My Sister & I Discuss Money, Fame, Situationships & Challenges | Ep 33

it may look all Rosy and happy and siblings are in love and all of that but we have we've had major fight something that always bed in my memory is when I almost drowned and then you came and saved me I jumped and mom was also there she was just staring she didn't jump to save me are you going to cry I'm not going to cry I'm going to cry a little bit because when somebody Google Sharon he they'll know everything about me so I really like going out when the girl has never even heard

of it it's so interesting two of the main things that don't matter for a long-term success of a relationship a is looks as usual B is you are making more money than most men running a very big fch startup now when you look at dating now when you look at finding your partner is there something that changes so so looks don't matter if he's a good person you I'll hey what the hell why are you asking me this question then so as aati you still don't have your own house you still live with me what

what is up with that you are going to get a lot of hate was saying I think you would be married by now the way you are in love with [Music] her most of the family fights are among siblings right the division of property what do you think is going to happen [Music] here hey guys welcome to the rakshabandhan special this is the first time that I have my beautiful little sister on my channel on my YouTube channel and for those of you who don't know uh her name is shya by the way and she

is the one who actually created the finance for sharan account I didn't even have a Instagram account back then she's the one who actually you know connected that email ID made that password and asked me Sharon should I make it financi with Sharon or should I call it aadmi Finance no Sharon heg Finance Sharon he finance and then finally she called it Finance with Sharon but yeah sh I think rakshabandhan special last year I think I gifted you a car 22 lakh rupees right and I got that whatever Rocky I don't understand this concept right

like how is it fair that the brother has to give money and you I get a 10 rupe raki in return or 5 rupe raki in return how is that fair what is this concept I think it's a promise that both of you make like both the brother and the sister make that we are uh there to protect each other I think we have I think we have exchanged this real also with each other right where uh this guy is saying your parents leave your too early your life partner comes too late but it's your

sibling who you yeah so I think siblings are there are there throughout yeah so that's like the longest relationship you have so you need to like it's very underrated so correct correct but I think um the most of the family fights are among siblings right the division of property what do you think is going to happen here I feel like because you're richer than me I think you will let go okay so I don't think fights are going to happen between us because you're just going to be like just take it just just take it

yeah like it's a fraction of my net worth so sha can have so talking about rich um let's talk about little bit about your uh your financial Journey right so you're 31 right now yeah would you call yourself financially independent I think I'm there I'm like halfway there like what is your fire number if I may ask what that's the better question I guess I think six six year six six year yeah and I'm like one or two years May I'll get there okay okay and in terms of investing um how do you learn in

the first place so how I learned I think it's a very typical story no idea about Finance uh when I started working I think my salary was around 24 and a half what did you study engineering computer science okay and then um after that like how was engineering like what what did you get what was your cgpa like when I graduated right around 8.5 that's actually pretty good that's pretty good yeah yeah so you always like studious studious student so you did your uh computer science engineering and then you talked about your first job first

job you making 25,000 I was at HP around uh 24 thou 24 and a half th000 per month and you moved to Bangalore at this point of time yeah yeah I was in Bangalore so like how were you able to save money when you're making 24,000 a month I think after a couple of months I did an RD account I still remember recurring deposit yeah and I used to put like 2,000 every month so you saving about 2,000 Rupees per month in that's it yeah how much more do you expect me to stay no but

I think you were not exactly leading a conservative lifestyle if you ask me uh because I still remember you used to call me for uh lunch uh dates with your friends like lunch branches with your friends there's this place right in Bangalore what is that place Shiro Shiro kind of very expensive place on UB City building right and it's like per head 2,500 rupees yeah right and you used to call me for that I was making 27,000 rupees salary you are making 24,000 rupes salary and you are paying 5,000 rupes for a dinner for both

of us yeah does that sound like a good financial decision to you it was not financially maybe not but I didn't look at it that way for me it was more like my brother has never been to a Shiro Branch I'm going to ask him to join but spending 2,000 rupes 2500 rupes which is like 10% of your salary on one uh you know one meal and when you paid on my behalf I was like [ __ ] right and that was a core memory I still remember it to this day today I'm paying for

everything that's the return you got yeah you have my credit card right now yeah like what do you think is the difference between you and me the reason I asked this is because we both had the similar upbringing yeah we both had the same parents and we only two years apart right so we've kind of had a very similar life but we're very different at the end of the day right little bit different and that is why we tend to have a lot of fights you know so like what do you think is the difference

between I think uh you got one thing wrong we were not raised by the same set of parents yeah there would have been the same people but the version of parenting I got you are adopted the version let me finish the version of parenting I got was way different from what you were given okay I feel like um you know Mom had three miscarriages before having me correct so I think when I was born uh I think they called me the miracle baby like Mom still says precious so I feel like when I was entering

a new phase in life they had more exposure they understood the world better and they were able to make better decisions for you so that's what I mean by older siblings have different kind of parenting and the younger one gets a totally different version you think I had extra privileges because I'm a guy yeah you were allowed to go to the restaurant in the night with Dad and you were sitting at the cash table them I was never even offered an option okay I don't think I don't think they would have even allowed because it's

a dad was running like a bar and restaurant he would never keep me in the cashier table and in front of people and me I don't think that would have ever happened for me and you went you left home earlier than me for engineering they didn't let me go you wanted to leave the city I wanted to go out of Mangalore they didn't let me do that but you were allowed to go to Bangalore um I think when it comes to having freedom to step out of the house obviously it's very common right in most

Indian households men are given more freedom we can come back later in the night and stuff like that right uh but when it comes to education I think uh they did the best they could they both went allowed us to both were given the best education we both put into ICC school you know which is like the toughest board there is and uh because of which our um speaking skills were good but did parents really expect a lot from you career-wise that's a very interesting question for me because um most Indian households they're like you

know I just need to get the daughter married and then the headache is gone so from your experience did Mom and Dad ever expect you to have big career Ambitions like did they support you enough like what would you say of course um I think from schooling days only they would say right like I remember she used to say I would love it if you Sharon and Anna um our cousin if you'll start your own company so I know they always saw that that you know I want Shreya to have her own job to earn

her own money okay can you talk about your salary progression you start off at 24,000 rupees per month and then how did it increase any career switches and all of that like like what did you yeah so HP as a software engineer it was 245,000 rupees then I wanted to do something else because I remember uh there were these soft skill trainers who would come to our College uh to teach us about interview skills communication skills they would teach us what is a group discussion uh writing so I really wanted to like that intrigued me

at that time only so I think after one 1 and a half year of working at p no around one year I I remember being like I I Googled it soft skill trainer how can I become a soft skill trainer and U there was a good institution that came up and I applied got myself certified it was like a onee thing got uh so it was a weekend School kind of a thing so I would work Monday to Friday Saturday Sunday I would go to this place get myself trained and I got certified once I

got certified I'm like now what do I do so I left my job went to Mango for some time and tried to freelance I remember Mom had a friend who was running like a small IT company I started over there where I took a session for his employees you came with me remember I told you it's my first session can you come with me because I'm scared I take the pictures you came to take pictures and all and I remember after the session you told me I didn't expect it would be yeah I was really

impressed because back then I was really shy I could not talk to a group of people right and when I saw you talk to like 50 60 people and give a training I was really impressed I would really freaked out to do something like that and that you told me that was your first attempt so I was really impressed and then I got a gig at a engineering not engineering College it was an institution called shras University in Mangalore and they told me can you join as a visiting faculty and teach business communication to a

bunch of grad like Bachelor students huh and that was like my first tint as a you know typical teacher like I would go like every alternate days to college and the students would be like is this a new student because I was only 24 what was I earning I was earning 2,000 Rupees per hour okay 2,000 yeah 2,000 Rupees per hour so in a week I would go like at least three times 6,000 a week yeah yeah the same it became into four 24,000 a month but you know what yeah even even though it was

only 22,000 an hour like even today when somebody asks me which is your best job you've done so far I'm so sorry I don't say Finance isan I say that because it was so exciting it was so different and the students was so nice and enthusiastic to learn I think it for them also it was like something very new so it was really nice we celebrated Teachers Day also one time I remember and then I got a job at uh an Tech univers uh e tech company in Bangalore again I moved to Bangalore and there

my salary was 40,000 so I was a training manager over there so you almost doubled your salary yeah 40,000 it became um were you able to save money now yeah okay yeah how much are you saving around 10K but where were you investing this 10K per month FD who was giving you this advice back then nobody but who how did you understand FD HH that was I'll tell you why I know so when an HP I had a girl I had a friend girl sorry I had a female friend her dad used to work in

a bank and he would tell her do FD and RD that's how I knew about Rd back then otherwise where back then what were you saving up for like a lot of people back then did not know why am I saving money for because I think it was more like one day if I don't have any money this will help me do you think do you think you were inspired by Mom because Mom was somebody who was to save a lot of money you think that's s of transfer yeah right she had that no like

save money right uh I think Mom glorified the concept of saving when we were kids mom used to brag about the fact that dad used to give her 10,000 rupees per month to run the family know back in the '90s and 2000s and she was still saving money from that and then it was it had become enough to pay for a Singapore trip for the whole family so she told that story at least 700 times that's what I was just going to say she never let an opportunity go that it's like it's my money it's

my money in the trip some five times she said this is my money you're enjoying I'm paying for everything so yeah I think that was always in my head like h i I have to save money because it'll help me on a bad day and then I remember one time you said there's one surprise coming out tomorrow you told me that and I'm like what what tell tell no no no you see you see next day I get a link to your YouTube first ever YouTube video and I look at it and I called you

and the first word that came out of my mouth was it's so bad right why is your lighting like thisuh so I told you your YouTube is not getting any views no why don't you start Instagram correct I remember so that I think I just knew about social media like I just knew how it worked back then correct in fact you were the one who told me Sharon you need to create content on Instagram on finance if you're going to continue to do this on YouTube you will not get more than 300 400 views which

is what I was getting mostly my mom's you know friends who are watching the videos our mom yeah what did I say my mom's friends our mom's friends who are watching the video like I want you to tell me how does how does it feel like working with a brother like someone who's younger than you I think for the first one year let me be blunt in my head I was your worse okay because you didn't know [ __ ] about social media so I'm like you're going to do what you're good at I will

not interfere but you are not going to interfere with what I do after you give me the raw footage right in my head I'm like I'm teaching him what needs to be done he's just doing his financing everything else I only acting your that's what I said like I'm not going to interfere what he does like his acting and his scripting and financing I'll not interfere otherwise I'm the Chris Jenner of this okay business and I remember this one brand deal that we got remember and we didn't know how to crack it how to ask

yeah we had like 13,000 followers and the brand lady from policy Bazar asked me how much for one instagram live and we said one lak I said one L without thinking and I and we blew it right and I remember like that whole night I was really depressed that that would have been the first source of income yeah and we blew it we blew it yeah and it came within like 3 months yeah and I think um what changed uh what changed our whole game was that real which both of us did yeah yeah that

uh acon I think without that real I would not have made it I don't know if you're trying to be sarcastic or no like think about it right we were at what we had like 500 followers yeah 500 600 followers and then that one real blows up me and you and that is the idea that you came up with yeah right oh [ __ ] you came up with the concept and you were so nervous and last minute I chickened out do I said let's not do it let me finish I was like 10% convinced

but you are going to get a lot of hate for saying let me finish you see let finish I was getting like 10 I was like 10% convinced when you gave me the idea but I didn't want to hurt your feelings I'm like okay she came up with that that idea let me let us do it what what's harm what harm is there the learning that's what you were thinking the learning will be minimal but it's fun something that she came I don't want to hurt her feelings so I agreed and then I got ready

on the day of shooting you like Sharon I'm not sure you got cold feet and you're about to back off I'm like [ __ ] it let's just do it and we did it and we posted first one week it got like nor days one one no no first one week it was just like thousand views then a week later it became a million views I did not I did not sleep for two days because most people don't realize but the likes and the increase in the followers is nothing short of a dopamine hit right

you refresh refresh refresh you see the follower increase and every content creator who is watching this will be able to relate to this that when you reach your first 10K followers there's no bigger Joy so throughout the night I'm checking the follower count follower count how many followers are coming right because it was just skyrocketing like within like 2 months we reached 10K followers and then other videos got million views and all of that right if that video had not had not gone viral I not had the confidence to be bold to start skits which

was of course that was the real uh you know Game Changer game changer for us but to be to have the confidence to even do something like that where you buy costumes dress up as Batman and do role playing do dialogues and explain finance and that that requires a lot of confidence so I remember you would shoot I would edit every single day every real and he would post every day correct every month there was like 100k new followers coming and it didn't feel the same no after 10K like I thought 100K would would feel

like woo and it didn't no 100K was still a big celebration but 1 million did not feel as happy as 10K followers also yeah I think I think the same kind almost like same kind of happiness I felt was when we got the blue tick correct before you can buy bluex yeah so that was like a big deal I I still remember you me dad mom sitting at the dining table yeah we were eating dinner and then I randomly opened my DM and I could see your chat and I like something looks different and then

I saw the Blue Tick and I'm like oh my God and and you were acting all cool you were like oh we got Blue Tick okay okay you did that and I was screaming we we were with parents no I was just keeping it cool but what I want you to touch upon Shrea is how did your like if I were to look at it the Journey of the last 3 and a half years there is particularly three different phases the first phase is reaching uh just focusing on content and social media and building one

of the biggest distribution channels for Finance in the country the second step of the journey was um launching 1% Club out of our bedrooms and then the last stage is now where we actually took an office and now became like a proper corporate company right so I wanted to talk about how has how have you evolved in these different stages of life like compared to how you were four years back to today what are the changes that you've observed in you from a professional and a personal point of view so I think one and a

half year was still chill right between you and me like we were just like taking it like as the day comes and then I remember our first ever higher we wanted a new Editor to up our game correct and uh I I think we hired one editor one videographer correct and now I'm suddenly managing two people but uh considering that decision where we first time we hired somebody outside um come and and fast forward today where there are 100 employees uh like how has your responsibilities changed how have you changed your mindset I think from

that one editor and one videographing right now I'm overseeing what 25 people in the creative team yeah and I I think if you compare that shya to today sh I'm like 100x more confident more knowledgeable about the industry I think my network has become stronger which I can't wouldn't have been able to say two years back four years back H so now Shrea you have reached a stage where you know you're almost like your own entrepreneur now when you look at dating now when you look at you know Finding Your Partner but now has it

changed because you're so accomplished right you are making more money than most men out there let's be real right and you're almost financially independent right and you are running a very big uh you know fintech startup right so a lot of things are going on for you and the trajectory is also going way up so my first question is when you go out on a date these days are the guys intimidated when you say about what you do and does that affect the trajectory of building a relationship that's honestly the men I have met never

made me feel that way uh always there's a lot of respect and admiration for the work that we put out most of them know what is finance with Sharin and very surprisingly they also know what is 1% Club no like do you feel like it's harder for women who are more successful and more very rich and self is it more difficult for them to find their 100% yeah 100% I'll tell you it's because of not just money it's also like as you grow older you know what you want right and now you're not dating or

looking for a man for financial safety anymore now you're looking for bigger things what is the bigger thing bigger thing is mutual respect do you have the same goals do you want the same kind of Lifestyle do you want where do you want to live do you want to live in the city do you want to live in the outskirts so we look at values we look at lot of other things now I mean they definitely say that you know the most important decision you'll make in your life is picking your life partner uh choosing

a good life partner is very important from a financial Point as well right so very people talk about finances before getting married right and today I think that's a very important conversation to have because a simple decision like when should we buy our house how much do we want to spend on the house uh how many kids do we want to have uh where do we want to settle and live uh are you supporting your parents am I expected to support your parents do you have any debt do you have any loans are you about

to take any big risky business loan in your life so we are not talking about all these things right and it just ends up happening and it can disrupt an entire marriage and people don't and that's why half of the reasons why divorce happens is because of money problems how has dating changed for you now like now in three years so what has changed for me is that it's actually caused more problems than for good because the thing is they're already putting you on a pedestal which is not good if you are going out on

a date to have like a nice conversation and have a great time if that person has already knows everything about you because when somebody Google Sharon he they'll know everything about me they'll go to my Instagram profile they'll know everything there are some five six articles they'll read it they know everything in fact I'm shocked how about how much they know about me so that is one disadvantage that if they already know everything about you where is the mystery so I really like going out when the girl has never even heard of me it happens

sometimes number two they think this is a fake profile huh they're like this is not you huh right so then dating apps doesn't really work out but I think even for non- famous people like me it's hard yeah like you don't know the the intentions anymore I don't think it's just at your side it's I think University and I think it's because of the number of options we have these days or so what what is your criteria if I I have to be SE ATI tell me your 10 criteria for ideal Man 10 whatever how

many are there is lesser the better in that show they give some 15 criteria yeah let me start with something really superficial like I hope he's taller than me because I am considered a very tall girl how tall are you 5 7 5'8 that's quite allall that's quite allall so it's just that I I like to feel a little small in the relationship so I think yeah I would like somebody who's taller than me yeah it's not you all girls want 6 feet it's the biggest uh no I'm okay with 510 511 also yeah they

say that but then six feet guys take everything fine if he's earning enough to support his own lifestyle at least that much that's good because that shows that he's ambitious and I like it uh so it's like he he need not be very rich but at least Rich enough to pay for his [ __ ] yeah he should not be getting money from his parents and sustaining yeah and somebody who would like likes to travel and eat because I love to eat I like to try out different restaurants like that's like my legit hobby correct

so don't matter I said no he has to be tall tall is not looks I'm talking about that's part of the look no so if he is tall and he's not that good-looking you would still go out if he's a good person yeah I'll be with hey what the hell why you asking me this question then if you knew the answer why you asking big Li never why SM such big lies no but honestly speaking girls don't looks don't matter for girls as much as it matters for guys you said y are very superficial I

was watching this podcast D the diary of the CEO H uh her name is Logan I can't remember her full name Logan something okay she is a um dating or relationship scientist at hinge she said uh two of the main things that you it's so interesting two of the main things that don't matter for a long-term success of a relationship a is looks as usual B is money money also doesn't matter money also doesn't matter because you learn to adapt because it's a long-term thing so the more you spend time with the person you start

adapting to it but I disagree because half of the problems of half of the reasons why divorce happen is money H that's a fact so I think when when they mean money they don't mean like poverty if you are broke and you can't even pay the [ __ ] rent course she gave an example she said like if you have a certain wealth and someone and someone having 50 cror what you have two options two husband options one having five CR net worth one having 50 CR net worth maybe what that podcast is trying to

say that no matter what you select the the money amount money doesn't matter whether it's 5 CR or 50 CR see at 5 CR you're leading a certain lifestyle and you're and you're a certain level of happy you're maybe traveling economy or whatever you're certain level of happy when you hit 50 crores maybe that Rush is there oh I'm in like the business class now I'm going to like I'm eating like wag you all the time okay but after after 5 years the content level is the same the Baseline is that same is the same

correct that's what she meant right so even looks is the same thing like looks is actually depreciating reduces so also how important is itth to dress up nicely when you go out on a date like how do girls look at dressing up of course yeah it's so important like for me if I see a guy who has not put effort in his clothing what what is effort in clothing because when a guy looks at it we can dress we can get ready in 5 minutes guys girls it's a pipe dream never going to happen right

5 minutes is just probably putting the kajil yeah right for guys 5 minutes even if I'm in my shorts and underwear I can get ready yeah I just have to set up my hair put some spray and leave first of all I'll tell you why that effort needs to be put I'll give you my example if if I see a guy who's not put that so-called effort I'm going to think because I have put effort into this date it's a sign of respect to if you look at it from one angle right like I'm respecting

your time my time and this whole conversation that we going to have so I'm going to present myself in such a way that you know that I appreciate this time that we sharing now what is effort like you were asking yes it mean for boys it's just what five minutes pant dollar t-shirt dollar shoes dollar but if you wear a shirt that is not ironed or you wear a shirt that has not that is not fitted well like an ill-fitted yeah t-shirt or a shirt that you wear or um maybe you didn't put effort into

like at least thinking of your color combination your shoes maybe keep them clean also smell smell is so such an integral part of yeah have making some connections when you're dating you spoke about dating right so so should not come yeah you should smell good right and so it's like an investment in yourself yeah but most people look at it as a waste of money I don't know I think it's but I think people go wrong is that they spend money on the wrong things they buy a maybe a Gucci belt 50,000 rupes belt yeah

right that's not needed shoes two Ls weird logo on your clothing what who has I don't have so the kind of uh image that you project at your surrounding it it really says a lot about you you studied this you studied this as a I told you soft skill training that I did I even did a course I even did a course on image image management so the whole thing about that is knowing your ABCs appearance body language and communication these three things if you can Master correct you can can excel in any any environment

you're in be IT professional be it personal so that's why know there's there's actually science behind a lot of your dressing also yeah knowing how to dress appropriately for a particular occasion is an art so actually you know I was of the opposite opinion about 5 10 years back you know you hear these stories about these uh billionaires like you know Elon Musk Mark Zuckerberg they don't really care about their appearance they have the same pair of clothes for all days of the week and I should also be like that looks doesn't matter it doesn't

matter how I dress up and what I wear as long as I'm doing my work sincerely it shouldn't matter yeah but now I've changed that opinion because the way you dress up is your packaging yeah right it's your presentation and when you're making a first impression right you are not going to uh have the privilege to talk to everybody and show off your work like if you have just 1 minute or 5 minute conversation and that is most of the people that you're meeting how the hell can you make a good first impression if you're

not dressed up exactly nicely right yeah and talking about Mark suckerberg yes he may wear his gray t-shirt and his pants and all of that because I feel like to some extent he's proven himself so he can take that thing but when he met prime minister Narendra Modi he was suited up when he went to the court he was suited up so now Shrea 3 years back you barely had any savings let's say you had about 2 three lakhs of today you are a comfortably a so my question to you is does money buy happiness

it has it has can you can you elaborate I'll tell you what my what gives me happiness right and what used to be like a dream for me travel international travel so but but it's not like I could by international travel you mean where you just get up and leave for 2 weeks at a time go for a vacation without asking me per that one you're just like yeah there's burnout happening let me just get up and go got it right I just want to clarify that yeah it's clarified right okay so that has that

power is there right now with me that I can today think you know what I feel like going I saw you in Amsterdam yeah I'm like bro I also want to go to Amsterdam now who am I asking permission nobody nobody yeah who am I asking money nobody nobody and is it giving me happiness yeah yeah so that was not there 3 years back like I could not even dream about something then asking parents is out of the question correct right and and I think even though there has been a considerable increase in my wealth

I have not made any expensive purchases like you would assume I remember you telling me you will buy the Chanel bag or Gucci bag I don't own on any of this right my only expensive purchase in the past 3 years has been that solo trip that I took to istan uh turkey where I went to stanbul and capid doia last year how much you spent three three lakhs yeah and after the second most um expensive purchase was a bag that I got from coach which is like 35 or 4K so you can see the difference

like I don't even though the money has increased like I know I know for the fact that I'm going to spend it only on things that are going to make me happy so that is one way of increasing your happiness any anything else how money has brought you happiness I think now I'm living life in my own terms like there was a lot of pressure before from parents yeah uh one of them being get married get married I think one of the biggest reasons why parents want their daughters to get married quickly is financial stability

for the daughter but if the daughter is already financially independent then there is no more that pressure coming I'm sure there is pressure like for a lot of people but I think they have seen us and they trust us more now M because they instilled in us that you know they've told told us to respect money so much and they see us doing that I think they they have a lot of trust now and there's that that pressure has so I like that that I'm like completely free from all of this from family not just

pens I'm talking about like family right family shackles and all of that so correct is great so that kind of Independence I've got and that makes me happy so as a kodati you still don't have your own house you still live with me what is what is up with that uh it's not your own house either right it's we on rent and but I'm paying the rent no that's fine that much you can't do R what is this thing no I just want to understand like why do you still live with me not like I

told you to leave or anything but of course like when somebody gets independent I mean somebody gets Rich they're like I'm now going out of my parents house I'm getting my own place that kind of stuff right so why have you still not I actually want to ask you why did you call me up one random day and tell me let's move to Bombay and stay together and walk together so I'm like you lived in Bangalore and then you went to Mumbai and then things didn't work out and you went back to living with parents

in Mangalore so I'm like what the [ __ ] you doing over there yeah right you can't live in a small City right now we have big [ __ ] to accomplish we biger to fry come live with me in Mumbai and initially you were hesitant you were like you know Mumbai has bad memories I don't want to come back this that some yeah and it was a little weird am I is it okay to live with your little brother as an adult in Bombay so I had all of that thoughts but right now actually

um I don't know we I don't think people know how bad we have fought in the they think it it may look all Rosy and happy and um siblings are in love and all of that but we have we've had major fights I think there was this one fight that we had where uh I think we raised our voices and our friend uh one of my friend was there I think aush was also there at home yeah and this is before I did the meditation guys so and I think you called me stupid or dumb

or something like that and it really affected me I packed my bags and I stayed in a hotel for 2 days yeah I didn't come back home and I remember that time thinking I'm going to move like I'm going to yeah find my own place and I was very serious about it and even though we patched up and all of that I was really serious that I'll find the and then you saw the rentals in Mumbai and houses and then you're like [ __ ] this [ __ ] yeah that [ __ ] this [

__ ] happened and I also spoke about this to a friend so you're just talking about it and he said that he would always want to live with his brother for as long as he can because next year in a different phase of life then it hit me like I'm I may never find this time with you later on in life you have your own family I'll be the cool aunt who's like traveling all the time yeah and getting gifts and spoiling your kids yeah the fat of living alone is extremely overrated I think living

alone works for people who have very good uh Social Circles they're always meeting always going out me friends calling people over having those House parties and all of that we are not that kind of people we're very reserved we like to be in our own space we don't want to always go out right we are always in the house most of the time host parties so if you're in house most of the time and if you alone obviously it's going to be a shitty experience because we are social beings at the end of the day

right so might as well live with some one of your family member life will be a little better when did you realize that she's good she loves me the first time you realized I think uh first time is actually something that I would not have remembered when it happened is a story that mom told me that I could not speak for the first four years of my life and you were the one who made me speak on my birthday I obviously don't remember that but when Mom told me I'm like [ __ ] I was

mute is the one who made me because she said there won't be a birthday party if you don't if he doesn't speak this time and I made it my life's Mission because I wanted your birthday party to happen corre and I wanted cake and all of that [ __ ] right medically there was nothing wrong with me it was just that I was I don't know what was wrong with me but then you fixed it so that's number one in terms of chronologically speaking okay number two is obviously what I remember something that memory will

always be etched in my memory uh is when I almost drowned in manga stadium in swimming pool acting like you just remembered no why no I just remembered something I was like which I keep asking myself where the [ __ ] would you go on that 5 ft I was a short guy I went to the middle you were and then I started you know swallowing the water and then all the other kids were laughing at me from the far and then you came and saved me I jumped and and then you were trying to

drown me also cuz I tried to hold you not why would I try to drown I'm trying to fck no you H my neck like like this and then I was like I think that was the first time we even hugged even if that can be considered as a hug yeah that was the first time we hugged mom there she was just staring she didn't jump to save me what is that now you know that's the thing yeah so I think that is the second thing and the third thing is obviously um you were deciding

to join uh Finance with Sharon when I was a solo person because I would not been able to do this without you because you literally I was doing a full-time job so how the hell will I have time to edit so without you there no Finance for Sharon for sure cuz I didn't have the money to hire an editor only thank God I asked this question I feel so good ni yeah you uh you have done some good right are you going to cry I'm not going to cry are you going to cry a little

bit Yeah BR so what is your favorite memory of me how have I changed your life and transformed your life I think it's U The Small Small Things yeah I think one thing would be I want big things I I'm going to the Small Things remember after I came back from the hotel after that fight you asked the cook that is that that is really sweet that's the thing I don't these small things matter to me and when we were leaving our previous house in bkc and moving here in the on the last night you

made like a movie night all the Furnitures were gone so there was no furniture I don't know what jard you did all these small small torches you got and then you made like a whole movie theater kind of a scene and then we ordered some food yeah and then we that's how we spent the last night in that house so that was really sweet of you I didn't expect to that you would do that the real day did not plan pan out so oh my that is even worse now kidding I'm kidding yeah these that's

what I noticed yeah these girls me women in general they like small things yeah they don't like big gestures we don't want that it's not like I brought this flers for you I'm doing this Valentine's Day celebration I'm creating a surprise party for you that's like secondary women usually like this small small consistent small small consistent small small things that is the game but it's been nice here to I mean we're having a lot of fun since absolutely yeah I'm helping in your relationship you're helping in my relationship yeah because we see it happening right

in that's right right in front of her eyes edate each other on relationships yeah you you are actually yeah that's another biggest Advantage I have living with you like I get relationship advice even though I don't ask for it I saved your relationship no with my advice the one yeah the one thing that happened very recently yeah that was nice I was actually going through I thought I was going through a tough time but then you knocked some sense into my head correct so that was a good one I think I also saved yours yours

relationship yeah very recently yeah it's not a relationship yet oh okay even mind it's not a relationship yet let's uh situationship situationship Millenia is going through genzi problems here we're in a situationship separately so uh By the time this video is live let's see what goes by the time this video is live I think he would have proposed you I think you would be married by now the way you are in love with her [ __ ] okay never mind anyway cool guys I think uh phenomenal phenomenal conversation I think two and a half hours

yeah I think it was like going down the memory lane please follow her and yeah let's make her content creator also hey make her an influencer no no one is enough in the family but yeah I mean really really thank you for doing this for making time out of your busy schedule yeah I know you had an important date that you cancel yeah but yeah guys thank you so much and uh first time doing something with the family maybe next time with my parents but it'll be in Tulu right all right guys I'll see you

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