How to Spot the Loveliest People in the World

who are the loveliest people in the world they're not the famous ones or the respected ones the worthy ones and the powerful ones they're the ones you haven't really heard of who long ago shed their pride who can tell you frankly how lonely and sad they are who can face their self-hatred and accept their regrets they aren't just unhappy they're plenty of boring and frightening ways to be that they've come to an optimal perspective on their unhappiness you could tell them about the strangest oddest most lamentable things about you and know that they understood it

all at once from the inside there are no folies around sex or status Love or Money that they aren't fully acquainted with they want to get to the howl inside you because they're so familiar with the howl inside them they aren't remotely attached to seeming sane they long ago ceased attempting to appear normal they know that life is mostly pain mystery and error and they'll never try to persuade you otherwise they will never be so mean as to try to cheer you up they can be trusted because they've had the courage to Fathom their full

propensities to cowardice and Corruption they don't give a jot about your reputation because they know enough about what people in general are like they combine a thorough misanthropy for the group with a deep love and tenderness for the individual they've been through their obsessions with love public esteem career Triumph and positivism and they've come out the other side they can let their humor get very dark because the gap between their hopes and their experience is so wide they've gone into the weirdest bits of themselves and will therefore understand the oddest bits about you they don't

expect Life as a whole to go right and against a backdrop of Despair they can laugh with exceptional richness and Glee these are the sort of people you want in the prison cell or on the way to the scaffold in the trenches or in the bed next to you on the Cancer Ward these are the kinds of people we need so many more of in our lives and should try so hard to be for others