hello my beautiful darlings welcome back to my channel i hope you're having an amazing day and thank you for watching today we are going to talk about your feminine power because ladies seriously you do have a very strong feminine power your femininity is a big power of course women and even men all have a little bit of femininity and masculinity in all of them but as women if we use femininity at our advantage and if we use more femininity as all people say you obtain more with honey than vinegar how to become a magnet to
attract high caliber men so if you want to know more keep on watching but first just wanted to let you know that if you want to see more of my content i talk about fashion femininity and elegance and also glamour from the 50s sometimes don't forget to subscribe down below also follow me on my instagram which is that lisa hearthstyle so as you can see today i tried to do like some foodies curls i love the glamour of the 50s and the 40s so let me know what you think i'm having this obsession with peanuts
right now but this is not the subject of the video of course first advice would be breathe confidence and this is such a cliche everyone tells you breathe confidence but when i say to you breathe confidence it's more about the feminine confidence the feminine seductive confidence not the strong and masculine confidence that you can have at work or that they show in the movies they only show that type of confidence but no i'm talking about the kind of confidence that is more you know gentle more cute and very feminine and soft you know the kind
of confidence that of course you enjoy men of course you you want a partner of course you want a nice gentleman in your life and you're looking for someone to share your life which is completely normal as a human being but but you don't need men to validate yourself because you already feel amazing so for example don't compare yourself to other women every time you compare yourself to other women you kind of demean yourself you demean your confidence you are projecting this image of or i feel threatened by other women no you don't you don't
and you know if for example you have to say oh if another woman come up and take the men that i'm with then she can have it i wouldn't want him anyway but this is confidence you don't have to be all shy and oh my god give me attention no no i'm not for that because it actually doesn't work in terms of uh seduction when you show insecurity in seduction it doesn't work you know people can take advantage of you people can be mean to you also all kind of toxic men can really see that
and just take advantage of that and be like she's so insecure i bet i can just control her and manipulate her you know 16. what's a 16. those two eights right over there you've had a terrible fall as i could swear you fell straight out of heaven angel so i don't want anyone to manipulate you so what you're gonna do is you're gonna believe that you are unbelievably beautiful smart intelligent and funny and your personality is really on top of the game and you're really on those scale of high value women they're really on top
of the game so you really don't need to be jealous you really don't need to to compete with other women you really don't need to compare yourself because you're already such a high value beautiful woman and if this man doesn't want to appreciate what he has what he already has is this beautiful bombshell then let him go let him go also if a man is quoting you and then he ghosts you or something like this have this attitude of it's okay there's thousands of the men out there that would die to be with me so
no of course if a man is ghosting you don't don't respond to him like don't don't set any message you don't have time for that you know you know consider yourself as a goddess that don't have time to entertain everybody you know uh people have to deserve your time they have to deserve and prove to you that you can invest your time in them and project confidence and you expect respect immediately you expect respect because it's normal for you to be respected and to be treated like a true lady you know you will leave a
memorable first impression and of course if you believe it it is going to happen people are going to behave like this with you and if they don't you eliminate those people number two is don't chase a man of course this is just obvious but a high value woman a beautiful siren doesn't chase a man of course why would she why would she chase a man this fabulous and irresistible woman would not chase a man because why would she she have so many men around her already chasing her so of course she doesn't have time to
chase a man like no and biologically a man is a hunter he wants to chase you of course whole life whenever i've truly wanted something i've always gotten it tonight right around the time you were calling me a manipulative jerk i decided i truly want you so brace yourself the chase is on you can chase me all you want but trust me i'm way too fast for you bruno i'm gonna marry that girl and i think i saw this woman on tik tok and it was like a young woman and she was saying oh i
saw a guy on instagram and i really liked his pictures and then i slide into his dms and then she said ah we talked and we talked and it was super fun it was really interesting we have a lot in common and then we talked on the phone and all of that and then she said then she said that she was in her car driving to see him because he lives two hours away from her i was so shocked and i saw like it was it has millions of likes so that means that it gives
the next generation of woman the impression that and the advice that you have to chase a man that you have to even chase until his house why do you need to do that it seems very desperate it seems like you're seeking a lot of attention from a man there was a comment saying oh but no you should not chase him he should chase you he should go see you you know and then there were tons of people saying in the comments oh yeah but we're in 2020 we're not in 1950s and then i was a
little bit shocked because for me that has nothing to do with the area that we are in of course i love the 50s but that has nothing to do with that you know for thousands and thousands of years it was always the man that was courting the woman since the history of humanity and now for the 20 years last years it's just becoming reverse the reverse like the opposite i don't get it it's just in the nature of a man to hunt and to go chase you because he likes it he likes the the chase
he likes the fact that he cannot have you immediate men are always in competition they're in competition with other men they're in competition with themselves that's they have they have their testosterone that is very strong and so when a man chases you he feels like oh the chase is on the game is on he feels like he's in a game you feel like he feels a lot of testosterone even in the animal world you never see a female chasing a male it's always the case it's just naturally biologically and if you don't still don't believe
me i'm assuring you you have the proof when women do chase a man the men become completely most men become completely interested they become passive so maybe they will say yes to see you maybe they will even i don't know date you or something but they will be a little bit passive and they will not make the effort that a man will do if he is actually chasing you then next advice do not pay for men this is this is the same biologically men are providers and this is not your place to pay on a
date of course if you really want to pay then do whatever you want i'm not here to control your life in any way but me personally i'm more traditional and for me the man should pay and it's not just the first day the second day the first day all of the dates and for me it's just making him masculine a real masculine man pay because he can handle things he's show his strength if a man asks you out and he's not willing to buy you a plate of food how can you possibly think that this
guy can take care of a family it doesn't make any sense it don't make no sense men we all know are attracted to beauty and women are attracted to financial status and security just like in the animal world animals are like female are attracted to the strongest male so that means that they would fight to have the female as humans you know that we are animals after all it's the same so that means that as women we're attracted for the more alpha the best alpha strongest smell and is in our society the best strongest alpha
male are the richest man don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty you might not marry a girl just because she's pretty but my goodness doesn't it help and if you had a daughter wouldn't you rather she didn't marry a poor man but i was you'd wanted to have the most wonderful things in the world and to be very happy or why is it wrong for me to want those things uh there are also men that are very muscular so of course it uh it attracts also you know that's
why you you're really attracted to a man that is very muscular because he can you know protect you with his muscles but now money is ruling this word so of course you're going to be attracted by someone that can protect you this man i'm not saying you should use men at all i'm saying that it's completely normal to be attracted to a gentleman that takes his responsibility and is very masculine and my next advice would be if you meet that type of gentleman if you need that type of high caliber man treat him like a
king men have a big ego and they love love love love compliments of course if you're gentle with him if you're like all sweet and nice with him you're going to make him even happier and he is going to make you happier in return so masculinity is moved by emotions and not arguments if you argue with him if you fight with him if you yell at him it's never going to work because after all men are used to that they're very masculine very strong if you try to argue in a masculine way by yelling and
being very strong and authoritarian you know he's going to pursue that as a threat and as a man he's used to that he's used to you know of kind of fighting with other men so of course he's going to yell as well and his voice is going to be louder than yours so at the end of the day if you want to like really fight with him in terms of masculinity then you're not going to obtain anything because he's obviously more masculine than you but they'll laugh at you she's not at all like you've characterized
her look i made this whole show up out of thin air it's all a fairy tale and terp sticker is any cockeyed thing i say she is i'd be careful mr daniel miller she might hear you say that and she might not like it oh she might not like it huh i suppose she might come down out of the clouds and slap me right across the face she might if you continue to paint her as a cheat man chasing drop but if you approach this with a soft and feminine voice with a soft and feminine
way in terms of emotion and you and you say to him i feel this way i feel hurt i feel bad i feel this way then his natural instinct is to protect you and he's going to be melt in front of that you know instead of just fighting with you he's going to want to protect you and want you to feel better because of course he doesn't want to you to feel hurt of course i've been willful selfish and stubborn and maybe a little ungrateful i don't mind telling you i've been kind of bullheaded and
stubborn myself oh but you have a right to be after all what do i know about the theater and as you said i'm just a little nobody you took out of the cars oh i don't know you you've had a couple of pretty good ideas now you're just being nice to me you know i've been giving a lot of thought to what you've been saying all along maybe i'm just a broadway mug after all no you're an artist you could be if you reached out you know i felt hurt about what you said i don't
i don't really understand and i don't want us to fight because i really care about you you know if you act like this of course it's going to like oh yes oh no of course baby of course i don't want you to be hurt this is the right approach towards men even when you want certain gifts mr esment is it the right size well they can never be too big yes it fits perfect daddy i bet you made me the happiest girl in the world these masculine men love to be leaders they love to control
they love to have the last word they love it so you should more approach it and approach everything with him with a more feminine and soft voice and soft manners and really cute and even use your charm a little bit you're very charming as a woman so beautiful to be a woman so next advice would be your voice talk calm and slowly so of course this is kind of a body language and you have all of the body language i have videos about body language in case you want to see but body language voice look
everything that can just make him melt completely in front of you don't you ever think of anything else look at that moon it's like a million dollar gold piece and of course it's going to actually make him feel so much better you compliment him you make him feel like a king you're very gentle and sweet with him do you love life not too active anything else bothering you and actually this is helping him as well he feels amazing because then you feel so much better in a relationship when you have a cute and feminine woman
complimenting you making you feel so important like the king that you are so this is beneficial for both of them and i love this kind of advice because it's those kind of advice that are beneficial for both in terms of a couple is the best so as i said the next advice would be give him compliments of course compliments compliments compliments love men compliments we love compliments as women we love when men are like oh you look fabulous today you look exquisite darling but especially a masculine man would love compliments more about more about his
strength his ability to protect you his ability to provide for you his ability to do things for you to fix problem this is really amazing to have a man like this you are very feminine and you thank him for everything that he does and you're very sweet and gentle then he feels amazing and he feels like his confidence and his ego is just on top of the game you know and then when he feels like this he continued to behave in a nice way it's just like you reward him for his good behavior and then
he rewards you for complimenting him and making him feel good also when you let him be vulnerable with you and you let him open up to you and really have this intimacy that is very very close you know because his strong masculine man is very strong it's very you know but if he can be vulnerable with you and you're not judging him and you're really there for him and you support him he's going to really be mesmerized by you because he feel like he can be himself you're not judging him you know couple i think
that judging each other is really not the best so you have to really let him be himself with you and let him be vulnerable with you and then you're this kind of person that he can see when he feels bad you know i'm really talking when you're in a relationship here i'm not talking about you know the guy that you just met of course the guy that you just met you have to build a relationship he has to prove to you that he is you know good enough for you i would say at the beginning
when you try to meet people be really selective and make sure that the men that are around you are really really gentle and they treat you well with respect so thank you for watching my darlings i hope you liked it i hope it was really helpful for you if you have any question leave it in the comments down below and don't forget to subscribe also follow me on my instagram which is at least the heart style take care and until next time i'm giving you a lot of kisses goodbye