THE FINAL SAY ON RELATIONSHIP BY DR MYLES MUNROE (The Absolute 5 Keys!!!)

[Music] hallelujah now this is just gonna get real heavy because I got much time there and I got 19 minutes okay this is crazy anyhow listen so so you see you have this this issue issue we're gon only made one human being a single person now if you study the book of Genesis and that time to get into it but I'll just show you quickly it says and the Lord took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden that's Genesis chapter 2 verse 15 I don't know now God begins to instruct this one

human being he's not talking to anybody else he's talking to one human being it seems and he said that it's one single he put him in the Garden of Eden everybody say Eden say it loud now that everybody eating this important word leading down the word Eden is a Hebrew word which means spot SPO T it also means presence it also means open door it's a powerful Hebrew word it also means delightful spot I wrote a whole book on this fifty-eight the book is called the power praising worship it's about that spot the word Eden

means one spot we define it for you the word Eden in Hebrew means the spot for the moment where the presence of God is an open door to heaven everybody by this tape please you can remember all this stuff so the first place God took the mail man is put him in Eden what is Eden the spot for the moment where the presence of God is an open door to heaven that's why I am never to pray never to sing never to crap never to dance never to worship why you do those to get into

the presence the guy was put in the presence I wish I could be over two more days talking it's so important to understand that the first thing God gave Adam was not a woman he gave him his presence which means the first thing a man needs is not a woman he needs them [Applause] if you meet a man who shows interest in you your first question should not be do you love me wrong question the first question is where are you [Music] first question do you love his presence because of a minor's in God's presence

he could never slap you he can never crush you [Music] got smart the first thing he gave this mailman was his presence that means when you meet a guy make sure you meet him in Eden you see some of you ladies are so dumb and stupid you go out of Eden to find a brother and then try to drag him back into Eden and the guys say I ain't coming you wondered why you depressed in church and your husband watching sports [Music] come on clap your hands you gotta give it up it anyhow get crazy

get it out [Applause] if you meet a man who doesn't love to worship run [Music] he gave him either then God began to talk to this man God said to the man he said he put him to god of his first instructions work everybody say it well say it again work say it again work the first place he put him is in his presence the first command he gave him is work so the first thing a man needs is not a woman he needs a job God wants you to meet the man in his presence

and working by the way the word work is it C word I did a whole study on this in my book called releasing your potential you can ordered for the internet because we want to get a few books are there I bought specifically for you make sure get all of them okay but this book is important it deals for the whole four chapters on work I studied the word work the word work in Hebrew in that verse ain't ready for ready done work my doing work done it his weapon is the word ever go e

r EG o and it means i love it it means to become it's a deep word first command to Adam become God is telling Adam he didn't see what is not sudden you do [Music] it is something that you've discovered you supposed to become and you start becoming it so never meet a man and marry him who don't know who he is because he can't become what he doesn't know because we're gonna find an individual who already has a clear understanding of their purpose other words this man has a vision for his life [Music] God

told Adam to become himself to become the vision he sees why because he's going to later on bring him an assistant I'm getting deep now so your female was created by God to be a help but if a met him to help with you got yourself a frustrated whoa man come on brother sit up straight now there are thousands and millions of frustrated quietly depressed women in the church even because they're living with a man who ain't got no vision and they are full of energy see women come equipped because God made them to be

helpless that means they are sharp intelligent intuitive wisdom leaking out of them they are full of energy ideas and they're coming to help you and you ain't got nothing to do [Music] and so when a woman comes to a man who ain't got nothing to do that means he got nothing for her to help him with she finally helps she builds her own business start our own company and then that dumb fool calls her digression I'm talking with her husband apartments a few so aggressive she and aggressive its hewing I've no vision I'm talking to

somebody you saw boss no she ain't bossing you and lazy brother she got nothing to put her energy on that's why she's busy come on ladies go to me and shout it loud so when you wanna marry a good man your first question is what are you in the garden number two are you working number three where are you going what's your vision let's not discuss love yet cuz love does not keep marriage together [Music] is this good stuff I'm having a good time I'm telling you the third thing that I told the man he

said cultivate it once I cultivate ten to fifteen it was a cultivate the word cultivate means to bring out the best in everything around you to cultivate means that you put fertilizer and you dig around it and you bring out the fruitfulness that was cultivated means that you maximize the potential of something in your presence talked all the male you are to be a cultivator that means a real man does not oppress a woman's gifts he makes room for them he encourages them he sense at a night school to get more knowledge and he pays

for it oh I'm talking to myself he's a consummate ER he improves his wife [Music] to cultivate means that you make the thing in your presence the best it could be I love Jesus you know he's a he's a good man I mean he does have a wife her name is ekklesia she's a beautiful lady here's how he treats her it's his husband love your wife like Christ loves his wife how he cleanses her he washes her he improves her he gives it a word he moves every blemish every stain every plate everything and then

it says he presents her to not his father but to himself in other words a real man cultivates woman develops a woman replies woman and makes us so awesome he says that's mine rather look at that that's mine he presented to him [Music] a real man improves oh god I got seven minutes crazy so when you meet a man who winks at you don't be impressed start asking the questions of the first man number one do you love God's presence number two are you working number three do your vision for your life number four can

you improve me baby come on clap your hands loud and shout a a man in this place [Music] it's a real man my wife teaches conferences all over the world with me she speaks to millions of women television she speaks the towels or women and conferences all over the different nations but when I first met her she was so shy afraid to even talk to cats very very very quiet introverted and but you see let me tell you man something isn't he guys let me know when God gives you an assignment he gives you the

material to use it all [Music] listen to me so God will never give a meal the woman he wants that's why a male will never find a woman he really wants she doesn't exist God will only give him the raw material because his job is to what [Music] [Applause] [Music] so you men was trying to find the perfect woman the perfect woman only exists in your head your job is to work on the one that you chose and make her the woman in your head when Jesus was made his wife she was full of sin

and dirt and muck and damnation on hellbound he says I still love you baby come on somebody and he married her I think if his blood and he cleanse them and then he took every spot every wrinkle every blemish every he said look at baby chuckle appraises name hallelujah hallelujah [Applause] that's a real man [Music] all the ladies showed me cultivate the baby cuddly baby cultivate me baby come on look at the guy next to you so I cultivate me baby [Applause] [Music] go appraising us for a couple second just give him glory you get

in revelation knowledge [Applause] [Music] [Applause] sit down quick Sir Lancelot I got four minutes oh Jesus up myself calm down listen and after God gave the man cultivation responsibilities then he comes with the last one he says he says guard the god it was a guard he told a single man you are to protect everything that comes into your presence that's why God designed the male to be physically larger his muscle mass is bigger his bone structure is stronger not to hurt women but to protect crap babies right there when a man hurts a woman

physically with his hands or his body he is abusing the purpose for his strength the safest place for a woman should be in the arms of her husband the safest place for a daughter should be the arms of her father but we got incest everywhere protect so when you take a young lady out sir in this church or wherever you from on a date she's supposed to be safe not sorry she went [Music] she's supposed to come back safe not pregnant you shouldn't use your strength to overpower your date you use it to protect her

from yourself [Music] but Jesus was a protector of his wife wasn't he you want to hear him talk about it listen how he talks about her he says if anyone offends my wife it is better for him to tie a rope around his neck and a stone on the other end and commit suicide in other words don't fool with my wife I will kill you this that's what I call protection don't entertain a man who doesn't open the door for you I'm the only the door because you weak open it because he doesn't want you

to hurt your nails protecting you baby [Music] last command don't say to the man he says and I command you there's a nice one Isis keep my command do not touch the tree the last thing God gave the male the single words of his word write it down is what word that means that the male had the word before the woman and he had word before a woman [Music] by the way I'm gonna autograph all the books that you buy because my publisher told my autograph is now worth fifty six thousand dollars whoo that's nice

listen when you meet someone who winks at you first question is what do you love it hi thank you so much for watching please remember you can support our work on our patreon page and you get access to exclusive content and full videos and please hit that subscribe button if you haven't done so and click the notification Bell to be the first to receive newer content please don't forget to like and share this video with your friends to be a blessing to them you [Music]