Ep 9: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[Music] n [Music] hello everyone and welcome back to my channel it's your host Arlette and we are back with another episode of pop the balloon or F love and we have some beautiful Single Ladies lined up Make Some Noise ladies all right all right so we're going to bring out some single men one by one okay and when he comes out here if he is your type he fits all of your checkboxes you know all that good stuff do not pop your balloon however if there's anything you're not feeling about him you just cannot see

yourself dating this guy go ahead and pop it and then I'll go over to each of you see why you ended up popping and hopefully we get some matches yeah all right let's go ahead and get started let's go ahead and bring out our first single guy hello welcome in I'll have you hold this what's your name Ema EMA mhm all right AA how old are you 40 40 okay and what do you do I'm Chief product officer at a fintech so very nice okay and now what do you look for in a woman uh

well besides Beauty which I see plentiful here on the stage um I would also say uh an intellectually curious woman I'm really int like an intelligent woman someone who has other interests besides kind of the stuff that we see you know people being into celebrity or whatever just something more business something right so uh that would probably be my number two thing and then God-fearing of course actually that would be number one so okay and now what are some of your deal breakers when it comes to someone you're dating um I don't know I mean

I do know but I I'm I'm uh shy to say them because I don't want people to adapt too much but um okay give us at least one I'll give you one someone with just an entitled mentality I really can't stand like an entitlement okay all right yeah I'll leave it I'll leave it at that so we still haven't got any pot balloons I think cigarette smokers too yeah no cigarettes yeah so I think the ladies want to still know a little bit more about you what do you like to do for fun oh for

fun uh so I like to play soccer watch movies play tennis um so I like to be pretty active I like to like things like that outside and then um gosh I can't really think of anything else besides that yeah I don't really go out like I used to so you know just in the house read okay whatever all right so we dig travel travel okay yeah everyone loves traveling let's go ahead and go on over to our pop balloon and see why they ended up popping okay cool all right if we can have your

name and age my name is unique I'm 31 okay and unique what do you do I'm a beautician I doir and makeup all right okay and now why did you end up hopping your balloon he said something about smoking and I smoke I'm trying to quit but I smoke as of right now I I'm a smoker nothing to it but to do it on the quit but that's that's pretty much okay all right so then before he said that you did have your balloon un popped why did you yeah cuz I mean I'm used to

a certain type and he's honestly not something I would go for and I'm trying to step out of my comfort zone a little bit so that's why I was kind of I was still waiting to pop my balloon but okay so what's your usual type and what doesn't he kind of fit into my usual type it's hard to I'm used to like yeah the total opposite okay just the total opposite of him is I don't want to say too much but I've been in long-term relationship so I don't want to I've been kids into adult

so put too much on it but he's he seemed different very handsome thank you I appreciate it and now emca is unique your type uh not necessarily I mean I love your hair and I love your skin tone um the overall beauty is there for sure but uh well no no butts just you know not necessarily my traditional type okay uh all right we'll go ahead and keep that thank you we did get a pot back here all right if we can have your name and age I'm jador St I'm 31 and jador uh what

do you do I am a marketing manager for the hottest clothing store in Arizona shout out Nickel City baby okay um I'm also certified uh certified Behavioral Health technician um and I model I do a bunch of stuff but I'll leave it there those are the main things that I do okay and now why did you end up popping your balloon I really didn't want to I really didn't but I'm really looking ref first someone who like matches my fly you know what I mean and when you came out you're so handsome and everything it

was just the outfit that was that was really it I was like you know to know that you're going to be on this show and then I'm just I'mma leave it there so what what about his outfit are you not feeling it's the jacket and the fact that it's I don't I don't know it's just the way it was styled it's just I was just kind of like damn like okay that's what you chose for this okay yeah know now AA is she your type um to some degree yeah okay yeah to some degree yeah

okay what makes her some degree your your type I think uh you know the eye makeup is a little loud for me um and uh that's really it and the shoes are actually I like the boots but I would have put it with something different yeah okay okay M all right cool thank you so all right let's head on back over here so I'm going to now switch it on over to you um how many ladies we got left we got quite a few left so um this is a hard part unfortunately I do have

to have you pop someone's balloon based off of you know looks what you're not necessarily attractive to what doesn't really fall into your type so let me go ahead and have you actually pop two of them let me give you two quick and then once you pop those two I'll go ahead and follow you and you know we'll get into a little bit more as to why you ended up popping theirs okay oh this is hard I know everyone says that make it difficult all right I'm sorry okay and one more this is like awkward

awkward Central yeah okay you could just stay there I'll come over here okay all right if we can have your name and age I'm Micah and I'm 33 and Micah what do you do I'm a product marketing manager for a tech company okay nice now Micah why did you have your balloon unpopped for EMA I love his style and he's very handsome I like a nice beard and yeah he just looks good and I liked his answers to the questions okay thank you now Mecca why do we end up popping uh Micah's uh my T

um you know my type I like a little bit Slimmer usually um that's just where I'm at right now so you know that that was kind of the yeah the reason understandable yeah all right thank you now you did pop one more back here let's go over here if we can have your name and age I'm Britney I'm 28 and Britney what do you do I'm a reservations agent for the airlines okay and why did you have your balloon unpopped for Mecca I think he's cute he's well spoken nice teeth good skinned complexion yeah okay

all right now Mecca why did we end up hopping Britney you know I don't have the best reason I kind of I go back to that thing I said about about slim and also prefer darker skin and I think she has the lightest skin up here and it's not even that your light skin it's just hey she made me choose so I had to choose that's fair I respect it okay all right thank you and now we did get a pop balloon go all right if we can have your name and age my name is

Tatiana I'm 25 okay Tatiana what do you do um right now I'm a delivery driver for Amazon um I model on the side I graphic design on the side too and I'm also an aspiring actor um you need my reason now yeah why' you pop I feel like I'm going to sound like such a child you seem like you're a lot more well put together than I am right now and you seem a little bit more precise with what you want I don't see myself fitting into that category with you my guy I like that

I feel like you could like maybe like loosen up a little bit you just seem like yeah I feel you like you you seem like you could be fun but like like my fun compared to Y fun how how we going to get along with that you know what I'm saying you I don't want to I don't want to you know I love that you said that and I know that that's how I come off and I come off that way a bit on purpose but you'd be surprised at how open-minded I am and the

kind of fun I have you'd be surpr tell me I regreted popping my balloon or something I mean we may never know I don't know we'll see where are you from though cuz your accent is um so I grew up in uh I grew up in Guadalupe Tempe area out here but what's funny is cuz like I was raised by a bunch of New Yorkers ah yes I'm a native arizonan interesting everybody from the East Coast got it that makes sense okay that's what I thought I heard but I wasn't sure okay all right cool

all righty all right oh let's go over here if we can have your name and age so my name is Britney also I'm 31 Britney what do you do I'm a counselor okay and now why did you end up popping your balloon um I just want to hear more about him he looks good I love your outfit um he just the age he's 40 um never talked to anybody that old not saying it's a bad thing I don't know but I just just the age for me yeah yeah cool now um EMA is she someone

that's your type yeah I would say so thank you okay what makes her your type um she's petite and she's well spoken and uh she has a a natural hairstyle which I prefer and yeah okay appreciate it thank you now have you ever gotten like the age thing before that women tell you you're a little too old for them or uh I mean it's happened before but it's only because like I've approached someone without knowing how old they were and they were like 22 or something like but not usually not usually no mhm yeah know

he's cute but just AG thank you understood all right so we do still have three ladies left I'm going to go ahead and have you ask these ladies a question just to kind of help you narrow down see who you're more matched up with is it the same question to all three or yes okay um um partner or princess okay let's start over over here if we and you can always ask them to elaborate if we can have your name and Age and what you do my name is Brenda I'm a HR business partner at

the hospitals and I also have a business on the side I'm a private Chef okay and how old are you I'm 366 okay though to answer his question partner or Princess uh I'm in between yes I'm in between I can be a princess and I also can be a partner okay MH okay that's yeah all right your name and Age and what you do I'm Nova I'm 30 and I'm a licensed as Tian okay and now partner or princess both um can you elaborate on that because I'm a little confused yeah sure so do you

see yourself as more of a partner I'm thinking about marriage and now not going on a date um do you in part in marriage do you see yourself more as a partner with your husband or a princess of your husband definitely a partner then yeah for sure I believe that's marriages teamwork for sure mhm okay good all right if we can have your name agent what you do my name is Australia I'm 31 um and I have my own consulting firm where I do um Logistics I'm a property manager I'm sorry a property owner um

as well as I do recruitment okay um and I'm also a partner okay good okay all right all right did you want to add on to that or um let me instead let me just can I ask another question yeah yes all right uh second question what is your dream for your life o h so many things um well I do want to settle down I feel like I am somebody who can bring a lot to the table and thirdly um I'm fun yeah what more do you want out of that okay all right same

question yes um where I see myself in five years I do have a what's your dream for your life I just want to make sure dream for my life okay so dream for my life I do want to be a business owner which I'm already taking that the steps for that and I am also in nursing school so I do see myself being an aesthetic nurse and with or without a man take care of myself financially for sure okay okay a dream for your life yes so I've spent the last five years building my business

um and traveling the world so I am trying to get into a place where I want to settle down have children um and continue to grow okay all right AA I'm going to have you pop someone's balloon pop this one why did we end up popping hers um in her in her dream She only mentioned career and she didn't mention any other aspect of her life and as much as I value my career and careers in general and making money um you know there's more to life than that and I just you know so that's

why I leave the question so open as I want to hear how they Envision their own dream yeah yeah okay okay all right thank you all right so we do have two ladies left you always step so far away s sorry yeah all right ladies do we have a question for Mecca before we have him pick do you have one before we walk down there yes okay we'll start and then we'll go to you all right AA so in uh the questions you asked earlier same thing what are you looking for in a woman um

so I'm definitely looking for a partner 100% And I think I think a wise woman would understand that um if she were a good partner to her husband that the princess treatment or queen treatment or whatever it is you're looking for is going to follow right so I think that um you know I'm a divorce a and so I'm looking for someone who's truly like a thought partner and a nurturer and all these other things and so um yeah so that's maybe something I'm a little bit on guard about maybe and I just want to

like make sure which obviously it's not going to happen in 30 seconds on this thing but I just want to know where your where your head is kind of um okay okay um I'm also looking something I people mentioned that I didn't mention at the beginning is I'm also looking for someone who's like open-minded and not judgmental and part of that is because of the fun I want to have but the other part of that is just like I like to explore ideas and I don't like for too many things to be off limits just

cuz I'm a curious person yeah intellectually curious okay I'm sorry divorce I'm sorry okay so it was him being a divorce a yes yes great looking guy well put together um I think it's more so have you healed from that MH yeah yeah and um me popping the Lon is I've met a lot of divorcees and I don't want to be in that position again understood right thank you let's go down over here all right you had a question for Mecca do you have children I do not okay do you want them I would like

some how many are we having we between two and four okay cuz I say five three to five so that works okay do you have any children I do not have any children okay good okay let's just walk on up here let's let's go yes ma'am come on up here all right any final questions before we determine if there going to be a yes for either one of you I do not at this time I do not at this time I don't think yeah oh we got a m okay no wait hold on let me

let me let me backtrack so just to confirm it's going to be a yes for you for him it's a yes yes and it's a yes for you for her sure it's a yes we got a match all right I'll take this mic and you guys can go on up let's give it up for [Laughter] them all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy there you go welcome in what's your name philli Phillip how old are you 34 34 and what do you do I'm the assistant track coach at Arizona State

okay very nice and now what do you look for in a woman fun personality just open to new things okay all right and now what are some of your deal breakers when it comes to woman probably being close-minded just not willing to grow mature I think that over the course of a year in some way you got to just grow in some capacity okay all right now Philip what are some of the things you like do for fun uh I travel a lot um I was in Philly last week I'll be in Denver next week

I like to cook roll a skate a little bit of everything okay very cool all right so we did get one pot balloon let's go on over there and see what's going on all right if we can have your name and age I'm Tatiana I'm 25 nice to meet you Tatiana we have you standing here Philip no problem thank you I said nice to meet you oh nice okay I really did not know what you said like it like was mumbled my fault oh no why did you end up popping your balloon um it's not

that like you're ugly or nothing I just am not attracted honestly for sure like you you look good though like the suit you put that on appreciate it but just not for me for sure okay and is there anything specific that makes him not for you I don't want to be like it's going to sound ruthless like okay like completely respectfully like you I I'm a goofy person but you just look a little bit too Goofy for me see that's why I didn't want to say [ __ ] okay no I understand I get it

you're not ugly though that's the thing like you don't look bad I just am not into it appreciate it okay now Philip is Tatiana the someone that you type um I would have to just know your personality okay if I show you this tooth is it going to change you no oh okay well it's going back over here oh I almost walked into y'all all right so we do still have quite a few balloons left un popped so we are going to switch it on over to you for the first round I'm going to have

you eliminate two girls just based off of you know what's really not your type or what you wouldn't really really go for so let me give this over to you and you can go on over and pop those two and then I'll come after you and ask you why we ended up popping so just go ahead all right okay and one more okay let's start right here if we can have your name and age I'm jador Styles I'm 31 okay and jador why did you have your balloon unpopped um cuz he looks good and he's

very well put together thank you yeah okay all right and now uh Philip why do we end up popping jador I mean honestly you put yourself together very nice but I just think as far as attraction just immediately just didn't click okay thank you you're welcome now is there anything specific that you know I know you said the attraction didn't really click is there anything specific no MM all right cool thank you let's go down over here we can have your name and age hi I'm Micah and I'm 33 all right nice to meet you

Micah why did you have your balloon unpopped I had my balloon unpopped because I love his style I love natural hair too so good looking on that and yeah I wanted to hear more about him so I was wanted some questions to be answered so okay all right and now Philip why did we end up popping uh Micah's I think just from uh immediate first impression just not my type for sure okay and what makes her not your type um I typically like Slimmer women okay for sure but again no offense um you know look

nice and uh that's that's it that's really it thank you okay so Phillip for this next round I'm going to have you ask the ladies a question it's a question that's going to go to all of them just to kind of help you narrow it down see who you're more matched up with okay first question do you have a relationship with God okay let's start right here with your name and age and do you have a relationship with God hi nice to meet you I'm Britney and I'm 28 and I do I want to get

more into my relationship with God and like going to church and stuff so yeah okay okay your name and age and do you have a relationship with God yes my name is Brenda 36 absolutely Wednesday Bible study is a must so yeah okay nice to meet you your name and age and do you have a relationship with God my name is Britney I'm 31 and of course he's number one yeah okay for sure nice to meet you your name and age and do you have a relationship with God I'm Nova and I'm 30 years old

and I do have a relationship with God I would like to to build on that um but yeah I would say I'm more spiritual than I am religious um but yeah I I believe in it all okay so when you say spiritual do you not subscribe to a specific denomination no yeah I don't I like to study I actually have a Quran I have um I have a lot of the different Bibles from different religions so I like to study on them to really like understand what I'm believing um so that's kind of where I'm

at right now in life okay yeah all right all right cool thank you now we did get a pop balloon over here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is unique nice to meet you I'm 31 and I popped because he asked about the relationship with God and I was raised in a household where I was told that I'm I'm a God so I really don't go to church I'm real spiritual okay that makes sense that was why I popped but I love the outfit that's why

I didn't pop and I wanted to get to know and you said something about being a track coach yes you work with kids well grown kids grown kids I got grown kids so that's what made me like really wanted to get to know more okay okay now I will say you know there's a verse in the Bible that says greater than is he who is in me than he who in the world so God always dwells within us right so to me I'm not you know caught on like the denominations as much I grew up

in about Church okay but just having some type of relationship is what's important to me got it I grew I mean I I wouldn't say grew up in a church but I I have went to church as I was young my mom you know went into the spiritual side so she kind of gave us the choice if that makes sense for sure and yeah so I don't really not I I'm have a relationship with myself I feel like I'm a God so I kind of think different okay understood okay all right thank you okay so

based off of those responses you got I'm going to have you go ahead and pop two of these ladies balloons got it pop two got it pop too okay okay all right so why did we end up popping hers so you had a good response and honestly all four of you pretty much said the same thing so I don't really feel like there's a full justification on just oh yeah I just have to pop it but I had to pick two people okay okay and is that their answers not didn't resonate with you as much

or like what was it honestly I I think your res uh your answer did resonate very well so you know I don't have anything negative to say against that okay all right did you want to add something oh no I thought you was going to ask me why I came up no that's fine all right and now why did we end up hopping hers I mean pretty much the same thing I just feel that because I had to pick two you know it's pretty much just the same but I feel as far as what you

said it was not quite as in line with what they said yeah I agree it wasn't thank you all right so we do have two ladies left ladies do we have a question that we want to ask Phillip yes okay let's start here do you have kids no I don't do you want kids yes I do okay okay now do you have kids I do not have kids I do want kids though yeah okay and where where are you from again Ohio okay I can hear accent oh I don't hear it but yeah all right

and now Brenda do we have a question yes where are you from originally I'm originally from Kansas and then I lived in Houston Texas for 10 years oh wow okay from Houston too I've lived there too okay what part what what part of Houston uh I went to U ofh so downtown Houston was was the spot and you said you were there for 10 years yes okay very good yeah I got my masters from prayview oh very good very good okay uh do you have kids I think you said no no no kids do you

have kids I don't have kids I will like kids but marriage first for sure okay I think that's all I have right now all right any final questions before you make your decision off of these ladies here sure so every day what would you say drives you like what do you feel your purpose is I feel like my purpose is oh let me think about that um really just getting up doing what I want to do and chasing all my dreams um I like to do like content creation so like Tik Tok and I really

am like big on that and like trying to chase my dreams I follow like my vision board trying to do everything that's on my vision board to complete it this year so it's just like that's what I wake up and look at every day try to chase everything that's on there so it motivates me okay for sure good question um I'm a people person so a lot of times I get myself involved with community community service things like that I My love language is acts of service so um with that being said that pushes me

to get to know somebody in depth um I know everybody is on a journey so I understand that it does take time for you to get to know somebody so my passion is understanding who you are and your core values in order for me to know for sure where this is aligned yeah okay MH all right and then can I ask a follow up to that oh yeah so you said acts a service so do you feel adding value to people is something important to you absolutely absolutely uh it's important because it helps me understand

what your passions are uh it understands the type of person you are and your values and morals so I think it is important to you know it's full circle so you have to definitely be in in tuned with that for sure okay all right thank you all right so we have our two ladies left here I am going to have you eliminate one of them and the other one will hopefully be your match so I'll go ahead and leave the floor to you all right why did we end up popping hers so again you had

a great answer I think what resonated with me with you was uh the vision board cuz I have a vision board and I'm very big on Law of Attraction affirmations manifestations but that is really it okay okay all right okay gry let me have you step on over here okay so I have one final question if there are no further questions between either one of you I do oh okay okay so how do you handle disagreements and like a relationship like arguing and stuff like that so I like to listen to understand versus listening to

reply or just ignoring so I think listening to try to figure out what the roote of the problem is is where I'd like to start okay good yeah all right so is it going to be a yes for you for her yes and it's a yes for you for him yes we got a match all right I'll take this mic and you guys can go on off [Laughter] yes they're so cute all right let's go go ahead and bring out our next single guy welcome in he's back all right if we can have your name

that was so fast I was not expecting that what's your name sir hi my name is Dr Elon and Dr know who I am how old are you that's not fair Dr elim how old are are you I'm 39 okay all right now we do see you pointed out Dr elim what kind of doctor are you what do you do yeah I'm a dentist so actually please forgive me for my attire I had an emergency earlier and I had to rush here so I didn't have time to change she's not even looking at my face

okay so uh I am a traveling dentist I travel up and down the West Coast pulling teeth and placing implants for those who need it okay all right what do you look for in a woman what I look for in a woman is pretty Universal and I'm not sure if it's been explained this way but I'm going to try there's three things that every man wants and if you do these three things you can procure any man that you want and this isn't my information that I just came up with this is actually research based

and the first thing is being useful how can you be useful to the person in your life why is that important because when you are a useful asset to the man that you want to be then there is no way that he's ever going to want to get rid of you the second thing is you have to blow his mind in the bedroom what does that mean that means you take the wildest nastiest thing that you've ever done figure out the wildest nastiest thing that he's ever done and exceed that otherwise he can just get

it from somewhere else now the third thing and this thing is the most important thing it doesn't matter if you do the first two things if you don't do this last thing then you won't be able to keep your man and that is respect always respect your man now if you have any confusion as to what respect is say to yourself would I say this to the person who is writing my checks would I say this to my boss and if you wouldn't don't say it to your man so I'm looking for those three things

okay so Dr elim we did have you on episode two of Pop the ballooner fine love and also in the get to know with you we found out that you know it didn't really work out too much with your match what happened there well we decided that we wanted different things in life we had a great conversation we went to dinner I thought that she was first class but ultimately we decided to just be friends and just support each other along our Journeys okay sounds good so we did get a couple of pot balloons here

let's go over to some of these ladies and see what's going on please let's let's all right let's start here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Brenda I'm 36 the reason why I popped very good-looking man well put together you're in the Dentistry world that's amazing you I'm sure your love language is acts of service since you are in the Dentistry world but the way you answered that question actually my love language is physical touch oh and quality time oh and words of affirmation I

I see that you like to interrupt I apologize I apologize I apologize it's best that I did pop that balloon thank you now is Brenda someone that's your type you know I actually don't know enough about her to make a valid decision on that but I love the dress you have a gorgeous smile I love what you done with your makeup and your hair you're you know awesome thank you awesome thank you okay thank you let's go over here if we can have your name and age I'm jador I'm 31 all right and jadora why

did you end up popping your balloon Dr elim it's such a tragedy because you are so handsome I feel like you are extremely arrogant and I feel like you're probably going to have a hard time because you seem like the type like a know-it-all type of guy and sometimes you have to be careful with that because even when you know it all you don't know everything you know so being humble sometimes can be your best friend even if you do know it all even if you're very smart very wise wise you know but just having

a humble attitude you know what I mean you would probably go a lot further and I say that with all the respect in the world thank you you're welcome who's your dentist who is my dentist not you sweetheart and I'm just going to leave it right there oh I know I'm not your dentist yeah okay all right let's let's go to our next person here your name and age and why you ended up popping so my name is Britney I'm 31 and like she said you look really good I like that you're you're in the

dent you're dentist but you are given arrogant and it's given toxic too like it's given you want to debate all the time like you it's like you're going to give me a headache and if you like sh if you do know it all just a little bit better to be humble um so that's it but you look good you're handsome but it's just it's given toxic and I don't want that and it's also given like this is a joke to you like you just want to come on here just to say stuff to get a

viral moment I'm not feeling that Dr elim yeah I don't even really know what to say with that I appreciate your perspective I think that your feelings are valid and if you are looking for a nuclear relationship I probably am a red flag for you so you proba probably right on that I love your honesty thank you all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping hi I'm Nova I'm 30 um yeah it was a just the arrogance for me I I love a man that's very confident like

you I'm going to toot your horn every time I get every chance I get but um I think you to your own horn so I don't think I will be able to accommodate that every day like you're toting and then I'm trying to uplift and it would just be a roller coaster ride like all the time like I feel like we would constantly be at up here and I like my space I like quiet I like I feel like every day would be something um not negative but just the energy would just be very high

for me like it sounds like self- Leve is something that's challenging for you self love oh no baby I'm sorry cuz if you loved yourself then you wouldn't have any problem loving me oh I I love myself a lot and I I want to be able to love someone uh as much as I love myself but I feel like you love yourself so much that there wouldn't be any room for me to love you that sounded good but it also didn't make very much sense because love isn't a container love is something that you are

so I love myself I've worked on myself and I understand the tools that it takes to practice self-love okay and so space and time isn't really an objective field that you need to use as a barometer to see if it's possible if we can love each other it's either you love yourself and you can share that or you're uncomfortable with it and so I feel that you're also uncomfortable with me loving myself as much as I do no no no no no and it's coming off as arrogance oh I'm arrogant no I said it's coming

off as arrogance oh you're coming off yeah you you do um so my confidence is triggering you because it's reminding you I love confidence I melt in it it's not about you not having self-love it's about you not appreciating the self- Lov in other people and that is a direct reflection of how you see yourself it's the term is called projection when you see me shining it remind you that you're not shining enough oh so when I said that I melt in confidence that kind of went over your head melting in confidence is it self

love confidence all that in my man is very important to me because I don't want to date a man that does not love himself cuz then he won't love me as much the level of love will be different look I'm really trying to follow you I know I know but it's okay but your ego won't allow you to take responsibility for your lack and that's okay but I don't lack anything babe po y's balloon before you even got to not Dr Elon what a shame what a shame is it though I don't yeah um you'll

find your your you said you watched the show before you got here which means you have a preconceived indoctrination of who you think I am so you popped your balloon before you even got to know me based on what you've already seen please why do you want to argue with me I'm not arguing with you I'm using an inflection that is emphasizing my point you thinking that I'm arguing is a direct trigger that you can't handle what I'm saying to you okay love bug um I've been here and done that okay yeah let's let's let's

do it let's let's see what's next all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Tatiana um okay respectfully where do I begin my guy you got a lot of dip on your chip and I feel like the way that you com in at everybody else with like oh who's your dentist and everything you going to ask me who my dentist is and I'm not I'm not I'm not with that just yeah I'm not I'm not ready for that also let me finish real quick respectfully

I'm sorry you know cuz you interrupt everybody else let me speak real quick I just personally feel like you're not used to a like and I'm not trying to say like oh I'm alpha male like you know whatever like you're not used to a dominant woman I feel like you are like it's easy kind of coming to you to belittle women a little bit I understand where you coming from with everything that you do and I saw the last episode but like you you do come off as arrogant confidence is cool but like know the

difference a little bit what you going to say about my tooth bro why would I want a dominant woman when I'm the dominant one go ahead there can't be you know can I ask you a question go ahead's do you think you're the price I know I'm the prize you're the prize to the men you don't want okay when you get a man that you actually want please believe me we're the prize okay next okay your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is unique I'm 31 and I popped not that

I disagree with how he is I I love the I love how he is girl say he has confidence it's nothing wrong with how he is it's not what I want at the moment okay cuz I dealt with his kind before in a way not exactly CU you know everybody's different but I dealt with his kind before and there's nothing wrong with how he is okay I feel like right now this is not the right platform for him as far as in what he's looking for or maybe he's still trying to figure out what it

is you want I don't know but I know I want you do know what you want I know what I want but obviously it's multiple things that he want that he hasen't he hasn't found in received in one woman you know I I heard I I agree with you I agree with okay there's nothing wrong with that there's nothing wrong with how you think the confidence all that there's nothing wrong with it you just have to find a woman that's willing to accept those things without her feeling like her light is getting dimmed if that

makes sense M so I have to find a woman who is strong enough to know that her light can't be dammed that hit me hit me with your best shot tell me your name again unique unique that is so special thank you um yeah as far as a masculinity like I said it's not a gender I feel like it's just you know so being dominant and [Music] being what was the word that she used um what was the word that you use I forgot masculine masculine masculine that is something that is not gender specific is

what you're saying no I don't feel it is I'm very I feel like I'm very dominant and masculine when I need to be but can I ask you a question yeah what do you want what do I want at like out of a partner what why am I here I want my partner to be able to live in his confidence exactly like how you are but at the same time know exactly specifically what he wants instead of cuz like I said you can feel one way right now but in a couple of months you're not

going to feel the same everybody Chang it's different levels you know if you get what I mean so by that line of reasoning people are making lifelong decisions based off of 6 months maybe a year so is that fair to say will you marry me based off of me knowing you for a year and a half even though you're going to change is it fair right it's fair based on if that person agrees with I mean maybe not fair Is it feasible I don't know the answer to that I do I I no it's fine

it's all right let's go okay if we can have your name and age and while you ended up popping hi I'm Micah I'm 33 and I ended up popping one I actually agree with a lot of the stuff that you say so the three reasons that you gave um before I agree with all three of those so I think you're on to that um I didn't really like how you showed up I appreciate that you had emergency surgery I love that know the scrubs are clean I was wearing a white coat while I was doing

it so no I appreciate it I appreciate it but yeah that's really the only reason to be honest and I think we just probably so if you would have seen me in the Dil office you would have been like ah this guy I would have been like yeah nice smile maybe but the scrubs was not doing it for me I just feel like they said date ready and you've been here before so you know what's up and having a surgery is not an excuse you know I I failed you on this day you didn't fail

me I failed do it's and I'm sorry it's okay next time I'll make my patience wait okay please thank you all right let's go back this way okay so that is all the balloons popped we weren't able to find you a match today but let's go ahead and give it up for him ladies I'll take the mic thank you all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in I'll have you hold this what's your name I'm Zach Zach how old are you 37 37 okay what do you do uh

I'm an analyst I work for the dold okay very nice and now what do you look for a woman um I'm looking for a woman to be her authentic self to be at her most feminine okay all right and now what are some of your deal Breakers ooh um I'm not looking for anything artificial um I know this is like the BBL ER and you know there are guys that they they're here for that but I don't want I don't want it so okay natural that's what you're looking for okay all right cool so we

did get a pop balloon let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping let's start over here come on all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Britney I'm 31 and I popped it just cuz I don't want to waste time I just caught it like you're not like my type um you you seem cool I like your answers I like the natural thing um but I just didn't want to waste your time or anybody's time so I just let me pop

it right away well thank you thank you all right and now is she someone that's your type I mean she just said no so let's move along oh okay all right then if we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping hi I'm Nova I'm 30 and I'm a halfer I got my Chi-Chi done but the rest is me so I don't know you could I don't know yeah that's it pretty much well you're a gorgeous lady thank you for your time thank you and then we did get one over here

as well your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is unique I'm 31 and I popped just because he reminds me of someone oh you remind me no stop but he I mean he seems cool I mean after I got to hear more that he said about himself I kind of was like okay let me get the balloon back so I can see more but he do remind me of some someone so that that was a okay it no problem somebody cute I'mma take that as look I don't judge by off

of Step I don't judge by off of um looks just off of personality and how you are as a man you seem cool though okay well thank you all right let's head back over here all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping your balloon my name is Brenda 36 hello Brenda hello the reason why I pop my balloon it's your fashion scense I want to walk with somebody who's confident enough to wear something that matches my energy so that's all okay yes so you're not really filling the

style no I'm not unfortunately but good looking okay now is Brenda someone that's your type um possibly I mean she's gorgeous but again she said I don't match her style I didn't hear anything else about her so I don't know maybe looks wise I mean everybody up here is attractive so but I it's got to be more than that you know got it absolutely thank you all right your name and agent why you ended up popping your balloon I'm jadora I'm 31 um I didn't want to be shallow again so that's why I was like

giving it time but it's you know it's the fashion sense um I wasn't initially attracted to you but then when you kept talking my thing is uh when you said authenticity that's a a really really big one for me I want somebody who is authentic in the person that God made them not what they see on TV and you know what I'm saying so when you said that I was like yeah but it is the fashion s and I hate I hate to seem shallow I really do cuz you seem like a great guy but

it's nothing wrong with you you're handsome it was just that I was like damn I don't want to waste This Time come on yeah so that's basically it but you're very handsome there's nothing wrong with you okay all right so I know you said they're all attractive up here but is she someone that if you saw her out like would you approach her um no not necessarily okay um so there are men that are like TNA I tend to be a hair man so like the first thing that I'm going to notice on the woman

is going to be her hair and then from there like I am going to look at your figure cuz I'm a man but everything is about like a whole package and like she said my style isn't vibing with her her style isn't necessarily vibing with me but I love the greens love the shades of green you do have a lot of great taste so I I won't take that from you I appreciate you all right perfect thank you let's go on over here okay if we can have your name and age and why you ended

up popping I am Tatiana I'm 25 you seem like the most nicest man on the planet I do not oh [ __ ] oh okay shoot no you just you just came off like you like I I would not want to break your heart like I would feel like such a jerk if I ever like oh well thank you but um I feel like no man wants to hear you're just the nicest thing that's like well I mean damn take that as a compliment cuz a lot of guys are jerks I mean like if you're

nice that's great like a lot of girls like nice guys for real for real but like you I feel like you would do better with like finding you know the nice guy Trope out of that than being like The [ __ ] sorry to cuss but okay and you look like school boy C to me and I really dig that that's not a bad thing I [ __ ] with Q I like I like I like Ruby I just I've never heard that before like before I had before I had like locks I've heard Nelly

I've heard for real and now school boy C for real who told you that I don't want to get into it it's I I would have to show you the pictures but either way it's like it's always somebody different and none of the people look like each other so I'm like I guess I got one of them faces but no I feel you no I feel you but like yeah I you you seem like you cool though I just I I would not want to end up like getting in a relationship with you and then

like going far and then like breaking up now we can't even be cool like that like I can see you as like a really really like great homie oh well I need some female friends that I haven't slept with that would be excellent if you if if if it's not weird I got you bro like if if you want to be bro you can be bro what [Applause] okay all right cool thank you let's go down here all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping hi I'm Micah

I'm 33 and I just you said you like figure and shape and stuff so I just felt like it wouldn't be a match so that's that's what you caught that's what you said oh I apologize if if that that was the main thing that you caught that I was looking for is figure and shape one of the main things yeah and then also the outfit too I just yeah it just I just wasn't attracted initially so I mean I get it I'm about to get back on this bike so it is what it is okay

bike life I love that for you um thank you though you have a gorgeous smile by the way and I love the printed dress thank you and the accessories you've done an amazing job I appreciate that thank you okay all right thank you well that is all of the balloons popped unfortunately we weren't able to find you a match today but thank you so much for coming on who knew right listen um on a serious note thank y'all all for coming even the ones that were like pop right off the bat and um I know

maybe I didn't come looking like what y'all thought I should look like but I can't dress that ain't my problem I don't care about fashion I care more about the adventures we going to go on together so I appreciate y'all time I'm sorry for having wasted y'all time and y'all have a good night you didn't was time thank for coming all right let's give it up for him then ladies thank you thank you for coming okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in I'll have you hold this what's your

name uh my name is Ontario Ontario how old are you I'm 34 34 okay what do you do uh I do videography comedy and photography very nice okay and now what do you look for in a woman I look for in a woman a confidence and someone that's self-sufficient and has like just herself together okay whether it be emotionally uh financially too but emotionally for sure okay and now what are some of your deal breakers uh kids oh okay so that's your only deal breaker that's definitely myal okay all right so we did get a

couple of pop balloons here let's go on over them and see what's going on all right if we can have your name and age I'm jadora I'm 31 and jador why did you end up popping your balloon because I have children okay all right and now how many kids do you have five five that's good how old are you like the oldest my oldest is eight eight I say five and eight years you were busy a damn that's not bad though that's good though get to that but okay no I'm just kidding just kidding I

love my kids oh okay all right now um prior to her saying you know she has kids and all that stuff is she someone that is your type uh all right I'll be honest I'm not much into weave honor either and then that would be my other deal breaker too got you me okay thank you thank you all right if we can have your name and age Britney 31 okay and Britney why'd you end up popping your balloon same um you saying D burer is kids I have one you one and then you also said

weave I think we all most of us have weave in our head so I'm like but I do both so but I'm just so that's why you got a nice smile though thank you thank you you do too thank you all right now is Britney someone that's your type yeah she's very pretty thank you thank you thank you okay your name and age Nova and I'm 30 I have uh one kid she's 10 um so that was your deal breaker and I don't wear what you see that would have been I like that and you

have a lovely smile too thank you thank you okay and now why prior to you know him making that statement why did you have your balloon unpopped um because I wanted to learn more about him um he is attractive and I'm short so he's tall enough so yeah I just wanted to learn more okay all right and now is she someone that you would approach I know you said kids are do work her but still I got you but I approach I might approach you yeah I appro you okay all right and then we got

one more over here your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is unique I'm 31 I popped because of the kids all right and now how many kids do you have I have two two all right and now prior to him making that statement is he someone that is your type yeah he seem I mean like I said before I have a specific type I and my type I mean I'm trying to get away from my type if that makes sense I'm used to drug drug dealers all right I got you

I'm not yeah I ain't dead okay and I'm trying to get away from that okay but that's what I was I got you okay okay now it's Unique someone you would approach I real honestly no only because man you have a lot of hair I feel like I would trip walking next SE I like I mean yeah no it looks good no it looks amazing lie I said I step outside the box a lot of girls have locks not like this Fair [ __ ] Fair perfect thank you okay so we do still have three

unpopped balloons I'm going to go ahead and have you ask these l a questions to kind of help you narrow down for yourself oh all right um what do you do like daily now like what is like your hobbies okay what are some of your hobbies uh along with your name and your age yes my name is Brenda 36 I just started doing Pottery Pottery yeah all right what me you get in the pottery uh the ceramic of the shapes of well you're going to make a pot out of it right so the art Artistry

of it is very beautiful behind it and obviously it's like soothing so I see that yeah I wanted to try something different all right yeah okay next lady all right what are some of your hobbies um wait do I have to say my name first sure yes okay name I'm um I'm 25 uh my hobbies right now I would have to say definitely graphic designing I do a little bit of like job wise like I do commissions and then like just draw on the side if anything and then recently I started getting into the studio

a little bit I am not a rapper but I am an artist all right so you doing like pure like spoken word or you singing anything really anything if the beat sounds nice respect that I like that okay all right your name and age and what are some of your hobbies hi I'm Micah I'm 33 and some of my hobbies I like to hike I like to cook and I like to read all right all right I like that what do you like to cook though where are you from I'm from California but I live

in Dallas all right you make like tacos or what do you make I don't know what California is like tacos I mean I can make tacos but I like to cook a little bit of everything um I do like meal prepping and stuff so I like making different like pasta dishes chicken but like healthier so got you yeah all right little bit everything I'm good thank you you're good you getting hungry okay so now what are some of your hobbies since you asked the ladies I'm pretty sure they want to know uh some of my

hobbies I love I play music a lot um I mean I'm also like a casual guy I play video games and all that too I work out all the time that's another Hobby and uh I talk a lot of trash that's why I play that's why I do comedy so I make like a lot of fun of a lot of things so there's that too yeah okay let's go on over here why do we end up hopping first of all great attitude um well put together um it's the talking trash yeah I like to talk

trash too so I don't think we can match up to that no yeah fair enough all right yeah you don't think you guys could go back and forth a little banter no it can be a little bit toxic yeah we don't want to go there fair enough I mean I think communication that's that's like a part of communication though too like I feel like talking kind of comes off like honesty sometimes you know but it depends how to what extent is your honesty oh I'm very honest I'm very honest oh okay example if you asked

me if a dress made you look big I would probably say it wouldn't it wasn't the dress thank you very much next all right [Laughter] so we do honest answer I feel it I feel it you're an honest person you said that so we do still have two ladies left ladies do you all have a question for him okay let's go down over here yeah that's fine so my question is uh where already said you don't have kids right I don't have any kids do you want kids maybe I'm on a I'm on a fence

about it the older I get Maybe okay is there like a reason why or no oh is there a reason why yeah like um be honest I my father wasn't around much and I don't want to have to I don't want to miss out on anything like I don't want to have a child with someone that I'm not with and then miss out on that child's life like my dad would did with me oh okay sorry to hear that but i s te and [ __ ] and then also like what's the last book you

read and why last book I read and why um I mean um how to write funny cuz I'm do comedy so that's the last one I read cool that's all over here I don't know I got to ponder a little bit with you shoot why are we pondering cuz I mean like I I'm not going to lie like a lot of things I definitely can relate with like I'm I'm a little bit more of a ruthless type of person myself so my thing is is would you be able to handle something like that yeah it

Le really yeah these you sure I live in that lande that's easy yeah I can do that H I don't really know what to ask it kind of caught me off guard a little bit I'm not going to cap with you okay no that's fine oh okay let's see why sh end are up popping what's going on I want kids I want a family and I want like two three kids so the fact that you're on the fence I don't want to I want to have kids with people that sure someone that's sure not people

show that's how I end over it so yeah that's it yeah that makes sense all right cool all right why we end up hopping I want Yos like that is like a for sure thing that I want my future for sure and like like she said like I'm not trying to piggy back like you said but it is a valid thing like if you don't know like getting with me like eventually that's going to happen I that I can't I can't do that to you if you don't that's selfish you know like I can't do

that to you yeah I wouldn't leave that down that path anyway like you are yeah you're good so I appreciate it okay all right well that is all the balloons pops we were not able to find you a match today but let's go ahead and give it up for him ladies I'll take that mic all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name Reggie Reggie yes yes how old are you Reggie 36 36 okay what do you do um so I'm a political I'm a project manager

for um political firm also teach financial literacy help people with their credit repairs start businesses generate passive income okay very cool and now what do you look for in a woman um for me is communication conversation is key I feel like communication equals longevity so if you can hold a conversation you're already winning me over and um someone can provide peace okay all right now what are some of your deal breakers deal breakers um it goes back to the community communication you know what I'm saying um if you can express yourself easily you will get

along perfectly fine um not so much interested in cigarette smokers I would say okay all right and now um what are some things you like to do for fun um I do music motivational music um but also for me it's um it's not what you do is who you with you do the same thing you regular do with the right person you can make it a good time so I'm about experiences okay nice all right so we did get two pot balloons oh three let's go on over there and see what's going on okay if

we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon I'm jador I'm 31 and it was really just initial attraction so I waited cuz I wanted to hear you know what I mean maybe get a little more in depth but it really is just the initial attraction and there's nothing wrong with you you're very handsome okay so you said it's attraction but he's handsome so what is it that um if I was like to see you out and about I wouldn't approach you I wouldn't be like oh my God I

really want to talk to him or anything like that you know what I mean it's just I know when that guy walks in and you just wear him but that's it all right now um is jador someone that's your type um I so what do you do I'm a marketing manager um I'm a certified Behavioral Health technician um and I'm model great great great um so for me I'm more so like attracted like I said to mental just so I say conversation is key but I'll say just initial attraction she definitely dresses well so absolutely

um yes I would definitely approacher okay thank you thank you all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping Britney 31 and um just kind of like that when you walked in I didn't get that Vibe and also I was trying to look past it but you look like my uncle his name is Tony and I was like I kept looking at you and I kept thinking about Uncle Tony but not that you look old but you look like you can be a sibling of his or something so

I was just like that's weird to me but that's it you just look like my Uncle Tony so I know you're you said you're more of like a mental attraction person but is she someone that you would approach if you saw her out um definitely beautiful smile um for me I like to dress up so definitely someone that would look great the next to me as far as dressing so yeah I would say yes okay thank you than you okay let's go over here your name and age and why you ended up popping I'm Tatiana

I'm 25 um you're not ugly I'm just not attracted but like we kind of look like we got a little bit of some similar style I see you got that clear quartz up in there too I I really I really like no like seriously like we twinning them like type stuff so like I I like what you got on it's just I you a bud I see you as like a homie like I probably like you know if I wanted to see you up like if I saw you off glance I'd be like hey he

looks like a pretty cool guy to be friends with let me let me check him out as a friend respectfully okay all right now what about um yeah bubbly personality outgoing you can tell she's fine with being herself so that type of stuff attract me so definitely okay perfect all right your name and age and why you ended up hopping my name is unique I'm 31 beautiful name I love the tiger's eye the clear corpse all that cigarette smoking period I'm on my journey of getting away from that and I'm not sure if that's you

know like if I'm going to continue I'm on a journey so I don't that's why I popped Goa yeah um yeah it's just like other smoking sure it's cool but like cigarettes is just a thing for me it's like it's a thing for me too yeah most people that's why I'm like I'm on the fourth day it's the fourth conratulations congratulations but I'm not sure if it's going to last you know I'm not saying I'm not sure what I want to do or what I want to accomplish cuz I most definitely want to get away

from it but that's some that's a habit that I'm trying to control so that's why I popped I respect that M okay all right now now um apart from him saying that is he someone that is your type though no he's not my type but I will I don't mind getting to know or trying to figure what's going on with you or trying to get to know you period like there's nothing wrong with you so no that was just that got it all right and now apart from her being a cigarette smoker is she someone

that you would approach um I would say yes I think she's um beautiful she's um she said as she said she's work working on herself and so I love growth I love elevation so definitely thank you all right so we do still have three balloons un popped I'm going to have you ask these ladies a question just to kind of help you narrow it down okay perfect um so my question is this um what are your thoughts on leaving a legacy um building generation wealth for you and your family and how you working towards doing

that okay your name and age and the answer to this question my name is Brenda I'm 36 very good question um I think it all depends on the man what's your vision in order for me to be your co-pilot to make that happen so to answer that question it's all about communication I believe in that it's all about consistency it's also about well some men will think that this may sound intimidating but having a woman lead sometimes can help a situation to build that generation we perfect good yeah okay all right your name and age

and the answer to this question hi I'm Nova I'm 30 um right now I am in nursing school and I plan on being an Aesthetics nurse I do have my own shop right now where I am practicing my aesthetician um so right now I'm just trying to I want to have a franchise of beauty bars that's definitely my my progress that's the journey I'm on right now yeah amazing that's great all right your name and age and the answer to this question hi I'm Micah and I'm 33 and I think that that is why we're

here like leaving a legacy and creating gener generational wealth is extremely important to me and that's why I want a leader in my life so that way we can do just that and I can trust your vision and get besides you similar to what my girl down there said a co-pilot uh and a way that I'm preparing to do that is just being prepared to be a wife and be in that co-pilot situation with a man that has Vision so yeah great great answer yeah all right I'm gonna go ahead and have you pop one

of these ladies balloons based off of those responses you've got okay go ahead and pop one of these ladies balloons I'm sorry but I want have to pop this one okay all right so why did we end up popping hers um first off the answer was amazing definitely great um I can definitely tell you're independent woman which that I definitely love that um I would say on that part with the woman leading like um having both Partners leading is definitely a great thing but I would say when you're dealing with a man like myself like

I'm intentful purposeful would you would you know how to allow me to lead you or would it just be a lot of button hits no absolutely that's why I said if you have a vision I would definitely be the co-pilot to where we're going got you so okay so but yeah I would say just um based off that um leading co- Pilon that's amazing and um I've been in situations where it's like yeah it's just it's a lot of like arguing back and forth with that and it's like let's let's lead in peace you know

what I mean we can we're going to argue on things like this but that that communication part as long as that's high I feel like there's nothing we can't get over absolutely thank you no problem all righty so we do still have two balloons unpopped l do we have a question to go ahead and ask to kind of get to know him a little bit better yeah let's go here so um what would you say how do you hand how do you handle conflict like could if the conversation gets messy cuz that will you know

that could happenin um how do you think that we could work that out so so it's um dealing with different people I would say you you deal with it differently like should I give you space should I you know can I talk with you for me like I said it's always conversation for me but you do sometimes have to allow that Grace like everyone is entitled to their moment let them have their moment and then let's talk about it let's not go to sleep angry you know what I mean so um as long as you're

open-minded to like having a conversation about it eventually I won't not immediately you know then I feel like we can get through conflict we can get through a lot more than just conflict okay I like that yeah right let's go over here okay my question is what is a quote or a life lesson that your parents taught you that you still live by today um it definitely has to be accept what you can't change change what you can't accept um through my own Journey my spiritual journey things like this there's things I've gone through and

it's like I I try to make it a point to live life with no regrets and just looking forward to the future accepting who you are being comfortable with you are and um moving like that so I would say um that's definitely my quote okay nice I have one more question do you have children yes how many two what how old are they um 13 and 14 oh okay do you want more um I always say I would have another kid with a wife okay cool okay that's it that's good for you yeah okay all

right so it is time to make a decision based off of what you've heard so far which one out of these two beautiful ladies are you going to be popping their balloon um once again perfect questions great answers definitely love it but if I had to pop one I'm going to go over here and pop yours okay why did we end up popping hers um truly there's nothing wrong with her I would say um just based on the answers I liked hers a little bit more um and that's literally it okay cool I think you're

beautiful thank you all right so we do still have an unpop balloon let me have you come on up here come on up all right any final questions from either one of you before we determine if this is a match um no I would like to talk to you privately okay um I have one more question one more question okay so um this my this is my question like on vices so I I have a vice even though I really get a lot of time to do it but you know I just like to be

transparent that's one thing I look for as well so um my question to you is what is your Vice but for me mine is video games how do you feel like about men who play video games I play video games there it is there it is all right let me ask my final question okay so is it going to be a yes for you for him yes and is it a yes for you for her definitely we got a all right I'll take this mic you guys can go on [Applause] off that was perfect okay

let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in I'll have you hold that what's your name uh it's Tio what is it it's tioo like piano with a t just SP oh okay cool and how old are you I'm 31 31 okay and what do you do um I'm a multifaceted like investor with a few companies like um denal records uh resurrect select um um omo my and banadas and first down catering a few things that I have underneath my belt okay cool cool and now what's some things you look for

in a woman um uh definitely look for a woman who's kind very someone who's very passionate um someone who's willing to put in the work you know relationships take work you know nothing that you know worth having comes easy so just someone I definitely we feel we can match equally with walk down this path together and try to accomplish big things okay all right and now what are some of your deal breakers oh um uh definitely don't like someone who's just not motivated not really out there uh just trying to do better for themselves uh

some people get so complacent these days and just uh you know kind of fizzle out so I want someone who's constantly got a Lust For Life less for knowledge wants to continue to learn and grow together okay nice all right so we did get a couple of pop balloons let's go on over them and see what's going on cool all right okay if we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping my name is Brenda 36 uh attraction um the braids was not giving however great personality you have things that obviously

another woman might move forward with uh just not my cup of tea it's all good yes thank you and now is Brenda someone that's your type um probably wouldn't really know too much about her about physical attraction uh probably wouldn't be someone I would talk to right off the bat um just just like hard to see you with some of my things that I do in my life I wouldn't think I would come across a girl like yourself so or a woman like yourself I apologize no you're fine thank you all right thank you let's

go over here we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping I'm Britney 31 um so I just like to hear what people say I don't like to just pop it right away um but initially wasn't um this style the braids also and then the piercing so it just wasn't somebody I usually go for um but that's all I love your answers cuz I can relate to everything you said I kind of feel like you described me in that way but it's just the attraction oh yeah understandable thank you all right

and now same thing for you know Britney is she someone that you would approach if you saw her out not typically my type I definitely wouldn't think I would say anything beautiful woman but definitely not something I would talk to at the bar or anything is there like any specific nothing at all just honestly just the vibe just got to I can feel the energy so I it's a big thing it's a big test yeah over here your name and age and why you ended up popping I'm Tatiana I am 25 um basically like aesthetically

not necessarily like I dig what you got going on but just like not for me like that but the characteristics that you were naming like um I feel kind of bad cuz I did have a little bit of drink but I'm trying to remember you did say a couple things like I could see you more as like a potential business partner than an actual romantic partner like I see myself going like like cuz as far as like what you do and what I kind of do a little bit I could see like you know how

could mutualism benefit off of that but as far as like anything romantic goes I I just don't see it okay do you see anything there or no it's all good it's like I said about energy um I like the dress I like the fit um just need a little bit probably more body I guess for me just little like a woman a little bit more curves D that's just my personal preference I guess all right Co thank you let's go over here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping

my name is unique I'm 31 I'm kind of mad I pop too soon because the more I like look at you the more I kind of feel like you're different and I like different but I really I'm not familiar with different if that makes sense so you're very handsome I love how you're you step outside the box I'm more like that too so I don't know that's why I pop my balloon okay he's real different I don't know if I'm scared I really don't know but at the same time I I love your energy you

got good energy there's nothing wrong with you stay the same okay that's all I have to say so are you reconsidering a balloon or yeah in a way I am cuz I do want to get to know more about him cuz I never dealt with somebody that really stands on what they feel and how they really you know the braids all that like it's different okay so I kind of like a man kind of steps outside the box in a way all right thanks U that's like kind of what I go for I know I'm

not trying to be for everyone so I'm more of an acquir taste so it's just a little bit different it's okay to be scared but you got to you got to try it first you know what I'm saying I'm getting to learn myself even more like you know so PA that's all it Tak yeah okay we do have a balloon ready for you are we are we are we giving it along to you how do you feel about kids I I have a son you have a son I do how old he's two times three

this year okay okay all right and yourself do you have kids I do okay I do I have a 16-year-old and a 13year old okay so I'm kind of like okay still trying to build that Mak sense understand I want my own tribe I honestly want my partner and my leader to know exactly what the what it is they want and go off that I submit naturally like that like that okay what do we say unique is it a yes or no it's a no I don't you know I'm not sure I'm not sure and

I'm also scared so I'm not going to sit up there and force something on myself that I know I'm not ready for yeah I'm not sure definitely yeah that's fair I'm not going to yeah respect but I most definitely think there's nothing wrong with you stay the same thank you no matter appreciate it what nobody else say yeah yeah okay cool let's go back over here we did get a popped balloon if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping yes I'm jador I'm 31 um I ended up popping cuz

initially I was like okay you're not really my type but then you seemed very interesting so I was like I don't know let me hear more let me see and then um you were like you know you like a a woman with a little bit more and I'm very slim and I love me and all of my slimness but I know you know guys like a little bit more do nothing wrong with that you know but I just figured I probably wasn't for you so I love your style though it actually would have been great

it would have been fun to just get to know you a little bit more it's a little bit different you know I just do enjoy you look great honestly I love the colors it's it stands out a lot yeah thank you okay can I get a balloon back yeah don't don't pop just cuz you know he said it for somebody else there go yeah okay we'll be back for you then we did get a pop over here all right your name and age and why you ended up popping I'm Micah I'm 33 and I ended

up popping just cuz I can't get over the septum piercing yeah but you seem cool though I like your energy and how you presented yourself so wish you the best thank you as well question sure okay those aren't contacts are they they are contacts they are yeah they are I can't it look good on you I just I I would have like if you would have said yeah these are me I would have been like see see but the difference is is like I did that because I Tred to take away from The Superficial a

lot of things happen with lashes and hairs and all these other things and I'm just one of these guys who just enjoys doing a little bit different so no I definitely dig it cuz they look good on you for sure like that's a really good like color Choice appreciate it but that's why I was like no that's not real it can't be no my mom told me about him at 13 and I was like done it's a r been doing it I feel that completely no you're good yeah you're good all right we were not

finished over here sorry so you said it was just a septum ring apart from that everything else was okay for you well um well not everything I'm just not attracted um yeah I feel like the hairstyle I just would like that more on me than my man but okay got it all right now is Micah someone that is your type um honestly Micah you remind me so much of my mother who's a beautiful woman but you really do she's just she wears the same hairstyle the same thing same color earrings so it's just that's the

only thing I couldn't get over in general like but I love my mom to death I still call her mommy so I wish you nothing but the best but you just kind of reminded my mom well I am going to be a great mother so I accept that energy I'm sure you are she is an amazing woman so you I bet thank you okay thank you okay let's go all right so we did have our unpopped balloon over here well she did get it back did you have a question that you wanted to ask her

to kind of you know help it narrow it down see if you are going to be yeah um what do you think it takes to acquire lasting love oh I think um honesty and really wanting to get to know everything about the person that you're with you know wanting to really being that interested um because things are not always going to be perfect you know but when you really get to know a person I feel like um oh sorry um when you really get to know a person I feel like that's how you're able to

work through everything it's not a matter of just oh you made me mad one day but you're like I love you I love the person you are how can we get through this you know what I mean so um yeah I would say that okay okay okay all right let me just happy come on up here I want to ask a question oh okay before we before we ask the question um when you pass um what do you want to be remembered for oh uh I've always thought about that honestly I want to really help

my family with generational wealth it's something that I feel that we lack so I want to be remembered cuz it's one thing to be remembered by the world but the people I can impact closely I want to just remember to being as a kind soul hardworking passionate individual who um no matter how dark it is like I can always see the light and everything and try to get there no matter how hard I believe hard work pays off truly and I believe you're only a product of your placement if you believe so with that mindset

so I'm really for it always like self motivation and drive and encouraging my partner to also reach to be the best that they can be because I'm going to be leading by example by doing that oh okay are you coming out okay let's come on okay so I just have one final question if neither one of you have any further questions I'm so sorry I have to ask this last question because it's so important how do you feel about kids I have a son okay okay and do you have kids yes how many five got

it got it okay is that a problem a deal breaker I mean how many of them how like what's the what's the ratio damn really I have to go through all of the okay um I have an I have a 8-year-old a 6-year-old a 4-year-old a 2-year-old and a 11mon old so fresh it's okay it's okay I could take it I promise I could take it I could take it I take it I don't have just self self eliminate Samurai at least it was Samurai style at least it was Samurai style yeah I knew it

you know I'm sorry I just yeah okay all right so it was just the number of kids or Thee the number of kids is a lot to deal with these days and I I don't I don't think that she doesn't have her own and can't get her own and do that but like I said it's just a lot go into that So Fresh So Young at that same time thank you and that's the reason why everybody was like don't ask any more questions I'm like no this is a big one I'm glad you asked that

thank absolutely I apprciate not for me but someone else maybe you guys team up Cheaper by the Dozen you know what I'm saying somebody's going to the league out of it I feel you guys got a few a couple of them a couple of I'm telling you I'm telling you I'll have you just step back over there all right well we were unable to find you a match today but let's go ahead and give it up for him ladies thank you ladies thank you guys so much have a good night you as well all right

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