5 Habits That Instantly Boost Your Attractiveness

hey do you want to know a secret about attraction you see being attractive isn't just about good looks or fancy clothes it's also about the habits you cultivate that make you irresistible to others so if you're looking to turn heads and win Hearts you've come to the right place in this video we'll be sharing five simple yet powerful habits that will help you become more confident charismatic and magnetic whether you're looking to impress a crush nail a job interview or simply feel better about yourself these habits are guaranteed to transform your life so buckle up

take notes and get ready to become the best version of yourself number one learn to tell stories everyone loves a good story stories help people connect and the better a Storyteller you become the more interesting you will sound by Nature the human attention span is quite short it can range from 2 seconds to over 20 minutes but the average sits at around 8.25 seconds however many of us are willing to listen to someone who is engaging and interesting for longer than that luckily being interesting can be learned After figuring out what your unique qualities are

let them shine to tell better stories you have to be relatable and connect to your audience there are countless books filled with ideas on how to be a better Storyteller so if you need some help check them out don't let fear hold you back from being your most authentic self fear can sometimes make you less memorable and charismatic two what large listening ears you have sure telling a story can capture someone's attention but have you ever had someone truly listen to you have you ever tried to have a conversation with someone who seems like they're

waiting for you to finish so they can start talking it's frustrating and sometimes demeaning being that one person who actually listens to someone will make you seem more attractive it may seem surprising but many of us love feeling heard and seen listening is an important tool when making relationships because it lets the other person know that you are interested in them in turn they will be interested in you so how do you become a better listener practice when you find yourself in a conversation try not to follow your thoughts or ideas just listen clear your

mind and listen another way to practice is by asking open-ended questions sometimes we tend to interrogate people instead of allowing them the space to speak try these techniques out and let us know what you learn about others in the comments number three self- love is hot taking care of yourself is vital for becoming an attractive person we've covered various methods of self-care but it's not always about baths and sweet scented candles taking care of yourself literally means taking care of your entire self this means your physical emotional mental spiritual financial and any other aspect of

your life it's not just the physical health that matters sure you should eat your vitamins drink water and get exercise to look and feel healthy but you should also work to improve all aspects of your life because all aspects intersect and depend on each other if your mental health is not great your physical health might suffer and vice versa there may be times s and Seasons when one area of life may be difficult to manage or take care of but that doesn't mean that the other areas of your life need to suffer how do you

take care of yourself it me like different for every single person but make sure you give yourself whatever you need to be your best self your attractiveness will follow four be more open being more open doesn't only refer to being more open-minded it means being more open to life in general by welcoming all the changes that can occur in life be more open to change and challenge in life will not only make you more attractive but will also give you life experience heuristics is a term that was coined in the 1950s by cognitive psychologist Herbert

Simon the American psychology Association defines heuristics as an experience-based strategy for solving problems or making a decision that often provides an efficient means of finding an answer cannot guarantee a correct outcome when we rely too much on past experiences to dictate our behavior in the future it's easy to close ourselves off from new things and fall into a cognitive bias hence to be more attractive be open to new things people and experiences number five don't be chandlerbing another way to be more attractive is to develop your interpersonal skills do you know chandlerbing from friends yeah

don't follow in his footsteps he once told a model gum would be Perfection interpersonal skills are defined as the behaviors and tactics a person uses to interact with others effectively though not many have them interpersonal skills are necess necessary to move and Thrive as social beings common interpersonal skills include emotional intelligence empathy communication reliability openness to feedback leadership and teamwork you will at some point have to rely on someone else wouldn't you want to leave a good impression your action set the tone for how attractive you may seem being attractive is so much more than

physical Beauty it is the ability to reflect the Light Within you the final tip to seem more attractive is to be your most authentic self you won't be able to attract everyone but you will attract those who appreciate you for who you are are there any other actions or habits that can make you seem more attractive if so let us know down below if we get a lot of suggestions maybe we'll make a part two but for now thank you for watching and we'll see you next time