if the path before you is clear you're probably on someone else's everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves where your fear is there is your task if a man knows more than others he becomes lonely thinking is difficult that's why most people judge even a happy life cannot be without a measure of Darkness and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness children learn by an adult's example not by their words you are what you do not what you say you'll do what
did you do as a child that made the hours pass like minutes herein lies the key to your Earthly Pursuits the shoe that fits one person pinches another there is no recipe for living that suits all cases [Music] for better to come good must stand aside the greatest tragedy of the family is the unlived lives of the parents you are not what happened to you you are what you chose to become to ask the right question is already half the solution of a problem the privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are
man needs difficulties they are necessary for health the soul needs your recklessness not your wisdom loneliness does not come from having no people about one but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible he was afraid needs dependence as a weakened man needs support life really does begin at 40. up until then you are just doing research if you are a gifted person it doesn't mean you got something it means you can give something away people will do anything no matter how absurd
to avoid facing their own Souls the least of things with the meaning is worth more in life than the greatest of things without it shame is a soul-eating emotion your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart who looks outside dreams who looks inside awakes midlife is the time to let go of an over dominant ego and to contemplate the deeper significance of human existence every form of addiction is bad no matter whether the narcotic is alcohol morphine or idealism wholeness is not achieved by cutting off a portion of one's
being but by integration of the contraries we were born at a given moment in a given place and like vintage years of wine we have the qualities of the year and of the season in which we are born until you make the unconscious conscious it will direct your life and you will call it fate foreign does not torture others generally it is the tortured who turn into torturers a man who has not passed through The Inferno of his Passions has never overcome them people grow like plants some in light others in shade there are many
who need shade not light we cannot change anything until we accept it condemnation does not liberate it oppresses woe to those who live by examples there is no life in them if you live by example you live the life of that example but who will live your life but yourself so live your own life man cannot stand a meaningless life shrinking away from death is something unhealthy and abnormal which robs the second half of Life of its purpose where love rules there is no Will To Power and where power predominates love is lacking the one
is the shadow of the other the greatest and most important problems of Life are all fundamentally insoluble they can never be solved but only outgrown man can endure the hardest trials if he sees meaning in them the whole difficulty lies in creating that meaning what we walk away from shying away from ostensibly forgetting is dangerously close to us and eventually it will return but with redoubled Force knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other people in each of us there is another whom we do not know depression is
Like a Woman in Black if she turns up don't shoo her away invite her in offer her a seat treat her like a guest and listen to what she wants to say where wisdom Reigns there is no conflict between thinking and feeling knowledge rests not upon truth alone but upon error also every human life contains a potential if that potential is not fulfilled then that life was wasted [Music] if an attractive woman is single it's because she's smarter than everyone else the meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances if there
is any reaction both are transformed don't hold on to anyone who's leaving otherwise you won't meet the one who's coming don't rush to help those who haven't asked you to because not everyone who is drowning needs a hand some want to drown most people consider themselves very knowledgeable in Psychology for one simple reason psychology for them comes down to what they know about themselves has any change must begin somewhere it is the single individual who will undergo it and carry it through the change must begin with one individual it might be any one of us
nobody can afford to look around and to wait for somebody else to do what he is loathed to do himself we have chosen these quotes from Carl Jung which we hope will help you understand yourself better he was one of the first psychologists who introduced the idea of analytical psychology and popularized it to the world thank you for watching this video