your task is to make your mind the most beautiful thing about you your intelligence and your knowledge is something no one can ever take away from you so make sure that you invest into your mind hello my angels in this video I'm going to teach you how to become seductively intelligent so the first thing you have to be and this is where a lot of people already fail is you have to be curious when I started reading philosophy I was like 14 back then all of the great ancient philosophers basically said this philosopher is someone
who never lost his childhood curiosity this is what drives you at the end because if you are not curious why is the sky blue why do we have to work why do we have to pay taxes why do I have to plant this seed into this Earth why do flowers bloom then your mind is basically at the point where you accept everything in life as it is you don't have the desire to question your reality you don't have the desire to get to the point where you question your own belief so nurture this curiosity within
yourself because if you are not curious about how the world around you is functioning how do you supposed to be full of desire for getting new knowledge if I talk to someone no matter how old this person is no matter what they are no matter if they have a PhD no matter if they are homeless I think to myself this person can teach me something I never I never go to people and think I'm better than them yeah this is just a child this is just an old person this is just a homeless person no
every single person on this planet knows something that you don't and therefore every single person on this planet can teach you something about something you don't know yet or you don't know to an extent they do know and be open to get that Knowledge from whatever Source I don't say trust all sources this is something I will talk about later but be open to get Knowledge from every kind of source from talking to people from books from documentations from everything sit back and observe and ask yourself how much do I really know because most times
people are so stuck in their life like from their daily routines they wake up they go to work they come home they eat that they don't even have the time left or the the energy left to question their reality around them but if you really sit down at the park you don't take your phone with you okay you sit at the park and You observe just observe nature observe the birds observe the sky observe everything that's going on you will think to yourself oh my God there is so much going on and I don't know
anything about this don't just accept reality except the fact that you have been told to but question them because how solid can your opinion be if you never dare to question it this is something I have observed in a lot of people people the second you question their opinion they feel attacked I used to argue a lot in high school like always debated and I would want people to question my opinion because I thought to myself if I can't even defend my opinion if in front of someone who's attacking my opinion using logic not using
emotions not saying your opinions dumb but using logic because if you can't even defend your opinion to someone else who's attacking your opinion in a logical and well mannered respectful way then how solid can your opinion be if it's already attacked the second someone questions your belief how solid is your opinion if that's the case so argue with people like when I was younger I used to be a lot of on those websites where you can argue with people one of these websites is called quora I think I was on this website all the time
and and I used to read all the debates on different topics on Politics on psychology on philosophy and I would read the arguments of other people and sometimes I would argue with them it puts you into a really interesting position where you have to defend your opinion and your knowledge and where you have to say Okay this is my opinion because of this and this and this and that this is my belief because of this and this and this and that so seek out these debates with people and sit at the table with them or
meet with them or even text with them as long as it's respectful it's okay because it stimulates your mind it not only stimulates your mind to get your beliefs questioned but it also stimulates your mind to question the beliefs of other people to ask them okay you're an atheist why are you an atheist why don't you believe in god oh you think like uh that we should have communism why do you think that capitalism is bad why do you think that capitalism is good just ask them questions be curious curiosity is like the source of
all knowledge if you are not curious while you learn new facts it's not going to stay in your mind because you read it and you're like oh this is so boring I can't wait to like close this book and go back to watch Tik toks the second thing is never and I repeat myself never believe anything you read you watch or you see media is controlled by the government most of people online who tell you something about someone else this is just their own perception of that person based on their own experience with that person
with that company or whatever they are talking badly about don't just believe that I see that all the time when people like on Tik Tok they create drama around another person and everyone in the comments is like oh my God oh my God how can they do this why do you believe this why do you see a single Tik Tok on your for you page telling you person X is such a bad person and you idea this is true is Tik Tok your only source of knowledge is Tik Tok a reliable source of knowledge for
you to see it and to believe it the second you see it please have some self-respect by not believing anything you see especially not on Tik Tok especially not on social media do your own research never allow someone else to form your opinion for you this is how you use your free will okay by saying okay this is your opinion thank you for letting me know these informations and now I'm taking my time and I'm forming my own opinion because I don't have to adapt your opinion you don't have to adapt the opinion of anyone
around you even if the government is telling you you have to believe this and this and this is the bad guy and this is the good guy and you have to believe this no I don't have to believe anything I don't have to believe anything media is used to control people because you can control a huge amount of people of masses of people by controlling the media by controlling what they see every day when they turn on TV by controlling what they hear every day when they turn on the radio this is the most powerful
tool of manipulation in this way you can influence their whole mind and if you influence their mind and their opinion about the situation or about the person this is where you have the full control over this person because they are predictable then if I say to my best friend this person is a bad person and she believes me the second I tell it to her she is sort of predictable for me because I know okay next time she sees that person she will have a negative feeling in herself because I told her these informations about
this person never believe anything okay think for yourself you have a brain and you can use it you don't have to borrow the brain or the opinion of anyone else if you don't like this opinion and whenever you do observe something or someone don't be so quick to judge because once we have formed a solid judgment about something about the situation about the person or observation will become tinted with that judgment we have already created we will just observe the situation through the lenses of our own judgment so don't be so quick to judge sit
back observe and think to yourself okay I'm just collecting information right now the time and place to judge is not now this is a mistake that that most people want to do they want to give you their opinion and present it as a fact if someone tells you Tom is such a bad person this is not necessarily true this is their perception of Tom based on their subjective experience they had with Tom this doesn't mean oh Tom is a bad person this means they think Tom is a bad person and this is something that happens
in media all the time like he cheated on her she cheated on him hi how do you know that that's true how do you know where are you there where are you there at this time and and this place where this happened how do you know that that's true did you talk to him no did you gave him the opportunity to defend himself and to talk no if someone talks badly about someone else and this other person doesn't even have the opportunity to defend themselves because they are not in the same room how true and
how solid can their opinion be because if it was so true and solid they would have stated in front of them to give them the opportunity to express their view of things but now they do it behind their backs because that's the only way that you just get to listen to their opinion to their view of the story so never confuse opinions with facts the next thing is that you have to SU somehow be able to change certain opinions you have about a situation when someone really presents you facts about the situation that are true
like objective facts about an event that's happening not about a person not about a perception of a single character but this is something I have observed as well so many times like people are so stubborn about their opinions that even if you present them the facts that this opinion is really objective L wrong they don't want to they don't want to admit they don't want to admit because they cling their whole identity to this one opinion to this one belief they have and that there is no room left for them to change because changing would
mean that they would have to love their ego behind and would have to say oh okay you're right like I am wrong this is something intelligent people know they can be wrong they know okay the the opinion I had when I was 15 is not the opinion I will have now the opinion I have now might not be the opinion I have in 10 years because things can change or opinions can change new facts can be presented to us which change our view on things or people or situations so don't be so stubborn don't be
so stubborn about certain opinions because there is always room for Change and change is necessary because if we don't change if we cling onto one thing our whole life and even if someone presents us facts that this thing is not true and we are like no this is my opinion I won't let go of it you leave no room for growth there you leave no room for your own growth there because you refuse to accept that change is necessary so there's this thing that I said recently on my private account and I said that people
who give really good advice give advice about topics they have been through themselves for example me I give advice based on Mental Health on trauma on confidence because I have been through these things like all the advice I give to you guys are things that I would have wished someone would have told me earlier you know there's a difference between book smart and street or experience smart and as you know I read a lot I love to read I love to educate Myself by reading but also you have to combine your experience with what you
read in books and if you combine these two things your experience and the information you get from books The Logical view this is where you have really insightful advice and insightful knowledge when I was in therapy the therapist like they told me all different kind of things on how can I deal with my emotions and I thought to myself okay I feel like as if this person is just quoting what they once read in the book oh they they didn't had childhood trauma they didn't have the toxic relationship but but they are out there trying
to tell you this is what you can do in a toxic relationship this is what you can do when you are depressed oh maybe go outside and you know go take a sun bath it's draining it's draining for people like me who have been actually through it and know that it's not as easy because the things to read about in self- health books and in psychology books are not always helping and if you have been through certain things yourself you know exactly what's helping and you know exactly what kind of advice is completely superficial because
telling a depressive person oh go clean your room will not help on the long way this will just not help you like you will remove an effect but you won't remove the cause of this effect because someone who's depressed and is organized therefore the cause is that they are depressed and the cause for the depression is not that they are not organized this is just the effect of their depression if you really want to learn about new things if you want to get advice go to people who can give you that advice because they have
been through the same things like I said if you want to be a millionaire you ask a millionaire if you want to build a beautiful garden you ask someone who has a beautiful garden if you want someone to teach you how to I don't know speak Russian you go to people who already do this who can do this and not people who just read a single cell pH book about this and think like they have been fed wisdom with a spoon this is not how it works you have to have experience in an area and
all to teach others how to do it because otherwise they will sense that your advice is just superficial know that there are different types of intelligence there is this logic intelligence this EQ and there's this EQ which means emotional intelligence I know people who are very very intelligent when it comes to logic and facts and how to combine things but emotionally they are like not intelligent at all don't just focus on one form of intellig Ence and leave the other ones behind because at the end of the day and I speak for a fact the
people who make the most money that I know are not the people who read the most books or who have the highest degree these are the people who have used emotional their emotional intelligence in order to work with other people in order to get their business done in order to make something out of their life because if you have emotional intelligence you just know how to act around people you know know how to sell something to someone you know how to talk to a potential client but if you just have this book smart knowledge just
rational knowledge this is something you're leaking and you need to work on that then don't confuse grades with intelligence I say this in the best and respectful way possible you being good in school means that you have the ability to be very disciplined and to learn but it doesn't really really say anything about how intelligent you are like maybe to a certain extent but not above this I did an EQ test once when I was younger in a Psychiatry and my EQ is very very high above the average I won't tell you because I don't
really think that the IQ is that solid or a good source for your actual intelligence there are a lot of different factors which can you know change the result of an acut test but I was like until the 10th grade I was the best person in my class I was like without learning I was just always the best in class after that when I changed school I got really really depressed and I had to fight with things in my life and therefore I wasn't the best anymore I wasn't even good anymore why not because I'm
not intelligent or because you know I'm dumb but because I had problems in my life who were keeping me from using my whole potential IAL because if your brain is in a traumatic atmosphere if your brain is facing difficult things like if you are facing depression your brain will use most of your energy to survive to keep yourself alive because you're fighting against the urge to vanish from this Earth every day and therefore there is no much energy left for learning for sitting down and you know reading a book so even if you don't do
good in school right now know that this says nothing I repeat nothing about your intelligence this says something about a lot of different things about your mental health maybe about your discipline but it doesn't say anything about your intelligence next question I always get from you guys is how do I remember what I read how can I really use my knowledge because most people they they read the book and when they close that book maybe like 2% of that knowledge is left in their brain and there's this one thing thing okay I always do when
I learn about a new topic the the first thing I do is I educate my friends about that topic because there is no better way than remembering what you learn at the moment than teaching others about this telling others about this make PowerPoint presentations about this you are forced to explain what you have just read you are forced to explain what you have just learned to another person and this is a way for you to repeat your knowledge and to see okay I really do understand this I can explain it to someone else like note
it down make PowerPoint presentations explain it to other people ask other people for their knowledge about this this is the way you can make sure that you really make this knowledge stick into your brain and whenever you feel like you forget about it just go through your notes go through your PowerPoint presentations like for every book you read you could make a cute little PowerPoint presentation and you can watch this presentation whenever you have the feeling of oh I don't really remember what I read anymore my father always told me when from when I was
a child he always told me people can and will take everything from you they can take your money they can take your car they can take your family everything can be taken away from you but there's one thing that no one can take away from you and this is your knowledge this is what you feed your mind with and what you put into your brain Therefore your mind has to be the richest place of everything it's not helping if you decorate your external environment with big bags like expensive cars and I don't know but the
moment someone takes everything of this away from you there's nothing left because you never feed your mind so really learn to feed your mind and stay curious stay open ask questions be curious about everything thank you so much for watching my videos guys I love you and please take care of yourself