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everything will be okay in the end if it's not okay it's not the end you can't change other people and it's rude to try the answer is always no until you ask there are two ways to do things right and again stop expecting others to give you more respect than the respect you give yourself I don't know the secret to success but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone hope is not a strategy never trust anybody trust is earned not given from the start you're never too old to cut people out of your

life it takes a long time to realize how truly miserable you are and even longer to realize it doesn't have to be that way a wise man can learn from his enemies than a fool from his friends life gives you lots of chances to screw up which means you have just as many chances to get it right people treating you poorly is a reflection on them not you you the people who say you can't and you won't are usually the ones scared that you will don't make yourself available too much for anyone you will lose

importance just because the boat rocks doesn't mean it's time to jump overboard you'll have bad times but it'll always wake you up to the good stuff you weren't paying attention to the more you know who you are and what you want the less you let things upset you when you try to please everybody you almost always please nobody if you put your mind to it you can accomplish anything stop trying to be happy you can't be happy all the time and it's okay once a problem is solved its Simplicity is amazing if you're trying to

break a habit don't say this is the last time I'm doing it to yourself instead say this is the first time I'm not doing it you don't like everybody so don't worry about everybody liking you your past does not equal your future sometimes you can make all the right choices and then have to sit there and watch them all crumble around you you just have to pick up the pieces and keep moving never be so kind you forgot to be clever and never be so clever you forgot to be kind nothing that life has to

offer is worth the price of worry you stop explaining yourself when you realize people only understand from their level of perception someday isn't even a real day although for some people it's every day don't hang on to your mistakes just because you spent a lot of time making them never take for granted the time you spend with the people you keep it could be over any day live in reality as it is not as you wish it was if you expect the world world to be fair with you because you are fair that's like expecting

the lion not to eat you because you didn't eat him don't focus on Perfection or control you are not in control of anything and there is no such thing as Perfection no matter how good a person you are you will always be bad in someone's story waiting for change while not doing anything for it is like waiting for the train at a bus stop don't doubt yourself that's what haters are for to live life you need problems if you get what you want the minute you want it then what's the point of living don't take

criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from reflection and the gaining of knowledge is power without the means of either you are powerless at some point you will realize no one else has a say in your life unless you let them the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek say no more than you wish to have said Do no less than what you wish to have done mistakes do not attest to your character your reaction to them does that without you even trying discipline your mind to see the good in every situation

and look at the best side of every event stop expecting others to always agree with you ability can take you to the top but it takes character to keep you there everything can be taken from a man but one thing the last of the human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances to choose One's Own Way be prepared to change your ideas about who you want to be this is an important feedback loop as you gain life experience chasing a person doesn't give you value or build value in you you earn

your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity don't do anything you feel you'd have to lie about later if you are driven by fear fear anger or Pride nature will force you to compete if you are Guided by courage awareness tranquility and peace nature will serve you you're going to make a lot of people mad doing what's right for you any thought you have about the future is a delusion whatever is causing you worry or pain right now won't cause you worry or pain forever things change with time and it will pass if you need

more than one hand to count your best friends you're not a great best friend the single most powerful element of Youth is that you don't have the life experiences to know what can't be done at some point you just got to forgive the past your happiness hinges on it there's a lot of things worth caring about the past is a place of reference not a place of residence the past is a place of learning not a place of living we're all born with two things borrowed time in varying amounts and the ability to make choices

if you wish to know how you are spending yours observe how others waste their time making wrong choices and don't repeat them don't correct people if you could just as easily let it slide you can either be a negative or positive person in life but only one will get you somewhere life doesn't care about your vision you just got to roll with it nothing happens to anyone that he is not fit by nature to Bear you will never remember the days and nights you stay home and do nothing it's never too late to turn your

life in a completely new Direction and there is huge importance in just one day bless s in life will be repeated until they are learned you will never be who you want to be until you are happy with who you are when you get a different vantage point it changes your perspective it allows us to see things that maybe we should have seen a long time ago if you're right but you are obnoxious about it people won't see you as the good guy courage doesn't always Roar sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end

of the day saying I will try again tomorrow why let go of yesterday because yesterday has already leted go of you don't spend your life dreaming about what could have been in another place or under different circumstances instead invest your energy in what is right in front of you people often confuse stress with responsibility in this life you don't have to prove anything to to anyone but yourself accept things as they are life isn't about living in the past or living for the future it's about living in the now it is not a lack of

time it is a lack of priority enjoy every bit of your life to the fullest your your compromises and sacrifices will be rewarded no one ever got tired of loving they get tired of waiting hearing lies assuming saying sorry and hurting never keep people in your life if they don't love and respect you as much as you do them the reason you want to be better than someone else is the reason why you aren't it's not whether or not you get knocked down it's what you do when you get back up a man must be

big enough to admit his mistakes smart enough to profit from them and strong enough to correct them be the person you needed when you were younger strive to make small changes and learn something new daily because there are always these experiences you have had to tap into for the future someone's opinion of you doesn't have to become your reality not everybody who speaks in a pleasant way to you is your friend people are not good people are not bad people are just people experience don't expect experience life do not carry expectations on how it should

be wanting something is not enough you must hunger for it your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way our lives are defined by opportunities even the ones we miss every person alive hits a Crossroads in life when you have to let go of the past and Forge ahead into something new the only sad thing would be clinging to the Past once it's Out Of Reach if you change the way you look at things the things you look at change if you saturate your mind with positive

thoughts it will sustain you in any situation you don't ever truly know another person unless you can take up residence in their head you'll never be privy to their true nature it is not our abilities that show what we truly are it is our choices you train people how to treat you unconsciously or not you are either part of the problem or part of the [Music] solution never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity you've got to know when it's time to turn the page forgiving doesn't make the person who hurts

you feel better it makes you feel better if someone is trying to bring you down it only means you are above them socializing is just like any skill you need to practice before you're good at it life is brutal and will break your heart and you just have to be brave and do the best you can never deny yourself an experience just because it's unknown or uncomfortable it may just be a defining and wonderful part of your life never go to the Past not for happiness not for justification not not for excuses the world is

what it is you are what you are sometimes the right path is not the easiest one if you only blame your problems on someone else don't expect your life to get better life is an experiment in which you may fail or succeed Explore More expect least people don't forget nothing gets forgiven things are only impossible until they are not each defeat each heartbreak each loss contains its own seed its own lesson on on how to improve your future don't prepare the road for your kids prepare your kids for the road don't be scared because you

don't have all the answers right away you will learn through your experiences and find your own way to happiness just because you got away with a bad decision doesn't make it a good decision speak with caution even if someone forgives harsh words you've spoken they may be too hurt to ever forget them don't leave a legacy of pain and regret of things you never should have said it's not your fault things are the way they are you need to have faith in yourself be brave and take risks you don't have to have it all figured

out to move forward accept responsibility for your life know that it is you who will get you where you want to go no one else make improvements not excuses seek respect not attention opportunities can become obstacles the same way obstacles can become opportunities it all depends on how they are being interpreted by the mind of a person if you're going to apologize you don't say but after either you mean it or you don't there are more things likely to frighten us than to crush us we suffer more often in imagination than in reality all we

have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us life moves pretty fast if you don't stop and look around once in a while you could miss it anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured fake love is mighty convincing in a world where real love is mighty rare you can only lose what you cling to if you want to find happiness find gratitude except that things happen it may not be for a reason

and you may have no control over it but the first step to getting through it is accepting what it is you'll never be able to please everyone so don't make your life revolve around being accepted by everyone don't rely on others to tell you how to be happy or what makes a good life it's up to you to follow your heart and find happiness from there sometimes Which choice you make is not as important as making a choice and committing to it a denied expectation hurts more than a denied hope while a fulfilled hope makes

us happier than a fulfilled expectation don't worry about controlling your emotions control your actions don't wait for something good to happen realize that there are no participation trophies in life go out and do something for yourself success comes from action there's no shame in saying I don't know nobody has all the answers pretending to be perfect doesn't make you perfect listen to your conscience and do the right thing no matter the cost you can't put a price on self-respect whoever fights can lose whoever doesn't fight has already lost we live longer when we are too

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