I choose to focus on what I can control and what I cannot control I release it I can choose how to respond to any situation but I cannot control the reaction of others I can choose how to walk through successes and challenges battles and blessings I choose to walk with Grace kindness and wisdom do not succumb to the depression the anxiety the rage the hatred or the regret live in purpose let the fear fade and let Faith invade you must move forward in strength even when pain tries to persuade your mood to change arise like
a beautiful rose emerging from the cracks of concrete there's still life left in you you are still breathing I know it's cold but are you courageous enough to step in the Uncharted Territory beating on your crab day and night I need you to disappear for the next 30 days what does that look like 7 120 hours dedicated to the Future where focus goes energy flows the problem is you put too much energy into Netflix you put too much energy into distractions you put too much energy into entertainment you put too much energy into things that
are not feeding your purpose and Destiny can you walk away from everything life has knocked you to the ground you have survived rived the greatest traumas of your life how tired are you of where you are right now how bad do you want to get to that next level what are you willing to do what are you willing to sacrifice what are you willing to give up who are you willing to let go to get where it is that you want to be see everybody wants to be successful everybody wants to climb mountains everybody wants
to be praised and celebrated but no nobody wants to sacrifice nobody wants to put in the work nobody wants to let go of every single distraction can you learn how to say no to what's hurting you no to what's stopping you no to the people that don't believe in you The Fakes and the phonies and the people that keep saying that they'll support you when you get there but they leave you when you arrive why are you here and what are you going to do about it because the truth of the matter is we have
a purpose purp we have a destiny we have fulfillment we've got connections to make we've got people to meet we've got rooms to walk in we've got tables to sit at and I'm just wondering if you are willing if you are courageous enough if you have the faith if you're bold enough to sit down for 30 days and write down what it is that's killing you can you walk away from everything for 30 days just one month 720 hours imagine who you could be in 30 days you got One Life to Live rain sleep or
snow the time is now I got three words for you shut it down log out of the social media get off the internet unplug and evaluate where you are and where you're supposed to be and I know you're broken and I know you're tired and I know you're weary and I know you're confused and and I know that you've got questions and I know you're fractured and I know you're bleeding in places nobody can see but if you shut it down you can heal you're standing at the precipice the edge of the greatest move in
your life and and and The Time Is Now like never before to take a leap of faith it takes Faith to jump off of The Edge it takes Faith to step into your purpose it takes Faith to step into your destiny it takes Faith to pull away from everything that is familiar to step in the Uncharted Territory to become the person you were born to be it takes Faith Can you disappear for 30 days the first person that needs to be influenced in your life is you it's you you can't lead anybody you can't go
anywhere unless you have awakened yourself on the inside to follow a specific plan write it out I need you to disappear life is kned you to the ground there are people that are tried to bury you Al life and you survive are you bold enough are you radical enough in your hunger and your thirst to go after what it is that you believe is yours are you crazy enough are you courageous enough to disappear for 30 days come back and shock the world can you suffer now that you live the rest of your life a
champion here's the reality you will always be where you are until you acknowledge the leeches in your life it is time time for you to navigate through the conversation comb through your context there are people that are taking from you everything taking your time taking your energy taking your thought life reprogramming and reconditioning you to do something that you have not been destined to do and the time is now to get tied to people that are going to help to position you and locked you in a place where you can fulfill purpose and Destiny for
30 days 720 hours imagine if you begin to write down the people that have not fed into your purpose the people that have not fed into your destiny the people that have lied in your fak The Fakes the phonies the frauds can you identify what has kept you broken what has kept you broke what has kept you defeated what has kept you covered under the blankets of anxiety and stress and overwhelm your deep DNA has been mutated by people that are beneath you and there nothing wrong with having people in your life that you serve
that you love but you're trying to make business moves with people that don't think like you they don't walk like you they don't sacrifice like you they're not willing to put in the Blood The Sweat The Tears behind closed doors a man is rewarded in public for what he does in private think over the things you've discussed with people go through the process go through the mud run in the rain dance in the snow inhale exhale I know it's cold on the other side but it's time for you to cross over because you're too comfortable
disappear for 30 days sometimes I got to look myself in the mirror ask myself is that all you [Music] got come on you're prepared you're conditioned you've been beaten you've been battered you've been broken you've been left for dead but there's more cuz you're breathing and you feel it so if you can feel it you can push it so push past the truth of the matter is that's not all you have there's more left in you I know you're tired I know you're weary I know you've been brought to tears all the blood all the
sweat all the sacrif all of the suffering I know you want to quit right now but this is not the time to let go this is not the time to doubt this is not the time to quit keep going use it to your advantage see the pain as a stage see the pain as a plane see the pain as an opportunity you gave me an opportunity to reinvent myself you gave me an opportunity to come out of my grave that you put me in you left me for dead I'm coming out alive I'm coming out
kicking I'm Coming Out Swinging you left me and thought I wouldn't overcome you forgot about me you let go and thought I couldn't survive it but I'm here it's not always about people sometimes life often times most of the times life will bloody your nose life will leave you in a cardiac arrest life will leave you in an accident life will knock you upside your head and dare you to get back up again use the pain cuz it's more or left I'm talking to that person in the hospital bed I'm talking to that person that
lost their mother I'm talking to that person that lost their father I'm talking to that person who didn't get picked on the team I'm talking to that stay-at-home mom I'm talking to that future engineer I'm talking to that future entrepreneur that Hustler I'm talking to that person who's been called to do something nobody's done in their family I know you're going through an unprecedented amount of pain but you can press through it if you can feel it you can lift it the time is now to do what has never been done use the pain use
the pain use the pain so I hear the crowds calling [Applause] and even if they're silent I will call [Music] myself why is it that we go through life and we feel like we can live without pain that we can avoid pain that we can go under it or go around it pain is like pressure and without pressure there is no diamond and I'm just wondering if there's anybody out there that's listening to me that is sick and tired of complaining about the pain I don't make enough they didn't believe in me they weren't there
they didn't see it they didn't pick me I didn't get the raise I didn't get the promotion she walked out on me he abused me my kids are ignoring me my teenagers are driving me crazy I'm just wondering if there's anybody that want to stop complaining about it and it's going to use it to your advantage imagine if you could use pain as a fuel imagine if you could use the pain as a passport imagine if you could use the pain to push you to condition you to prepare you for the stages and the rooms
you got to walk into and the tables you've got to sit at and the stages you have to stand on what if the pain can make you better what if the pain could build muscle what if the pain could cause you to reach Tire to LEAP farther to run faster what if the pain could help you what if all pain isn't hurt but it's help because you wouldn't have prayed like you pray had you not been hurt you wouldn't love like you love had you not been hurt because you know what it's like to hate
somebody so you refuse to go down that path use the pain a musician plays his instrument play pain play it when pain shows up at your door when people try to inject it inflict it use it to your advantage often times it feels like it is impossible in insurmountable feet to get past the beating but as long as I can feel it I'm not in a state of paralysis if you can feel it you can move it I can feel this I can move this I'm not paralyzed I can feel this it's heavy but it's
got to get out of my way but life throws you a we lift it I'm not complaining because life got heavier I'm celebrating because I'm getting stronger let's go use the pain your perspective is everything you got to see this thing differently you got to find a mirror and see this thing differently and I got to speak these affirmations and I have to believe I have to believe even if I'm bleeding even if I'm broken I have to believe that this came to help me not hurt me it made me better I'm not bitter I'm
Wiser I'm conditioned now I see this thing differently now I'm able to move and navigate and breathe different and talk different and walk different and build differently I'm not building out of anger and revenge I'm building from a place of [Music] abundance pain is inevitable and it is unavoidable you cannot live without pain but how you navigate that pain will determine how you Propel into your purpose use the pain use the pain to push you into a place of abundance use the pain to push you into a place where your very existence is lifegiving use
the pain not for Revenge but for fulfillment I I don't want you to die because you wanted me to die I don't hate you because you hate me I don't want you I don't want you to lose everything even though you took everything from me I want everybody to win if you can hear my voice I want you to win I'm talking to people that have lied on me I'm talking to the people that have given up on me I'm talking to the people that have walked out on me after I gave you everything I'm
talking to you I want you to win I want everybody to win that's how you know you've used the pain not to inflict pain but you've converted that pain in the fuel so there needs to be a conversation on the inside of you about conversing convert the pain into fuel not payback payback is for punks I don't need you to hurt like you hurt me I want you to win cuz I want to be better I got to be bigger I got to be the better human being I got to be the one who is
existing that's lifegiving I got to be the one that can do better I got to be the one that after you knock me off of the mountain after you push me off of the Hill after you drag me off the staircase I was climbing after I wiped the blood out of my eyes and spit up whatever I need to spit up and cough up whatever I need to cough up I'm coming back to help you I need everybody to [Music] win pain is inevitable and it is unavoidable the question is can you leave where you've
been can you close the gap between pain and promise so it's time to come face to face with pain look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself how much more can you take ask yourself the question is this all you got the more you run and the more you lift and the more you train and the more you dance and the more you sing and the more you advance into the beauty the Brilliance of your future the more that you move forward and you advance and you do it for your mind mother you do it
for your father you do it for the one that believed in you you do it for God himself who put you on this planet to make an impact and leave a legacy ask the pain one question is this all you have is this all you God while I'm lifting these weights I know it hurts but ask that dumbbell is that all you got ask that Trum is that all you got when you're in rehearsal when you're practicing again when you're beating on your crab ask yourself is this all you got self got more in me
you thought you were empty but you had a quarter tank some of you are at half a tank some of you are at 3/4 of a tank there's more in you my content creators my entrepreneurs my musicians come on my keynot speakers my captains of Industries my CEOs from the captain to the cashier there is more in you it hurts when we in when we hit in the gym it hurts but we lifting these weights and we're trying to accomplish a goal it hurts it's painful it's daunting it's cumbersome I don't want to do it
I'm sweating I'm I'm bleeding I'm crying I'm suffering but after I've suffered there is a reward stay-at-home father stay-at-home mother lawyer doctor hygienist author I don't know who you are where you're from but there's more in you you may be hurting maybe dying on the inside but you still got life left you gave them everything you had and they left you for dead I know what that feels like to be left for dead after you gave everything you had I know what it feels like you give and you poor and you s and you believe
and you give them everything you have and they leave you for dead and you are either going to lie in a state of paralysis or feel the pain the truth of the latter is if you can feel it you still got life left in you close the gap between pain and promise the Gap is closing the Gap is closing the Gap is closing the Gap is closing today use the pain use the pain use the pain [Music]