My husband gave me divorce papers and said I had to quit my job, serve his mom or he would leave me!

hi I'm Shirley a 31-year-old office worker a year ago I married Mason a man I met on a blind date after a year and a half of dating he proposed settling down had always been my dream so even though the proposal felt a bit Hasty I said yes in hindsight I realized I should have taken a more cautious approach not long after our wedding Mason made a surprising decision to switch jobs when I asked him about it he explained that his previous position didn't allow him to fully showcase his skills what stunned me even more

was his announcement that he had already resigned and would be leaving by the end of the month thankfully he found another job quickly but it came with a lower salary than his last position at first I wasn't too worried since I had my own job but then Mason started pushing me to quit I might have considered it if his new salary had been enough to support us both but with his recent job change his pay was lower he kept insisting it would go up soon yet there was no indication of when that might happen quitting

my job under such uncertain Financial circumstances felt risky we relied on my income to save and covered essential expenses like rent and car payments depending solely on Mason's current salary just wasn't practical one evening Mason handed me divorce papers seemingly to intimidate me you know I'm ready for this whenever he challenged I urged him to take a breath and rethink his words but he simply stood up and retreated to his room that that confrontation left me reflecting on the hasty decisions and unexpected changes that had occurred since I met Mason I firmly told him I

wouldn't quit my job until his salary improved at first he seemed to accept my stance but the topic kept coming up each time he mentioned it I stood my ground with the same unweaving response now a year into our marriage Mason's salary still hadn't changed yet he kept pressuring me to quit my job when are you going to leave he would ask and I often felt the urge to respond s atically however I knew our financial stability hinged on my income if it was so crucial for me to resign I believed Mason should focus on

advancing his own career instead As Time passed I began to understand why Mason was so ad DeMent about my leaving work this became evident during our visits to his parents house whenever we were with his mother Martha Mason would Fe concern claiming he wanted to ease her burden she would Express her gratitude and then he would glance at me pointedly as if nudging me toward resignation he suggested she needed help but Martha was anything but helpless she was active healthy and even held a part-time job that funded her hobbies and social life it was clear

she didn't require my assistance yet Mason continued to push for my departure if only one of us could be home during the day we could check on Mom every day Mason said one day seemingly out of nowhere it was clear he envisioned me visiting Martha daily which felt overwhelming and unnecessary I asked him directly what he expected me to do since Martha was perfectly capable on her own he listed off mundane tasks like helping with housework and running errands it was obvious he had plans for how I could contribute but none of them Justified leaving

my career this endless cycle of requests and justifications was exhausting I needed Mason to realize that while I was willing to support his family when needed giving up my job without a solid reason was not something I could take lightly but Martha has her part-time job and spends most of her days out with friends right I pointed out when he suggested I could take care of housework during the day his response left me puzzled was he really implying I should become his mother's maid Mason was deeply concerned about maintaining a certain image especially in front

of his parents if he was so eager to take care of them why couldn't he handle the household chores himself despite his persistent pressure I stood firm in my decision not to quit my job I also opted not to visit my in-laws on my day off though I did make an effort to see them during major holidays like New Year's as I reflected on our visits a pattern emerged Mason frequently delegated tasks to me asking me to tidy up assist his mom or run errands I pushed back against these requests when he suggested I go

to the store I would reply don't you know this area better than I do his standard excuse was that it wouldn't look right if he did it himself a rationale I found both puzzling and manipulative it seemed he was more focused on controlling the situation and projecting an image of family care than on genuinely caring for his parents or me as time passed my perception of Mason changed it became clear that he was more focused on appearances than on genuine affection or respect for me when I finally confronted him asking why he didn't help out

or even consider quitting his job to care for his mother his reaction spoke volumes he looked both disgusted and uncomfortable replying that's not something I'm supposed to do I'm giving you the these instructions so my mom thinks you're a considerate useful wife you should appreciate how kind I'm being his words were revealing he essentially wanted to shift all the demanding tasks onto me while showcasing his virtue as if it were something extraordinary but I am neither his servant nor a subordinate and I certainly didn't deserve to be disrespected in front of my in-laws it became

increasingly clear that Mason's priorities were misaligned valuing appearances over genuine partnership and support if he continued with these unreasonable demands I refuse to stay silent I will stay in my ground despite our numerous discussions Mason hasn't changed he keeps pestering me with the same question are you going to quit your job furthermore every time we visit my in-law he continues to boss me around as he always has after reaching my breaking point I realized it was time for a serious conversation we need to talk about our future I said hoping to guide our discussion towards

something constructive what are you even trying to say Mason shot back clearly annoyed I'm honestly fed up I'm tired of you constantly asking when I'll quit my job and I'm exhausted from the pressure to take care of Martha I express laying out my grievances why are you so upset about that you're my wife and it's your duty to care for my parents Mason retorted don't you think it's unfair to place that responsibility solely on me shouldn't you as their biological child the one helping with the housework and caring for them I challenge confronting his outdated

views no way it's the wife's duty to do it are you the kind of person who doesn't care about Family Mason accus clearly upset by my resistance I'm disappointed to hear you say that he added seizing the moment to highlight the double standard I asked then let me ask you this how have you been caring for my parents if I asked you to take care of them would you do it Mason stared at me blankly struggling to understand the connection what are you saying why should a husband be responsible for his wife's parents so does

that mean you won't ever take care of my parents I pressed aiming to highlight his inconsistency the husband's parents and the wife's parents are totally different Mason replied missing the point entirely what difference does that make I don't understand I said feeling increasingly frustrated I didn't realize you were so out of touch it's like talking to my old boss what are you trying to say Mason asked clearly confused I'm saying that a husband should take care of his own parents and you should support your wife's family too I replied trying to emphasize the importance of

mutual support and equality in our responsibilities I felt the need to clarify so I added so you only prioritize your own blood relatives I'm really disappointed in you I won't be visiting your parents anymore why would you do that enough is enough I'm the one who wants you to stop this nonsense he shot back no way how do you talk to me like that my mom is Right Mason exclaimed his temper flaring ha your mom was talking about you she said you're a badly behaved husband that's why she gave me this he said pulling a

piece of paper from his bag it was divorce papers what you had divorce papers ready I asked shocked but Mason looked oddly proud of himself see I scared you didn't I I'm ready for this anytime so think about what you just said Mason declared smugly before heading to his room unbelievable why is Mason so selfish I thought fuming that triumphant look on his face made it clear that the divorce papers were just a threat to manipulate me the fact that Martha was involved only fueled my suspicion Mason was acting like a puppet for his mom

trying to control me while following her orders it was ridiculous I wouldn't let him have his way how could he not see that our marriage was in serious trouble with this Behavior his lack of understanding only frustrated me further Mason had already completed the divorce papers and handed them to me with Witnesses present including Martha and his friends this meant I could sign and file them whenever I wanted the next day after Mason left for work I filled out the divorce papers and submitted them to the city office as a precaution I also filed a

notice of non-acceptance of the marriage certificate knowing Mason might threaten to file a marriage certificate on his own I called my parents to explain the situation when they learned I had prepared the divorce papers they were initially shocked but quickly rallied behind my decision outraged by Mason's Behavior they offered to help me move my belongings right away taking a leave from work I had my parents come over and together we relocated all my things to their house while Mason was out I decided to stay with my parents for a while for the first time in

a long time I felt genuinely comfortable and at ease in their home reflecting on my marriage it became clear that Mason never contributed his fair share to her household chores I was the one cooking dinner after long work days and managing all the cleaning and laundry of my days off on top of that he expected me to care for his parents which simply wasn't feasible that evening Mason called likely just back from work hey where are you right now he asked I at my parents house I replied oh why would you go back there without

my permission and where's all your stuff don't tell me you're staying the night he questioned his tone a mix of surprise and selfishness I almost laughed at how oblivious he was to the seriousness of the situation thinking I was just staying overnight when I had actually taken most of my belongings with me I'm not coming back I said firmly what are you talking about come back here and make me some food he demanded make it yourself I replied ending the call I couldn't engage in a conversation about divorce while he continued to be so dismissive

to find some peace I decided to block his number and wait for him to come to my parents house a week later Mason arrived at my parents home accompanied by his parents they all wore serious Expressions as we faced off in the living room three against three how could you do this how could you leave without my permission Mason demanded incredulity and accusation lacing his voice you treated me like a housekeeper Mason all I ever asked was for you to take responsibility for your family I replied stating my ground that's not true what kind of

wife would I be if I didn't take care of Mason Martha shot me a fierce glare my father began to tremble with anger but I quickly intervened Mason insisted that I quit my job to care for Martha claiming it was my duie s's wife yet when it comes to my own family he expects me to manage everything alone ultimately Mason seeks obedience using me to take care of his parents while taking all the credit that's why he prioritizes his parents over mine have you ever heard Mason say these things I asked Martha continued to glare

but lamb looked confused as if he hadn't known about any of this before let me clear the air Mason interjected waving the divorce papers and claiming it was all Martha's idea why would you say that Liam asked clearly taken aback oh no it's because Camilla has an attitude problem Martha stammered and did you really say that Camila's parents aren't a priority I pressed well it's only natural for your parents to come first Martha shot back defensively the be absurd I came here to support you after hearing about the unfair treatment camaa has faced but it

seems you're the one at fault don't hide behind her parents authority to manipulate the situation Lam said causing Mason to visibly shrink in his seat Lam then turned to me and my parents offering an apology I'm truly sorry for the trouble caused by my foolish son I will have a serious talk with him Li you're not to blame at all so please don't apologize I replied thank you for your understanding in but there's something else I need to address I turned to Mason who now looked nervous the divorce papers you gave me I've already filed

them were no longer married Mason and Martha both turned pale why' you file those without my permission Mason demanded his shock evident you told me I could file them whenever I wanted besides you filled out your part and had Martha sign as a witness I calmly explained leaving Mason momentarily speechless seeing the escalating tension l am intervened furious Mason you use divorce as a threat he exclaimed and in a moment of rage slapped Mason across the face Martha looked visibly shaken by the scene Lon then turned to me and offered a sincere apology I sincerely

apologize that you had to witness this you have every right to divorce this fool on behalf of Mason I'm truly sorry for the Damage Done to your marriage Liam said tightening his grip on Mason's collar as he demanded apologies from both and Martha before ushering them out of the house later I expressed my gratitude to Liam for his intervention he reassured me that all of Mason's assets and property would be transferred to me without any complications considering my higher income and the effort I had invested in managing our household it was a relief to know

I had secured everything from our marriage I later learned that Liam had divorc Martha clearly appalled by her behavior one day I bumped into a colleague from Mason's former workplace who had some surprising news Mason hadn't been performing well at his job and was frequently criticized by his boss in a fit of defiance he resigned and switched jobs which only deepened my frustration with him instead of owning up to his shortcomings he chose to blame others which likely contributed to his lower pay at the new position now I feel a sense of relief having left

him behind I've rented a cozy apartment and I'm enjoying my newfound Independence work is going well and I'd even received a raise recently ly for now I'm not interested in dating I prefer to focus on my career Mason was always more concerned with appearances than with genuine skills he put on a show at home but never made any real progress in his career it's unfortunate how some spouses resort to using divorce threats as a way to feel powerful it's a major misstep I hope they eventually recognize their mistakes and find happiness on their own as

for me I'm grateful to have moved on from Mason and look forward to the possibility of meeting someone special when I'm ready