Cheating GF Insists She’s ‘Out of My League’ – So I Dumped Her and Started Dating a Model

hey hey hey time for the out of this world story from ourspace when someone thinks they're out of your league they start acting like the rules don't apply to them today on our space the thing about leagues sometimes you realize you are playing in the wrong one cheating girlfriend insists She's Out of My League so I dumped her and started dating a model well I have a pretty interesting story to share with all of you some posted a story here about the time that they confronted their cheating girlfriend and she was entirely Unapologetic and that

reminded me of the time that I went through a very similar mess I've considered bringing it here before but it's a very long story so I never did until now but hey might as well give it a shot now right so it's important that I mention that this happened 2 years ago so it is still relatively fresh in my mind I was 33 male at the time and she was 30 female I met her on a dating app I know it's not the most romantic way to meet someone but we hit it off pretty nicely

and before I knew it I was really enjoying spending as much time as I could with her I asked her out officially she said yes and that was pretty much it now I have to let you guys know that she's gorgeous we're not together anymore and I resent her but I can't be dishonest and say that she's not extremely attractive when I swiped on her on the dating app I really wasn't expecting any long term I personally feel that a partner that is too attractive comes with unique problems but like I said it kind of

took me by surprise how much I liked her of course her looks meant a lot of male attention I don't want to be conceited but I think I'm good looking enough I don't look out of place beside her she'd tell me about guys who'd approach her and sometimes I'd be there but I never really let it make me jealous because I felt like she wasn't looking for anything else it just felt like she was the kind of girl that I could trust yes stupid I know looking back I think the first time that my trust

in her was shaken was when she brought up that stupid concept of Hall Pass in case you don't know it's this partially unserious thing that couples do when they mention some kind of celebrity or personality that they want to be given a hall pass to sleep with if they ever got the chance so if my answer was Margo Robbie it didn't mean that I somehow through the magic of the universe found myself in a situation where she wanted to sleep with me I'd be able to do it with a green light it's stupid and she

was the one who initiated the discussion funny enough her actual answer isn't what matters it was just in Timberlake but it was one of the things that she said during this discussion I don't think there's many celebrities that would say no to me now it's not that I disagree however there's something about saying that yourself it's like acknowledging that you have the potential to pull anyone if you tried and that's not the kind of thing that was comfortable to think about it also sounded quite unlike her so I remember how uneasy it made me feel

however nothing else came out of that conversation so it wasn't on my mind after a few days now the real problem started when I noticed some odd behavior from her she' come back home later than usual and her reasons for not being home earlier sounded lazy normally if she got stuck at work because of something a coworker did she'd lay down the entire story however around that time she seemed to be short of words whenever it came to explaining what made her late or what held her up she also got annoyed very quick if I

asked too many questions so I just Ste clear the thing is when it happened way too many times I started did he get suspicious I asked her if there was something up with her but she claimed that there wasn't I was honest enough to tell her that the nights when she came home late she acted different and I outlined what wasn't the same as usual she apologized and said that she must have been really stressed and tired and it wasn't anything personal I heard it but I didn't believe it and surprise surprise the next time

that she came home late she was a lot more receptive and she talked to me about whatever kept her out late when you think about it that should be a problem solved right however the stories that she was telling seemed Hollow I remember that it was exactly at that moment when she was telling me one of those stals of how her day went that I just had a strong feeling that she was lying and the only reason why I felt that she might be lying would be if she was hiding something really big from me

no it wasn't a surprise party or something that she'd be able to explain away I felt like she was having an affair it was around that point that I made the mental commitment to get to the bottom of things because I really felt like something was off it was far from the usual her now I had the very strong urge to just do the classic Act of checking your phone but honestly apart from the relative difficulty of that I wanted something that was a lot more thorough and certain than taking a look at messages and

pictures I wanted to be able to catch her in the ACT to know the person to know where she was going all of it what was the best way to do that a pi of course so the very next day I did a Google Search and found a pi in our city with good previews I went off to talk to him when I got there I spoke at length to him and he was entirely understanding he didn't want to cast judgment on my particular case but it seemed that it wasn't some unusual scenario to him

he seemed very familiar with the partner acting weird staying out late thing because she didn't return home late every day more like once or twice a week he said he'd prefer to keep an eye out for her for 2 weeks and because of the cost we agreed to push it down to 10 days he got all of her details including her phone number email and workplace and he told me that he'd get back to me at the end of the window he had agreed on he asked me not to contact him before then and I

agreed but I knew it' be hard so I had to wait looking back at it I realized it was so hard for me I knew that the guy was finding things out but I just had to let him do his job and not interfere I think during the 10 days that I paid him for she came back late three times I knew that would at least give him more than one opportunity to help me figure out what was going on she continued to serve me with her stories about what kept her out late whether it

was that she and some girlfriends made last minute plans to check out a new bar or whether it was because she got stuck in traffic there was always some explanation and they were never that well fleshed out eventually those 10 days slid by and the pi reached out to me over the phone I decided to go over to his office since I preferred hearing whatever he had to say in person I had been anticipating it way too long not to when I got there he Z me down and then pushed a manila envelope towards me

he asked if I wanted him to tell me what was in the envelopes or whether I was fine with just opening them to find out it's hard to know what you'll say until you're in that position but I opted to have him tell me what was up first it was soften the blow at the very least checking the envelope first felt like walking in on a cheating partner your suspicions were right he just let it out like that no Preamble or anything he went on to tell me that three times during his surveillance period he

trailed her to an apartment building she'd always walk in alone and then come out about 2 hours later with the same guy he had even been able to get the actual apartment and using that found out that the guy's name was Cody James I'm changing the name for obvious reasons I remember thinking as I had his name and his apartment how I could figure out some kind of plan of action against him but I decided to focus on the person who was cheating on me before the affair partner when I opened the envelope I saw

pictures of the two of them in front of the apartment building with several of the pictures showing them either embracing or holding hands there were a few where they shared a kiss in front of her car and I nearly lost my mind seeing that it was pretty wild for me because I went from the suspicion of my girlfriend cheating on me to come confirmation and that confirmation came with pictures of her and the other guy it was pretty hard on me in that moment I held back tears that day in his office not necessarily out

of pain from being cheated on but because everything that I had found safety in was about to fall apart I considered just confronting her and still letting things slide because there was something so scary about everything changing honestly I don't know what move I wanted to make but I knew that I was going to confront her about it no matter what so when I saw her later that day I asked her to sit down she could tell that something was wrong and instead of torturing myself I just let it drop that I knew she had

been cheating on me she looked extremely shocked that I knew but then she seemed to try and compose herself I told her everything that I knew and before I knew it I was talking about how betrayed and hurt I was through all of it she didn't say a word and I remember feeling quite odd about how stoic she seemed through it all she was saying so little that day that I found myself getting more Angry until I finally told her that I wanted a divorce and I couldn't do the whole song and dance with her

any longer that was the exact moment that things hit the fan because she just laughed at that and then stood up almost like she was trying to intimidate me you want to divorce me are you kidding yes I cheated and it was just because I needed a little bit of excitement it was purely physical and I promised that there were no feelings involved so I'm a cheater fair but where do you think you'll go from here do you think you'll ever get someone like me again hasn't it been clear to you over the years that

I'm out of your league it was one time is that what what you want to destroy our lives over I might be paraphrasing some parts but her monologue hit me so hard that I wanted to hit something else so hard I never expected that kind of response to allegations of cheating and it was delivered with so little remorse that I wanted to hit her I don't like saying it but it was so enraging to me it's like she had gotten caught and she decided not to go down the route of begging and pleading and crying

instead she just crashed out and said f it I guess in her own Ideal World things would have ended with me realizing how big the Gap and attractiveness between us was and the fact that it was only physical and I changed my mind it was incredible that she'd be so prideful as to think that especially as I had never painted myself as a cuck type instead I just stood up told her to her face how much I despised her in that moment and then I walked out the door that was it I slept in a

motel that night and I returned the next day she looked like she had been crying but as soon as I walked in she seemed to try and act strong I knew you'd be back and there was a really dumb smirk on her face I didn't even say anything because I was actually boiling underneath instead I just packed up all my things since I had moved in with her and her place was closer to my workplace I had things that I couldn't take along with me but I told her that I was going to be back

to get them later that week she was looking at me like she couldn't believe that I was actually leaving she didn't say a single thing until I walked out the door looking back the way she acted after being caught was still entirely surprising but I still think she had to a shift in her mindset way before then I think what happened was that she started trying to reaffirm her attractiveness and her self-esteem as she was getting older and she probably started craving male attention maybe she had been getting in a bulk and it had started

to get to her head at a point I guess she saw me as that safe cuddly husband which is why she kept coming back home to me but at the same time she had assessed me as being below her level so when I caught her cheating instead of being remorseful the entire way she felt about me and her justification for her cheating came out that's conjecture though she kept sending me text messages initially snarky and mocking which were clearly under the assumption that everything I was doing at that moment was feudal and an act and

that I was going to end up back in her house again she didn't believe it when I came to pick up my remaining things with a friend but that didn't stop her from continuing to send those messages to me one of the last ones she sent was I hope you know you'll never find anyone like me again I didn't care enough to prove her wrong so I just blocked her since it was getting too hard on me now this is where the story of it sort of slows down a bit it was later that year

that I attended my high school reunion it had been 15 years since we graduated so it was nice to see the old crowd again there was a tall and very beautiful girl in my class back then let's just call her Veronica for the sake of this we were friendly back then and I guess if we saw each other now we'd still be able to chitchat out of all of us Veronica definitely hit it the biggest she's a model now and if you're big on fashion in the modeling industry you probably potentially know her though the

general populace won't I hadn't spoken to her in at least 7 years no Veronica wasn't at the reunion but her best friend from back then was the nice thing was that the two of them are still very good friends and I felt that it was sweet that the fame hadn't changed Veronica in at least that aspect I did talk with her friend though I knew something was off because she was beaming when she saw me and when I asked about Veronica she started smiling even harder I know she's going to kill me but you know

she's always had a crush on you I laughed and laughed at that since there was Zero sign of that as far as I was concerned back when we were in school and there was no way that a model who had worked with vog and had run the biggest runways in Europe would care about me I won't lie that there was a part of me that was very flattered to imagine that a model considered me attractive at some point in my life but I just didn't think those emotions were still around I pretty much expressed that

to her old friend but she said that Veronica had asked her to check me out to let her know if I still looked as good as back then she's still into you so if you're single and you're not scared of girls with you might as well give it a shot it'd be a lie if I said that I didn't spend the rest of the night thinking about Veronica and the fact that she liked me it just made me feel good that someone in such a high spot had feelings for me and I think it was

as I was thinking that that it occurred to me that this was someone who my ex-girlfriend would have considered to be out of my league I didn't want to fix it on Words of someone who was in my past but it felt really good to realize that her words meant nothing so I went on ahead and I hit Veronica up online I sent the message to her Instagram and and let her friend know to watch out for my message I think it was about 5 days later when I had completely forgotten about it that she

sent a message back oh my gosh Keith it's been so long that's her reply verbatim they say that more times a woman repeats letters or messages to you that she's more into you anyway from there we started to talk catching up on pretty much everything initially it was over text but then she said she was tired of typing so much and asked if she could FaceTime me I told her she could and from there those video calls became such a common thing I learned all about her career and the journey to that point and she

even sent me pictures from Brussels where she was at the time honestly before I knew it it seemed like we were dating but just without any of the official of it so I decided to be the corny one and ask what are we her reply was that we were just really good friends but that she'd love to be more right there I asked her if she wanted to be my girlfriend and without hesitation she said yes so things were long distance for the longest time and I'm currently not a fan of distance in relationships I

was there when I was younger and hated it but with this I think the person meant so much to me that there was no way that I wouldn't go through it I went to visit her when she was in Italy and it was absolutely beautiful it sort of reminded me why I should never give up on love despite what other people might have put me through I went to one of her photo shoots and I cheered her on the set I took some pictures and posted them on one of my social media platforms to be

100% honest it was in my close friends on Instagram and I had completely forgotten that my ex was still on that list and I had never never blocked her on that app since I rarely use it that was when she sent me a message and said who's that why are you playing groupy followed by a laughing emoji for reference we hadn't spoken in over a year at that point so it was pretty crazy for her to be starting things off with that I told her that was my girlfriend and left it at that I saw

the typing indicator show up several times over a 10-minute period but she only replied with a sarcastic sure I told her I didn't need to force her to believe me but that if she thought she was out of my league Veronica was out of this world I asked her how her man for back then was but she left me on red after that I blocked her I didn't mind giving her that little life update even though I'd have loved to see her reaction to it but I didn't want her to have any more of a

hold over me so since then Veronica have been dating pretty happily and I'm actually open to proposing to her before the end of this year she's been such a blessing in my life and part of me can't help but be glad that my previous relationship didn't work out sure you can say what you want about the fact that she's a model and we're constantly apart but I'm not going to listen to anything negative about her you can tell me I Told You So if I ever come and right after another story here and God knows

I won't she literally laughed in your face at that point I wouldn't have even been mad about the cheating I'd be mad that I wasted my time with that woman she had already checked out of the relationship long before you uncover the truth honestly she's probably one of those people that actually always has one foot out the door has this happened to you tell us your experience in the comments below and thank you for joining us today on ourspace be sure to like And subscribe and hit that notification Bell so you don't miss out on

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