If your woman does these in 2024, LEAVE HER!

Hello there, once again and welcome to  my YouTube channel. My name is Jessica, I'm a broadcaster who resides in Ghana. Also a  voice actor and a fitness enthusiast.

So today I'm gonna tell you about something really  important; if your woman does these, leave her! [Music] All right, so let's get right into it. Now I  know it's a little tricky, you know sometimes you can't quite tell whether a woman is  interested or she's just stringing you along.

Like one day she blows hot air, the next day she  blows cold. How are you able to quickly decipher whether this is a woman who actually wants to  go really far with you or if it's a woman who is wasting your time. I've got a couple of ideas  for you, things I'd like you to think about.

Number one, she takes her time in getting back  to you. Now I get, it's okay, if you take me for example, I get really busy during the day and  sometimes I don't even pick up my phone for hours continuously and so if you message me anytime  between the time I'm really really busy, chances are you won't get a response, or  I may pick my phone and read the message, inadvertently blue tick you but not respond. But  here is the thing before you go running off to your mum and thinking, hey this girl is not interested,  I think a good rule of thumb is at least 24 hours.

If within 24 hours of reaching out to this girl  or saying whatever it is that you have to say, maybe you're checking on up on them, have they  eaten today, that kind of thing and they haven't gotten back to you, it usually means that they're  not that interested. Women may be busy, she may have lots to do but trust me, as soon as  she has a moment, she'll be looking out to read from you, to hear from you, to receive your call  and if she misses it, she'll be in a hurry to get back to you and make sure that you know that she  genuinely missed your call. She wants to hear from you okay.

So if it goes beyond ideally 24 hours  and you still have not heard from this girl, chances are she's not interested. Tip number two,  if she cancels plans repeatedly, this is like one big red flag. So you ask her out for dinner  on Monday, she agrees, then last minute she tells you something came up, then you ask her out  for dinner on Wednesday or lunch on Wednesday.

Once again she agrees, something came up. Now if  you realize that you're able to pretty much draw a pattern, where every time you're supposed  to hang she's unavailable and this is like a ridiculously continuous thing, chances are, that  she's not interested. And I say this because well, if she's really interested she's eager to  see you, And she can't always be that busy.

trust me, take it from me, I know. So go ahead and find someone who will actually want to make time to hang out with you.  Tip number three, she calls you a friend.

Now, so you've been seeing this girl for a  while, y'all seem to be getting along, suddenly she's acting a little bit cold, you can't quite  figure it out, but, okay y'all go out together and she's introducing you to her friends,  you guys know you're dating or supposedly you think you're in a relationship with this  girl, but she introduces you to her friends as a friend. Believe it, you actually are,  it's not that deep. Tip number four, if she tells you that she's not ready, you know,  like not ready for a serious relationship, she just wants you guys to be friends to see where this  goes.

Believe her, this is not a challenge to you to try to win her heart over. Just take  her word for it and find someone who's ready to get into a proper relationship with you,  because brother you deserve it. Tip number five.

You always have to be the one to initiate contact.  Okay so I get it, like there are a couple of girls who will not reach out to you first because they  don't want to seem desperate or will not want to be the one to you know just call every now and  again, just because they just don't want to come across as desperate. Now, there are times when we  would even like deliberately not call to see if you would call back and if you're interested  enough.

But if for some reason she is never the one to initiate contact, like literally  if you go through your whatsapp chats or your calls, chances are you're the one who's always  saying hello, good morning, hi, how was your day, are you okay, have you eaten, and it's all  like the beginning of the chat is always you, my brother, you're wasting your time.  She is so not into you, go on and find a woman who's worth it. Tip number  six, when you escalate she goes vague.

Let me explain how this works. So for instance, you tell her something about how beautiful she  looks, she rubbishes you, you tell her about how you would like to maybe take this the  next level and she just laughs in your face. Some girls don't want to be direct because  they feel like they're going to hurt your feelings, so they would rather just belittle your  comments or not apply any weight or add any weight to what you say.

As much as possible trying  to sort of send a secret message across that, it's really not that deep, I just  want you as a friend and nothing else. If that happens, pay attention and move on, she's not  that into you. Tip number seven, she blue ticks you, and like it's permanent, you know, so she  has this habit where you send a message and she just blue-ticks you and that's it, she  wouldn't even bother to come back to respond.

And like I said in the beginning it's okay,  all of us are busy from time to time and so it's easy for you to sort of read a message  and then get distracted by work or whatever else that's currently happening in your space, but like  I said like at the end of a day when she's lying in bed or when she gets home and throws her legs  up, that moment that she rests just before she goes to bed or decides to watch tv and picks up her  phone, at least she would scroll through her chats to see maybe who messaged her earlier in  the day. So even if she blue-ticked you earlier, chances are that she was busy, so now would  be a good time for her to respond, but this is something that she does like on a regular. No  matter what you do, she reads and she'll take days to respond.

Truthfully, I'm surprised  you're still in her chat waiting for some kind of attention; this is the biggest red flag  you could ever find in the girl's dictionary. Another pointer for you, read her body language,  you know, I always say that the best form of communication or the most, the best one for you  to sort of pay attention to, is body language. The non-verbal cues, because i believe that there's  a wealth of information in what is not said as opposed to what's said and not followed.

I  don't know if you understand this, but say, you meet a girl, you try to get close to her,  she pulls away, when you guys are sitting and you're even having a conversation with her,  her body is literally tilted away from you, You're speaking to her and she's yawning  or looking disinterested, you're talking to her and she's on her phone going  through other guys' text messages. What on earth are you waiting for?  It's so obvious that this girl is not interested; she's either really bored by  you because you're naturally a boring person, or she just doesn't want to be with you.

Why are  you wasting your time again? Bro, move on, stop that! Quick tips to help a couple of brothers out there  because some of you just seem so clueless, and for me like it's really really obvious  when women behave like that.

So simple cues to help you, I hope that you don't waste too much time on  time wasters; women who are really not interested in you and I hope you find love and that  person. So yeah if your woman does any of these, Jessica says leave her, find someone who will  be worth your time, effort, love, energy. I'm out of here, if you like the video,  don't forget to subscribe, don't forget to click on the like button as well, comment below, and let  me know if this was helpful and if you'd want more tips like this and plus don't forget to turn on  the notification bell so whenever I post content you get notified.

Have a good one and say cheese. Okay, this is not kitty but yeah you catch my drift.