Livro OS 7 HÁBITOS DAS PESSOAS ALTAMENTE EFICAZES | Seja Uma Pessoa Melhor

One of the things that happen in days Today is when I'm talking to my friends and they start talking about everything was cheap when we were kids. But now everything is always increasing price. Before it was all so easy to buy and today it's impossible.

And all this is because of that government or another, who does not know how to govern a country. And this conversation is an endless cycle, one playing the responsibility to another. And this is exactly what the reactive people They do: They all times focus on things they can not control, putting the blame on a scapegoat.

It is impossible to think of a concept called inflation may exist and that the wages them has also risen. On the other side of the coin, there are people Proactive, who think so: Even if my criticism is relevant, think about it It will not help me at all. Then I will focus on things I can control.

If a person works in a proactive company, instead of focusing on how people pull the bag other to climb over, or as others are perhaps gaining an increase and I do not. It focuses on how to improve, so that it is a key player in the company where he works. Do you see the difference between these two thoughts?

Look at the amount of responsibility, size dedication and hard work that the second thought suggests to me! Now tell me: what thought our brain lazy will choose as standard? And that's why so many people focus on things they can not control, instead of chasing the things that they can.

Be part of the solution, not the problem. Habit # 1: Be Proactive Now, imagine that you are a wake. And all his friends and family are there too.

When you stop in front of coffin, comes face to face with yourself. It is there, this is your wake, in a few years. What would you say about yourself?

What you want all the people you love were talking about you and your life? These are some of the most powerful questions you can do. What do you do in your life today is aligned what you want people to remember?

You want to be remembered as a good son? If this is the case, as not obey their parents and show no affection would help you with that? You want to be remembered as a person who left the world a little better?

If this is the case, you're looking for things that do that people can say that? Or you are afraid to fail and prefers to stay sitting all day waiting for the life go? And as our lives change when we really know which, deep down, it is more important for us.

What do you want to hear in your funeral is actually its purpose life. Perhaps the fame, money and other things in which we both runs behind or even part of its further plans. Habit # 2 is to start with the goal in mind.

Now if I asked you: What are the things that matter most to you? The most common answers would be perhaps his health or your relationships with your family and friends. You never answer: get rolling the mobile screen or watch TV.

but that many of us spend more time in phone or watching TV than in watching or cultivating a pleasant family atmosphere? There is a huge gap between what we want and where really allocate our time. You organization has enough to organize your week so he can do what It is really important to you?

Habit # 3 is to first make the most important Now imagine the situation. You want a lot an orange to make juice, but his brother the first handle. You both want the orange .

. . And then he begins to fight .

. . After a while, his father angry already decides to take the orange, cut in half and half to each, thinking so be satisfying them.

In the end all losers, why not They knew that one wanted to orange to make juice, and the other actually wanted only bark, because I wanted to jam. Another situation: Imagine I have a pharmacy and see you very remedy more expensive than normal because I realize you need a lot of it and pay any amount. Next time you think to return to my pharmacy again?

No It would be much better for both of us if I practiced a fair price? In this case, you would satisfied and return to my pharmacy, which would let me also satisfied. Habit # 4 is Think win-win.

Stop it think that for a win, the other has to lose. Life does not have to be this way. One thing I want is for people to sign up in my channel, but one thing you never hear me saying is: Well folks, I had a lot of work, I had to devote myself many hours in this video.

Please sign in. Now seriously: Who really cares if I had a lot of work? Who cares if I spent days just to create a video?

The question that must be asked is: This video brings something that is useful for you? Why you would take away some of your time to sign up when you could be doing anything else you more interested. Habit # 5 is something we should put in our life as a daily goal, something we have to make every conversation and every interaction we have, and it is this: Look first to understand, then to be understood.

Now imagine two college friends. a is that typical NERD, who knows almost everything programming and electronics. While the another has a huge imagination and a good ability to sell.

The two are alone only two students and can not create anything special, but when the two come together to work, they can do fantastic products. The story actually It is Steve Jobs and Wozniac, held when they decided to join forces to make your first computer. What happened is what we call synergy.

The total achieved is greater than the sum of parts themselves. I can tell you with enough conviction it is very difficult to achieve with everyone, but you should be always looking for opportunities to create synergy, valuing the differences and trying always reach a third alternative that satisfies both parties. Habit # 6 is synergize And last but not least: Imagine you are in a forest and finds a man trying to cut a tree.

He It is there for more than five hours and is exhausted. Then you go and say: Friend, if you sharpen the mountains, you will be able to cut faster saw? !

And the man says: I do not have time to sharpen the mountains, I am very busy. . .

. We can even laugh at this story, but we tend to do this all the time. We I could not find 30 minutes a day to work on and improve physically.

We can not read a book for 15 minutes by day to promote ourselves mentally. We do not have time to use our empathy and help a lady to take your purchases home and not we can not take one single hour of our week to go to church, meditate or do anything that stimulates our spirituality. No, we never have that time.

So, we try to tips and shortcuts to be Healthy, using techniques and believing the magic of transformation will happen. It's like buying a Ferrari without engine and say for your family: Where do want to travel in this weekend? The habit is nº7 Renewal.

That's personal, these are the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Big changes It takes time and effort. And that's what the book and that video whatever happens .

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