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have you ever felt that urge to make someone deeply sorry for hurting you that desire to turn the tables and show that this person was the one who really lost know that the worst pain someone can feel doesn't come from a scream a fight or impulsive revenge the real psychological torture comes when that person realizes too late that they underestimated you and here's the brutal truth whoever hurt you thought you would always be there that he could manipulate you step on you and get away with it but today I'm going to show you how to

make that person swallow every word regret every action and lose sleep thinking about the mistake they made and the best you won't need to put yourself down or chase it what I'm going to teach you here is a powerful tried and tested psychological game that will leave those who hurt you completely helpless if you've ever been there been disrespected deceived or simply left aside by someone who thought they could live without you then watch until the end because at the right time you will know exactly how to act and believe me nothing hurts more than

the coldness and indifference of someone who was once underestimated now leave a like and subscribe because this knowledge is not for everyone and get ready because when you apply this whoever hurt you will feel the weight of their own mistake let's go for the first blow the last word is yours how to turn the game and leave those who hurt you without an answer do you know what mistake almost everyone makes after being injured wanting an outcome seeking explanations insisting that the other person recognize what they did but the truth is brutal whoever hurt you

doesn't care about your suffering at least not while you realize it still has some power over you and that's exactly why the biggest move you can make is to get the last word and ironically that last word is the last word absolute silence the human mind hates gaps when you walk away without discussion without justification without giving the other person the chance to explain themselves or attack you again an unbearable void is created in that person's head she expected a reaction she wanted to see you desperate angry begging trying to understand the reason but when

you just disappear and move on with your life the game turns in a way she never imagined Seneca already said nothing is as strong as a mind prepared to ignore that which does not deserve attention and that's exactly what you need to do what most destroys someone who hurt you is not an argument not a text on WhatsApp not even a revenge plan what destroys this person is realizing that you have become unreachable that their presence no longer makes a difference and that in the end it was them who lost do you want to know

the effect of this in practice imagine two scenes in the first you react impulsively argue try to argue seek explanations what happens the other person sees that they still have control over you they feel validated and deep down they even enjoy your pain now in the second scene you simply get up and walk away without looking back no message no response no sign that that person still has space in your life what happens her brain short circuits doubt begins to gnaw away did I make a mistake why didn't he she say anything what's going on

and do you know what happens when doubt enters regret comes close behind the silence you give becomes a mirror where that person is forced to face their own mistakes without distractions and believe me no one wants to deal with that so if you really want this person to repent give the last word without opening your mouth skirt cut contact disappear because the one who really won this battle wasn't the one who shouted the loudest but rather the one who knew how to get out without having to look back now let's move on to the next

scam and this one is even more cruel the cruel and silent strategy that makes anyone regret having messed with you have you ever noticed that some people seem to be incapable of feeling guilt they hurt others step on those who care about them and go on with their lives as if nothing had happened but do you know what they all have in common they only feel the weight of their mistake when they lose something they took for granted and it is exactly this weak point that we are going to explore if someone hurt you it

means they felt comfortable enough to do it she believed that you would always be there that she could treat you however she wanted without suffering consequences but there is a silent and cruel blow that dismantles anyone no matter how cold or narcissistic they may be the total loss of access to your energy your value and your presence think with me what hurts the most listen to a speech about how hurt someone is or simply watch that person transform become stronger and more inaccessible without giving any satisfaction the answer is obvious while you talk about your

pain the other person still feels like they have power over you but when you close yourself off you evolve and no longer allow that person to have any access to your world the message becomes clear you lost me forever this directly attacks one of the most basic instincts of human beings the fear of losing social value everyone wants to be important everyone wants to know that they are missed but when you close the doors without warning people start to wonder what is he doing did he find someone better did he realize he can live without

me and that doubt that uncertainty is what eats away Marcus Aurelius said the best revenge is not to be like your enemy this means that instead of acting impulsively showing weakness you act strategically you don't fight back you disappears from the radar and rebuilds itself while the person expects an attack what they receive is absolute silence while she expects drama what she sees is you shining unreachable and now let's go even deeper how to apply this in practice first eliminate any form of contact social media messaging mutual friends all of that needs to be cut

if this person wants to hear from you they will have to make an effort and the more effort it takes the greater the psychological impact second transform your energy instead of spending time dwelling on what happened use that strength to grow improve your appearance your habits your financial life when that person finally hears about you because yes they will try to find out let it be through their evolution and not through regrets finally the final step never return the mistake many people make is giving in when the other person realizing the loss tries to return

but remember repentance does not mean change if someone hurt you once they will do it again your role is not to give a second chance but to become someone that person will never have access to again and this is the most cruel and efficient strategy no revenge no confrontation but the absolute certainty that whoever hurt you will never again be able to come close to what they once had and wasted now let's move on to the next blow and this one will hit directly in the ego of those who once devalued you nothing hurts more

than this the secret to making someone miss you and feel like an idiot the biggest illusion of someone who disrespected you betrayed you or simply treated you as if you were disposable is to believe that they will never miss you in this person's mind you were just another option someone who could be easily replaced but what she didn't realize is that some presences are irreplaceable and that's exactly what you'll taste without having to move a single finger the deepest pain does not come from immediate absence but from late detection of the error in other words

this person may even feel calm at first but at some point a feature Chi and when that happens it's too late but for that penny to really drop you need to follow three essential rules the first rule it's simple but brutal you need to disappear completely no sending indirect messages no posting cryptic phrases hoping the person will understand no accidents where you end up crossing paths the mistake that many people make is wanting to be noticed right after leaving but the truth is that absence only hurts when it becomes real and definitive if this person

still feels like they have some kind of access to you they won't regret it they'll just feel in control a second rule is the most powerful you need to change so that she no longer recognizes you nothing is more distressing for someone who has devalued you than realizing that you he is no longer the same person who was once by her side imagine the shock of seeing yourself stronger more confident more beautiful more successful and worst of all without any sign of resentment it destroys any ego Epictetus said don't explain your evolution will be noticed

not announced and that's the key instead of trying to prove something directly let time show you the truth because the moment that person realizes that you no longer feels the need to impress her the pain of regret sets in and now comes third and final rule the cruelest of all when that person finally tries to come back you need to treat them like a stranger here's the hard part at some point she'll try to start a conversation ask a random question or even create an excuse to get in touch and it is exactly at this

moment that you define everything if you respond as if nothing happened as if you were just a stranger on the street the pain of regret becomes unbearable because the truth is that no one wants to become irrelevant to someone they once cared about and that's the secret don't shout don't argue don't demand regret just become so unattainable that this person realizes alone how stupid they were to lose you now let's move on to the next scam because there's even more pain for those who thought they could play with you the worst punishment for those who

played with you and it doesn't involve any direct revenge few things are as frustrating for someone who played with you as realizing they have completely lost access to your life the cruelest punishment is not screaming not seeking revenge not trying to make that person pay in kind the real trick is making her feel invisible to you as if she never existed human beings have a psychological need to feel important nobody wants to be just one of the crowd when someone hurts you they bet that in some way you will react be it angry hurt or

even trying to understand what happened but when you don't give any of those answers when you act as if that person is irrelevant they enter a state of silent frustration where regret and doubt begin to gnaw away at their insides if there's something that breaks anyone it's the feeling that your presence or absence simply doesn't make a difference this person expected a confrontation a request for an explanation perhaps even an attempt at revenge but what does she get an absolute nothing no reaction no words no hint that you lost even a second of sleep because

of her and believe me this weighs much more than any calculated revenge this is where her pride begins to crack the human brain hates gaps and when that person realizes that you don't show any feelings be it love hate or resentment they begin to wonder was I not as important as I thought and this doubt can be more painful than any direct answer this becomes even more cruel when she begins to realize that her life has simply improved without her presence no hints no statements no forced posts trying to prove something you simply evolve do

you know what that means that while she thought she was in control you were out of the game a long time ago this is the kind of pain that lasts for months sometimes years because there is nothing worse than realizing too late that what was lost can never be recovered and the final blow never allow that person to come back because the real punishment is not just disappearing from her life the real punishment is to go about your life in a way that makes that person wonder every day how it was possible to lose you

forever now get ready because the next blow directly attacks the ego of those who once underestimated you reverse psychology how to make those who underestimate you feel the dumbest one in history nothing hurts someone's ego more than realizing they underestimated the wrong person there is a dangerous illusion that many people carry they think they can play with other people's feelings without consequences that they can step on humiliate or treat someone as disposable without it getting back to them in some way but life has a curious way of balancing things and when someone realizes they made

a big mistake in belittling you shame and regret become inevitable the secret to making this happen is not fighting arguing or trying to rub it in her face that you are worth much more than she imagined the mistake that many people make when they want to prove something to those who underestimated them is precisely trying to justify themselves this only reinforces the idea that you are still seeking validation the real humiliation happens when you simply prove with actions and without words that this person made a big mistake in doubting you what hits directly at the

pride of someone who underestimated you is not hearing a speech from you but rather realizing that while she saw you as someone weak or inferior you were growing evolving and becoming someone much greater than she ever imagined the psychological effect of this is devastating regret comes with a bitter taste when the person realizes that if they had treated you differently they could be by your side now enjoying your evolution but time doesn't come back and this realization becomes a heavy burden to carry down here smartest move to make someone feel like a complete idiot for

underestimating you is to simply win in silence while this person expected to see you on the ground suffering dwelling on the past what they see is the exact opposite you living your best phase unreachable indifferent without needing to prove anything to anyone regret in this case does not come because you did something against her but because you did something for you and here's the final straw the less this person has access to your success the stronger the impact don't fall into the trap of wanting to rub your victory in the face of those who belittled

you what destroys someone's pride the most is realising on their own that they made a huge mistake by not seeing their true value and when that realization finally arrives it's already too late to turn back now get ready because the next blow will hit the deadliest mistake this person made in hurting you the deadly mistake they made and how you can use it to destroy their ego every person who hurt you made a fatal mistake a mistake that at that moment she didn't even realize but that sooner or later will come back against her with

a devastating impact human beings have a predictable defect they only truly value something when they feel they have lost it while you were accessible while this person knew they could hurt you and still have your attention they didn't see your value but now everything has changed the mistake this person made was believing that you would always be there that they could treat you in any way without suffering the consequences the problem is that now she realizes that without you her life simply went on and even worse it got better someone's ego only begins to crumble

when they realize they underestimated someone who in the end was much more valuable than they realized and the cruelest blow you can give is to allow that person to come to that conclusion alone nothing destroys a person more than realizing that they made a mistake that they made the wrong choice that they wasted a valuable connection through arrogance or carelessness and the only way to make this happen in a truly ruthless way is to simply be living proof of her mistake while this person expected you to be out there hurt or trying to get revenge

what they see is someone who has blossomed who has become unapproachable who would never again accept what they once tolerated this is a direct blow to her pride because human beings hate admitting they made mistakes they hate feeling like they threw away something valuable life has a relentless way of teaching lessons and this person will inevitably reach the moment when they realize that they have lost you in an irreversible way the big problem for her is that when that happens when she finally understands what she has in her hands you will already be miles away

unreachable inescapable unattainable and that will be the biggest punishment she could receive now get ready because the next scam will ensure that this person will never again have even the illusion that they can come back into your life the raw truth why those who hurt you need to believe you never care if there's something that can eat someone up inside it's doubt and the biggest doubt you can plant in the mind of someone who hurt you is this did he she really care about me as long as this person believes that you still feel something

whether it's love anger or resentment they will know for certain that they still have power over you in some way but when you start to suspect that perhaps it was never that important the game changes completely human beings hate feeling like they were insignificant to someone the worst pain to anyone's ego isn't being hated it's being forgotten when you demonstrate that you have moved on with your life without effort without drama without any kind of resentment you plant in her mind the feeling that maybe everything she did never really mattered to you and this uncertainty

is a silent torture that slowly consumes you the mistake most people make is wanting to make it clear that they have suffered that they have been wronged that they are hurt but this only feeds the ego of those who hurt you this person may not show it but internally knowing they had an impact on you gives them a sense of control now when you act as if it was just a vague memory as if nothing that happened left any deep Mark the message that remains is you were never as important as you thought you were

and here's the cruel detail this doubt can lead this person to want one last contact to seek one last reckoning just to make sure that on some level they still have room in your life but if you really want to deliver the final blow never give the satisfaction never make it clear what you felt never let that person know if you cried if you suffered if you miss them because the truth is when she realizes that perhaps it was just another passage in her story regret hits her in a way she never expected now get

ready because the next blow will crush any hope this person has of ever regaining what they lost Marcus Aurelio's technique to crush those who tried to take you down without saying a word Marcus Aurelius one of the greatest emperors in the history of Rome and master of stoicism had a simple and lethal philosophy for dealing with enemies the best response to an attack is absolute indifference he understood something that few people realize those who attack you disrespect you or try to bring you down only have power over you if they can provoke a reaction and

if you want to crush someone who tried to diminish you the way is not to fight back justify yourself or seek revenge the real trick is to become someone so big so unattainable that they realize they never stood a chance against you the technique is brutal because it hits the most sensitive point of the human being the ego when someone tries to bring you down what they really want is to see that you felt the impact that you were shaken that they somehow managed to move you but when you simply ignore it follow your path

and grow even more she not only fails in her goal but also sees you becoming something you can never achieve now how to apply this technique in the most effective way first understand that all provocation is only effective if you allow it if this person expected you to fight back if they expected to see you shaken and all they get in return is deafening silence frustration begins to gnaw internally second direct all the energy that could be wasted on a fight towards something that really matters your progress with every step you take forward with every

silent victory you achieve that person feels like they've lost even more power over you and the final blow never look back never give the satisfaction of showing that at some point this person was relevant enough to affect you because the greatest humiliation anyone can suffer is not being attacked back the greatest humiliation is realizing that your attack was ignored as if it had been nothing more than a slight puff in the wind now get ready because the next blow is definitive proof that life always takes care of teaching the right lessons to those who deserve

it let life teach them the power of doing nothing and watching everything fall together for those who deserve it there is an old saying that goes do not interrupt your enemy while he is making a mistake and the truth is that often the e greatest punishment for those who hurt you doesn't come from you it comes from life itself people who act in a disloyal manipulative or arrogant way always believe that they are in control that they can continue to hurt others without consequences but what they don't realize is that this type of attitude creates

a domino effect that sooner or later returns to them like an avalanche the biggest mistake you can make is trying to speed up this process many people want to see justice happen immediately they want to prove they were right they want to ensure that those who hurt them pay and kind but in doing so they end up becoming so obsessed with others that they waste time and energy that they could be investing in themselves the real winning strategy is simply let life do the dirty work those who lie cheat and disrespect inevitably create a history

this person may seem like they are doing well now but sooner or later consequences arrive relationships fall apart friendships fall apart opportunities are lost and the most interesting thing when this happens the first thing this person thinks is I had someone loyal by my side someone who cared and I threw that away Marcus Aurelius said the best revenge is not to be like your enemy this means that instead of spending time trying to take matters into your own hands you simply focus on your own growth while the other person wallows in their own choices whoever

hurt you will inevitably reach a point where they need to look back and realize what they lost and when that moment comes you will already be so far away so above so unreachable that all that will be left for her will be regret and loneliness now get ready because the next blow is the final trick the exact moment to show that you have always been in control of this game when and how to deal the final blow the exact moment to show that you always won this game there comes a time when the person who

hurt you realizes they made a mistake it may take weeks months or even years but reality always knocks on the door and when that happens she often tries to come back it could be with a disguised message an attempt at an innocent approach or even a belated apology but here's the crux this is the exact moment to deliver the final blow the mistake most people make at this point is falling into the nostalgia trap when that person comes back whether with real remorse or just trying to test whether they still have access to you it's

common to feel a desire to respond provide closure to show that you're now on top but this is the biggest mistake you can make because the real final blow is not explosive revenge nor a speech of superiority the real final blow is the absolute indifference what destroys someone who once underestimated you is not being met with anger or hatred it's being greeted with nothing it's realising that there is no more space that you have already overcome that situation so much that it doesn't even make sense to revisit the past this person needs to feel that

there is no longer an open door that no matter what they say or do you have already moved on with your life without looking back nothing hurts someone's ego more than realising they've lost access to a version of themselves that will never exist again when that person left you or treated you badly they thought they could come back whenever they wanted but now everything has changed you are no longer available you are no longer at the same level as before you have become unreachable and that realization is a burden that person will carry forever the

final blow is not about hurting the other it is about showing that at the end of the day he was the one who lost not with words not with vengeful attitudes but with your own evolution because the best response to someone who hurt you is not to prove anything the best answer is to be someone that person can never touch again now tell me who won this game anyway well then now you understand that the worst punishment for those who hurt you does not come from fights revenge or desperate attempts to prove something true victory

happens when you become someone unreachable when those who disrespected you realize too late that they lost something valuable what destroys anyone's ego is not hate it is not an argument it is not a well devised retaliation plan what really eats a person up inside is knowing that at the end of the day you didn't care enough to look back it's realizing that while she saw you as disposable you grew evolved and became someone who would never need her again and now I ask you what are you going to do with it will you remain stuck

in the past dwelling on old pain trying to understand why you were treated this way or will you use that energy to build a version of yourself so strong that one day that person will deeply regret losing you if you've made it this far you already know the answer so do what needs to be done let go evolve become a mystery to those who thought they could hurt you without consequences because in the end the greatest revenge there is is not making someone pay it's showing that you never needed any of that to win now

before I leave I want to know which of these strategies impacted you the most which of them have you already applied in your life or intend to apply tell me here in the comments or leave the following sentence I have value this way I will be sure that you watched until the end and learn from the teachings that were given here and of course if this video made sense to you leave a like and share it with someone who needs to hear this message today see you in the next video