What Porn Addiction Recovery Actually Looks Like

are you trying to recover from problematic porn use the decision to quit probably feels like a huge weight it's tough often lonely and frustrating and we get that we often think of quitting as something that happens overnight but recovery is rarely a straight line it's full of ups and downs today we're going to walk you through what porn recovery really looks like it's not a quick fix but a journey that moves through different stages our goal is to help you understand what to expect so that the path ahead feels less overwhelming and you feel more

prepared let this video be a reminder to not be so hard on yourself you're not alone let's dive in Pathway to transformation to better understand how people make real lasting changes we turn to something called the trans theoretical model of change it's been used for years in addiction studies to show that recovery isn't a one-time decision but a journey through six different stages if you're trying to quit porn knowing these stages can help you see where you are and what's coming next precontemplation quitting addiction isn't about stopping cold turkey recovery often begins long before you

even realize it in the precontemplation stage you don't see a problem porn feels like a Quick Escape helping you cope with tough days loneliness stress or feelings of inadequacy it offers relief distracting you from deeper emotional struggles boredom loneliness or anxiety but maybe over time you start noticing things that feel off the relief that porn once provided doesn't feel the same that's when you start wondering is this really helping me this subtle shift in thinking is what leads you into the contemplation stage contemplation in the contemplation stage things start to get clearer you're notic in

how porn is affecting you maybe it leaves you feeling anxious disconnected or guilty afterward your overall well-being and relationships with others might suffer as well you're thinking about cutting back but the idea of quitting still feels overwhelming and that's okay there's no rush this stage can last a long time right now you're gathering information and reflecting on what's going on and that's an important part of this process you're beginning to see the whole picture and it's completely okay if you're not ready to make big changes yet preparation but once you do feel ready you've reached

the preparation stage here you're starting to map out how you'll actually do it and this is huge you're taking the time to figure out what needs to change and how to avoid the things that trigger you many times triggers are all those lonely anxious and shameful emotions and in today's digital age erotic content is all over the place and that's why it's totally okay if preparation takes time this is about setting yourself up for Success not rushing into it every step here counts and this process is all about finding what works best for you action

after you've prepared yourself for the next big step you're in the action stage and this is where the work happens you're taking real steps when whether it's blocking sites reaching out to a therapist or joining a support group it can be a stressful time so having a solid support system is very important we know that it might feel embarrassing to openly talk about porn addiction but it doesn't mean you can't find support some online platforms such as Reddit have big and caring communities for those dealing with this issue this stage can feel intense because it's

a big shift and adjusting to life with without porn can feel strange or even empty at first don't worry that's completely normal the key is to find new ways to handle stress or boredom you may start a new hobby Journal about your feelings exercise or try mindfulness techniques once you successfully use those coping strategies celebrate your success you've made it this far and that's something to be really proud of Maintenance in the maintenance stage it's all about sticking with the changes you've made you've built new habits and now the focus is on keeping them up

but this can be tricky especially when life gets stressful or old habits start calling you back it's important to stay mindful of your triggers and lean on those new coping strategies you've been practicing and now that you've managed to abstain from watching you might be feeling so relieved maybe you notice boosted confidence increased happiness and motivation and less anxiety and stress every day you maintain this progress is a victory relapse sometimes relapse happens and when it does it doesn't mean you failed it's just part of the process we know it's not easy and some studies

show that your brain on porn is similar to those who are dependent on substances and that's why this journey can have setbacks and it's important to remember that this isn't the end of the road relapse is a chance to learn what didn't work and try again maybe with some adjustments what matters is that you keep going you've done it before and you can do it again so which stage do you think you're currently in share your thoughts if you're comfortable in the comments below don't worry if you occasionally find yourself slipping back to a previous

stage or feeling stuck that's all part of healing what matters is that you're making an effort we believe you can do it thanks for watching and take care