do you ever think that the way people see you is different from the way you see yourself have you ever wondered whether or not you were attractive if you're watching this video the answer is probably yes and hey it's not always a bad thing to wonder about how other people see us maybe they see something good in us that we don't yet see in ourselves so if you've ever wanted to know whether you might actually be more attractive than you realize here are seven subtle but psychologically backed ways to tell number one people pay attention
to you do you ever feel self-conscious because people always seem to be paying attention to you have you ever introduced yourself to someone only for them to say oh i know who you are or be surprised that they remembered something about you that you just casually mentioned before if the answer is yes then it means people pay attention to you when psychology says the more attractive a person is the more attention other people tend to give them which brings us to our next point number two people tend to stare at you maybe you're not the
talkative or outgoing type which makes it harder to tell how attractive other people find you because you don't really interact with that much still you can get a pretty good idea just from reading their body language and picking up on their nonverbal cues especially eye contact do people often stare at you or look you up and down whenever they see you or subtly try to catch your gaze do you turn heads every time you walk into a room or look at someone only for them to look away embarrassed at having been caught staring at you
don't let it make you self-conscious you're probably just more attractive than you think number three people want to be around you similar to the last point if people find you attractive but have little opportunity to act on it they might resort to what we call hovering or benching because even if they can't talk to you they still want to be around you so they might just purposefully go to parties or events they know you'll be at stalk you on social media or hang around places you tend to frequent all for the chance of having even
the most casual interaction with you number four people come to you for styling beauty or dating tips another subtle sign that you're more attractive than you think is that people will often come to you for advice on things like styling beauty or dating why because it means that they want to be more like you and that in itself is already such a compliment they probably think you look good have great style or have no trouble finding romantic prospects and they want to know how you do it indicating that they find you attractive number five people
are comfortable around you psychology tells us that it's only natural to gravitate more towards better looking people after all it's called attraction for a reason so if people usually seem more comfortable around you if they like joking around and making you laugh or tend to be physically affectionate towards you even if you're not that close then it's probably because they find you attractive and are subconsciously trying to tell you number six strangers are often nice to you when strangers do something nice for us we tend to ask ourselves are they flirting or just being kind
but the answer doesn't always have to be one or the other because both could be true so if strangers tend to act warmly towards you smiling at you and trying to strike up a conversation or doing small favors like letting you in front of them or helping you carry your things there is a good chance it's because they secretly find you attractive and number seven some people try to tear you down if people often try to tear you down for no good reason either by talking about you behind your back trying to belittle you or
spreading false rumors about you it might be because they find you attractive or know that most people do and it makes them feel threatened jealousy as they say is the highest form of flattery so don't be too surprised if some people try to tear you and your self-esteem down even when unprovoked take it as a sign that deep down inside they actually admire you and want to be more like you so do you relate to any of the things we've mentioned here even if you don't that doesn't mean you're not attractive they say that beauty
is in the eye of the beholder and there's a lot of truth to this but what matters most is how you see and feel about yourself so open your eyes to all the wonderful things that make you you and love yourself all the more for it do you think we missed anything mention it in the comments if you found some insight or new ideas in this video make sure to leave a like and share with a friend as usual all the sources are in the description thanks so much for watching until next time beautiful