5 Ways God Acts When a Narcissist Uses and Abuses You | C.S. Lewis Sermons 2025

there are few experiences more devastating than being used and abused by a narcissist what begins as a seemingly perfect relationship often turns into a nightmare of manipulation control and emotional chaos narcissists are masters of Deceit weaving webs of lies to trap their victims in cycles of pain and confusion for those Caught In This Storm it can feel like God is silent as if your prayers are unheard and the Darkness is unrelenting but let me tell you a truth that will break through that Darkness God has not forgotten you he sees every wound every tear and

every moment of suffering his silence is not absence his delay is not indifference in fact God is already moving on your behalf in ways you cannot yet see the enemy may think he has won but The Battle Belongs to the Lord when God acts no Force of Darkness can stand in his way what you've endured was never part of God's design for you yet in his mercy and power he will turn it into something greater than you could ever imagine this message is not just about surviving abuse it's about understanding how God responds with Force

precision and purpose to rescue restore and Elevate you here are five powerful ways God Acts acts when a narcissist uses and abuses you each move is intentional and each Act is designed to bring you From the Ashes of pain into the light of his victory one God launches a Divine strike to break the narcissist's hold when a narcissist enters your life they rarely show their true colors at first they charm deceive and slowly weave a web of control around you over time what began as an innocent relationship turns into a suffocating prison of manipulation you

may feel trapped powerless and even question your own worth but take heart God is not a passive Observer he is a mighty warrior who Rises to fight for his children when the enemy presses in too far God's First Act is to break the narcissist grip on your life completely this is not a gentle nut it is a Divine strike aimed directly at the spiritual chains that have held you in bondage Isaiah 4213 paints this powerful image the Lord will March out like a champion Like a Warrior he will stir up his Zeal with a shout

he will raise the battlecry and will triumph over his enemies when God moves it often begins with disruption you might feel everything in your life shaking relationships unravel Hidden Truths come to light and the world you've known starts to crumble at first this can feel terrifying you may even question whether God is punishing you but in reality this disruption is a Divine Rescue Mission God is dismantling everything The Narcissist built around you peace by peace so that you can be free it may feel chaotic but this chaos is the sign that God's hand is at

work he does not negotiate with Darkness he destroys it when God acts The Narcissist power begins to fade their manipulation no longer holds the same weight what once confused you becomes clear the lies that kept you bound lose their grip as God cuts through the fog of deception one of the most profound ways God acts is through exposure he exposes the narcissist's true nature not only to you but to others suddenly their carefully constructed mask begins to slip people around them start to see the cracks the deceit and the selfish intentions that were once hidden

the narcissist's influence diminishes as the truth comes to light and the network of enablers they once relied on disappears Isaiah 54:17 declares no weapon formed against you shall prosper this is not just a comforting phrase it is a Heavenly decree the narcissists emotional manipulation verbal abuse and spiritual oppression were all weapons designed to break you but when God steps in those weapons fail every word spoken to harm you every plan to control you and every tactic used to diminish your identity is broken and rendered powerless by God's intervention what's even more remarkable is how God

simultaneous ly strengthens you as he breaks the narcissist's hold you begin to see yourself differently not as a victim but as a beloved child of God who is being rescued and restored your spiritual eyes are opened and you start to discern The Narcissist schemes before they can take root again God's Deliverance is not temporary it's complete and final once he breaks the chains there's no going back he surrounds you with his prote ction placing a hedge around your life that the enemy cannot penetrate this hedge is not only spiritual but also practical God begins to

remove toxic influences close doors that led to harm and open New Paths filled with peace and healing in the end this Divine strike is not just an act of rescue it's a declaration of war against everything that tried to destroy you God will not allow the enemy to claim victory in your life life he fights for you and he wins every time two God declares judgment and brings down the narcissist there comes a moment when God's justice is no longer withheld and his judgment Falls with the full weight of his righteousness it is not a

small correction or a light warning it is a decisive and Unstoppable act that brings down the schemes of the wicked for the narcissist who has used and abused you believe beling they could Escape accountability God's judgment is inevitable he sees everything they have done not a single lie manipulation or betrayal escapes his sight narcissists are experts at Deception they build their lives on lies and false appearances carefully crafting an image of control and success outwardly they seem Invincible Untouchable and above consequences but when God moves in judgment the very Foundation they built on begins to

crumble Isaiah 29:15 reminds us woe to those who go to Great depths to hide their plans from the Lord who do their work in darkness and think who sees us who will know the answer is simple God knows the narcissist world begins to collapse not because of coincidence but because God himself initiates the downfall it often starts slow holy Hidden Truths come to light once loyal supporters distance themselves and cracks appear in their carefully constructed image at first The Narcissist May fight back trying to regain control but God's judgment is Relentless No Lie can hold

up under his truth and no manipulation can withstand his Justice God's judgment is always measured and perfect it comes at exactly the right time though it may feel delayed to us you may have cried out for justice wondering if God was listening watching as the narcissists seem to prosper despite their wrongdoing but God's timing is not ours he waits until the perfect moment when his judgment will bring both Justice and protection for you Proverbs 16:18 warns us Pride goes Before Destruction a hay spirit before a fall for the The Narcissist pride is their defining trait

they believe they are Untouchable immune to consequences but when God's judgment Falls their pride becomes their downfall it's not just a stumble it's a complete collapse what once seems solid crumbles into dust as God dismantles every part of their deception their plans unravel their alliances break apart and the resources they depended on disappear God's judgment is also a shield for his children he doesn't act in Vengeance for vengeance his sake his judgment is meant to protect to rescue and to restore while the narcissist faces the consequences of their actions you are being pulled out of

the storm and brought into a place of safety and healing the very judgment that brings their downfall becomes your deliverance God Cuts them off from your life ensuring they no longer have the power to harm you sometimes this judgment is visible and undeniable it may be public exposure of their true character the loss of their influence or a sudden reversal of Fortune other times it happens quietly doors close opportunities vanish and the narcissist is left isolated and Powerless what they once used to control you is Stripped Away leaving them defenseless before God's truth Romans 12:19

reminds us do not take revenge my dear friends but leave room for God's wroth for it is written it is mine to avenge I will repay says the Lord this is one of the hardest lessons to learn to let go of the desire for personal revenge and Trust God's perfect Justice you may want to see immediate consequences to witness their fall firsthand but God's justice is far more thorough and complete than anything we could orchestrate on our own he doesn't just bring judgment he brings resolution and restoration it's crucial in these moments to keep your

heart free from bitterness bitterness is a trap a tool the enemy uses to keep you bound even after you've been set free God's judgment is your opportunity to release the pain and walk in Victory his Justice is not about giving you satisfaction through their downall but about restoring your life and clearing the path for your healing and growth Isaiah 61:7 promises instead of your shame you will receive a double portion and instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your inheritance this is the heart of God's judgment not just to punish the wicked but to restore

everything that was stolen from you what the narcissists tried to take your peace your joy your confidence God will return to you tenfold his Justice always lead leads to Restoration so when you begin to see God's judgment unfold don't look back don't allow anger or resentment to take root instead stand firm and declare Lord I trust your Justice I release the need for revenge and walk in the freedom you have given me if you believe that God's judgment is at work on your behalf comment below with the words I trust your Justice Lord this is

your Declaration of Faith your acknowledgment that God is fighting for you and your commitment to leave the battle in his hands three God breaks generational curses and patterns one of the most powerful acts of God's intervention is breaking the chains of generational curses and destructive patterns that open the door for the narcissist to enter your life in the first place these curses often go unnoticed but silently re Havoc for Generations repeating cycles of toxic relationships manipulation and emotional pain the narcissist is not just an isolated figure they are often part of a broader spiritual attack

that has plagued your family line for years but God In His Infinite Mercy steps into your story and puts an end to it once and for all he doesn't just free you from The Narcissist he destroys the entire system of bondage that has affected your family for Generations Isaiah 586 declares is not this the fast that I choose to loose the bonds of wickedness to undo the straps of the Yoke to let the oppressed Go free and to break every yoke this is the heart of God's plan for you not just Escape but total freedom

generational curses can manifest in many ways cycles of abusive relationships where you you repeatedly find yourself drawn to people who harm and manipulate you emotional strongholds like shame fear or feelings of unworthiness that seem to pass down from parent to child addictions and destructive behaviors that Run Deep In The Family Tree financial struggles and setbacks that prevent forward progress despite your best efforts for years these patterns may have gone unchallenged silently shaping your life and decisions but God sees the bigger picture he isn't just interested in healing your present pain he wants to heal your

entire family line when God acts he doesn't leave any stone unturned he begins to cut off every source of bondage that has held you captive this process often starts with revelation God will open your spiritual eyes to see the patterns you've been stuck in patterns you may never have noticed before suddenly you recognize the familiar cycle and it becomes clear that the narcissist was not just an accident they were part of a larger spiritual attack designed to keep you in Chains once God exposes the root he breaks it this breaking is not gentle it is

fierce final and undeniable the same way he delivered the Israelites from Egypt with a mighty hand he delivers you from every spiritual curse and stronghold Psalm 107:14 describes it beautifully he brought them out of Darkness the utter darkness and broke away their chains this is not a temporary reprieve it is permanent Freedom you may experience this breaking in various ways relationships that once seemed unshakable suddenly end without explanation long-standing habits or addictions lose their grip on you opportunities for healing and growth that were previously blocked begin to open a deep inner peace replaces the chaos

and turmoil that once ruled your life this breaking is not always comfortable in fact it can feel like everything is falling apart at once but in reality God is tearing down what needs to be removed to build something new and unshakable in its place you are not just being set free you are being being repositioned for a future that is free from the baggage of the past God's breaking of generational curses is not just for you it's for your children and future Generations what God begins in you becomes a ripple effect that changes the course

of your family's Destiny Joel 2:25 promises I will restore to you the years that the swarming Locust has eaten God's restoration doesn't just return what was lost it multiplies it your healing becomes a foundation for those who come after you to build on you may have believed for years that you were destined to live under the weight of these patterns but let me assure you God has declared a new beginning you are the one chosen to break the cycle and step into a new chapter filled with freedom peace and purpose what was once a curse

has now become a testimony of God's power and Grace this is your moment to declare the chains stop with me in Christ my family is free from Every curse and we walk in God's favor and restoration if you're ready to walk in that freedom comment below with the words the curse is broken let it be a declaration of your faith and your Victory through Christ for God equips you as a spiritual Warrior when God delivers you from the control of a narcissist he doesn't just rescue resue you and leave you vulnerable he transforms you into

a warrior equipped with spiritual weapons and the authority to stand firm against every future attack what once weakened you is now your source of strength the battles you fought and the pain you endured were never wasted they were your training ground and God has been preparing you for something greater at first you may not recognize the change the scars from The Narcissist manipulation may seem overwhelming but slowly and surely God begins to rebuild you from the inside out he fortifies your spirit sharpens your discernment and strengthens your resolve Isaiah 43031 declares but those who hope

in the Lord will renew their strength they will soar on wings like eagles they will run and not grow weary they will walk and not be faint the process begins with Spiritual Awakening suddenly you begin to see things clearly lies that once held power over you lose their grip and God opens your eyes to the truth you start recognizing patterns of manipulation and deceit that you once overlooked the Holy Spirit becomes your compass guiding you in truth and warning you when danger is near God equips you with the tools to fight back not in the

Physical Realm but in the spiritual one Ephesians 610 11 reminds us be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes you are no longer defenseless God clothes you with his armor giving you the belt of Truth to stand against lies the breastplate of righteousness to guard your heart The Shield of Faith to extinguish every fiery Dart aimed at you and the sword of the spirit which which is the word of God to cut through every deceitful word

and accusation your prayers become your most powerful weapon where you once prayed timidly unsure if God was listening you now pray with boldness and Authority you begin to declare his promises with confidence knowing that heaven moves when you call on his name James 5:16 reminds us the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective each prayer becomes a strike against the enemy's plans dismantling every stronghold and breaking Every Chain as God equips you he restores your identity The Narcissist may have tried to reduce you to nothing to make you believe you are weak and

worthless but God speaks a different word over your life he calls you strong Chosen and Victorious he reminds you that you are never defined by what you endured you are defined by who you are in him God doesn't stop at healing you he elevates you the wisdom and strength you've gained through the battle are not just for your protection they are tools to help others your experience becomes a testimony of God's power and Grace and he positions you to encourage those still trapped in similar situations where you once felt broken and defeated you now stand

as a Beacon of Hope for others leading them toward Freedom the enemy's greatest mistake was thinking you would stay down but God has turned your pain into Power your wounds into weapons and your battle into a Ministry you are no longer a victim you are a warrior fully equipped and fully protected by the one who fights for you now you walk with confidence no longer afraid of what lies ahead you have been trained by the battles you've survived and you carry the authority of a child of God the enemy may try again but now you

know how to fight you will never be deceived the same way again stand firm Warrior of God the days of weakness are over you are ready for every challenge that lies ahead fully armed and fully empowered by the one who never fails five God reverses the enemy's plan hands and turns them into your Victory when you've endured the cruelty and manipulation of a narcissist it can feel like they've stolen something from you that can never be restored your peace your joy your sense of self everything they touched seems tainted but here is a profound truth

God never leaves his children in defeat he doesn't just restore what was lost he reverses every plan the enemy intended for harm and transforms it into Victory what felt like the end becomes a Divine Turning Point a moment where God's power is fully revealed Genesis 50:20 declares you intended to harm me but God intended it for good this is not just a comforting verse it's a Divine strategy God is a master at turning the enemy's schemes into opportunities for elevation what the narcissist thought would break you God uses to build you into something stronger every

attack every setback every tear becomes part of the story God is writing a story of victory that only he could orchestrate God's reversal often begins in ways we don't expect the very places where you experience the greatest pain become the places where you experience the greatest healing what once brought you shame becomes a source of strength God lifts you out of the ashes and sets You On Solid Ground Joel 2:25 promises I will restore to you the years that the Locust has eaten this restoration is not just about recovering what was taken it's about receiving

something far greater than you could have imagined God doesn't just stop at restoration he promotes you the battle that was meant to destroy you becomes the Catalyst for your elevation doors that were once closed cles begin to open opportunities that seemed impossible become reality the people who once doubted you are left speechless as they watch God's hand move powerfully in your life Psalm 2305 declares you prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies what a picture of God's reversal you feasting while the enemy watches from the sidelines powerless to stop what God

is doing in your life but God's reversal isn't just just about external blessings it's an internal transformation as well he rewrites your identity the lies the narcissists spoke over you no longer have power the labels they try to place on you unworthy broken weak are replaced with God's truth beloved chosen Victorious you begin to see yourself through his eyes no longer defined by your past you walk in the freedom and strength that only God can give the beauty of God's reversal is that it's not just about recovery it's about multiplication what you lost God returns

with interest he gives back more than you ever thought possible relationships are restored but this time they are healthy lifegiving and rooted in truth your peace is not just returned it becomes unshakable your confidence isn't just rebuilt it becomes a reflection of your god-given identity God's reverse Cal is also a weapon against the enemy what the enemy thought would Silence You Now becomes your greatest testimony your story is a Beacon of Hope for others a living declaration that no plan of the enemy can Prevail against God's power Revelation 1211 declares they triumphed over him by

the blood of the lamb and by the word of their testimony your testimony is a weapon cutting through the darkness and bringing light to those still trapped in toxic Cycles every attack that was meant to destroy you is now a stepping stone for your destiny the enemy's greatest mistake was thinking you were weak thinking you wouldn't survive the storm but God had another plan a plan to use the very storm to strengthen you refine you and prepare you for something greater you are not just a Survivor you are a conqueror walking in the power and

authority of God God's reversal is a public Declaration of his sovereignty The Narcissist who once gloated over their perceived Victory is left watching as God elevates you to Heights they could never reach their schemes their lies their manipulation all of it becomes dust Beneath Your Feet as God leads you forward this isn't just a small reversal it's a complete overturning of everything the enemy tried to do in the end you'll realize that the battle wasn't just about surviving it was about becoming God didn't just want to rescue you he wanted to transform you you've come

out of the fire stronger wiser and filled with a deeper Faith than ever before every scar is a reminder of his faithfulness every battle a testimony of his power if you feel the tide turning in your life if you sense that God is reversing the enemy's plans declare it boldly what the enemy meant for evil God is turning for good my victory is coming God never leaves his children broken or defeated every battle you've faced every tear you've cried and every prayer you've whispered has been part of a greater plan when the enemy tried to

destroy you God stepped in to protect restore and equip you for something far greater than you could imagine his Justice is perfect his timing is Flawless and his love for you is unshakable you are no longer a victim of what was done to you you are a living testimony of God's power and faithfulness the enemy's plans have been shattered and the chains that once bound you are gone forever God has not only brought you out of the storm but he has also prepared you for New Heights what was meant for your harm has become the

foundation for your Victory now is your time to walk in boldness trust that the same God who delivered you will continue to guide and protect you every step of the way he has restored what was taken multiplied His blessings in your life and equipped you for the battles ahead declare it today I am free I am strong I am victorious in Christ the chains that once bound me are broken the past no longer controls me and I am stepping boldly into the future God has ordained for my life every attack of the enemy has been

defeated Every Lie exposed and every plan meant for my harm has been turned into a testimony of God's power I am covered by his grace strengthened by his spirit and walking in the fullness of his victory no weapon formed against me will succeed and no force of Darkness can stop the purpose and Destiny God has set before me this is my time to rise and walk in his promise