No One Can Insult You After This | 5 Best Ways To Get Respect From Others | Buddhist Story

once upon a time there used to be a beautiful and Serene Village among the tall and enchanting Hills in that Village there lived a young man named Peter Peter was very polite and humble but a poor man Peter was very thoughtful Peter had a few friends in his life who were living in his neighborhood whenever Peter went somewhere with his friends other people would respect and honor all of Peter's friends but Peter did not get the same respect and honor one day when Peter did not feel at home he went to a nearby River of

his village he reached there with a very heavy heart and a disturbed mind he started wondering why people don't respect others and why people went on humiliating others without any proper reason why is the whole behavior of this world based on humiliating and insulting each other don't know how many thoughts disturbing the peace of mind were roaming in his mind being troubled by the negative behavior of others towards him Peter rushed to his old monk who was highly capable of resolving such types of materialistic miseries in the twinkling of an eye the old monk used

to reside in his great and huge Monastery nestled in the high rough terrain when Peter reached the monastery he saw that the monk was lost in his own deep meditation completely and a few people were sitting at his feet to seek the Master's guidance and advice at First Peter sat down among those people and began to wait for his turn when the monk opened his merciful eyes he saw some people troubled by life's problems and sufferings now the monk began to resolve everyone's sufferings one by one when Peter's turn came he stood up bowed down

before the monk respectfully and then knelt down at his feet when the monk asked Peter about his well-being Peter began to cry bitterly and poured out his heart before the monk Peter said to the monk so no one respects me and neither considers me worthy of anything everyone takes me for granted like my my friends family members and relatives whenever I express my opinion on something among my friends they ignore it or ignore my point and sometimes they even make fun of me I have the same condition among my family and relatives now I too

am beginning to believe that I am a person whom no one respects Peter further said sir Wherever I Go people treat me like a man of no use on hearing all this the monk smiled warmly and asked Peter my child what do you want then Peter said sir I want everyone to respect and value me I want everyone to listen to my words with attention and never ignore me on this the monk said to Peter no one can disrespect and humiliate anyone no one can embarrass anyone until you allow people to do so to yourself

people humiliate and disrespect you because it is you who have made yourself Weak by not making yourself strong and powerful you are living in a world world where most of the time the strong people harass the weak and helpless people just like a father insults his children the husband insults his wife the rich insults the poor and the monk insults his servant that is to say whoever is strong in this world he insults the weak you must have to understand this very deeply why people don't honor you why people don't look up to you you

have to figure out the attitude of people's mentality the way they think and the way how they look at things that's why today I am going to impart to you five such ways that if you enforce them well in your life then people will bow down and salute you means people will take you seriously respect you and listen to your words carefully and will never try to ignore you again then listen carefully to these five life-changing and respect bringing lessons the first Habit to learn is to say no to people if you agree with people

just to make them happy and look good in their eyes eyes then by doing so you're only taking yourself down because people start taking such a person for granted who says yes to everything they say and cannot say no to people such people lose their self-respect and this makes the other person feel that you have no thoughts of your own you don't have any opinion of your own you just keep saying yes to everyone all the time and whenever you are unable to say no to anyone then people also stop taking your consent in any

work because they think that what is there to ask him he will definitely agree and when you start saying yes to every task of the people then people stop respecting your time and they will start giving you the work which they could have done themselves because of your hesitation you will keep doing those things without even thinking cursing yourself and in this way you will also waste the time which you could have used in improving and bettering yourself moreover the person in front of you will not even appreciate your help because you will feel that

you do the same for everyone hence learn not to speak yes every time whether to do the work of the person in front of you or not first think carefully and only then say yes it is not necessary that you will be happy only when you keep everyone happy but by saying yes to everyone's work you will keep yourself unhappy and at the same time your respect will also go down so learn to say no when necessary the second chapter you have to learn is that you have to stop complaining Peter because every person is

already having some or the other problem in their life but no one likes the person who keeps complaining and crying all the time about his problems everyone runs away from him everyone wants to get rid of him because everyone is already engrossed in the problems of their lives so they need someone who can make them laugh make them feel good lighten the burden of their mind and take them away from their problems for for a while not such a person who keeps crying in front of him about his problems and Sorrows of life so stop

complaining and try to find a solution to your every problem yourself moreover there is no point in telling people your problems of life as they will either make fun of you behind your back or start running away from you therefore if you want to maintain your self-respect and be respected by people then give up the habit of complaining all the time forever thereafter the monk told Peter the third lesson of getting people's respect the monk said to Peter don't always be available to people if you are always available to everyone then people will stop respecting

you and people will start considering you a piece of trash Peter no matter how valuable we consider anyone in our life no matter how much importance we give the person in front considers us useless Peter when we give more importance to someone in our life then we lose our respect and importance in that person's life Peter always remember that in this world the one who is less available is valuable the one who is more available has no value just like a person cannot live without water but he does not value water due to its more

availability on the other hand a person can live without a Precious Diamond but considers it more valuable than water due to its less availability that's why the less available you are to people the more people will seek you out the more people will respect you fourth lesson always do what you have said always remember that no one likes a dishonest and unreliable person if you want people to respect you value you and give you due respect then never make false promises and false words to anyone do not lie and fulfill what you have said at

any cost if you are true to your words then everyone will definitely respect you if you lie to people then respect is a big thing no one will believe you even for a moment moment that's why live up to what you have said and only then people will respect you otherwise not if you are firm in your promises and decisions then everyone will surely respect you people lose their respect among their friends and Society just because of their false promises and words so always avoid these respect ravaging things otherwise you will also be losing your

respect among your loved ones after this the monk stopped for a while and said Peter it takes years to build respect but we lose it easily because of our small mistakes and bad habits this is also a reason because of which people do not respect us after imparting these four valuable lessons to Peter the monk told him the last lesson to get honored and respected the monk said to Peter my child one of the biggest reasons for our humiliation in this world and Society is our poverty Peter a poor man in this world has no

friend nor any relative he gets insult and embarrassment everywhere in this world at every step of his life in such a situation a poor person starts considering himself a curse moreover the biggest insult a poor person has to face in his life is in his own home when the news spreads around us that we do not have money then everyone starts looking at us with pity for a poor person living in this world is like walking on the path of thorns so develop some such quality in yourself with the help of which you can get

out of this poverty trap this is also a big reason due to which no one respects you if you want everyone to respect you value you then you will have to change yourself you will have to make yourself the best version of yourself and then you will be able to see people respecting you valuing you so after saying all this the monk stopped preaching Peter and blessed him with a bright and happy future life where there will be no more disrespect for him after blessing Peter the monk began to meditate again now Peter stood up

and thanked the master for imparting him these five Immortal lessons Peter again bowed respectfully before the master and returned from there now Peter applied all the five teachings of the monk into his life and in no time he was able to see the incoming big changes that brought respect honor and valuation in his life and this completely changed Peter's life now everyone started respecting and and honoring him people also began to see him as a man of high values in this way Peter had achieved the people's respect which he always wanted to achieve