spy tactics that build trust spy tactics that build confidence spy tactics that give you an unfair Advantage there are spy tactics that you can use for everything from how to shoot a gun to how to tie your shoes there's spy tactics for how you pack a bag there's spy tactics for what you eat and drink in the morning there's spy tactics for how you talk to somebody who's senior to you how do you talk to somebody who's younger than you how do you talk to a female how do you talk to a female that is
attractive to you how do you talk to a female who is not attractive to you how do you talk to a female who is older than you and also attractive to you we can I mean there's tactics for all of it because at the end of the day what a spy is trying to do is achieve a very specific outcome and the only way that you can get your outcome is if you understand how to take advantage of the subconscious of your target so that you can deliberate move the conversation in a direction that benefits
you that does not mean manipulate everyone what it means is when you are on a mission with a specific outcome that you're trying to achieve you take deliberate actions to trigger with high probability the outcome that you desire now I want to know how what tactics do you use to talk to a female that you're attracted to that's a great okay so if you're talking to a female that you're attractive to that you're attracted to but you do not want her to know that you are attracted to her it's called parallel conversation you don't talk
to her really at all directly instead you talk to somebody who is parallel to her so if you want to approach a girl at a bar that you're attracted to but you don't want her to know that you're attracted to her don't talk to her when you walk up to the bar talk to the person sitting next to her at the bar maybe it's a boy maybe it's a girl maybe it's an old person maybe it's a young person maybe there's nobody else at the bar so you talk to the bartender but you do not
show her that you're attracted to her because subconsciously what will happen is you will engage in a conversation that conversation will be between you and the person you're talking to which means two centers of energy start to generate shared energy that is going to naturally attract the Curiosity of the third person if you've ever found yourself listening in on someone's conversation when you were like why am I even doing this that's why it's because they started a conversation they created an energy center that your body couldn't resist because of survival Instinct what if they know
something I don't know what if they talk about something I don't realize what if one of them is crazy your survival Instinct takes over and it forces you to listen in and that's why some of us try to not Eaves drop we like oh I shouldn't be listening to them but I keep listening to them I'm not even interested in what they're talking about but I keep I keep listening to them so you it's called parallel conversation if you ever want to talk to a female that you are attracted to without letting her know that
you're attracted to her is that a spy tactic don't let her know you're attracted to her or absolutely it absolutely is because in a in every relationship you have to consider the dominance in the relationship and The Leverage that you have over each other is what determines the dominance that you have so if you're trying to approach a Target remember in CIA speak we're not approaching a date we're approaching a target of interest that Target of interest is a bad guy usually they're a drug dealer they're a Smuggler of children they're the wife of a
senior General right they're somebody important so you you want to never give them The Leverage to have dominance over you right out of the gates because it's confusing to the relationship instead you have to find a way to approach them on equal footing if you if I talk to you you have the dominant position because I'm deferring my attention to you before you defer your attention to me but if I talk to somebody next to you and you then join the conversation I have dominance to you because you are showing me attention before I'm showing
you attention now if you want to talk to somebody who you are attracted to then you do want to give them the benefit of dominance because what you want to do is you don't ever want to come across as a threat to them one of the ways that you can make sure that you don't trigger a threat response is by letting that person know they're in the dominant position so you would find a a way a reason a cause to approach them that is not threatening to them so you come up to them and maybe
you ask them a question that's unrelated to them right you ask them you know do you know where the restroom is or you ask them if they've been to this you know if have you been to this bar before even as cliche as that is have you been here [Music] [Applause] before fres freedom