Have you ever sent a message and waited for a response as if your life depended on it? Or, worse, sent something and saw that dreaded “view” with no response? If this has ever happened to you, relax: the problem isn't you, it's the way you're communicating.
Most guys send predictable, emotionless, impactless messages, and women simply aren't attracted to that. If you want her to think about you all day long, for every notification on her cell phone to make her heart race just imagining it's your message, then you need to learn how to mess with her mind. And no, this has nothing to do with being pushy or bringing up random topics.
The secret is in the right psychological triggers. When you use curiosity, emotion and mystery in just the right amount, her mind will work for you. She will find herself remembering you for no apparent reason, missing you without even realizing why.
Today, I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that. I'll show you strategic messages that activate these triggers and make any woman remember you all day long. Get ready, because after this video your conversations will never be the same.
Shall we do this? Human beings have an almost instinctive need to solve mysteries. When something is left open, our mind cannot simply ignore it; she needs to find an answer.
And guess what? You can use this to your advantage to effortlessly stay on her mind all day long. All you need is a message that creates a riddle in her mind, something that sparks that irresistible curiosity.
For example, send her this: "Now there's something about you that I still haven't been able to decipher, and it's been intriguing me all day. When I figure it out, I promise I'll tell you. .
. or maybe I'll keep it to myself. " Now think about what will happen.
First, she will ask herself: “What does he see in me? ” Then her brain will try to find an answer. She may even respond jokingly, saying something like "What's wrong?
Tell me! " or “Stop the mystery! ”, but what really matters is that, even after the conversation is over, the doubt will continue to echo in her mind.
That's the beauty of mystery: it holds your attention. Unlike a direct compliment, which can be read, absorbed and forgotten in minutes, a cryptic comment like this settles in her head and doesn't come out so easily. And the more she thinks about it, the more she will remember you.
Another important detail: the use of emoji at the end may seem like a silly detail, but the emoji transforms the message from something serious to something provocative. It adds a playful, subtle flirting tone. This prevents the message from feeling heavy-handed or making her think you're desperately trying to impress her.
Now the game is in her hands. She may try to find out, she may insist that you reveal what you meant, she may even pretend that you didn't care, but, deep down, the mystery has already been created. And while she tries to figure it out, you've already achieved what you wanted: being in her mind the whole time.
The human mind works in a curious way. When someone says they remembered you, your brain automatically starts to process this information: "Why? What was he thinking?
What did I do to make him remember me? " This little provocation triggers an involuntary thought cycle, and that's exactly what you want to trigger in her. Now, send her this message: "I was focused on my day and, out of nowhere, a flash of you came into my head.
Kind of random, but good, very good. " Notice the impact of this approach. First, you don't explain exactly what reminded you of her; you just blurt out this information like someone who doesn't want anything, leaving the space open for her imagination to fill in the details.
And believe me: imagination can be much more powerful than anything you could say directly. Furthermore, the choice of words makes all the difference. When you say “kind of random, but good, really good,” you not only reinforce that it was a positive memory, but you also add a touch of mystery.
She will ask herself: “What did he mean by that? ” And, inevitably, he will continue to think about you throughout the day. Another subtle detail is that this message does not pressure on it.
You are not asking for a direct answer, you are not trying to forcefully bring up the subject; you just threw a thought in the air and let her process it her way. This takes away that feeling of need or lack and instead makes it seem like it was natural. And nothing attracts more than what seems genuine.
In the end, this message creates exactly the effect you want: she finds herself remembering you for no apparent reason, but the reason was already planted way back when you entered her head unexpectedly. And now? Now we just have to wait and see how she reacts.
The senses are one of the most powerful tools of memory. Smells, sounds and even touches can bring instant memories of moments, people and emotions from the past. And smell, in particular, has a direct connection with emotions and the part of the brain responsible for memories.
When you mention her perfume, you activate this trigger in a subtle but extremely effective way. Now, send this message: "I swear I smelled your perfume today, but when I turned around to see, it wasn't you. I think my mind is starting to play games with me.
" Notice what this message does. First, you don't directly say that you missed her, but you hint at it in a classy way. By saying that you smelled the perfume and, reflexively, looked for her, you create the image that her presence is marked in you in a way that not even your mind can ignore.
This is powerful. Furthermore, this message plants an automatic trigger in her head. The next time she puts on perfume, even if she doesn't mean to, she'll remember you.
It could be before leaving home, in the middle of work or even at the end of the day; the smell will activate the memory of that message, and the thought will arise: “Would he remember me now? ” Another important detail: the choice of words. When you say “I think my mind is starting to play games with me,” you add a touch of mystery and even a bit of vulnerability.
This creates a deeper emotional connection because it conveys the idea that, in some way, she has an effect on you that you can't control. And women love that feeling of subtle impact. Best of all?
This type of message has no expiration date. Even if the conversation ends soon after, the trigger continues to work every time her perfume comes into play. And, without realizing it, you will be present in her day in a way that no “Good morning, princess” ever could.
Now that you understand the power of these messages, you can see the difference between a simple “hi” and something that really leaves a mark on her mind, right? Most guys make the mistake of being predictable, boring, or even too pushy. But, when you learn to use curiosity, mystery and emotion in the right way, the conversation stops being just a chat and becomes an experience.
And the most interesting thing is that you don't have to be the prettiest, the richest or the funniest. What really matters is how you make her feel when she talks to you. If your messages trigger memories, sensations and emotions, she will start to associate you with something good and, before she knows it, she will be thinking about you all the time.
Now, I want you to do a test: choose one of these messages and send it to the person you want to win over. But send it the right way: without anxiety, without expecting an immediate response, just throw the idea in the air and let the magic happen. Then, pay attention to her reaction and come back here to tell me in the comments what happened.
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