Watch this to believe in yourself

what if believing in yourself is all that you have left right now when I get Rock Bottom that's when I started believing in myself the most because I had nothing left to lose when you have nothing left to lose then what's the harm in believing in yourself fully We Believe day in day out negative things about ourselves we always have limiting beliefs about how we are not good enough but what if we change the narrative and start telling ourself how we are start telling ourself how we can make it and how we will make it

no matter what no matter whatever anyone has ever told you what if you tell yourself day in day out you're going to make it you're going to make it I didn't grow up in a childhood where my parents told me oh my God you should believe in yourself you should be confident no I was told the opposite I looked at my parents and everyone around me and I thought I don't want to live like you guys I don't want to have a future like you guys so what did I have to do I have to

do things differently I had no choice but to believe in myself I had no no choice but to be delusional and think that somehow everything that I've ever went through was not in vain everything that you're going through right now is not in vain anything that you're growing through is growing you so if you're in this position I'm telling you one day you will look back at this time and you'll think I'm so grateful that this happened because now I have the knowledge that I needed back then now I'm a bigger person than I was

back then but you have to make make that decision to take all of that knowledge and use it for something better use it to grow yourself before we get into this video let's talk therapy and not just any therapy let's talk better help better help is a paid partner of this video and better help is on a mission to make therapy much easier better help is an online platform where therapists and their clients can communicate effectively I love better help because I don't like leaving my house and if I need to find a therapist that

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that you might benefit from therapy then please click the link in the description down below or visit betterhelp.com wizard list to get 10% off your first month at better help hi guys my name is is and welcome back to my channel okay let's get right into it first things first get rid of the limiting beliefs from your environment see how do our thoughts get created it's when we are born as babies as children we look at our parents we look at the way they think we look at the way they behave and and we start

adapting those beliefs and behaviors if your parents have a limiting belief about money you will have a limiting belief about money cuz you grew up that way you know I really imagine a world if I grew up in a way where my parents never put fear onto me of other people or oh don't do this cuz that will ruin the reputation oh don't do this this and that I would never have felt insecure embarrassed or anything I would just be myself authentically and I would have never felt like I had to dim myself but because

from a child parents they put that into you you act in a way subconsciously that is always dimming your light but honey dimming your light will not get you anywhere dimming your light hasn't gotten your parents anywhere so you have to look at what will get me the ferus in 2013 there was a study conducted where they made male mices smell cherry blossom and anytime they would smell it they would zap and electrocute their feet so anytime they did that the male my start to learn that cherry blossom smell is associated with pain and they

had fear of the smell of cherry blossom then they took the male mes and they made them breed with female mes that never had electrocution that didn't have that issue so they made children together and when they had the children these children would immediately fear or get nervous when they smell cherry blossom they knew it because it was in their Gene and in their biology to not do that now you have to imagine how how much of your limiting beliefs or how much of your insecurities are just from your parents that you inherited through Gene

and DNA maybe it's not you so start really asking yourself do I believe this about myself or is this something that I got from my mother got from my father from my ancestors and you can rewire those beliefs and you know at what advantage you are if you just believe in yourself because 99% of people do not believe in themselves 99% of people are afraid of others opinions are afraid to look at embarrassed and they don't think that they can do that thing but you have that 1% that just believes in themselves that doesn't care

they make it so if you become of that 1% you don't have a lot of competition you really really don't another thing is the law of Conformity this basically means that no matter how hard you try to do something your environment will always dictate who you are this is very very true if you are trying to love yourself constantly or believe in yourself that you can do something but you have some someone around you constantly in your ear telling you you will not achieve that you cannot do that at some point you're going to start

to believe that person over yourself because this is the environment you have if you live in a household where this is the case then try to minimize contact with these people try to stay at work as much as you can try to stay away from them as much as you can or in your room don't engage with them if this is your relationship for you or your boss at work your colleagues or these are your friends then try try to change your environment for me the environment that I grew up in the country that I

grew up in I never felt like it was open-minded enough for me to create so I moved immediately when I met my ex partner I moved immediately where he was living and she my career start exploding after that immediately in the country that I was growing up social media was really looked down upon they would like kind of laugh at you was like that kind of mindset so I moved to a country where you have a lot of entrepreneurs where they're doing social media and then I just felt like I could expand so much faster

so if you are not changing maybe you need to change your environment start believing that you deserve to take up space my sister showed me this Tik Tok video of this beautiful woman she has an autoimmune disease which made her extremely extremely skinny and someone had commented on her stuff like oh you're so ugly and she responded to that and she was like even though you think I'm ugly I deserve to take a space I deserve to put my content out there and I deserve to be seen even though I'm not what you like I

deserve to be here I just think that's so beautiful and Powerful it's just realizing that no matter what anyone tells you no matter that you think that you're not good enough just being here means that you're a miracle and means that you're allowed to take up space God didn't put you on Earth to not take up space there was space for you and that's why you came to this earth that's why you have a mission on this Earth and you have a purpose but that purpose cannot be fulfilled because your lack of self-belief is blocking

the purpose no one is holding you back you are holding yourself back don't give anyone power over you to think that they can take something from you or make you feel something they can't make you feel anything if you don't allow yourself to feel it also resistance is what lowers the vibration for example I get a comment like oh I think she's so ugly now if I will resist like oh I'm not ugly no no I'm not ugly I I do really look at all these things then I'm lowering my vibration because I'm putting so

much energy into something that at the end of the day it doesn't matter it doesn't matter whether you think I'm good-look or whether you think I'm not good-look it matters how I show up for myself day in day out it matters how I feel about myself you really have to ask yourself why should I feel any less about myself because someone else cannot see me the way I see myself why would you give someone power like that if you just accept like I am ugly to you and that is okay it can just pass through

the more you try to resist being angry the more you try to resist being sad the more you try to resist all these emotions is the more you feel worse and worse and your energy goes into resisting it instead of letting it pass through I'm going to be sad I'm going to even cry for a month let me cry I'm going to be angry I'm going to yell I'm going to shout let me do that it doesn't matter but when it's done it's done and I can move on from that another part of believing in

yourself is becoming okay with not being Chosen and not being liked a lot of people will not like you in life and that is just the harsh truth especially if you're trying to do something on social media you'll get a lot of backlash even the more you grow you'll have to accept it you'll have to come to a point where these people will not like me or these people will not choose me you guys all go oh I'm crying guy didn't want me all these things but what about it what about it does that determine

your worth just because someone said I don't like you you know how many times I heard I don't like you and I don't care why should I care about what they think in their world about me I cannot allow that in Liz is the owner of her world and if Liz likes herself if I go day in day out thinking you know I'm the greatest thing that has walked this Earth that's what I'm going to create for myself if you go and you walk around like you know what this world has not seen magic yet

and I'm the magic great that's how what you're going to create a magical world but if you go around like oh my God this person rejected me so now I'm worth nothing that is what you will create a person that is worth nothing because you gave all that power to that one person and other things you have to believe that happy you exists you have to believe that a version of you exists that is living the life that you want that has accomplished what they want and that is living the purpose that they want it

exists you would not want it if it wasn't inside of you the more you start to visualizing it for yourself like this is who I really want to be and then you put in the work guys this is the big mistake that everyone makes like oh I should just believe in myself and sit down no you put in the work what do you want to accomplish what do you want to do and then you do it if you fail at it you try again maybe you try with something else but at least you tried you're

already 50% in front of other people because they never tried become okay with redirection and letting go I was talking to this friend of mine and she was telling me how she had prayed to God after having so many bad relationsship she had prayed to God she was like God please like give me a good relationship finally I'm ready to love and I'm really in a good position she said after that she attracted one of probably the worst Partners she ever had but this person taught her to love herself and that was her lesson her

lesson wasn't to seek love in a partner her lesson was to love herself first her lesson was to come home to herself first so that she would stop attracting partners that couldn't give her what she wants if you're whole and if you believe that you deserve the best thing in life anything you want you can get there is no way that someone can come into your life that doesn't have that same vibration but when we say we're ready for a new partner we're ready we're finally healed God will test you one last time and be

like are you have to take those lessons and you have to to move on and see them as redirection I've so many times thought that oh I want this or I want this guy or I want this relationship and then it didn't work out and then I was like oh God like why is this but then I got something so much better when I let go of it when I let go of it I got something that I could never even have imagined for myself but your higher self and God has bigger plans for you

you cannot see it you only see the bad things right now you only see the suffering right now you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel God would not let you suffer for no reason it is for you to grow you need to grow into the person that is your higher self and how do you grow into that person it's it's through relationships it's through loss it's through all these lessons because that's how we learn maybe right now it's just time for you to find yourself again it's just time for you to

find out what do I like who do I want to be how do I want to be perceived what clothes do I like what do I think suits me the best how can I take care of myself the way I wish my parents have taken care of me how can I love myself the way I wish my parents had loved me maybe it's time to come home to yourself another way of believing in yourself is by moving on for you doing things for you you have to let that go you have to let that past

go not because I'm telling you to suffer it's not like you won't miss it you will many times want to go back to that past because that's where your comfort zone lies but you have to move on because the future you does not deserve this the future you does not deserve something where you're not fulfilled the future you does not deserve something where it's uncertain and where you're not respected you deserve better than that future you deserves peace give yourself Grace give yourself kindness right now give give yourself the ability to feel that peace it

doesn't always have to be bad you don't have to recreate your childhood again for yourself you don't have to recreate that childhood in Partners again for yourself it's not necessary you can live drama free now cuz it has ended but honey trust me there is something waiting for you just to come in when you release of the past when you take your power back from that situation anything you're clinging onto is draining energy from you and because it's draining energy nothing else can come in because you're occupied take a situation where you feel like you

were done badly and turn it around instead of saying oh my God I was so stupid how could I've not noticed that they were cheating on me maybe realize like who I'm a person that can love deeply and I'm a very loyal person wow I deserve a person like that instead of saying oh my God I had such bad friends they were doing all these things to me behind my back say I'm grateful that I'm not like that I'm grateful that I didn't do people dirty like that start commanding yourself for the things that you

cannot understand in other people also trust in who you are becoming you are becoming such a powerful person you're such a good powerful person that will accomplish anything that you set your mind to but right now you're going to trials and tribulations and you're trying things out it's okay you're learning you're growing but just trust that that person that you're going to be at the end of the day is a person that will look back and that will laugh at these situations and be like you know what I'm grateful for this situation and I'm grateful

for the way I handled it I'm proud of myself that's the person you will be that's the person you will become God will not fail you you will not fail yourself even if I look at myself today I get such a shocked feeling because I am who I needed when I was younger I wish I had someone that was like me when I was younger that I could look at because that would have motivated me so much that would have made me believe in myself so much and I would have seen that there was another

way out I know that my inner child can feel safe with me now because I fought for myself I really fought hard for myself through everything and I know you're fighting every single day for yourself and you're going to get there your inner child is going to feel so safe with you one day and you're going to thank yourself that you didn't give up on you if anyone gives up on you no matter who leaves no matter who goes you have to stay with yourself honey they in day out the one person you cannot Escape

is you why be mean to that one one person why belittle that one person you're the only one you got don't compare your journey is very personal whatever you're looking at all these other people think oh my God they're already so far oh my God they this and that like maybe if you were in their shoes you wouldn't be happy because you don't know what they're going through behind the scenes they portray an image to you and you think I would want that image but if you really switch shoes you would be miserable this is

your journey and your journey is going to be whatever you make make of it when you decide you know this is what I want in life and this is what I have to do to achieve it and you believe in yourself fully to achieve that thing no matter what you will achieve it and you will create a beautiful Journey for yourself don't look at other people and think I should have been there no you're exactly where you're supposed to be right now and you have to trust that whatever you're going through it's going to end

up on the better side it's hard but at least you're trying you know how many people are not trying anymore or they have completely given up on life if you wake up every day and you still think you know what I have this goal for myself I'm going to accomplish this you know what baby steps but I'm going to get there and I'm going to do this thing you're still breeding trying every day that means your mission is not done yet you have something to accomplish you have a purpose here you need to start believing

in that you know how many times I struggle with believing in myself or even sometimes I think like you know what I don't want this YouTube thing anymore I get ideas like that but then I'm like no let's overcome these limiting beliefs let overcome this avoidant attachment lifestyle that I've created for myself where I would just constantly run away from things or go and try to hide myself let's be okay with shining right now and that I need to shine and that people need to see me because somehow I'm benefiting them you have to believe

that for yourself too I'm I'm still showing up for myself every day even if it's hard even if I don't want to so many times I've thought like you know what I don't want this life anymore I don't want any life anymore does that mean that I have to give up on myself no because I've never given up on myself and I believe that I'm meant for great things I believe that I'm meant for even bigger things than this and I believe that you can do anything like that you can do anything you set your

mind to and you can be the biggest best thing in this world but you need to start saying I am I am the best thing this world will ever see I am the greatest this world will ever walk and when you have that believe in yourself honey watch how the world will start acting in accordance to what you believe I love you guys so much I hope this video helped you guys and yeah I see you in the next video bye-bye