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did someone hurt you betray you or try to diminish you excellent now it's your turn to show that playing with you was the biggest mistake of that person's life but pay attention there's no shouting here there's no fighting there's no relegation what I'm going to teach you today is silent cold deadly humiliation you will erase this person from your existence in such a brutal way that they will beg for any crumb of attention contempt corrodes more than any revenge when you become unreachable when you act as if that person never existed that's when the tables

really turn and in the next few minutes I'm going to show you exactly how to do that from strategically ignoring them to turning the pain into an absolute power that will make sure they never try to hurt you again if you're ready for this hit the like button subscribe to the channel and when you finish watching the video access our exclusive content in the pinned comment now let's move on to the first strike learn to erase them from existence when someone hurts you the natural reaction is to want to respond attack back or at the

very least show that you are hurt but that's exactly what this person wants to know that they still have some kind of power over you what I'm going to teach you now is not to just ignore it ignoring is basic you will erase this person from your reality as if they never existed think about the worst punishment someone can receive being forgotten there is nothing more cruel than realizing that you simply went on with your life as if nothing had happened while this person wastes time thinking about you trying to reach you again mulling over

every detail you are focused on growing on evolving on becoming someone even stronger this not only destroys her ego but makes her realize something unbearable she was never as important as she thought she was Marcus Aurelius one of the greatest stoic emperors said the best revenge is to be different from those who caused you harm and that means not stooping to their level you don't need to prove anything your absence is already the answer your indifference is already the final blow now an important detail deleting this person from your life doesn't just mean stopping talking

to them it means cutting off any trace of her existence in your world social media removed number deleted mutual friends ignored if they tried to bring her name up this person needs to feel that they have been reduced to nothing that they have lost any relevance in their universe and you know what happens when you do that first she'll pretend she doesn't care then he will try to provoke a reaction from you and finally when you realize that you really erased it despair hits that's when you win without saying anything without making a fuss without

needing to justify yourself just getting on with their life while that person drowns in their own insignificance now that she has felt the bitter taste of oblivion it is time to deepen this blow in the next topic you will learn how to become unreachable in a way that this person will never be able to reach you again the despise that erodes the soul have you ever noticed that some people only understand their value after they lose well that's exactly what's going to happen here but not anyway you won't just walk away you will make this

person feel the weight of your absence like a black hole sucking out every ounce of importance they thought they had true contempt isn't just ignoring messages or avoiding contact that's very little real contempt happens when you act as if that person never existed when they ask you about her you respond with disinterest if her name comes up in conversation you change the subject as if it were irrelevant there is no anger there is no resentment just an absolute emptiness as if he were talking about a random stranger and that my friend destroys more than any

insult or direct revenge Epictetus said if someone provokes you know that it is your mind that is being tested this means that true power lies in maintaining complete control because the moment you react the moment you show any sign of emotion is the moment you lose but when you treat that person like nothing that's where the humiliation happens now pay attention human beings have a basic need to feel relevant when someone realizes that they no longer have any impact on you that you live very well without them there is an internal despair first this person

will try to get your attention in subtle ways indirect provocative posts even people in common trying to start a conversation when that doesn't work she can go for direct attacks and that's exactly where you need to maintain absolute coolness every attempt to affect you and every response you don't give is another nail in the coffin of her ego you don't need to block you don't need to run away just exist without that person having access to any of your reactions this is contempt at its highest level and when the penny drops that nothing she does

affects you anymore the feeling of insignificance will devour this person from the inside and this is just the beginning in the next topic you will understand how to make this person beg for a minimum of attention and not get it the game has turned and now they beg for attention we reach the moment when the person who hurt you begins to feel the weight of their own insignificance at first she thought she could tease you and get away with it but now realizing that you simply went on with your life without even hesitating despair begins

to hit and this is where the game completely changes this person will try anything to regain control first in a subtle way by liking their posts sending harmless messages or trying to get closer through mutual friends when that fails the approach will become more aggressive indirect provocative perhaps even attempts to defame you all this because internally she is begging for a crumb of your attention Seneca said Tranquillity is a sign of strength whoever loses control has already lost and that's exactly what happens here you who have already overcome who have already moved on remain firm

and this person who thought he dominated you begins to sink into his own frustration she wants to know why you don't react why you don't respond why you seem so unreachable now comes the cruelest part you will continue living your life in the best way possible and this person will see that not because you are trying to prove something but because its natural evolution will be the most painful proof that it was not missed at all while she wears herself out trying to affect you you grow stronger while she tries to pull you into an

emotional game you're not even on the board anymore and then comes the final humiliation of this stage she will at some point attempt direct contact maybe a random message a how are you or even a pathetic attempt at reproachment and the answer none absolute silence this is the fatal blow and if you think that's cruel enough wait until you see what comes next in the next topic I will teach you how to destroy this person's ego once and for all without having to say a single word make them feel insignificant now we come to the

most painful point for those who tried to hurt you the realization that they mean absolutely nothing to you there is no crueler revenge than showing with actions that this person was just an irrelevant detail in your life and the best part you don't need to say anything being treated with indifference hurts more than any insult when someone realizes that they no longer have an impact on you that their presence or absence makes no difference that person's ego collapses and that's exactly what you're going to do if you come across her act as if she were

a stranger if she tries to contact you ignore her without hesitation if someone mentions her name treat it like they're talking about an old coworker you barely remember it destroys the person inside Marcus Aurelius said don't waste time arguing about what a good man should be like be one and here's the secret you don't need to prove anything your posture already speaks for itself whoever hurt you expects you to dwell on the past feel angry or try to seek justice but when you just get on with your life better than before that person realizes they

lost now there is a crucial detail to make this even more devastating your evolution needs to be visible you don't need to show off or pretend anything just keep growing developing and surrounding yourself with people who really add value while that person wallows in their own frustration you will be light years ahead unreachable and when she realizes she has lost someone irreplaceable when does it sink in that her life would be better if she still had access to you repentance comes as a crushing blow but it will be too late and the next step will

seal that fate once and for all now you will understand how true revenge is becoming someone no one would ever dare hurt again revenge of the superior the weak lower themselves the strong disappear and the superiors the superiors make their enemies regret it without having to lift a finger now that you've erased this person from your life made them feel insignificant and moved on without looking back comes the cruelest part you will show without having to say anything that they were never on your level this person expected to see you fallen suffering dwelling on the

past but what does she find someone stronger colder more unshakeable than ever before and it destroys anyone who thought they had any kind of control over you because the worst thing for someone who hurt you is to realize that in the end they did you a favor Epicetus said if someone can affect you it's because you gave them that power and what you're doing now is taking away that power completely your life is better without this person you are stronger more focused more determined and the simple fact that you exist like this is already a

slap in the face to those who tried to bring you down now comes the final part the blow that closes the coffin absolute indifference this person can try anything provoke get close even play the victim but you have already transcended that and when she realizes that no matter what she does she will never have space in her life again repentance will be a prison with no way out and if you think this has gone too far just wait until the next topic now I'm going to show you how to turn all this experience into fuel

to become someone absolutely unattainable transform pain into absolute coldness pain can destroy you or make you stronger the difference is in what you do with it while the weak lament and seek impulsive revenge the strong transform each blow they receive into an impenetrable shield and that's exactly what you're going to do now did this person try to hurt you excellent now every betrayal every humiliation every disappointment will be converted into absolute coldness you will no longer be someone easily shaken you will no longer fall for cheap manipulations you will become someone no one would ever

dare hurt again because they will know that any attempt will be a waste of time Seneca said no person has the power to harm you without your permission and that means that from now on you won't allow it anymore every blow you took was a lesson every loss was a test and the fact that you are here absorbing this means that you are already on the path to becoming someone completely unattainable but be careful coldness is not bitterness you don't need to close yourself off from the world or lose your humanity true coolness lies in

not depending on anyone's validation in never again allowing other people's behaviour to dictate your emotional state you will become a master of your own destiny someone who chooses who enters and leaves your life based on what you really bring and you know what happens when you reach that level the same people who tried to hurt you will feel your absence like a slowly cutting blade they will see that you have changed that you have evolved that you are no longer one who tolerates disrespect and at that moment the game ends but one last blow is

missing the cruelest of all now I'm going to show you what really destroys those who try to hurt you the final humiliation when they realize they've lost someone irreplaceable the final humiliation when they realize they have lost someone irreplaceable now we have reached the point of no return by now this person has already felt the weight of contempt has already realized that they no longer have an impact on you and has already experienced the pain of being erased from your existence but none of this compares to the final blow the realization that he has lost

someone he will never be able to replace human beings have a cruel instinct they only value themselves when they lose and the worst nightmare of anyone who tried to hurt you is realizing too late that you were the best thing that ever came into their life in the beginning this person may have tried to convince themselves that they didn't need you that they could move on without any problems but now seeing your evolution your coldness and the fact that you not only overcame it but became even better without it regret hits like a punch in

the gut Marcus Aurelius said the best revenge is not to be like your enemy and here's the big lesson you didn't need to take revenge you didn't need to attack his simple absence was the ultimate punishment this person is now stuck in a cycle of regret revisiting every mistake wishing they had done things differently but it's gone there is no turning back and the worst now any attempt at rapprochment will be pathetic messages sent and ignored crossed and despised looks any effort to regain his respect will be a failure you have already become unreachable true

humiliation does not come from words it comes from silence it comes from absence it comes from your ability to move forward without looking back and when that person finally understands that they have lost something that they will never find again the only thing that will be left for them will be to live with that regret for the rest of their life now if you want to know how to become someone so unshakeable that you'll never have to go through that again there's exclusive content in the pinned comment waiting for you don't miss this opportunity to

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