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have you ever felt that desire to make someone that hurt you if you feel small I'm not talking about open revenge fights or direct attacks I'm talking about something much more cruel and effective. show that the person never had the power what I thought I had on you think about it nothing destroys anyone else than to realize that your wickedness has had no effect if you have already been betrayed deceived or disrespected so this video is for you today i I will teach you stoic and psychological strategies to demean those who hurt you without you

having to get your hands dirty if you think cutting contact is enough is mistaken some people need to feel the weight of insignificance to understand that they got it wrong that doesn't mean lowering yourself to their level but rather creating attitudes that make them corrode inside Marco Aurelius the great stoic emperor said the best revenge is not to be like your enemy more that doesn't mean you should let it all slide unpunished there is 1 way to do with that this Person feels irrelevant without having to get involved in fights or games infants today you

will discover seven brutal forms to reduce those who hurt you to mere extras in its history and i guarantee when you apply these strategies they will bitterly regret having you underrated so leave the like subscribe to the channel and comment below if you've ever been in a situation like this now let's get straight to the point Strategy number one make them feel like they were never important few things crush someone's ego more than realize who never played a significant role in your life the person who hurt you may have believed it was essential to you

that without her you would be lost that you would depend on her emotionally but what if you just demonstrate that she never meant so much this is a fatal blow to anyone's pride imagine someone betrayed you deceived you or publicly humiliated you what does this person expect that you sweat seek revenge that shows suffering but if instead you follow his life as if absolutely nothing had happened it creates a devastating effect Epictetus said it's not what happens to you but how do you react it matters if your reaction is one of total indifference the message

will be Clara you never had power over me the worst punishment for those who hurt you it's not listening to hate speech or receiving an aggressive response on the contrary is the total lack of response the person realizes that as much as I have tried failed to shake you it's like a scream in the void a non- attack this makes her question her own relevance did she really have some importance to you or will it always it was just an insignificant detail in your life this strategy works even better when you continue exactly as before

or better even and successful if before you had a close relationship but after the betrayal or offense you act like nothing has changed it creates a destructive psychological effect the aggressor expects to be treated as someone of the essence but upon realizing that it can be easily accessible or simply ignored feels your own insignificance weighing on your shoulders this also goes for social media and social circles if the person who hurt you notices that you don't mention what happened does not post indirect shows no resentment she despairs often what hurts the most is not direct

attack but the absence of any recognition it's like she didn't exist and that's where the final blow comes in if beyond all that you still act lightly com humor as if nothing had shaken your emotional then ready the damage is done whoever hurt you will spend sleepless nights trying to understand how someone who should be destroyed can be so full and indifferent in the end the real humiliation is not being attacked back but in realizing that your attempt to hurt someone was completely replaced who really has value in their life are the people you choose

to keep around the others are just dust in the wind two use success to crush their ego if you have one thing that makes those who hurt you feel small is to see you winning in life nothing bothers a toxic person more than realize that even after all he has done you didn't just survive you prospered who acts to harm you usually expects to see you failing suffering complaining what happens when instead you level up in anger envy and frustration take over this person Marcus Aurelius said the best revenge is to be different from those

who harm us it means that instead of sinking into hate or try to take revenge directly you must focus on improving yourself grow learn improve your body his mind your work your life as a whole it not only destroys any negative influence that person had on you but also shows to the world and to her that you are far above this type of stingy behavior imagine 1 former partner who betrayed you and thought you would never recover or 1 toxic garment Who humiliated you and made you feel funny these people bet against you now think

about the impact it would have if they saw you stronger more successful than ever if they doubted you before now they will have to watch its growth from afar Ability to do anything to prevent and the best part you don't have to rub it in their faces your success alone is already a daily reminder that they failed to try to destroy you to every conquest of his to every genuine smile to every goal achieved who tried to hurt you if feels smaller and more insignificant what was once an attempt to diminish you turns into a

reminder constant of their own failure the real humiliation it's not in hate speech or in direct confrontations is in the deafening silence of your progress while they spend energy hating you you are focused on growing up it crowns them inside because it reveals a mysterious truth the only person really hurt by it all it was themselves so get on your way believe in yourself achieve your goals and let the weight of your success crush the egos of those who tried to make you fall no final there is no worse punishment for an enemy than realizing

that he never meant enough to stop you three is the greatest punishment there is something that destroys an person's self-esteem or manipulative is to be ignored has a devastating effect because it directly attacks the ego whoever hurt you expects a reaction be angry or even a request but when you just act as if that Person did not exist as if nothing but her Fez had any impact on your life she feels pregnant people who cause emotional harm are usually powered by 1 control desire they want to see you have power over others that can provoke

reactions and manipulate feelings when they realize they've failed that you don't even expend energy to hate them that consumes them for inside Epictetus said if someone speaks ill of you you don't defend yourself just ignore nothing infuriates them more than being despised this is the principle of stoic indifference not giving importance to what you don't deserve or silent is much more delicate than any answer aggressive if someone insults you and you respond that person still has power over you if she attacks you and you fight back means that somehow you still care but if you

just follow your life as if nothing had happened the message is Clara you are irrelevant for me this silent pain Develop more than any revenge the impact of gets even bigger when the person notices that everyone around you also lost interest in her it happens because society values those who are emotionally strong those who are not shaken by offenses or betrayals if you demonstrate that you easily surpassed without needing scandals or revenge people around begin to see who hurt you like someone weak and insignificant now think about how many people beg for attention of those

who have already faced them how many are trapped in cycles of humiliation seeking answers wanting to understand the reason for the betrayal or offense you can't be one of those people the stoic way is to understand that the best answer is no answer because the moment you ignore someone I wanted to see you on the ground you show that this person has never been so important how much she thought and best of all takes no effort you don't have to plan revenge expend emotional energy or ways to cause suffering just go ahead and let the

insignificance itself crush who tried to hurt you the more this Person tries to get your attention but she will despair by realizing that has any more relevance in your life in the end the real punishment is not hate but indifference hate is still a way to care still maintains a bond but when you treat someone as if they never existed you reduce it to nothing and there is nothing smaller than being treated like no one else four emotional control as superiority nothing weakens yet another enemy than to realize that he has no power over his

emotions whoever hurt you probably wanted to see you fall apart reacting explosively sinking in anger or sadness but when you keep full control over yourself that person feels powerless she tried to hit you but failed this failure makes her feel small insignificant and relevant the stoics always taught that true power is in self-control Marcus Aurelius wrote you have power over your mind not about external events realize this and you will find the strength it means that no matter what anyone does against you the way you react is what defines who has the advantage if you

explode from anger gives the trophy to those who tried to hit you but if you keep it calm this person realizes he never had control over you now think what happens when someone tries to tease you and you just don't react when someone insults you and you don't change when someone publicly humiliates you and you respond with a cold smile or even worse with total indifference this person loses control of the situation she doesn't know how to deal with it because I expected a scene um drama an explosion and everything you get in return is

a calm and unshakable look it makes you feel weak what many people don't understand is just keeping calm doesn't mean being passive on the contrary means you have inner strength that others cannot break while whoever hurt you waited for you see emotionally destroyed you follow tight showing that it does not need validation or no one's forgiveness to continue this is a blow to anyone's ego and you know what's even more humiliating to that person see that your inner peace is genuine if you just pretend to be fine sooner or later your CAI mask more when

you really conquer that emotional coldness when you train your mind not to be controlled by impulses any attempt to destabilize you becomes useless and there's nothing worse for an aggressor than realizing that it can no longer make an impact most people lose big battles because they react impulsively get into unnecessary fights expend energy with revenge waste time trying to prove points that don't need to be proven but who really has the power the one who controls himself who dominates his emotions dominates any situation and it puts whoever tried to hurt you in a position of

total insignificance superiority is not at a higher angle in confronting or taking revenge is in absolute serenity who knows that no one can touch your mind who really has value no need to wear out with small people he who controls himself is always in charge five the elegance of distance few things make someone feel more insignificant than to be left behind no fuss without dramatic explanation no emotional goodbyes the big truth is that when you get away from someone cold and calculated this person has nowhere to run if you discuss she can argue if you

fight she can defend herself but when you just disappear the only thing left for this person is oxygen. and silence can be deafening Seneca said don't argue with fools their words don't deserve your time and he was right when someone hurts you and you decide to leave the scene without explanation without giving satisfaction this person gets out of control over the situation she cannot reverse what she did cannot justify itself can't convince you to stay all that it remains for her to deal with the absence with the feeling that it has been left behind unimportant

the key to doing this in the most impactful way possible is to maintain the class do not block impulsively do not send emotion-laden messages don't play children's games simply sums* stop responding stop interacting follow your life as if that Person had never existed it creates a gigantic frustration because deep down everyone wants to feel important and realize that someone didn't need it is one of the greatest humiliations there is the psychological effect of this is brutal the person starts to wonder what happened wonders where he went wrong tries to find explanations for his departure and

the most interesting you never needed to say a single word for it to happen your absence alone is the punishment your life moving on without that person is the clearest message possible you make no difference to me and don't be fooled whoever hurt you can even pretend they don't care can try to show indifference but deep down insecurity will erode it that's because people used to manipulating deceiving or hurting others live from validation they need to feel they still have some control when you cut off that access and goes your way without looking back they

feel powerless small disposable the true elegance of remoteness is in not carrying resentments you don't have to hate no need to hold a grudge no need wish evil just follow your journey sure your energy will no longer be wasted on those who do not deserve it doesn't just set you free but also puts who hurt you in the face of the most mysterious truth that you never needed that person for anything the strongest are not those who scream or take revenge are those who simply move on without giving explanations who hurt you can until you

try to convince yourself that he was the one who left you but deep down he knows it was you who gave up 1st and Did it with so much coldness and control who didn't even have to announce his departure six years of consciousness the worst punishment for those who hurt you does not come from outside more from the inside the mind of a guilty person it's like a dead-end prison in the silence of the dawn when there are nos when the masks fall and there is no one to applaud your attitudes conscience weighs and there's

nothing more overwhelming than realizing that the mistake was irreversible that the damage was caused with no possibility of repair the secret to making this guilt unbearable it's simple don't try to force regret do not seek explanations don't apologize just let time do your job Marcus Aurelius said time is like a river if you stand still enough will see your enemy's body pass by consciousness always takes its toll and continues she charges interest at first that person can feel victorious can you believe you got unpunished that you were just another 1 victim of your attitudes but

as the days go by and she realizes you didn't react that I didn't run after who went on with his life without holding a grudge something starts to change what looked like a victory turns into a nuisance and this discomfort grows turns into a doubt then in repentance and when that plug falls it's already too late the psychological effect of this is brutal because now there is nothing else that person can do if she tried to justify herself before it could have gotten your attention but now any attempt at contact would be humiliating because she

knows that for you the story is over this weight that feeling of error without fixing it's a burden who will accompany this person for the rest of his life the most interesting is that you don't have to do anything but exist each conquest of his every smile every moment of genuine happiness becomes a reminder silent of the mistake that person made she will look at you and wonder what i did how I was able to lose someone like that but now there is no turning back the punishment was given and the sentence is indifference and

that's exactly what sets strong people apart of weak people the weak want immediate revenge want to see the other suffer right away the strong know that time takes care of everything no need to wear out no need to plan anything who missed you one day will look in the mirror and understand that the problem was never you he was always himself people can escape many things but they can never escape themselves whoever hurt you can try to get distracted can pretend nothing happened but at the time of recording when you are alone no masks and

no audience he will be forced to face the truth and this truth will be the greatest punishment of all seven the death of interest the opposite of love is not hate the opposite of anger is not peace what really destroys someone is the complete lack of interest when a person notices that no longer has any impact on your life that your words do not affect you that your existence has become irrelevant to you she feels the most brutal blow possible because deep down every human being wants to be important to someone and realize that you

just don't care anymore is the greatest humiliation of all Epictetus said when someone tries to tease you know that the problem is in him and not in you it means that instead of spending time trying to understand what led that person to hurt you or seeking explanations for their attitudes you simply must eliminate any interest in it don't ask about your life don't look at your social networks don't mention her name in any conversation make that person disappear from the your universe the death of interest does not happen when you pretend you don't care but

when you really don't care anymore when someone tries to tease you what does this person want at the bottom it's your attention if you give that attention either out of anger out of friendship or indignation you are still giving value to that person more when you actually eliminate any remnants of defeats or emotion connected to it that person becomes nothing and the cruelest this cannot be forced has to be natural you need to be so focused on your life in its objectives and in its growth that person just disappears from your mind and when she

realizes it when noticing that not even you book for her that's where despair beats because now she knows she has lost any importance she once had death of interest makes one wonder will it be that I was never relevant to him and this doubt is a poison that spreads because it destroys the sense of importance she had on you before this Person thought he had 1 role in his life that could hit you somehow but now she realizes that her absence meant absolutely nothing no final true humiliation is not in fights in revenge or in

proving points is in making that person so insignificant to you that isn't even worth the effort of hate the who really wins is not the one who screams louder but who follows his life without even remembering that 1 day this Person existed well we arrived at the end remember to who hurt you doesn't need your revenge need your indifference no answer will be more analytical than realizing that you followed your life without carrying any resentment without wasting time trying to prove something when you ignore s and stays emotionally in control this person feels the impact

of his own insignificance her egoles because he realizes that despite everything he's done you stood firm unshakable and even better than before Seneca said the best way to get revenge on an enemy is do not resemble him it means expending energy with hate or attempts at punishment just keeps you in jail what this Person Did but when you focus on yourself it grows becomes stronger and wiser whoever tried to destroy you faces his own defeat the secret to crushing who hurt you is in three things success happiness and success shows that the attempt to you

has failed or prevents that person from having any satisfaction in knowing that it affected you and makes her feel irrelevant as if it never existed this is the real punishment and best of all you don't have to do absolutely nothing but living well now the choice it's yours you can stay stuck in the past giving importance to those who don't deserve or you can apply everything you learned here and turn your pain into power who hurt you one day you might even think you emerged victorious but when I realize you just forgot that your name

no longer carries weight that their actions did not leave deep marks he will understand the size of your mistake if this video bothers you already leaves the like subscribes to the channel and comment below on the following sentence I am freed from the past so I'll make sure you learned with the strategies that were passed down here tell us too which of these strategies did you like the most and reminders if the greatest humiliation you can cause in someone who hurt you is not returning the blow is to show that he never had the power

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