The 5 People You Need in Your Inner Circle

you know research has proven time and time again that your habits your beliefs and even your health change a lot based on the people you surround yourself with or to put it simply you are the average of The Five People You spend most of your time with your inner circle now here's the problem though most people leave this up to chance they stick with their immediate family their childhood friends and co-workers and honestly that's why the average person stays well average but what if you took control of this what if you intentionally filled your inner

circle with the kinds of relationships that would Elevate every part of your life your friendships your relationships even your business Partnerships you see there are five key types of relationships that can transform your life and in this video we're going to show you exactly who they are and how to find them and if you stick around until the end will reveal the one thing you need to do to easily attract the highest quality people into your life welcome to alux the place where future billionaires come to get inspired let's dive in so starting off with

a biggie number one your romantic partner because look there's a good reason that people say who you marry is the single most important decision you'll ever make your romantic partner is the one person you share all of your dreams with the one person who sees all your highs and lows and whose opinion factors into almost every decision you make who they are are has a big influence on who you become that's why it's so important to choose a romantic partner who will amplify your growth not drag you down think about it if your partner doesn't

align with your Ambitions or values they can drain your energy and derail your progress just imagine trying to achieve a big career Milestone but your partner constantly criticizes your dreams or wants something else entirely that disconnect doesn't just hurt emotionally it affects your focus and makes it less likely for you to achieve your goals so what does a strong romantic partner look like at its core it's someone you genuinely like who genuinely likes you and who shares your values whether it's ambition personal growth or the importance of family if you dream of building a business

for example they don't have to be an entrepreneur themselves but they should respect and encourage you simply put they know where you want to go in life and they want to go there with you that's the foundation of a relationship that's built to last and when you find a person like that they have a funny way of improving every other part of your life too remember this sort of thing takes patience and a little bit of Courage but when you approach it with intention you're setting yourself up for Success because at the end of the

day your romantic partner is who you share your life with they are the very core of Your Inner Circle then there's number two your Confidant because let's face it everybody goes through stress setbacks and challenges right life isn't always easy but that's what friends are for your Confidant is your ultimate friend the one who's got your back any place anytime no questions asked but it's also someone you can have some innocent fun with the thing is the wrong kind of friend can waste your time and slowly poison your life someone who thrives on drama negativity

and bad habits will bring those same things into your world it's contagious like if the only thing you and your best friend do together is drink honestly what effect do you think that's going to have on you remember the quality of people you spend time with directly affects the quality of person you are so Choose Wisely now what are the qualities of a great confidant well for starters she'll probably have some shared Hobbies interests and similar sense of humor but here's the key those hobbies and interests should add to your life a bond over Gul

or reading is far more fulfilling than a bond over useless Habits Like complaining about politics or endless partying and they're also the kind of friend that you can call for advice share a laugh with and they won't judge you for your deepest Secrets basically when they need to be your confident is a good old-fashioned friend but when duty calls they're your rock the person who helps you stay grounded inspired and emotionally strong no matter what life throws your way that kind of support is priceless which is why they deserve their spot inside your inner circle

all right now on to number three your career partner now there's a famous saying in business if you want to go fast go alone if you want to go far go together if you're serious about success having a strong career partner is a non-negotiable this is your business partner or your trusted colleague they're the person who works alongside you to build something extraordinary and hopefully to make the both of you rich but be careful because the wrong career partner can do some serious damage someone who lacks Vision motivation or Integrity can hold you back in

ways you might not even notice until it's too late imagine starting a business with a childhood friend who cuts Corners avoids tough decisions and lacks the ambition to scale you're going to waste more time cleaning up their mess than actually building your dream so you've got to choose your career partner very carefully but how well you need someone who sees your potential and amplifies it first they should complement your strengths if you're creative you might need someone with a brain for operations they also need to share your goals whether it's advancing in your industry or

building a billion- dooll Empire you and your career partner need to be aligned on what success looks like and most importantly they need to have integrity I mean you'll be trusting them with your ambitions your time and quite possibly your money so make sure they're the kind of person you would go to war with once you put those pieces together the two of you can go out there and eat the world but remember to choose wisely because your career partner is more than just someone you work with they can be the difference between staying stuck

forever and the life you've always dreamed of now moving on to number four your Fitness buddy because look okay your physical health is the foundation for every other part of your life your energy your focus and your ability to show up fully for your goals all depend on it that's why it's so great to have someone who works out alongside you holds you accountable and pushes you to be your best the right Fitness buddy turns exercise from a chore into something you look forward to but the wrong one will do way more harm than good

I mean imagine hitting the gym with someone who shows up late skips reps and always tries to talk you into a post-workout Burger you better believe your progress will be affected or worse you might adopt their bad habits waking up and giving in to your inner maybe tomorrow is a recipe for mediocrity so when choosing your Fitness buddy look for someone who's not going to bring you down first they should match your level of commitment whether you're aiming to lose weight gain muscle or train for a marathon your fitness goals should be aligned and most

importantly choose someone who makes working out fun not just productive and bonus points if they're the type to push you every once in a while because the best fitness buddies never let you settle for anything less than your best that's why they deserve a spot in your inner circle and once you find them the benefits are undeniable workouts become something to look forward to progress becomes faster you'll be healthier happier and yeah sexier too you'll be unstoppable my friend and then there's number five your mentor okay so there's a reason that every successful person you've

ever heard of credits at least part of their journey to a mentor it's the ultimate shortcut your Mentor is someone who's been where you want to go they've made the mistakes learned the lessons and carved out a path and now they're willing to show you the way there that is simply priceless but there's a catch people who want the best for you can do more harm than good if they don't truly understand your goals for example everybody takes advice from their parents they want the best for you of course but that same impulse might make

them give you advice that's safe or conventional when your goals require a certain degree of risk and ambition or worse they may never have actually achieved what it is that you're out to do and have no idea how to help guide you that's why it's crucial to choose your Mentor with care so what makes a great mentor well first a great mentor is someone who genuinely ly cares about you and because of that they'll challenge you they don't just hand you answers instead they push you to come up with Solutions and make ownership a part

of your growth secondly your Mentor should be someone you aspire to be like not just for their success but for the way they achieved it so think about their approach to leadership or their resilience not just their achievements and it's worth mentioning that mentors don't necessarily have to be in your life physically a mentor could be someone you work with but it could just as easily be a historical figure a thought leader or even an author if you can't ask them directly you can still ask yourself what would they do in this situation at the

end of the day a great mentor isn't just someone who helps you to achieve your goals they expand your vision of what's possible that kind of wisdom is invaluable and it's why they deserve a spot in your inner circle but how do you attract quality people it should be clear by now that your inner circle shapes your life each of these five people your romantic partner your Confidant your career partner your Fitness buddy and your Mentor they play a huge role in your growth success and happiness they're always shaping who you are and who you'll

become in their own unique way but there's only one thing they all have in common you get to choose them except well in any sort of relationship it does take two to tango right and here's the truth you a trct what you are if you want ambitious disciplined and inspiring people in your life then you need to actually be ambitious disciplined and inspiring and that's where the work begins not with them but with you and this is exactly why we built the alux app our app is designed from the ground up to help you improve

your relationships emotional health your finances your physical wellness and intellectual development but these aren't just random categories now there the same areas where the five key relationships in your inner circle can transform your life think about it this way okay for relationships the app helps you to improve your communication skills so you can build deeper connections with your romantic partner for emotions you'll learn tools to build confidence strength and your mindset and develop the kinds of relationships you would want with your ideal Confidant for finances you'll gain access to countless insights and strategies around wealth

building investing in entrepreneurship just what career Partners value in each other for physical health you'll discover ways to optimize your Energy Fitness and routines so you can stay consistent with your Fitness buddy and for intellectual development you'll get lessons on productivity philosophy and decision making helping you to become the kind of person your dream Mentor would respect and here's the best part these days you can actually buy mentorship from worldclass experts but they usually charge thousands of dollars for their time but here at alux we hire these experts for you get them to give us

all of their insights and strategies then we package it all up into a course put it on the alux app and give you instant access for a tiny fraction of the cost think of it like having your own Inner Circle of worldclass mentors all dedicated to helping you grow in these five key areas and you know what since it's Valentine's Day we've got a special offer for you and your love our power couple deal because hey come couples who grow together stay together so why not unlock the tools and resources to build wealth together while

you're at it when you download the app and scan this QR code on screen you'll get 35% off our yearly plan so don't miss your chance and join thousands of others who are leveling up every single day your inner circle is your choice and your choices Define your future so the question is Which choice will you make hopefully I'll be seeing you on the inside until next time alexir take care [Music]