This Brutal Truth That Makes 98.7% of Women Find You Irresistible

When I was studying at university, I had spoken with a girl through some mutual friends. We were in a group together and she was part of it. I really liked her.

This girl was doing a master's degree in rehabilitation sciences. And when I heard that was her field of study that night when I got home, I still remember myself opening my laptop and starting to research that field. I began learning the specific terminology used in that domain so that the next time I saw her, I could talk to her and show her that I also understood what she was studying and that I'm smart and educated.

At the same time, I told myself this would be the way I could break the ice and smoothly move into other conversations. The next day, when we met again at university, I tried to talk to her and I tried to show her that I understood the field she was studying. All right, let me pause here with you and ask, in your opinion, what do you think happened?

Did I talk to her and we started dating? Or did I talk to her and end up in the friend zone? You probably assume the result was the friend zone.

But no, the answer is neither of those are correct. I ended up being completely ignored. Why?

Because I made one mistake that I'm sure you are probably making too. You make the girl the main character. So, let me give you a brutal truth that makes 98% of women find you irresistible.

That truth is this mindset I want you to adopt. I am the main character. She's just a side quest.

And don't worry, as always, I'll explain how to do it, how to apply it, and how to act with a girl. Just be patient with me, and let me explain the concept first. Now, the society we grew up in from a young age trained us to see the girl as the ultimate goal.

Think back to the last movie you watched. When the hero saves the world, what's the final result? Usually, the result is a woman.

On social media, when you see an influencer who's successful and wants to show you the life he's living, what does he show you? Women. This, without you realizing, brainwashed you and made you believe that the woman is the reward for your hard work.

Like, make money so you can have a woman or train and build your body to get a woman. That mindset has been implanted in you since birth. And now that you've grown up, you see women as a reward for effort, which places them on a high pedestal and makes you stop seeing her as just a side quest.

What I want you to understand is see yourself as the main character and she's just a side character whose role is to add enjoyment. So please, before I explain how to apply this and how to show it to her, try not to memorize what I'm telling you. Try to understand it and understand women because this is a mistake I see a lot of guys making.

Ever since I started this series on how to attract women, they try to memorize what I say and apply it word for word. No, please don't do that. Try to understand women.

And once you begin to understand how they think, you'll start inventing your own techniques yourself, and you won't need me to explain how to do it anymore. And let me go back with you to the story I started this video with. The reason I was ignored is because when I spoke with that girl, I talked to her about something she liked.

And now, let me explain a rule I want you to remember for the rest of your life. When two people are talking, the one with more value is the one who chooses the topic. And that's the mistake a lot of guys make.

When they want to talk to a girl, they try to find out what her interests are and then talk about those things. I'm sorry, but if you do that, you need to know that the furthest you'll ever get is the friend zone. What you should do is talk about something you enjoy.

And a quick note here, I don't mean to talk about yourself. There's a difference. If you're talking about a person, then talk about her.

But if you're talking about a topic, then it should be a topic you enjoy. So imagine with me you're sitting with a girl and she tells you she read a book about history. And let's say you're not the kind of guy who likes history.

Then don't start talking about history just because she likes it. No. In that situation the best response is what?

You don't seem like the type who reads books or what? I didn't think you liked history. What do you like about it?

Of course, if you've been following me, then you'll know why I asked that question. But let me give you a quick summary so you understand me clearly. At the moment you're talking with a girl, the best thing you can do is to speak with her about emotions, not facts.

For example, imagine a girl who trains at a gym. That girl spoke with two different guys in the gym. One of them talked to her about nutrition and exercise science or something like that.

And the other asked her why she works out, why she enjoys training, and they talked about the emotions behind working out. In your opinion, which guy is she going to connect with more? Of course, the second guy who spoke with her about emotions.

So, when you're talking with a girl, try to avoid conversations that are based only on facts. But if there's a topic that you truly enjoy, like if you love history and you want to talk about it, go ahead, take your time, talk about the facts. The point is to summarize all of this.

What I want you to realize is never talk with a girl about something you don't care about just to impress her or to get her attention. Always remember you must always see yourself as the main character. Second technique, and this isn't just about girls, it applies to all people.

When you're talking to a girl, always remind yourself that you don't need to prove anything to her. That way, you give her the feeling that she's not the most important thing in your life. and that she's not the main character in your story.

How? For example, let's say you told her a story and she says, "There's no way that's true. You're lying.

" Don't try to convince her the story is true. Just say, "Yes, I'm a liar. " and start laughing.

If she tells you you're stupid, say, "Yeah, I'm stupid. " Always think of her as just an NPC in your life. Let me give you another example, and this happens a lot.

You're talking to a girl about something, you're excited, and she interrupts you. She cuts you off and says something completely unrelated to the topic. Now, when she interrupts you, don't try to go back and finish what you were saying or tell her, "Wait, let me finish.

" No, just let her talk. Don't try to return to that topic because imagine this with me. You and I are talking.

If you interrupt me and I don't care, that means I don't really want to tell you anything. It means your opinion isn't that important to me. And that's exactly the feeling you need to give to the girl if you want her to get attached to you.

Or let's say you were talking to her and something happened that disrupted the conversation. When you go back to talking, don't return to the topic you were on. Just forget it.

And this isn't only with girls. It applies to people in general. Never try to force your words.

Always say in your head, "Whether people listen to me or not, I'll still be fine. " And by the way, when you're in a group of people and they interrupt you, that doesn't mean they didn't hear you or that you need to repeat what you said. It simply means that the group isn't interested in what you were saying.

So, there's no point in repeating it at all. And I'll say it to you again. You are the main character.

Our third technique is complete honesty. What does complete honesty mean? This is one of the most powerful things that makes a girl become attached to a man.

If you start applying it, you'll be shocked by its power. So, let me explain it to you properly and also show you how to apply it in practice. If we have two people, the one in the lower position is the one who lies.

Think about this carefully. When two people are talking, the one who lies is lying because the other person holds a higher value in his eyes. Whether he cares about their opinion, is afraid of them, needs them.

That's why when you're talking to a girl, the last thing you should ever do is lie. Never try to lie to a girl. You should always make her feel that you are honest.

Because look, any girl you talk to, especially if she's attractive, will assume you're going to lie at some point. She knows this. Why?

Because that's simply her life experience. And girls can detect lies better than we men do. So, she spent her whole life talking to guys who lie.

So, when you start talking to her and she notices that you're being honest, a light bulb goes off in her head. She starts thinking to herself, "Wait, why isn't this guy lying? Does he really not care what I think?

Where did he get all this confidence from? " So the question now is how do you show her that you're honest? The first way is simple.

Just be honest and don't lie. But let's go a little deeper because this subject is really important and you need to understand it. We humans to understand someone's nature, observe how they behave under pressure.

So imagine you and I are talking and you ask me, have you ever gotten into a fight and I start telling you a story? I say that one day I got into a fight, knocked the guy to the ground and beat him up. If I tell you that story, what would you think?

Most likely you'll say this story could be true or it could be a lie. If it's a lie, then I'm a liar. If it's true, it doesn't mean much.

It just means I told a story that made me look good. But imagine I came and told you one day I got into a fight with a guy and I lost. He held me down and beat me up.

Now you'll say to yourself, "There's no way this guy is lying because it doesn't make sense to tell a story that's embarrassing and puts me in a bad light and be lying. So you'll assume I'm not lying and at the same time you'll start to believe that I'm an honest person because even under the pressure of looking bad, I was still honest. And that simply is human nature.

Someone who has never stolen anything is not the same as someone who had the opportunity to steal but chose not to. Those two are not on the same level. So, if you want to show a girl and make her feel that you're an honest person, you have to be honest in situations that make you look bad.

One of my online course students emailed me a great story that shows the power of honesty. He told me that there is a girl at the gym he trains at who he likes. Every time they see each other at the gym, she greets him and is very open to talking with him.

The reason she's so open with him goes back to a previous interaction they had. She was standing with the coach and he came over to talk to the coach and ask him something. The coach asked him, "Why do you work out?

" And she was standing next to them. So, she was hearing his answer. Now, he remembered what I explained in my online course and even here on YouTube.

And by the way, I'm not trying to sell you the course or anything like that. What he did, I already explained for free here on YouTube. Anyway, let's go back to the story.

Normally someone else who didn't know this concept would say something like because I want to take care of my health or because I'm passionate about it. He'd try to say something that makes him look good. Especially since that girl was listening.

But this guy didn't do that. He remembered what I teach you and he replied to get girls. The coach laughed.

The girl also laughed. And because of that, she jumped into the conversation and started talking to him about it. And they ended up spending a long time chatting.

So, from all of this, what I want to tell you is this guy said a sentence that very few people have the courage to say. And when he said it, it made the girl feel that he's really honest and that he doesn't care whether she likes him or not and doesn't care what she thinks about him. He told the truth, even though it was an unflattering truth, and that's the secret.

If you want to appear honest, you have to learn how to say the uncomfortable truth. If a girl asks you, for example, "Have you ever been in a fight? " Tell her, "Yes, one day I got into a fight and the guy beat me up and laugh.

" or if she wears an outfit that you don't like, tell her that outfit doesn't look good. Always try to be honest, especially in situations where honesty puts you under pressure. Because by doing that, you show her that you are the main character, and you show her that you're a guy who's extremely confident in himself and doesn't care what she thinks.

And if you're still watching up to this point, I just want to say I love you. This was the Dark Needle, and I'll see you in the next video.