you beloved for Christ's sake amen you