The Otherside of Male Life (Motivation)

if you want to grab our men's lifestyle supplement male advantage ebook or my personal workout and diet plan all links are in the bio okay guys welcome back to another video in this video we're going to talk about the other side of male life and it's a video that i've wanted to make for a while but i got given the kind of motivation to make it yesterday when i was reading through the comments now this isn't a knock towards this person everybody's due with their own opinion etc everyone's got their own life experiences and for

i feel sorry for a lot of guys because they haven't got like a father figure a role model uh a masculine man in their life like i had i had my dad my uncle i worked on building sites i saw what masculine men were like okay and it kind of breeds high testosterone competitiveness you know in a sporting sense you get that as well i had that a lot and you kind of get like this drive and passion to be better and to do more and have your duty as a man to kind of be

a leader like you get this influence right but i'm seeing with a lot of younger guys in modern life they don't have this which like i said is fair enough it's not their fault but he put in the comments something along the lines of when i was young i went out and i was drinking like 16 to 21. it was like i was enjoying myself etc doing drugs and whatnot he was like now i just feel like my life's over he was like it peaked there and it's over now and there was like one guy

in the comments who put like really like because he was as confused as me and this guy was like a hundred percent bro and i had to comment okay like i i pretty much reply to everybody in the comments it's getting very difficult now but i try and reply to everybody um but i said i was like look i gotta do the older brother thing i gotta slap you around the back of the head like i'm i'm sorry this isn't personal but i'm gonna tell you what you need to hear not what you wanted i'm

gonna tell you what you need to know not what you want to hear i'm going to i'm going to shatter you you know through the screen and i basically said you're [ __ ] around you're [ __ ] around you need to sort your life out like if you think you cannot improve your life during that time frame like let's say let's say he's 25 right i think he's probably younger but let's say he's 25 if he doesn't think by 35 his life is going to be better via hard work then he's a [ __

] okay and i hope he's watching this video i hope he read that comment because i've got nothing personal against the guy except i always beef with people on camera damn paynia justin bieber now this guy um [Music] but it's nothing personal because i you've got to understand where that's coming from as somebody runs a men's lifestyle brand who actually gives a [ __ ] about all this stuff who got told when he was younger by multiple people you're stupid this is this is a stupid idea that'll never work why don't you just go and

get a normal job why are you trying to be an entrepreneur why are you ambitious oh there's no point getting in shape just come out and get drunk with us i grew up around this environment and i hate it when somebody's potential is stifled because that kid's has not got to that situation on his own somebody has put that information in there i got taught that a long long time ago but by my dad he always said somebody has put that there somebody has put that information in that kid's head and he used to like

kind of he used to coach a lot of my football teams and he'd work with the kids that had low confidence and by the end of the season they were kings on the pitch they were playing better than everybody they were unbelievable and he'd like boost them up that way you know it's like the fat kid who never got a game by the end of the season this kid had a six-pack was doing sprints in his own time and like starting every single week like my dad was that kind of inspirational figure and he passed

that on to me and i see that with the youth of today they're just so negative in that sense i made that video recently that we have a defeatist mindset in the next generation everything's everything's over you know you peak at 18 everything after that is downhill like you got this weird mentality and like i said i had to tell him the truth in the comments i had to say like there's so much more to live for you're being lazy like you're using that as an excuse to get out of having to improve your life

like it's easy to stay where you are it's easy to say oh it's not my fault life gets worse as you get older life peaks when you're young it's not my fault it's a great excuse okay it's an easy way out it's a lot harder to do what i'm doing or what a lot of you guys have chosen to do you know in the gym like i was in the gym this morning it's one of the earliest i've been in the gym in ages i just got my i've got my passion and my energy back

and i was back in the gym this morning at like 6 00 am crushing a workout one of the best workouts i've had come home early you know i'm cooking while showering like setting everything up i'm like writing ideas down i've got i've got like a whole page probably like 20 new video ideas that i want to do it's just they're flying out of my head right now and i'm like this is brilliant you know and that energy's coming from somewhere i'm passionate i'm pushing stuff forward i'm hiring like two or three different people to

do different tasks while i'm working on this one and it's like look i'm driving my life forward okay i've got that lust for life i'm pushing everything forward but in 10 years time my life's going to be better what is your excuse why would your life be any different to mine why would your life not be better in 10 years time but mine would be i'm not i'm nothing special i don't come from money i don't come from a good situation either like a lot of [ __ ] has gone wrong but i have pushed

myself forward and i've got that inner belief i want to know where these kids are getting this kind of defeatist mindset from is it their parents put it in the comments guys if you have that defeatist mindset where did it come from the media parents friends the culture that you live in the people around you because i was surrounded by all that [ __ ] and i'm just like a [ __ ] fortress honestly you could you could smash a [ __ ] hammer on my head and i wouldn't flinch metaphorically is what i'm saying

and um it like people used to tell me oh quit don't do that that's [ __ ] that's rubbish oh you know you're not earning enough come and work with me people would laugh at me oh this kid just writes ebooks this was like six seven eight years ago all he does is write ebooks what an idiot oh he thinks he's gonna be the new hitch i just [ __ ] ignored it all i just carried on as i was i don't know why other people don't have this mentality okay which brings me on to

the purpose of the video today and we're gonna move over to the screen my favorite and it seems as though you guys like it as well right just go through a whole host of images like i did on the ball and on a budget video and i just take you through just kind of my mind really and i just show you what i see what i envision what like the difference can be it's just a very good way of doing it and at times i feel like i'm waffling but by the end of the video

you know in the comments and stuff people seem to like it so i i think people like the rawness of the content which is you know it's great something in itself especially in a fake world but what i'm going to do is i'm going to take you through the other side of male life okay the other side of male life and what could be because the way that he was talking about i used to go out and get drunk do drugs and now i feel like my life is finished that's when i peaked and i

was like drinking and doing drugs that was your peak like that's fun for you and i it's the same thing taking it away from this guy because i want to make it too personal but um it's the same in this in this country in the uk i've lived in canada it's not as bad but it's still there it's still prevalent but in the uk as we've got a massive culture of just unambitious people and their whole their whole thing like we saw this in kovitz when covered hit nobody had a job to go to and

nobody could go to the pub people didn't have lives they were like oh what are we gonna do god i'm so bored i was like my life doesn't change i just carry on as normal like the gyms closed that was it that was like the only thing that really affected me everything else was fine i just carried on as normal because i've got a busy life i've got [ __ ] to do i'm always active but there's a lot of people in the uk that just have this serious lack of ambition and all they want

to do is just get drunk and they just see like oh i go to a festival i do a load of drugs and that's you know fun for me that's the best thing i'd roll around in the mud i'd dance around i have some sloppy sex with some skanky woman oh yeah life's great i'm living life while i'm young because when i'm 30 and 40 life's gonna be [ __ ] and boring it's like you don't understand the other side of male life do you like nobody's ever shown you nobody's ever exposed it to you

this is why i made a video ages ago and um yeah do you know it's probably not that long ago it's just i made so much content i looked this morning it was like 334 videos or something it's pretty crazy and um i made a video talking about how you should live like a king for a day you can do this on different levels okay based on what you want to achieve in life but when i was younger i would drop bags of money on a weekend just one weekend you know you go and rent

an expensive car you go and rent a five-star you go and get a five-star hotel for two nights or even one night if you don't really have the money you go and get a perfect 10 escort for the night you go to like a five star restaurant michelin star restaurant and you live this lavish life so that when you wake up the next day and it's all gone you know obviously you're gonna have money okay like you're not going to do you're not going to spend all your money if you've got 10k spare a grand

okay and like or 2 grand whatever like reach out and go for it and people might be like guys that's a stupid way to spend money chris you're always telling us to be frugal but what it gives you is the belief and the passion and that is way more important than anything else in the world you know brian tracy he's like an old success guru one of the only ones i really respect he always says that most people will never become successful because they don't try and people get a little bit angry when they hear

that and you go yeah but they don't i go to work every day it's like yeah but you're not trying to become successful you're just trying to pay the bills every month like you haven't actually done anything productive okay i was gonna say of worth but you know a nine-to-five job does have worth when it within itself depending on who your your dependents are and what your life says okay but people never try and do certain things and it's like if you've never been exposed to that lifestyle the other side of male life and how

great it can be well why would you ever chase after it because you don't know it exists you know this is why so many people get rich and then they become depressed they're like oh you know i became a successful man but you know i was just going out drinking doing cocaine i was in strip clubs i was living a very poor life and then i found god and i gave him my money away and it's like i don't think that's the answer i just think you were doing it wrong it's like people who get

rich go and buy a manor house in the country for like 10 million it's got 700 bedrooms you can only sleep in one i've got 400 bathrooms you can only [ __ ] in one like and then they go i was depressed and this but you know you get like a rich guy he shot himself in the woods and people like see money doesn't make you happy it's like no it's just we don't understand in this world the other side of male life okay a lot of people don't understand what it can do for you

how it can open up all these avenues like how many other things you can do outside of just i'll drive around in my ferrari i'll go and buy champagne a bottle service in the club and everybody will think i'm a baller and i'll buy a rolex like it's not the way to do it okay and on a smaller scale people who are just like i'm gonna get drunk this weekend okay what about next weekend i'm gonna get drunk at a festival okay what about the weekend after that i'm gonna get drunk in the park with

my friends okay what about the weekend after that me and this girl we're going out oh nice and we're going to get drunk and then we're going to come back and have sloppy sex it's like the standards of so many guys lives is so low and they believe that it's going to go in your teens and 20s and then drop 30s 40s 50s are terrible life boring sat home watching [ __ ] x factor do you know what i mean it's like that's not what's gonna happen there is so much more that you can do

and i need to open your eyes or a lot of your eyes to the other side of male life like how good things become once you start leveling up once you start growing once the compound effect of self-improvement and hard work kicks in and you get to that next level okay so we're going to move over to the screen i've kind of built built a mood board i just went through google earlier and i was just saving images of like cool [ __ ] off the top of my head so look the thing is guys

i make these videos off the cuff i don't really plan them so if there's something missing where you're like oh that doesn't really suit my lifestyle add your personal preferences into it okay i've tried to diversify as much as i can but if you're not into the women i bring up on screen if you're not into the locations if you're not into what we would be doing on that day just take it as a pinch of salt okay switch it up and be like what would i like to do what would i be doing in

that scenario there's so much more that i can be doing my life on a classy level like think david beckham david gandy you know there's so many guys that never grow up they're like 35 year old kids they're like there's so many guys in this area that i'm in now that i kind of grew up around and when they were younger they were going out getting drunk i went away to toronto over two years and then moved to london for three i've come back here and i've i've you know with lockdown and my dad being

ill i've barely gone out i've barely done anything now that it's lifted and my dad's obviously died i've like gone out a little bit more i've met a few more people all these guys are like still doing the same [ __ ] they're like 35 40 years old we're kids still going out getting drunk it's like nobody's gone and got the key like unlocked their brain and said there's so much more life to live there's so much more that you can strive for you can pay for you can achieve like why not bridge your life

out why not broaden your horizons why is it always you know the sloppy kind of lifestyle right we're gonna go on a lads holiday and get drunk i and everyone seems to think that that's when you peek in your youth okay this is what this whole video is about before we move over to the screen because otherwise i really want this to make sense and sink in so you can see what i'm trying to promote but this is what it is it's about youth which i've told you the other day is only seven years long

nine years long maximum and everybody focuses on it as this big thing and it's like oh it's the peak of my life you know those guys at like 40 years old that tell youngsters uh yeah go out get drunk enjoy yourself travel the world go on holiday because you're only young once you know your school years are the best years of your life once you get to my age it's [ __ ] [ __ ] just working a job every day you get those guys and they're so negative they're so naked i hate those guys

i could punch those guys in the face daily as a morning alarm clock honest to god they're so depressing but they're actually pissed off with themselves and they kind of pass on this virus to all the young lads and i want to change that because there's so much more that you can do and this whole mentality of just destroy your life early on go out get drunk you know just accidentally get a girl pregnant because you were pissed up and you had a wild night and people like well you know it's what you do when

you're young you make mistakes it's like i didn't i made mistakes for like a year or two and then at like 20 years old i was like bang right i know what i want to be i want to be a david gandia david beckham i want to be a a professional well-dressed well-groomed in shape haven't drank alcohol for three years type of men you know who's going to paris dressed up beautifully you know looks smart looks professional is an entrepreneur i've got a beautiful 10 with me she's sophisticated she's dressing well we're having a great

conversation with sightseeing we're going to the museums we're having coffee a nice a nice cafe with a beautiful view of like the louvre [ __ ] like that used to excite me when i was like 20 years old and i was like it's so much more that you can do as a man but everybody around me was like hey you want to get drunk i want to go and get pissed when i get drunk i don't know whether it's mental maturity i don't know whether because when we were young my dad had a bit of

money before he left at 14. he took us on like three holidays a year maybe that expanded my mind our old neighbors were pretty wealthy they used to go on like 10 holidays a year they were like 20 years older than my parents and the guy was like an entrepreneur real classy guy likes teaching me about wine and stuff like that and like business and whatever he was like a mentor to me when i was young it could be that you know it could be that it could just be something that's built into me it

could be exposure i'm not sure but i think a lot of guys need to grow up i think a lot of guys need to grow up and i'm gonna take you through this now because this you know i think once you see it visually it really hits home okay so we're gonna swap over guys okay guys so i've got a crazy bunch of images here okay i've just selected as many as i could [ __ ] find it was just like a mood board like i said just inspiration or things that i don't really particularly

like in life okay and i'm just going to click through them i trusted my abilities to be able to wade my way through this is not in order whatever but i'm pretty good at talking as you guys know so let's start up here you know just images like this okay this is what is considered traditional fun by the majority of the human population you know this is considered dormant like being a club getting drunk like downing alcohol partying music sweating being close to other people like for me this is my idea of hell okay i

look at this and i think what a [ __ ] show like i would hate to be at this place you couldn't pay me to be at this place okay i just it's it's just like a frat boy party okay everybody's young everybody's pissed out of the face people are being stupid i don't know if any of you guys have ever been out sober you know but you go out sober with your friends and they start getting drunk and people are drunk around you and you notice how stupid people actually get and how immature they

are and they start i'm not just talking about friends either i'm talking about people around you and they start bumping into you they spill their drink on you you know and usually when you're drunk you might be that guy or whatever but it's just like it's just low level fun it's low quality and this is what people kind of see is like oh this was my peek it drives me insane i'm like this was your peak this isn't a peak this is a [ __ ] quality of life this is so low level like no

man should believe that this drunken out of shape college type of night was the peak of their life that's really sad to me now everybody's going to do it at some point everyone's going to go through it everyone wants to enjoy themselves but every man should strive for more surely let's find another one you kind of like here this is a place that i went when i was young okay magaluf it's like i was i think i was at 18 when i went here look at this [ __ ] show you've got one girl passing

out you've got like all this [ __ ] rubbish on the floor the streets don't even look clean she's passing out on a friend's lap like everybody just looks pissed beyond belief all these guys are like trying to prey on these girls is everybody's like outside like a pizza kebab shop just like the lowest quality level of life that you could possibly live but if you were to ask a lad who was like 18 19 years old what do you want to do for fun this summer unlimited money they'd be like i'm going to ibiza

or magaluf i'm going to get drunk i'm going to throw up everywhere i'm going to have sloppy sex with women a 2 out of 10 and very low quality like these two these are somebody's daughters okay and they're if their friends weren't around they'd be getting molested or raped like it's just a shocking [ __ ] show of a situation and don't get me wrong like i've been to these places but i'm just saying most men don't grow beyond this no if you're like 18 and you really want to experience a lad holiday with with

the boys or you're on spring break in america you really want to enjoy yourself i'm not going to hold you back i don't blame you because i've done it myself what am i going to do be a hypocrite and say don't go like in hindsight if i could go back in time i probably wouldn't go i probably would have saved my money and done something else okay but at the time it felt like the best idea in the world and i can't change your mind if that's how it feels to you but it's when guys

get older and they don't realize that this is around the corner or when they are young they have nothing to strive for they think this is the pinnacle like there's so many people that i talk to my age like 28 years old 29 years old that are like i miss i miss when we were younger and we could go out and get drunk i missed when we were younger and we could you know have a house party and i'm like [ __ ] is that your level of ambition like looking at this picture right now

what is that what you want to do you want to sit on this [ __ ] metal bench with these [ __ ] just puking up everywhere and you want to you want to take them home which is very sleazy based on the condition that they're in and then you want to grab a pizza and a kebab like it's my idea of hell like if that's what you think peak is and you want to go back to that then jesus man you need to up your game you need to understand what else is out in

the world and we'll get to that in a minute okay here's another example like the frat parties in america you know it's probably more what you americans and canadians are used to seeing and i i don't know what it's like drinking out there in the uk we basically drink to oblivion and just destroy our livers i think in the us the drinking culture is not as big i think they get drunk a lot quicker because like we're drinking at like 14 so we build up a tolerance but um yeah in america it's just not i

think it's more based around like games and stuff like that isn't it when you're drinking whereas ours is just get pissed out your head have a fight [ __ ] you [ __ ] whoever you can [ __ ] like it's just a bit it's just a little bit wild okay it's almost like highlander type of [ __ ] um but i guess you guys have had like some crazy parties as well some crazy nights and all that sort of [ __ ] and you must look at it and look back and be like yeah

it was kind of fun but it's not really something i want to do anymore you know you see scenes like this like this always depresses me like this is a meme you'll see it everywhere like in a club like shouting down a girl's ear like it's not appealing at all is it and this is the life that everybody chases and look in the morning you end up with a big greasy hangover you look worse you feel worse you're out of shape your testosterone's down just feel like [ __ ] you feel depressed like ever i

was talking to a guy the other day he pulled up in his car he's a friend of my dad he was just like obviously having a chat real nice guy and he was like i went out on the weekend to watch a football match he was i got really drunk because i was coming back from the gym so he was like damn like i kind of like i would feel the same i think he felt like kind of [ __ ] because he's like you've been to the gym you look really good he was like

i've been to a football match got drunk and he was like this morning i felt like [ __ ] and i just don't want to go to the gym for like the next two three days because i feel depressed i'm like weighing up my life and i was like but this is this is what happens okay like it's not fun but people kind of chase this they get older and they still chase this youthful dream of like oh yeah that's how you have fun that is what we place at the top of our society is

alcohol sex drugs hangovers like this is the only thing that we can do this is the only metric that we have as a measurement for enjoying your life and things being good it drives me insane because nobody ever nobody ever bridges out and looks at what else you can do and what more you can accomplish and you know and you get stuff like the walk of shame that you slept with a girl the night before you're coming home like this looking all sloppy yeah you slept with the girl you know good fun it's just a

low quality version of you know you were in a bedroom like this it's kind of it's like these vibes isn't it like you take a girl back to like a bedroom like this or you're in her room you gotta be quiet because her housemate is like sleeping next to you or her roommate like the place is absolute trash like everything's low level the girl probably looks something like this you know just a proper low level skanky type of woman no offense love but you know it's not my sort of thing i mean just look at

this guy that i offend his nose has collapsed from he's doing from doing so much cocaine i i just don't know that makes me sick honestly that makes me sick but so many people find that like appealing let's go out let's get drunk let's do cocaine they said what you want to look like this guy is this how you want to end up because he looks [ __ ] fantastic doesn't he looks great you know and the woman you wake up next to in the morning ends up looking like this you know she's not the

same woman you went to bed with that night you know people want to i mean look at this imagine if that's your girlfriend or something just sprawled out on the street just sucking in a balloon on the street of magaluf do you know what i mean it's just like who wants to be surrounded by people like this yeah they might grow up in the future and they end up being great mothers you know but who wants to be surrounded by people like this at the time like this is what i'm trying to say the other

one that annoys me like look at this no offense lads you might be watching this video who knows okay nothing against you but this kind of [ __ ] was just a bunch of lads all with an england shirt on just in case we forget what country we're in having a beer watching the game it's just like like this is what we value as entertainment like there's so much more to do with our lives and it's just the entire culture of young people is just built around just getting drunk chasing women like doing drugs it's

just like real [ __ ] low-level stuff like another group of lads doing the same thing you're [ __ ] clones of one another no offense lads you're all clones of one another three more england shirts it's like you're doing nothing different to what anybody else is doing and like in the problem is in like 40 years time they're still there the same bunch of lads doing the same [ __ ] and like nobody ever bridges out and tries to do more it drives me insane type of food you're eating too that you know grand

old job that does to your body just add 15 beers and now you're gonna have cheesy chips or a kebab and like it just doesn't help guys like i look at pictures like this and i just think that's my idea of how okay just a bunch of people just smushed together in a pool jumping around all drunken everybody would just get on my nerves there's just no level of class in this everybody's pissed beyond belief like it's almost like hedonistic like primitive humans like a long long time ago like surely people can find new ways

to enjoy themselves okay there's got to be something else like we're dealing with women like this freshman boys our couches don't pull out so we hope you do you know like megan does butt stuff like we're talking about these types of women like this type of culture this is what it's all built around and the other place that annoys me like glastonbury no matter i've never been to a festival in my life and i never want to some people love them okay oh it's the best fun of your life i'm sorry but this looks like

[ __ ] like so many of my friends always tell me to come to festivals and whatever and if it was sunny look i'm sure i'd enjoy it a lot more but just walking around in the mud with like a [ __ ] like a ghillie suit on like you're gonna do some sniping all these people like camped in tents like there's no space there's no showers there's no luxury the view is [ __ ] the only reason people go to events like this is to get drunk and do drugs okay you take those two

elements out of it and most people wouldn't want to go to an event like this most guys base their enjoyment off the drugs and the alcohol and here's the problem right it's not actually an experience because you don't end up remembering it and you have so many negative connotations because you're like god you know this is the kind of metric that people use or the barometer that people use to measure a night out they're like mate i was wasted my head's banging i couldn't remember anything it was [ __ ] classmate last night was a

movie so that's not i i don't get that i don't understand how that's fun you've got to get to an age you know like i said if you're 18 doing this i can excuse you but i know guys are like 25 30 35 still doing this [ __ ] and they're like that's what life's for is for living it's like this isn't living this is not living this is low quality cattle okay you're wallowing in mud you're walking around getting pissed out of your head doing drugs wallowing wallowing in muds i just don't see where

the [ __ ] upside of this is okay like look at the standard of it like this is where you're spending your existence in places like this where people have got the people have got the low level sense to just drop a a kebab on the floor just drop their drinks on the floor just probably pissing on the floor in all sorts and there's people falling over lying in this line in this like somebody will throw up and then just lie in the sick and you've got to get them up you're like jesus christ like

this can't be what we base our kind of lives around okay it's another one i want to show you in the uk this is look 7am in the uk it was england versus germany and the euros there were people in the pubs at 7am and look they don't look good like do you know what i mean like nobody's looking like a [ __ ] dime piece are they nobody's looking like an epitome of health it's just such low level living like what what are we doing do you know what i mean and taking it back

to when i first started this video and i said this guy was like my life peaked when i was doing drugs and i was getting drunk and it's never going to get better so of course it's not going to get better if you're living like this because you're just going to be an older version of the same [ __ ] idiot doing the same [ __ ] [ __ ] expecting life to get better of course it's not going to get better you're an older uglier fatter version of the person who used to go out

and do the same things like it's of course it's not going to be better your hormones are all less thing you've got a hormonal imbalance testosterone is low like of course you're going to feel negative like you need to change your lifestyle before you can do anything else okay like waking up in places like this like trashing the place or whatever and like absolutely surviving on coffee to keep you alive or a red bull to give you that buzz in the morning your body's gonna feel like [ __ ] okay like waking up here like

we've all been in this situation i've been in this situation i remember the last time i ever got massively drunk i woke up i didn't really want to go it was my 21st birthday i think and i just got out of a relationship and i remember i woke up on my friend's floor or catch i think it was like floor with a pillow or i might have been like really curled up on the couch and i woke up and like he came in in the morning and i was just like mate this got stopped i

was like we can't do this anymore i was like like i wore a waistcoat out that night and thought i was a classy guy and then i end up sleeping on like a on a sofa like curled up with like a cushion as a pillow and i was like this has to stop man like i i can't be doing this anymore like i want to live a better life like i feel like [ __ ] where's my life going i look terrible i just look like some skinny fat guy like the water retention in my

face was awful i just felt ashamed of myself and i was like why have i done this i'm just ruining my life every time i do this and i've woke i've woken up depressed i've woken up on this sofa with no ambition no goals to strive towards as i just need to turn all this [ __ ] around and we've all been in this situation and to think that that would be the peak of my life no way guys and there's so much more to live for and you know [ __ ] the negativity now

let's go over to the other side okay i might not have clicked on every image but let's go over to like what life could be okay like what level you can achieve if you actually put your mind to it okay now here's a guy that i really really admire okay his name is renen pacheco he's a french director and um i i think he might be a photographer as well i think he does like small scale movies but really cool guy obviously as you could see in really good shape has kept himself healthy he's always

traveling around the world he's got like fantastic fashion he just seems like a really cultured guy i've followed him for years okay and um he just lives a pretty cool life he keeps himself clean like i said like this is the type of guys that i kind of model myself on especially when i was younger i used to see pictures of this guy and be like he's got a really cool life like i would be out drunk wake up the next morning on someone's sofa check instagram and see this guy like up seven in the

morning after a gym session on a saturday and he was drinking like a morning coffee or something you know which would be like his treat for the week you know he's looking fantastic like well groomed skins looking good he's lean he's like well dressed he's like maybe there with a beautiful date or something like the purpose of that day he was going to like build his own fashion brand or something like he'd be doing cool [ __ ] and i was looking at it and i was like what the [ __ ] am i doing

with my life like the of course like of course life gets better when you get older of course this guy's gonna have an amazing life okay when guys say um you peak at 21 like you can't really get girls after 25 like by 30 you're done and i just see guys like this who have actually got a level of ambition and then a level of sense to their life okay and i just think of course not of course there's more to strive for of course to that guy in the comments your life doesn't peak when

you're doing drugs and getting drunk like it makes me so sad to think that there's men out there with that mentality and they don't know about guys like rene pacheco that are living this kind of like really high level classy sophisticated man life and you know their entire pleasure comes from just getting drunk doing drugs partying sleeping with like sleazy women it's like you you haven't been exposed to what could be okay like the next level okay so i'm just gonna flash through a few scenarios now okay guys i'm gonna this is how i pictured

my life when i was young this is why i brought up this mood board okay i've given you an example of rene pacheco and some low-level guys getting drunk now i want to go through like the kind of mood board thing it's going to be completely random so please bear with me i know some of you really like this type of this type of like raw content but this is just kind of how my mind works okay and like when i was young i used to dream about a lot of this [ __ ] i

used to think the car i've got is very low level i feel like [ __ ] when i'm driving the car is it rattles when i go quick on the motorway you know the house that i live in is [ __ ] it's tiny i'm not proud to bring girls back like this is just terrible level house and i used to you know i used to just look at different scenarios and i used to think to myself when everybody was out getting drunk i was like i'd love to be completely sober in the shape of

my life some mature sophisticated man who's like nailed life in every department who's really pushing forwards has like a 10 by his side a really nice car like i'm driving from london to paris or whatever um like you get the ferry across and then you drive over she's like a stunning woman we're going there for a trip you know we put like a five-star hotel i'm living in like luxury i'm not spending a ridiculous amount of money but i'm just choosing to put my money elsewhere and this is i debated this with my dad when

i was younger too okay me and me and my dad went to um we went to barcelona uh to watch manchester city versus barcelona in the champions league we were sat there and we were we kind of came out of the stadium early and we got away from all the pubs and whatever and we found like a tapas bomb we were having like a nice conversation with some of the people there my dad speaks fluent spanish having nice food nice drinks and whatnot he was very sophisticated and he was like i don't want that life

anymore that because he used to be like a football hooligan when he was younger and um he was i want to move far away from that now he was like the kind of like getting drunk pub culture of the uk and he was he got to that level that i'm at now well i was a long long time ago okay but i've learned a lot of it from him and how he changed i remember sitting there and just saying dad like you go out every single weekend friday and saturday in the home town that we

live in you spend about 400 pound per weekend on alcohol clothes whatever like taxis and whatnot i was like if you just saved that 400 pound every single week i was like you would have 1 600 per month spare i was at the end of each month you could take five days off you could take a week off go over to like barcelona and these different places and you know live lavishly like with the same amount of money or spend half the amount of money and save the other half i was like you could do

that and within three weeks he booked a flight to barcelona he'd met a woman out there he went and bought a bar which is you know kind of ironic but he was running it not drinking and he moved out there and he lived there for like six seven years before he had to move back and then died of cancer but it was so nice to know that he actually was allowed to become the hymn that he wanted to become like instead of just going out getting drunk every weekend because that's what's programmed into people's minds

is like oh that's what you do is fun he broadened his horizons like he was traveling around spain he was like doing trips on the train like going and like experiencing different things like going around the museum for the day like looking at the architecture like he really opened his mind up became like a much more sophisticated man like the chats that we had beyond that point were unbelievable and it's just like another side of life that men don't realize exists and i exposed my dad to it like i kind of opened his eyes because

i was well into this like men's lifestyle [ __ ] at that point and when he saw it he was like i wish i was living like this my whole life like i'm i'm spending like 50 of the money but i'm doing like 10 times more things i'm happier i'm healthier he ended up with cancer he ended up getting to 16 stone of like lean muscle he was just training every day living well going to the gym in the morning dating women like walking on the beach like going out for one or two sophisticated wines

at night like sitting on a beach bar or whatever and he was like this is the best i've ever lived and this is something that i want to promote to guys is that the [ __ ] car that you have right now it gets better okay you can you can get a better life the shitty gym that you're in right now there's a ten times better gym that will make your life feel amazing with ten times better facilities with amazing experiences oh you're into sports where you can take a trip to roland garros in paris

you can sit and watch the tennis dress up with a couple of friends have a meal make a whole day of it like there's so many more experiences that you can have that we're not really that we're not really looking into okay like i'll go i'll just go from the top okay i just i just look through a bunch of images like this is the life that i picture like you grow up in some absolute [ __ ] house but you know that you have something like this to look forward to okay you have like

this i found this picture of this woman earlier okay i don't think she's unbelievable i don't think she's the best woman in the world i would date this woman though reason being she looks classy she looks well put together she sat there in the morning drinking her coffee i think it's morning you know outside the louvre it's a classy environment she seems as though she's well educated she's not going out getting drunk and doing stupid [ __ ] like this is the type of vibes that i like okay somebody that i would go over and

start a conversation with because i'd be like i'm feeling that energy i don't understand what's so good about like [ __ ] and stuff like that it drives me insane like i look at like how beautiful this is okay this is in milan it's a spa like you could spend your time here like there's healthy it's a lot cheaper than going on a night it's probably like 30 pounds you could just spend like a night at the spa there's so much more [ __ ] to do and we'll get back to other pictures in a

minute okay but like look at this guys i'll go through the stages okay i've got another picture here somewhere if i can just locate it like this might be your first apartment okay and you're like 21 years old you're going out getting drunk and then you knuckle down you're like okay [ __ ] the drugs [ __ ] the drink i'm gonna change my lifestyle i'm really gonna knuckle down i want a better life i believe there's better experiences out there with more money with more success with a better you know comes a better life

okay and you could go from that place to this place okay so your life is gonna upgrade now your life is better so you're older but your life didn't peak at 18 19 20 when you're going out getting drunk doing drugs in that [ __ ] apartment you've now got a classier apartment okay you feel a lot better about yourself you keep working hard eventually you end up somewhere like here like i don't see how other men don't see this like this for me gets me so excited like seeing that level of progression to know

that at 18 i could be in that [ __ ] hole and then at 25 i could be in the other place okay i've got myself on my feet and then at 32 let's say i'm moving to this place and i'm like [ __ ] i've made it like my life is balling like i've really i've really done well for myself this is fantastic my life has improved like that was something to strive towards this is now a place i can be proud of i can host parties here i can have a couple meals i

can invite family rounds i can bring girls back and they're going to be like wow that's impressive you've done well for yourself i'm not saying it's about that it's not an ego stroke but it just feels good you know i've just saved so many pictures guys like another place here like a classy guy with this woman beautiful view pool like it's i know obviously you've got to be like a multi-millionaire to get a place like this but i'm just saying there's so much more that you can do when you get older and you get more

money okay like you're probably gonna have a [ __ ] car like this when you're young like some boy racer guy sticking his middle finger up look at these gangsters okay he's got the side skirts the loud exhaust like it's all childish [ __ ] but people still chase this stuff as they get older like they still stay immature and i i just don't see this as peak i don't think this is the peak i don't think these are best years of your life when we had no responsibilities i want responsibilities i want [ __

] to deal with i want to wake up in the morning and i've got like four [ __ ] five missed calls from people i work with you know who work for me sorry and it's like we need to get this deal done okay we're gonna be at this hotel at this time we're meeting with these clients or or we're on set at nine the actors are gonna be there like i like those sort of problems where it's like okay we've got something to deal with we've got we've got a purpose but a lot of

people kind of strive for like having no purpose in life having nothing to strive towards having an easy life i just want a job which is easy easy pay no responsibility you don't have to do a lot you know a small house studio all bills included you know nothing to worry about i mean that's fine if you want to live minimalistically but i'm just saying they don't want to strive for anything better they're like as long as i can get my six beers and sit in front of the tv on a saturday it's like i

promise you it gets so much better as you get older i just got a range of places there's a place in dubai like you might never get there okay but it's something to [ __ ] strive for isn't it guys surely it's a beautiful place in portofino like i'm sorry but who would rather be on a drunken strip in magaluf rather than here like this is stunning imagine the life that you could have here like sat there having a couple of drinks and some food with friends you know with the beautiful view you can go

down take a dip in the sea you know rent a boat for the day again paddle it out sail it out to this point like explore the islands go and get some food at different places you know it's that's my kind of living i don't know why more guys don't strive for this you could be completely different but you know i just i just don't know where the ambition's gone you know you could you could here's what money can do okay it can open up in a sporting sense let's say you're a massive f1 fan

well here's what you can do if you work on yourself and you push forward you've got things to strive for in life you want to be a better man in the future you could get tickets to the f1 you know you could have this view and you're watching cars come round this corner you know there's a wonderful corner there iconic corner come round here zooming around you've got like that first person view with this beautiful view behind you you're here with your friends you're all dressed up you're looking smart like that's a hell of a

day that's an experience that cannot be matched from just going down the pub and watching a football game okay and that's why i want to show you guys this one i want to keep reiterating so it doesn't just seem like a pointless random video there's a better side to life and there's so much more that you can do and the other side of male life is unbelievable there's so much that you can accomplish you can be like a 30 year old in shape handsome in your peak man dating beautiful women you know going to locations

like this enjoying the [ __ ] event you know it's i just i just think it's unmatched i just don't know what else you know can really compete with it if you're more into like nature look you can go on a cruise around here you can get off you can go through scandinavia for me that's an unbelievable trip it's such a stunning location like it opens up so many possibilities when you push forward in life okay like these uh what we got here we've got barcelona look again if you're a sports fan like you can

watch the game from this point of view that's so much better than being in a pub and watching it on tv like it opens up so many avenues like classier women that dress like this this is my kind of vibes okay i don't know why more guys don't chase it flying on flights like this like there's so much more that can be opened up okay again look look at these locations you can visit beautiful places like this this is my like face wise is it my type of woman like she's she is beautiful but it's

not my type of woman but like dressing up in a classy manner like that and going to like a bar with your beautiful misses like a classy high-end bar like a rooftop bar or going for like a nice meal or whatever why is this not valued higher in society i will never understand it you know and even like in a health sense i know this is cgi but this is in hudson yards in in the in new york but you can have experiences like this when you're young you probably won't be able to afford this

okay and if you could afford it you're probably spending all your money on beer and nights out and drugs and it just drives me insane to say that that was the peak of your life like how much better is this i don't know how fresh the air is in new york but up at this altitude is probably pretty decent you know that's so peaceful you're probably away from the sands of the city like yeah granted it's led so you can probably hear you can probably still hear it but this would be stunning this would be

unbelievable i'd love to do something like this okay it's a much better experience than you know you could do this at probably like six a.m there's probably a class booked you're gonna feel healthy you're gonna feel good you're gonna get on with your day this whole going out getting drunk waking up at [ __ ] 2 p.m hungover with a dry mouth a sore throat you know body fat's up skins all greasy faces all puffy like why is this celebrated why is this normalized too guys why is this so normal to do why is this

celebrated as youth why i want to retain my youth not blast it away by living like [ __ ] like i wish i could go back to being like 18 years old and go and do something like this like that's what really gets my dick hard now and here we are at the same location okay this is a this is a gym this is a gym with a rooftop pool you wouldn't have been able to afford this membership before like this is how your life improves when you get older like [ __ ] just gets

cooler you start doing james bond type [ __ ] in james bond type locations like your gym before might have been just some tatty 20 pound per month pure gym okay and now you're signing up to this one i guess it's called equinox from what it says in the pool now you're swimming around this rooftop pool you've got a beautiful view it feels good you know you're training harder you're more dedicated you're not hungover all the times your training's going wow you're getting better results like everything comes together it's almost like a compound effect of

being a man now guys i'm just throwing [ __ ] random examples at you some of you might have left already some people might be bored i i just love doing this i just love showing the vast number of options that are out there i'm covering all bases with this i'm just showing you as much as i can like the level of women go up your gym improves your car improves your house improves quality of life your experiences improve somebody's uh so let's say put it this way right this is what i always pictured when

people told me i was an idiot you should get a job your business is going nowhere i laugh because i was like well you know in 10 years time you're going to be sat at your desk in the rain with a beer belly pissed off at life with a woman you don't want to be with i was like i'm going to be in a rooftop bar in [ __ ] marseille with a beautiful 10 eating and drinking whatever i want you know i'm in the shape of my life i look good i've got money in

the bank i don't have a boss to answer to i've still got residual money coming in paying me paying me for the trip i make more money while i'm on the trip than i can spend you know and this is the kind of life that you can strive for okay like everybody can do something like this everybody can push for a better life i just i'm sick to death of this kind of i guess it is very black pill that mentality of this that's it like you get to a certain stage in your life and

that's it you will not get better like 21 is your peak after that everything's downhill you were at your peak attractiveness you know you can't really go out and get drunk anymore because you've got responsibilities our responsibilities are annoying wish i was tie free i wish i could go back to when i was 18 and nothing mattered and i was just you know some of you guys are like oh yeah when i was 18 i used to get a lot go it doesn't matter it just it doesn't matter if you were 18 and you were

the biggest stud on the planet but now you're 32 and you're not it means nothing okay all that matters is the current date all that matters is the future like what you're striving towards like nobody cares about a washed up guy with a beer belly who used to be the king in high school i just don't know where this mentality comes from if i need to blow my load in the first three four five years of life like there's so much more that you can be doing like options like like i couldn't afford a gym

like this when i was younger i could i couldn't dream of going to a gym like this even if i lived in new york which i wouldn't have been able to afford but you see what i mean i can take a trip there for a month and i could sign up to this gym for the month and enjoy all the facilities of the gym get some great content you know these things bridge out as you get older because you've got more money you've got access to this ability like here's another beautiful penthouse who wouldn't want

to live in a place like this with your own terrace and a beautiful view you're not getting that at 17 18 years old like you're doing your drugs in a in a snotty little club and sleeping with some [ __ ] give me this house any day of the week over that [ __ ] it's unrivaled there's not even a competition between which life would be better in my opinion i mean just as a brief example i went on this boat in toronto okay it was called the tiki taxi we hired it after hours i

don't think we were supposed to but we paid enough money and i convinced the guy to let me drive so i'm which again wasn't supposed to but [ __ ] it it doesn't matter no does it so i was just driving this boat around the um kind of bay of toronto i don't know if it's just the lakes i guess toronto lakes i was just driving around this boat with my friends and we were just having like good fun we had a bit of food with us i think we had like one beer each with

us and we just had that so i was kind of drinking drink driving a boat i don't know if that's massively illegal who cares and it was just like we had the most fun of our lives and then we walked home we went to bed we got in the next morning two of us went to the gym like you can have these experiences without having to get absolutely blind though getting bladdered on the boat invite a couple girls with you like there's like experiences that you can have like anybody who doesn't think this view is

beautiful is a [ __ ] okay i'd happily punch you in the face like i would rather just sit there all day on this balcony and just look at this view eating food sipping on drinks whatever like non-alcoholic drinks having good conversation with friends about life whatever like business ideas that that's what stimulates me you know with a beautiful woman she's talking about like business or what she wants to accomplish or what she wants to do in the future and different ideas or we're going like deeper into like philosophical topics or something like that like

that would get me going like that's what i enjoy doing that's what stimulates me but like this view compared to looking down at a toilet seat and spewing your guts up because you've drank too much but it's time to level up guys and i'm gonna keep going i can keep banging on and just i'm gonna keep repeating myself and knocking these photos out because more of you guys just like one of these pictures will click for you okay you'll see one picture and go [ __ ] i know exactly what he's talking about like imagine

just waking up in this place sober in shape healthy well-rested you look good you've got your beautiful woman with you and you've ordered breakfast you know breakfast in beds like kind of you know and you're eating the food you're you know having a sip of your drink you've got your beautiful woman you've got the view of the eiffel tower like how would you not feel 10 times more powerful than waking up with a [ __ ] hangover after going to some [ __ ] club in your local local town like all of this guys is

possible anybody can achieve this life anybody can reach this level you just have to know it's possible and then you have to dream and work towards it every single day and you have to change your priorities and your principles like you have to become a guy that's like i don't masturbate i don't watch porn i'm high level okay step one you know i'm a guy who goes to the gym keeps himself in shape as a show and sign of respect to others and those are random i might even play the tom ford video right now

if copyright doesn't strike it i might play the tom ford video it's a free ad for them they're not going to complain right i believe that taking care of oneself adds quality to life and that looking the best you can is a show of respect to those around you this is one thing that i live by this is something that really got me going when i was younger it's like got me into like male grooming and making the best of myself and like tom ford and how classy that guy is and the guy the model

is juan bettencourt i think he's a chilean model i think i could be wrong there let me think he is cuban he could be cuban actually guys yeah i think he's a cuban model real handsome guy obviously stays in shape keeps himself together and when i used to see guys like this i used to think to myself [ __ ] like why am i not at that level like what am i doing in my life like why i saw a video the other day a lot of you guys keep shouting out hamza he seems like

a really good guy i think he emailed me so i checked out his channel and um i have dropped him an email i want to collaborate on a video or something i think he lives in wales based on his accent so does my sister so i might pop down do a workout with the guy he seems real sand and one of his videos was titled i didn't watch it because i i already knew what was in the video right and that's not saying it's a bad video it's just saying that i'm on that [ __

] level like i connect with that guy based on just that video title i know exactly what he's thinking and um the video was titled i want to be it was it was along the lines of like i want to be better than other men now i i get that on so many levels okay i can connect to that so strongly and that was what always happened to me is like i saw juan because and like the tom ford voice over and i'd be like [ __ ] tom ford owns his own like fashion brand

he's like this classy guy rolling around in suits and shades like he's traveling the world he's at like new new york fashion week and then in paris fashion week like he's having a ball of life and then you got juan bettencourt this super handsome guy dating any girl he wants you know again traveling the worlds he's got a career that he's built and i've just woken up on a [ __ ] sofa out of shape puffy looking like some skinny little teenager just wasting my life and i'm also 200 pounds down because i'm a [

__ ] and i just kept drinking to oblivion and spending all my money you know and all my trainers are scuffed up because the club had like a sticky floor and all these low-level guys and girls were just drunk and standing on my trainers you cannot compare the two guys you cannot compare the two and this is like this is like how i used to think when i was younger and now i'm like i've worked my bollocks off and put myself in a position where i can live like this now and i believe like i'm

about to turn 29 in in a week's time like 10 days the 20th of august if anybody wants to know and um [Music] i just like i'm ready to live that life like i'm in a position now where i can do all of this and i'm like damn that was worth it i'm 29. a lot of people go into a job they hate and i can live like this if i want to i can literally do what i want every day and even on a small scale guys like this is some expensive [ __ ]

okay i've shown you before you can lip ball on a budget and go places like dubrovnik montenegro whatever that was a cool video okay this is very similar um but you can do it on a small scale like you can just go and grab your laptop and work from a a local cafe or something like a stylish cafe that's got like nice views you can sit there and work you know and like you could do that on like a friday afternoon like be around people whatever and then everyone goes out and gets drunk and you

know you're you're heading home for the day and you're like i've had a lovely day like i've done exactly what i wanted to do okay let's let's go home let's let's open up that cookbook let's try and emulate what they've cooked let's invite that woman around this invite that woman around that i want less um let's cook a beautiful meal for the both of us you know let's watch a film or something let's uh let's have a like a deep conversation about something let's get up in the morning we're both going to go to the

gym together i got a free day pass like that kind of [ __ ] like why can you not live like that and that's i understood that from hamza's video straight away man like i didn't even need to watch it and i know for a fact if he came on this video right now he'd be like that's exactly what i was gonna say like i don't want to be lower than other men i i saw i told you guys that story before it sticks with me forever i was in a club and there was this

girl that was chasing for like three four weeks i was putting time in okay she always kept me at bay beautiful girl like she was she was like beautiful blonde girl with a great ass and she always wore like these short [ __ ] shorts i was like proper into this chick and i was probably like 20 years old 21 years old and this is when all my [ __ ] just stopped it was like a year of revelations like when kylie jenner said just a year of realizing things everybody laughed but i [ __

] with her on that man and i was like chasing this girl for ages and then there was like one day in the club a few you guys remember this story i told you when this like 25 26 year old guy came in and he's handsome as [ __ ] he's well groomed he's like in amazing shape like he built up like the frame that i have now and he was like well dressed whatever he was like sober he had his car keys with him and he's just like all right babe gave her a kiss

he's like i'm parked outside let's go and she's just like okay and she's like saying bye to everybody and then she leaves with him and i stood there and i was like [ __ ] that is literally like taking a bullet through the heart and it's not like heartbreaking oh i've lost a woman it was more so like how have i been this stupid how did i think this was gonna better my life how did i think this was the peak and this was the way to live like to run around like a [ __

] getting drunk chasing women just doing all the basic immature 19 year old type of [ __ ] okay like the frat boy lifestyle and i certainly realized at that point this isn't the peak and that's why when i see comments like that where guys like my life won't get better and i remember the 25 26 year old guy who was just [ __ ] on me just killing me and i was like never again will i let another guy be better than me and if they are it's because they worked for it it's not

because i didn't like if i meet a guy and he's just excelling me in all areas i'll be like fair enough it's not because i haven't tried like you know we we both get women we've both got a good life like congratulations buddy but it isn't because i've been going out and getting drunk and just [ __ ] on myself and ruining my own life like don't be your own virus okay don't don't make your life negatively self-inflicted like don't make it the reason that you're living poorly because of you like you're in complete control

and that's what frustrates me is people kind of believe it's like fate you have full control over this [ __ ] you can control your entire destiny you can point it in any [ __ ] direction that you want to point it in it just starts with decisions and principles like i said you go okay i'm a type of guy who doesn't masturbate i'm the type of guy who goes to the gym instead of like i go to the gym on a friday night i go to the gym on a saturday morning i go to

the gym on a sunday morning i don't wake up hungover that's not me i'm i'm above that like when people say to me now we went out last night we got absolutely smashed [ __ ] i'm feeding it this morning i'm really hungover you know what it's like i'm like no i don't i've done it in years and i don't want to i'm like it's kind of immature like how old do you know like i'll make them feel bad because i don't give a [ __ ] i'm like it's pathetic or you're 28 years old

still getting pissed beyond belief for what reason tell me was it a party was it a stag do was it your 30th and you just wanted to blow off some steam did you just did you just accomplish something great or make a ton of money and you wanted to celebrate no it's none of those so what the [ __ ] are you going out for what the [ __ ] are you living this low level life or why are you spending this dog [ __ ] money going to some dead end club to just hang

around with other bums that are just trying to fill a gap that are doing [ __ ] all with their life like people might think i'm harsh there people might be like hey chris but you've got to have fun trust me you can have so much more fun doing this [ __ ] you know a night out is like uh somebody um somebody asked me to address on instagram they asked me to address something that i spoke about a while back where i said pre-drinks are usually better than the night out okay it's almost like

the buzz is better than the night out because the night ends up being [ __ ] like usually what you look forward to isn't that great it's usually the journey towards it that gets the energy going the buzz you know when you're looking forward everything you're optimistic about everything that's very much a night out like the pre-drinks the buzz before you get excited and then the actual night out is kind of [ __ ] like i've had that multiple times then you wake up the next day and it's way worse you're hungover you feel bad

you look bad hormones out of sync depressions kick back in you're going nowhere you've spent more money than you've got like and you realize [ __ ] i should have invested that money then something like bitcoin blows up and you go [ __ ] i would have had enough money for that had i not been messing around all these years just going out and partying and blowing four grand per year on alcohol like he's so stupid right and that's what i mean by like the pre-drinks are actually better than the event like usually there's other

things to be done and like i just look at this picture on screen now we're just like the breakfast early morning you've got the woman there you've got the beautiful view like you're in the you're in paris like how could you not be happy how could this not kick off like a chain reaction over time like day by day your life's good obviously there's gonna be bad days there's gonna be down days it's not all gonna be you know sunshine and rainbows i understand that these pictures are crafted to create that impression for instagram and

whatever or whatever they're trying to do or sell the hotel room right but at the same time this has to be better guys this has to be better than just wasting your life in some pub watching sports sat in front of the tv drinking beers on a sunday because you haven't got work yet you oh i'm not back in work till monday i'll have a couple beers and watch the and watch the match watch the game you know like what the [ __ ] like where is that going i know it's turned into like a

rant and obviously i showed you that car earlier you know this is apparently for a lot of guys this is peak of their life three lads going on a road trip in the car together put me inside this bmw i8 with the beautiful interior and i'll drive through europe and enjoy myself with a 10 beside me every day of the week guys this is stuff you can't do when you're younger like the male advantage i can't believe it's the first time i've mentioned male advantage in a video like this but this is the male advantage

if you put the work in all this [ __ ] kicks in later on okay and i know like i make a lot of these weird random videos and if there's people still left watching thank you so much because a lot i just ran i repeat a lot of [ __ ] but it comes from passion and i like to have it sinking into your brains i just want to show you as much stuff as possible i want to i want to just unveil this other life that is out there the other side of life

as the video is titled because very few men will ever reach this point because they don't know it exists okay obviously they know like a better cars exist better houses and stuff like that but they just don't understand the kind of lifestyle aspect to it of like chain reaction theory okay like each i'm a massive believer that every day you either you get like a range of decisions okay let's keep it simple let's say it's a bad decision a neutral decision and a good decision the more good decisions like you know that dance game i

can't remember you still like go into like arcades and you jump on that like dance machine and you'd like like guitar hero where you'd hit the commands and stuff like that right if you were to have like a chain reaction of good decisions so you wake up in the morning it's 5 00 a.m you get straight out of bed another guy lies in bed for 20 minutes and then decides to masturbate well of course like straight away you're gonna be ahead of that guy okay even if that guy comes from a wealthier family than you

comes from a better situation than you like he's more handsome than you naturally like if you've made that one conscious decision it's not gonna have a big effect but as a chain reaction theory if you keep making decisions like that it's gonna have a ripple effect okay so next you have a healthy porridge with some fruit for breakfast and some nuts he's having cheerios he's having a red bull you know and then you go off to the gym you train for an hour he just sits in front of the tv just kind of just wait

in until it's time to go to work like over time when you keep making these types of decisions your life is going to get better and for people to be like i just go out and get drunk and i just do drugs and whatever and for someone else another guy to be like no i've changed my decision making i stayed in on friday night i went to the gym uh saturday morning at 7 00 am because i woke up feeling healthy and fresh i made myself a nice smoothie i made myself some decent food i

started working on a new business idea that i have or i called my boss and was like okay i really want a promotion this year what can i do how can i push forward i'm going to start working weekends to get to that position of power you know just like productive things these little decisions will add up and and for a guy to be like oh my life peaked at 18 when i was drunk and doing drugs and partying all the time it's never going to get better than that it's like i just don't see

how like that's a lazy mentality i'm embarrassed for the guy and anybody who doesn't believe that it can get better has either been told that it couldn't get better by men who [ __ ] up their own lives got to 40 and said life doesn't get better after 21 you go downhill you get fat bold and ugly like shut the [ __ ] up because i'm proving that every day i'm 10 times better today than i was when i first started this business okay like you saw my before and after picture a year apart i'll

bring it up on screen again now as a different human being imagine at like 35 years old it's just you know with a ridiculous amount of money a giant business in place it's just going to be levels above massive more experiences like the average person's experience okay during a year is one holiday about 350 days set in an office okay probably a little bit less to be obviously with the weekend so like 250 days set in an office they go to the pub after work might have a pint they watch sports on the weekends and

maybe they've got a girlfriend or a wife that they don't really want to be with you know they have to take the kids to parties on weekends they're not happy it's not a life guys it's not a life okay that's why it feels worse because you've never really worked on yourself you never really like brian tracy said tried to get a better life you never tried to chase success you never tried to see what else was out there it's what most guys do they're just stuck in this bubble of just work home pub like kovid

showed us that like i said at the start and it's so embarrassing to see the in the comments so many guys being like you say that men peek at like 37 36 37 you know you say men's lives don't start until they're 30. well yeah because look at all the [ __ ] i just brought up on screen who's achieving that at 21. most of us at 18 were hanging out of a [ __ ] taxi throwing up you know texting our [ __ ] ex like oh i want you back like crying ourselves to

sleep right there's so many young guys are like in these shitty situations like are all masturbating all [ __ ] weekends watching porn relentlessly and being like i have no purpose i don't know what to do with my life life gets better as you get older please guys do not think that you've peaked young please like honestly there's so much more to accomplish but you have to work for it there's you cannot sit there at 35 after not doing anything not working hard never being in the gym not trying to improve and go see told

you life gets worse you peak when you're young it's like no that's you you're an average bum you're not in my world you don't operate on the same level and i'm an alien to you i'm an alien to you i live a different existence i walk a higher plane i vibrate on a different frequency i'm like a subwoofer next to a radio it's just a different brand of human being okay and there's certain guys that just need to deploy that mentality because i promise you with all these experiences the extra money the success the access

to better women and whatever when you combine all of this [ __ ] together life starts but if you're just wasting your [ __ ] time doing drugs getting drunk saying oh when i was young it was great because i had no responsibilities no bills no it's like you gotta evolve you gotta evolve you gotta go from a boy to a man i've said this so many times in a physical sense but in a mental sense it's probably twice as important because without the mental thing you won't even be in the gym without the mental

thing you won't even be chasing the success without the mental side of things covered you know you won't even know what else is out there because you haven't you haven't even gone down that thought pattern of i need to change you know and without that you're never going to start so guys please i like i i pray that more people will see images like this and think there's a better life out there for me i can start visualizing stuff i can start pairing the nice car with the beautiful woman with the nice suit with me

being in shape with good skin a good grooming routine you know the kind of like tom ford mentality like blend it all together and become the perfect man because that's what first man's all about okay and i'm going to end the video here because my throat is hurting you know it's probably my fault for talking so much i do like one of these rants every month i hope people enjoyed it i hope it's something that you can like train to or just zone out to and if some of you would like if you're sat there

right now and you've got a real shitty life and everyone around you is negative and they're all going to the pub and they're getting drunk and you're kind of following suit right you might be going down with down with them you might be going and having a few beers you might be at a college frat party and whatever and you're doing it but you know at the back of your mind there's something more out there hopefully that can open you know this video can open your mind to that existence hopefully it can let you know

that there are men like you out in the world and it's okay to be like that there are high level men that have got a penthouse in new york and not even that okay they've got like a a 15th floor house apartment two-bedroom apartment it just looks very nice in new york with a balcony they've got a membership at that gym the equinox gym they're swimming in that rooftop pool at like 6 a.m on a on a saturday morning in august they're in great shape they're dating beautiful women they're they're starting their own business they're

investing in crypto they're starting their own nft project like they're active they're busy they're fresh they're healthy they're clean their diet's good you know they're thinking straight there's men like that out there i'm one of them you're one of them that's why you're still here that's why you've got that mentality okay so just let those words sink in and if you're surrounded by mediocrity don't worry there's always a way out you're just gonna have to go it alone okay if you want to grab our men's lifestyle supplement male advantage ebook or my personal workout and

diet plan all links are in the bio you