how do you know that God has chosen you to be in someone's heart been intense for you guys to be together it's very disappointing to go through life with someone only to one day learn that you were never in their heart this is a source of much heartbreak disappointment and distrust however when God chooses you to be in someone's heart it means that he wants you to to be together and you can rest assured that the relationship with them will work out well why because God will be the foundation holding you two up in the
shelter keeping you safe one of the most important things you'll notice if someone truly has you in their heart and that God has chosen for the two of you to be together is that they will love you now please note this is not obsession you see when someone's obsessed with you they love you because of what they want to get from you or how you look a person may be obsessed with you and it will look like they truly care about you but with time the truth will reveal itself Dr Miles Monroe once said that
if someone tells you they love you wait for the next thing they say if they tell you they love you because of this or that they love you when you do this or that or they love you if or as long as then they don't truly love you true love is genuine compassionate and unconditional when God puts you in someone's heart they will genuinely love you they'll find themselves constantly drawn to you if you ask them why they love you so much they won't be able to tell you anything tangible they won't be able to
explain they will look at you differently and will find satisfaction in seeking whatever makes you happy and better this is the first and most common thing you'll notice when God's chosen you to be in a person's heart and want you to together this love will have nothing to do with how you look what you have or where you're from it'll bring peace and it will be pure they won't be seeking to have your body use the opportunities around you or take advantage of you they will instead seek to understand who you truly are and commit
themselves to that person this will drive them for instance to demonstrate their love language to you once you notice someone's constantly showing you their love language you are in their heart another noticeable thing you'll see is that this person will be committed to helping you get closer to God this picture is painted well in Songs of Solomon 2 4-5 let him lead me to the banquet hall and let his Banner Over Me Be Love strengthen me with raisins refresh me with apples for I am faint with love someone's concern over your spiritual life and relationship
with God is proof that they genuinely love you they always want you to be closer to God they want a relationship with you that's built on God's principles and Promises they commit themselves to help you have the best relationship with God why because they know that only God can come through for you they don't want you to completely depend on them they don't want to be first in your life they want God to be before them they point you first to God before assuring you of their presence they believe in biblical values and the strength
of a relationship built on those values they make sure that their relationship with you honors God's word and upholds the standard of the Kingdom one of the most comforting things to imagine is knowing that no matter what happens you have someone who will help you stand and be who God wants you to be they encourage you correct you in love counsel you and pray for you you can rest assured that with someone like this you've been blessed with a partner who will give you peace and rest in the future another thing you'll notice that will
tell you that God has chosen you to be in someone's heart is that you won't beg for their attention they'll always gladly want to spend time with you I know that people have different personalities some are introverted and some are pure extroverts many people are quite social and others love to be alone but one truth I believe is that when someone is deeply in love with you and has you in their heart if they're the outgoing type you are the one they want to go out with if they love to keep themselves you're the one
person they want to spend their alone time with when you love something you'll give it your time no matter how busy we all are we will always make time for the things or people we care about no matter how briefly if God has placed you in someone's heart they look forward to hearing your voice as often as possible they'll make excuses and plans to reach you speak with you then spend time with you sometimes they may act like they didn't just recently speak to you or spend time with you don't take this for granted it's
a sign that you mean a lot to them and you are the one who has their attention if someone acts freely and bears themselves before you it means that God has chosen you to be in their heart trust is proof of love and Union when a person starts telling you things about themselves that only a few people may know when they feel free to show you their weaknesses and not just their strengths then you should know that they love and trust you this is another noticeable proof that God has chosen to put you in their
hearts and wants you together after all you know you can't say you love someone if you don't trust them it's true that many people can show affection but they find it difficult to trust often because of past experiences however this will heal with time and you can open yourself up to trust again however if the person you're dealing with seems to have reservations and doesn't trust you instead showing presumptions or jealousy then they may not truly love you if someone is in love with you the most important thing to watch out for is how much
that person trusts you and how much you trust that person too this will confirm to you if their heart is with you or not because if they trust you completely then it means that they are completely in love with you and this means that their heart is with you then you can look for inclusion what does this mean when God places you in someone's heart and they're truly in love with you they'll include you in their lives and in their plans both long-term and short-term there are people who claim to love someone but are ashamed
or uncomfortable with being associated with them in public a person who's in love with you wants to be seen with you in public places they're always excited just to spend quality time with you this is a genuine sign that they're in love with you also they will not be scared to include you in their inner circles you see everyone has circles in their lives circles are organized by degrees of intimacy the closer we are with people and the more we care about them the deeper we bring them into our circles there are circles for family
and friends there are circles for colleagues and networks there are circles for different things when someone's in love with you they'll gladly include you in their Inner Circle which includes their family and friends this circle gets closer until you are in the center with them closer than anyone else you can tell by how they include you in their plans shows how much they love and value you they don't see a future without you in it they don't want a goal or plan that doesn't have something to do with you directly or indirectly they're willing to
stand with you and bear any risks or Consequences associated with depending on you those around them will know about you they will be so proud to Showcase you to anyone anywhere why because they want you to know that you're now an important part of their life this can be quite scary for those of us who may never had anyone take us so seriously but you see because God's involved this person will be serious about you they will prove to you that they have good plans for you in their life they will show you so that
you can join them in building a life for both of you when you find such a person hold on to them and trust God to help you intentionally be a blessing to this person believe me when I tell you that it's such a blessing to meet that person whom God has chosen for you having strong passionate feelings for someone is not enough hear me out on this one the most common misconception is that love is a single emotion that can overpower every other feeling in the world what many do not realize is this love is
a package of choices and processes it is a combination of many other emotions when you claim to be in love with someone you must know that love alone cannot bring your relationship to its highest potential you will have to feel a roller coaster of emotions and exhibit fundamental values instead of just experiencing the high of it so no love is not really all that you need for a relationship to work it is an emotional process coupled with actions based on values meaning God would not Destin you to be with someone who you won't feel the
extremities of love with he wants you to experience it to the highest degree just like his great love for us in life we meet people that we click with and as social beings we invest in an environment where we will get closer to each other when we meet new friends we add them to our social media accounts we try to create plans and we attempt to build a closer relationship with them especially when you are interested in this person you make an effort to bond with them and take a closer look at how being with
them feels the tricky part though is that sometimes we cannot identify if the connection is purely by our choice or if God is the one behind the curtains perhaps you're not interested in a commitment yet but you're always exposed to this person you may ask what is God's purpose for bringing them into my life why is our connection gradually becoming stronger we know that love comes when we least expect it because of this we may be unprepared or hostile to the idea you may be confused if God is allowing this to happen love that is
orchestrated by God is nothing short of greatness this relationship will fulfill the both of you while serving as an example of his love when you sense the following feelings it means that God is pairing you closer together number one you will feel happiness and contentment Psalm 144 verse 15 says happy are the people whose God is the Lord we were taught that the moon does not actually shine on its own it merely reflects the light coming from the Sun in the same manner our creator is the only one who can bring us the most genuine
joy we can ever feel because of this he wants you to be with a person who can embody such happiness and influence you with it the Lord won't send you someone who cannot make you happy for how would the two of you obey his word and Delight in his presence together they say that happiness is a choice and so the person God sent for you will make it easier for you to make this Choice every day in his own words a troubled mind breaks the spirit if you do not feel true happiness when you are
with someone God is Not facilitating the connection between the two of you do you know who might be behind it the devil he wants to see you suffer in an attempt to provoke God he will bring you closer to a person who may satisfy your needs but cannot make you happy Matthew 6 19-21 tells us do not store up for yourselves Treasures on Earth where moths and Vermin destroy and where thieves break in and steal but store up for yourselves Treasures in Heaven where moths in Vermin do not destroy and where thieves do not break
in and steal for where your treasure is there your heart will be also this is the issue when people use love for the sake of transactions remember that there is a fine line between someone who can make you happy and someone who can provide things that make you happy do you know how in shows and books there is a popular plot that involves choosing a less financially secure man over a rich one it's mostly because the first one can actually make the woman happy the problem with the world today is that gold diggers seem to
be accepted and normalized proverbs 10 22 reads the blessing of the Lord makes rich and he adds no sorrow with it when God blesses you with a budding relationship with someone there will be no long-term sorrow in James 1 verse 17 every good and perfect gift is from above coming down from the father of the Heavenly lights who does not change like shifting Shadows happiness is not necessarily a product or a service you get from this person it most often comes from within even when they're not around you feel happy just to know that you
play a role in each other's life this is why happiness and contentment must go together these two feelings cannot be bought but rather are effortlessly found in the person God is pairing you with number two another emotion you will passionately feel is respect respect is such a broad term but let me make it simple for you this is when you feel empowered by the freedom both of you have there is no sign of power imbalance between the two of you your discussions and activities reflect kindness and gentleness respect is usually conveyed in the way you
communicate with each other have you ever shared a conversation with someone and you instantly felt as if you had known each other for years this light feeling is typically a product of the amount of respect enveloped in that conversation It Feels So liberating and it's like you can talk about anything under the sun without being judged or dismissed there is a rising number of relationships where abuse takes place physically verbally or emotionally the thing about this is that you see how there is an overall lack of respect for oneself and for other partners you feel
respected and you have respect for this person these are telling signs that God is putting the two of you together when Sarah and Abraham could not conceive a child Sarah offered to use haggar their slave as a surrogate to be clear surrogacy is a painful decision for everyone Sarah was consenting that her husband have a child with another woman just to have Offspring however she respected the need for an heir she respected the love she shared with Abraham so she suggested to proceed with surrogacy the same goes with Samson and Delilah if Delilah truly respected
Samson even without the bride she would not have forced Samson to disclose his secret as imperfect beings we will have shortcomings but respect is a vital element that is required in order for us to make compromises and see through these flaws you cannot fully love someone you do not respect God will pair you with someone who respects you for who you are because you are his beloved creation number three lastly you will feel absolute trust in this person now I'm not sure if you had this experience as a child but there used to be an
activity for building trust called the trust fall one must turn their back on the other player and let themselves fall without reservations in order for the other player to catch them most of the time the players cannot fully commit to Falling because of their fear of not being caught which is totally normal however I ask you this will you be able to trust this person to never abandon you when all else fails for example you're stuck in debt or you get diagnosed with the disease do you trust them not to leave your side Galatians 6
verse 2 says carry each other's burdens and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ does not want us to rely on ourselves you know that it is a grave sin to think that you can go through times of adversity alone therefore he is constantly blessing us with people who are showered with his wisdom to be our support system trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship because it Fosters teamwork it will be you and your partner Against All Odds in the Bible even the way Jesus led the disciples preached the importance of
relying on one another the book of nehemia includes a story about rebuilding the Wall in Jerusalem the people needed to repair the wall while keeping their defenses up because they were being attacked by enemies to achieve both goals simultaneously half of the population built the wall and half served as guards because of this teamwork they were able to rebuild the wall without being conquered to with someone who will keep you protected while you are occupied with something else and vice versa this person must be trustworthy someone who would not bat an eye even if you
are at your most vulnerable point as they say love cannot live where there is no trust God's commandment to us is to learn how to carry each other's burdens a duty that is strongly needed in a loving relationship the very essence of commitment is being each other's stronghold for when God tests you your partner is responsible for guiding you in times when you were too involved to discern your actions carefully you direct each other on the right path did you notice how Samson lied to Delilah a few times to keep his secret at first deep
down through God's wisdom he felt that Delilah was not a trustworthy person think about this do you see yourself in trusting your deepest darkest secret to this person it does not have to be right now but in the future do you think this would be possible if you cannot trust this person with your life then God has no interest in matching the two of you when you feel all these signs then God is allowing this connection to grow God would not want you to miss any of these feelings because everything I mentioned is needed for
a healthy relationship God communicates with us through the holy spirit that is within us so these feelings will guide you to the path he wants you to take surrender every emotion to God and he will give you direct instructions on how to go about this relationship indulge in the fact that you are having these deep feelings because it suggests that love is right at your doorstep however when you miss one of them then it can be a learning opportunity perhaps this person needs you to call them out on their shortcomings or you need to just
let go Deuteronomy 28 2 proclaims and all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you if you obey the voice of the Lord your God the Lord is Blessing You by bringing you closer together let him be in control and Delight in his blessed relationship a famous quote goes something like this choose a partner who is good for you not good for your parents not good for your image not good for your bank account choose someone who's going to make your life emotionally fulfilling you know this is genuinely good advice you require a partner
who will serve as an example of what it is to live purposefully there is one crucial element in this process though that was not mentioned this is something that most Christians tend to forget resulting in heartbreak I'll let you in on it a partner that will fulfill all your needs is already chosen this person was already hand-picked by our creator specifically to be your soul mate let us put it this way the rabbit challenged the turtle to a race to their respective homes thinking that it would be impossible for the turtle to win because of
its sluggish movement the turtle agreed and so the rabbit counted down to three to start the race in a split second the turtle won the race by ducking into its shell the rabbit failed to recognize that Turtles consider their shells to be their homes just like how the turtle had its home right there we have the Holy Spirit within us you do not have to run a race to marriage with anyone because the spirit of Christ Living in you is all that you need in order to meet your future spouse Romans 8 9 you however
are not in the flesh but in the spirit if in fact the spirit of God dwells in you anyone who does not have the spirit of Christ does not belong to him now the more accurate version of the quote I told you earlier would start like this let the holy spirit guide you to the one chosen as your partner have you ever chased after someone you believed to be the perfect match for you when you go after a person not sent by God there will be no Victorious Finish Line because you are not meant to
run that race he will never subject you to feudal Pursuits you his child are destined for love that does not require hunting if you allow the guidance of God's spirit to intervene in a crowd full of people he will clearly show you the one you are destined to be with the Bible contains stories that explicitly show us how Jesus was born by the Holy Spirit he was filled with the spirit of God as much as he was led empowered and sustained by him because our long-term goal is to follow in Christ's footsteps and emulate godliness
an important thing you can do is to allow the intervention of this spirit in your romantic relationships in Jeremiah 1 5 God says before I shaped you in the womb I knew all about you before you saw the light of day I had holy plans for you you don't need to go to Great Lengths to discover your ideal match because God has already designated one for you he won't allow you to be associated with someone who lacks a Godly character God made it clear that he had good intentions for you from the beginning these are
not just plans my friend but holy plans if you look this verse up it indicates that these plans are of spiritual excellence and utmost thoughtfulness you'll see who is worthy of your love when the time is right until then let God's wisdom take control over your heart and mind follow the spirits leading in all aspects of your life especially your relationships marriage is a lifelong sacred commitment we need to make and we cannot rely on our own knowledge in deciding what is best for us we are too nearsighted to see who is truly good for
us we learn in Proverbs 3 5 trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding the complicated thing about being in the back seat is that we do this all the time we use apps to guide us when we travel since they provide everything we need to get there quickly we utilize the internet to find every type of information imaginable we rely on these tools because we personally admit that they are more knowledgeable than we are so when I say entrust your marital relationship into the hands of God
through the Holy Spirit within you what seems to be the difficulty are you not 100 confident in God's all-knowing presence you must wait patiently to let the Holy Spirit show you the way to your true love the greatest challenge we are facing today is pressure from the world we rush love because we see how it works for others we are excited about the perks of being committed we are craving the affection one can offer us all things shiny and sweet are genuine and healthy right can I tell you something rushing is a complete insult to
the wisdom God poured towards planning your life it is the way of the devil Psalm 37 7-9 tells us be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way over the man who carries out evil devices fret not yourself it tends only to evil there's a story of a group of men who would ride horses across countries the bystanders noticed that the routine of these men consisted of traveling for days and then staying in one spot for at least a week this repeated throughout their
Journey travel then stop travel then stop a curious person asked them why are you traveling this way you would think that the answer would be something related to resting but the Traveler's answer that they were letting their souls catch up to their bodies as we look for our spouse are we sure that the spirit of God living inside us is guiding our search it is possible that our physical selves which are Guided by worldly ideals are in charge this is not how it ought to be we must pause and let our soul catch up to
us liberate yourself from societal expectations and do what the Lord expects of you let the Holy Spirit do his role in leading you to the right person your compass in God's world is the Holy Spirit since he is literally God he is the best qualified to discern God's plan consider this you wouldn't hire a foreigner to show you around a country if you wanted to explore it you would strongly prefer a local someone who is familiar with the entire area the spirit of God is just like that First Corinthians 6 19-20 asks us do you
not know that your bodies are the Temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you whom you have received from God you are not your own you were bought with a price therefore honor God with your bodies do not hurry into love lock out all societal pressures do not ever believe that you are missing out on love glorify God by sitting patiently as he Reveals His purpose for your genuine love the Lord is not slow to fulfill his promises but you have to stop fixating on the mere duty of waiting keep your attention on the
fact that he has promised to provide you with a partner who is ideal for you this is your goal waiting is only a tiny task to complete I have a proposition for you do you know how waiting is harder when you are stagnant but easier when you are occupied likewise what you can do to make waiting bearable is this work on yourself first how many of you are certain that you truly love yourselves I'm asking you this because God considers this above all else before allowing you to meet your soul mate The Book of Mark
says that God's greatest commandment is for you to love your neighbor as you love yourself how can the holy spirit guide you to your spouse if you don't fully love yourself he knows that you may not be prepared for such a dedicated love this is not coming from hearsay it is literally one of the things you must do while letting the Holy Spirit work on you As Told in Proverbs 19 8 to acquire wisdom is to love oneself people who cherish understanding will prosper we can multitask waiting loving ourselves and seeking God like we always
multitask in our ordinary daily tasks subsequently loving yourself first entails learning to love our creator more Isaiah 34 16 proclaims seek and read the book of the Lord not one of these shall be missing None Shall be without her mate for the mouth of the Lord has commanded and his Spirit has gathered them the world and the enemy would have us believe that being single is a miserable situation they want you to feel guilty about the fact that someone isn't devoted to you at the moment however the world is not who we follow it is
our creator and it is not aware of our best interests God is which do you truly want a marriage out of worldly expectations or a spirit-led commitment God never meant for us to marry without the holy spirit's assistance and empowerment I want to also share the beauty of being in a relationship blessed by God Abraham and Sarah who appeared in the Bible were known to have been an infertile couple because of this Sarah who was opposed to it volunteered to have her maidservant carry Abraham's children for them God eventually granted them a child so this
Quest was a failure the key takeaway from this is that the spirit will not only lead you to your god-sent spouse he will also see to it that your marriage will endure any difficulties he will guide you too and make sure that despite mistakes and flaws your love will grow in addition to this God will lead you to a spouse that will guide you closer to him just like how the Spirit Led David to Abigail among his many wives Abigail redirected and prevented him from committing foolishness honestly there is no losing scenario if you allow
the holy spirit to guide you in choosing your partner you will find yourself in a successful long-lasting marriage whenever you feel frustrated and alone remember Proverbs 16 9. the heart of a man plans his way but the Lord establishes his steps do not let impatience creep in you are not waiting for true love it is the one waiting for you let God's spirit bring you to this perfect destination if you're feeling stuck with a strong attachment to someone either someone you're no longer with or someone you've never had a relationship with while you're trusting God
for the right person in your life this video is God's message to you there is a Divine reason for that feeling and God is behind it many times we take too many things at face value we think well it's just a feeling it'll pass I just need to get my mind off them but then you try and try and it just seems to get worse and worse but we often don't know is that as long as you're not married to anyone yet God may keep a strong feeling for someone in your heart for his own
plans for the two of you it would be unwise to keep fighting this because you'll just wear yourself out you may have prayed and asked God to take the feelings away you may have even started avoiding the person and keeping your distance but to no avail nothing's wrong with you you don't have to feel bad about yourself now you may be wondering why God's not removing your feelings for this person despite your prayers and efforts it's possible that he's trying to say something to you and you just haven't gotten the hint yet you may have
tried everything you can to ensure you let go of those feelings and move on but you're still experiencing that same strong emotion toward that person if you're thinking this is ordinary and will wear off with time it won't good or bad things don't just happen by accident they're caused by a spiritual Force as we go on in this video you'll learn about why God's not removing your feelings for this person like I said this message is for two categories of people those who may have once had a relationship with someone but later went their separate
ways and those who've never had a relationship with the person in question this isn't a message for anyone who's already married if you're married God forbid you from developing desires for anyone apart from your partner Jesus said in Mark 10 9-12 therefore what God has joined together let no one separate when they were in the house again the disciples asked Jesus about this he answered anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her and if she divorces her husband and marries another man she commits adultery this is a message for single
Believers even though they may be dating you see as a child of God we play by a different set of rules we're not led by how we feel but by what God's word and spirit tells us Romans 8 14 says for those who are led by the spirit of God are the children of God one piece of evidence that you're a true follower of Jesus is your willingness to wait for and obey his instructions regardless of how you may feel so in an important area of your life such as marriage it's important to know what
God's saying and Obey him that's why God's sending you this video as a confirmation of what he's already doing in Your Heart by not removing your feelings for someone for instance one reason God may be keeping your feelings for that person is because that person may be the right one for you even if they don't seem to be now it's possible that the person you have these feelings for doesn't see you in a romantic way it's even possible that they may be with someone at the moment or you're with someone in a relationship just seems
impossible perhaps the person may even know of your feelings but their attitude towards you doesn't allow anything to happen now though God won't keep feelings in your heart for an unbeliever and doesn't want you to have anything to do with them God may keep your feelings for someone who has the potential to become the person he wants them to be for example I've seen hardened unbelievers encounter God in a supernatural way and end up married to a Godly spouse whom God has placed in their lives while they were still far away from God please note
that this doesn't apply to everyone however God may work like this for some of his children even if they are the one for you and you have strong feelings of love towards them that doesn't mean you two will be getting married or dating right away the Bible tells us that God orders the steps of the righteous this means that he takes things one step at a time as you follow him once you miss a step you won't get things right until you go back and take the correct step so in a situation where the feeling
is strong but the person isn't there yet or doesn't look like he'll be there God wants you to First accept that his hands on it then surrender to what he's doing remember that just as God is working in and on you he's also working in and on the person he's bringing into your life just as God's watching over you to protect you from harm he's also watching over them too everything God does he does with the bigger picture in mind so the first reason God's keeping that strong feeling is that the person may be the
one for you you may not begin a relationship instantly with them but once you know your struggle with the feeling can stop and you can start working with God and waiting on him until the relationship develops first Thessalonians 5 24 the one who calls you is faithful and he will do it it's also possible that another reason God may be keeping your feelings for someone is that he has a plan for the two of you if you used to have a relationship with this person but it ended it's possible that there's unfinished business that God
wants to achieve through your union if you've never been together it may mean there's a purpose that God wants to fulfill through your relationship there are certain things that can only happen between the two people in a genuine Godly dating relationship there are things you may never share with anyone else except the person you're with God can do many things through such relationships in your lives individually and together some people may not have stayed together as a couple but after many years they're still thankful they once dated a particular person why God use that person
to show them things about themselves they hadn't known we're there God used that person to guide them heal them teach them and bring them onto the path that led them where they are today the devil uses this also to bring people into our lives that leave us regretting that we ever met them sometimes this purpose may be short term that is you may not even end up together but you would have completed God's agenda for that Union at the time or it may be in the long term which may lead to marriage whichever it may
be you have to understand that everything God does is because first he's Sovereign and he has the final say over our lives and second he has good plans for us and his actions bring us closer to the Fulfillment of those plans you don't need to fight it or try to figure it out yourself remember that the Bible says in first Samuel 2 9. he will guard the feet of his Faithful Servants but the wicked will be silenced in the place of Darkness it is not by strength that one prevails the most important thing to note
in all of this is that you must confirm that you're on the same page with God learn to take the time and be silent with God don't be Hasty to jump into a relationship with anyone regardless of how you feel about them if God's involved he will guide you how are you sure that God will guide you because you have his Spirit In You through the Holy Spirit you are sure to get it right when you develop a relationship with the Holy Spirit you can share your confusion and uncertainties with him and you can be
sure that he will guide you well let this be the confirmation you need as you go to God regarding that feeling you have for that person and then wait on him to tell you whether to move or not and how to go about it in the realm of relationships we often encounter trials and tribulations that test our faith in resilience just as God tested Abraham in his unwavering devotion we too find ourselves facing challenges that push us to our limits it may seem perplexing at times but remember that these tests are not meant to break
us but to shape us for something better to comprehend this Divine Purpose let's reflect on the story of Creation in the Book of Genesis originally God did not intend for hardship to be part of our lives however sin entered the world through Adam and Eve disrupting God's perfect plan throughout history we witness how Disobedience led to consequences for God's chosen people Israel calamities such as famine fire disease conquest and oppression by enemies were direct results of their unfaithfulness though some calamities may not be connected to sin as seen during Abraham Isaac and Joseph's time it's
crucial to understand that the entrance of sin into the world altered the natural order even after Jesus Christ's sacrifice on the cross to save Humanity from sin difficult times persist these struggles can manifest in various forms whether in our relationships or personal life sin brought spiritual death allowing Satan to wield influence over the world's systems when faced with problems in our romantic life it's easy to become disheartened and question God's plan but remember God uses these challenges as opportunities for growth and preparation for something better just like a master sculptor carefully chisels away at a
block of marble to reveal a beautiful Masterpiece God molds us through the trials we face remember that these trials can also serve as indicators of the compatibility and strength of our relationship how you and your partner handle these challenges can reveal important aspects of your connection use this opportunity to evaluate the foundations of your relationship communication skills and mutual support lean on your faith and seek solace in God's promises he never promised an easy Journey but he did promise to be with us every step of the way have faith that God's testing is a testament
to his love and belief in your potential through these trials you will not only grow individually but also help build a relationship grounded in trust perseverance and a shared Reliance on God in the realm of relationships there are signs that God gives us to show that we are ready for something more these signs may not always be obvious at first but once you learn to recognize them you'll find Clarity and understanding in the truth of God's plan for your love life pictured this you've met someone special and your heart begins to flutter with excitement but
amidst the joy in anticipation challenges arise misunderstandings disagreements and doubts start to Cloud The Horizon it's in these moments that God's testing comes to play why does God allow these obstacles in your relationship well it's because he cares deeply about your happiness and wants to ensure that you are prepared for the future he is in store for you just as gold is refined Through Fire your character and Faith are refined through these trials remember God will never abandon you this truth is of utt and most importance to hold on to during difficult times it's easy
to fall into the Trap of believing that God doesn't concern himself with matters of the heart but the person you choose to marry can profoundly impact your spiritual journey that's why seeking God's guidance in your romantic relationships is crucial take a moment to reflect on Matthew 6 33 which says but seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all things that shall be added unto you when you prioritize seeking God's will in aligning your heart with his he will guide your steps and reveal the warning signs when necessary you may feel discouraged
trapped in your current relationship troubles but hold on tight to the promises found in Hebrews 13 5-6 the Lord declares I will never leave thee nor forsake thee he is not a distant Observer but a helper who walks alongside you when you acknowledge his presence and seek his assistance you will find the strength and courage to face whatever challenges come your way the testing may be tough but the reward that awaits you is far greater God is preparing you for something better and when the time is right your relationship will flourish in ways you've never
even imagined trust in him and you will experience the beauty and love and fulfillment according to his perfect plan so how do you respond during these trying times it starts with shifting your focus instead of worrying and complaining choose to have unwavering faith in God's plan for your life redirect your attention away from the problems that surround you and fix your eyes on him like King David who declared even though I walk through the darkest Valley I will fear no evil for you are with me Your Rod and your staff they comfort me Psalms 23
verse 4. don't allow fear to consume you instead boldly Proclaim that God has something good in store for you regardless of the challenges you're facing consider the inspiring story of Paul and Silas who praised and worshiped God even while they were imprisoned with their hands in Chains and their feet in stocks now let's talk about the importance of aligning your relationship with God's principles one of the clearest indicators that a relationship should come to an end is if it contradicts the teachings of the Bible often we are drawn to someone because of the intense emotions
and connection we feel but if that relationship goes against God's word it's a clear sign that God does not approve perhaps you have faced failures in achieving your goals despite your Relentless efforts but fear not for God may be shielding you from future harm and redirecting you toward his divine plan if your aspirations in that relationship is not aligned with God's will no matter how hard you try they won't bear fruit take a moment to reflect on your relationship does your partner consistently encourage you to compromise God's word in pursuit of worldly pleasures do they
discourage you from attending church or spending time with God do they treat obedience to God as optional rather than essential if any of these questions resonate with you it may be a sign that God is urging you to run we often think that with enough time and effort we can mold someone into who we want them to be but let me tell you the only one who can truly transform a person is God himself instead of relying on empty promises in sweet words pay attention to a person's actions are they continuously leading you away from
God and encouraging you to disobey his Commandments if that's the case chances are they will continue to do so in the future it's essential to recognize the signs and understand that this relationship might not be in alignment with God's plan for your life we all go through challenging times with our partners don't we but have you ever felt overwhelmed like it's just too much to handle well God knows that your partner can be both a source of strength and a source of weakness sometimes he allows difficulties to enter your relationship life to catch your attention
and increase your faith in him so if you find yourself in the midst of a feud or facing trials within your household it could be God's way of reminding you to pray harder he wants to strengthen your family bonds teaching you to love one another unconditionally and selflessly sting him and allow him to work through these challenges for the greater good have you ever reached a point in your life where you felt utterly hopeless or lost maybe you have questioned your very existence wondering why you're still alive well these moments of Despair might be signs
from God himself he is waiting for you to call upon his name and surrender your entire life to him in the words of Luke 16 verse 13. no servant can serve two masters for either he will hate the one and love the other or else he will hold to the one and despise the other are you feeling out of control in your relationship does being with this person sway you into making impulsive decisions and spending recklessly if so my dear it's a clear sign that God is telling you to end that relationship God wants us
to be wise logical and sensible in our choices the enemy on the other hand temps us to follow our fleeting emotions and give in to our base desires it's important to discern the difference and choose the path that aligns with God's will for your life remember God is testing you because he is preparing you for something better these relationship problems you're facing are not in vain they are opportunities of growth self-reflection and ultimately drawing closer to God Embraces guidance and trust that he has a beautiful plan for your future so when faced with difficulties in
your relationships seek God's wisdom and listen to his voice he will lead you to the right path and in due time you will find the fulfilling and Lasting Love that God has prepared for you