How High Value Men Talk to Women (Women Will Love You) | Stoicism

today we're diving into something every man needs to understand how high value men not just any men but the real deal talk to women modern dating is full of confusion drama and emotional roller coasters but here's the kicker high value men handle it differently and guess what they do it with the power of stoicism this isn't about playing games trying to be someone you're not or pretending to be cool no cheese pickup lines no fake confidence just pure unshakable power I'm going to give you 10 critical ways to talk to women like a high value

man and master conversations by controlling your emotions by the end of this you won't just be a guy who women are interested in you'll be the guy they're chasing modern dating is broken but we're here to fix that stick around and I promise you'll leave with practical strategies that change the game for you let's get started number one calm confidence in conversations let's start with the foundation of being a high value man calm confidence if you're reacting emotionally to every little thing a woman says or does you've already lost here's a controversial truth women are

drawn to emotional control not emotional chaos in today's world where where everyone's hooked on social media validation and drama men who keep their cool are rare and women notice that when you talk to a woman never let her see you sweat you're in control when she tests your patience when she's teasing you or throwing some wild curveball your way stay calm the reason high value men thrive in conversations with women is simple they don't react emotionally women aren't just looking for someone who's fun to be around they're wired to look for a man who can

handle pressure when you maintain your composure especially in awkward or high tension situations you're telling her I'm not like everyone else I'm solid imagine a moment when you're out with her and the conversation takes a weird turn maybe she makes a comment that could throw most men off if you stay centered smile and respond calmly you've already shown her more value than any flashy outfit or impressive job ever could when you're in a conversation and feel the urge to explain yourself justify your actions or react emotionally pause breathe let your response come from a place

of calm control and watch how your words carry more weight number two speaking with purpose here's where most men fail they talk way too much high value men don't speak just to fill the silence when they talk to women every word has a purpose they don't ramble they don't flood the conversation with meaningless chatter they speak when it matters and they let the silence work for them this is one of the most overlooked tactics in modern dating but it's incredibly powerful silence when used correctly communicates confidence it shows that you're comfortable in your skin that

you don't need validation or approval from her and that's rare in a world where everyone's trying to out talk and overshare a man who speaks with purpose stands out women are tired of hearing the same lines the same compliments the same old routine here's a practical example instead of telling her how pretty she is like every other guy does say something real something impactful you have a really interesting perspective I'd love to hear more now now she's intrigued you've opened the door for a deeper conversation and she wants to share practice speaking less focus on

listening more than you talk when you do speak make sure it's thoughtful meaningful and purposeful you'll find that women respect you more when you leave space for silence number three emotionally detached let's talk about rejection here's where most men fall apart they fear it they dread it and when it happens they let it destroy their confidence but high value men they don't care about rejection why because rejection doesn't Define them it's not personal and it's certainly not a reflection of their worth high value men understand that not every woman is going to be interested and

that's fine when a woman isn't feeling it they don't fall apart they smile not and move on think about it why let one interaction determine your value the truth is women are more attracted to men who are unfazed by rejection because it shows emotional strength when you're unaffected you communicate that your confidence comes from within not from external validation that's incredibly rare today women are so used to Men Who crumble when they hear no that when they see someone who doesn't even Flinch it makes them curious if a woman can sense that rejection will crush

you she's going to lose respect immediately but when she sees that you can walk away confidently even after being turned down it shifts the dynamic you become the man who doesn't need her approval to feel good about himself this is where you set yourself apart the stoic man is always prepared to lose and that's because he's not emotionally invested in the outcome of a single interaction he knows his confidence isn't tied to one woman one date or one moment he's playing the long game and women can sense that rejection becomes irrelevant because he understands the

bigger picture his emotional Detachment makes him stand out and suddenly the woman who rejected him is second guessing her decision the moment you show that rejection doesn't shake you you've turned the tables and that kind of confidence is magnetic when You Face rejection don't react negatively or emotionally instead smile thank her for her time and walk away with your head held high this isn't just about being polite it's about sending a clear message you're not easily affected you're someone who doesn't place your selfworth in someone else's hands and that's powerful [Music] number four maintaining composure

in any situation how many times have you been in a heated moment maybe during a date or a disagreement and felt the urge to explode emotionally most men lose their cool they let the situation control them and in doing so they lose control over how they're perceived but here's what you need to know composure is power in today drama filled dating world the man who keeps his cool wins every time women are constantly testing men pushing their emotional buttons to see how they'll react the moment you get defensive the moment you start losing your cool

you lose respect high value men stay cool no matter what even when the conversation gets tense they don't break if she's challenging you stay calm if she's testing you don't Flinch you're in control women are attracted to men who can handle themselves Under Pressure that's the mark of a high value man practice composure in everyday conflicts the next time someone irritates you don't react immediately stay calm give it some space and see how much more control you feel over the outcome number five active listening we live in a world of constant distraction smart smart phones

social media endless notifications and Everyone is always in a rush to say the next thing but here's a fact that can completely change how women perceive you one of the most attractive qualities a man can have is being fully present in a conversation when a high value man talks to a woman he's not just physically there he's 100% mentally there too he listens he engages and he makes her feel feel like she's the only person in the room that level of attention is incredibly rare these days and because of that it's incredibly valuable here's the

reality most guys are just waiting for their turn to speak they're nodding along but in their head they're already thinking about the next thing they're going to say but when you actively listen without interrupting or mentally preparing your next line you immediately separate yourself from the pack you're showing her that you're different from every other guy she's ever spoken to in a world where women often feel unheard giving them your full attention is a GameChanger and it's not just about nodding along it's about making her feel like what she's saying matters maintaining eye contact giving

thoughtful responses and even asking follow-up questions that show you're paying attention tells her you're invested in what she's saying that level of Engagement makes her feel valued and appreciated and that's where the connection really starts to happen practice active listening by maintaining eye contact and responding thoughtfully put your phone away resist the or to check it and don't let your mind Drift Off to what you're going to say next just be present you'll notice how much more engaged she becomes when she feels you're genuinely interested in what she has to say and it sets the

stage for a deeper more meaningful connection number six stoic body language body language speaks louder than words in fact most communication is nonverbal before you even open your mouth your body is already sending a message and here's the kicker most men are completely unaware of how much they communicate without speaking the way you stand the way you move the way you maintain or avoid eye contact these all send signals and women pick up on them instantly high value men command attention not just through what they say but how they carry themselves are you Standing Tall

or are you slouching are your movements deliberate and controlled or are you fidgeting is your eye contact confident and unwavering or are you shifting your gaze nervously all of these small seemingly insignificant details make a massive difference in how women receive you before you've even spoken a word now picture this you walk into a room you're not saying a thing but because of the way you carry yourself people take notice this is the power of body language high value men know that their presence alone can speak volumes they don't need to fidget they don't slump

their shoulders and they certainly don't avoid eye contact instead they stand tall move with intention and maintain steady confident eye contact it's like you're telling the world I'm in control and I'm not easily shaken women are visual creatures they read into these physical cues more than you might think if your body language shows nervousness insecurity or lack of confidence they'll pick up on it immediately but when you display calm controlled and deliberate movements they sense that you're confident composed and completely comfortable in your own skin this kind of non-verbal communication is immensely attractive here's another

key detail speed matters men who rush through their movements whether it's walking talking or even gesturing often come across as anxious or uncertain high value men on the other hand move slowly and deliberately their actions are measured and purposeful whether they're reaching for a drink adjusting their posture or turning to look someone in the eye every movement is done with confidence and control there's no hurry no nervous energy this calm unhurried demeanor is a subtle yet powerful indicator of their self- Assurance pay close attention to your body language practice Standing Tall making strong eye contact

and moving with intention slow down your movements take your time and let each action be purposeful by doing this you'll instantly boost your presence and start commanding the room before you even speak this will not only make you more attractive to women but will also shift the way you're perceived by everyone around you number seven mastering emotional control we've all been in situations where emotions run High dramas pulling you in tensions are escalating and you feel like you're about to lose control most most men fall into that trap they get defensive they lash out or

worse they let their emotions completely dictate their actions in those moments they're not in control their emotions are and that's where they lose but here's the thing high value men don't let emotions control them they understand that emotional control is their most powerful weapon here's something you need to realize women are naturally drawn to emotion strength they want to see if you can keep it together when things get tough think about it how many guys do you know who react emotionally to the smallest thing it's common but when you're the man who can keep his

cool stay calm and refuse to get pulled into the chaos you instantly stand out in a world full of men who crumble under pressure you become the exception when a woman tests you emotionally it's not because because she wants you to fail it's because she's trying to see if you can handle the pressure she wants to know if you're the kind of man who will stand strong in the face of emotional turmoil or if you'll fold if you get emotional react impulsively or lose your temper she'll see you as just another guy who can't handle

stress but if you remain calm composed and rational she'll start to see you as someone different someone who's in control no matter what high value men understand that emotions are fleeting and getting swept up in them only leads to poor decision-making the ability to detach from emotional chaos and remain logical is one of the most attractive qualities you can have imagine being in the middle of a heated argument and instead of raising your voice or getting defensive you pause think and respond calmly that shows strength real strength and it's rare here's the harsh truth women

want to be with a man who can protect them not just physically but emotionally too if you're easily swayed by emotions how can you offer that protection you need to show that you're grounded unshakable and that no amount of emotional drama can knock you off balance this doesn't mean you ignore her emotions but it does mean you don't let her emotions become your emotions you stay centered you stay in control the next time drama enters the conversation whether it's with a woman a friend or even at work take a moment to step back don't engage

emotionally breathe stay calm and respond with logic not emotion you'll notice that not only do you gain more control over the situation but you also command more respect from those around you the ability to rise above emotional chaos is what separates high value men from the rest when you refuse to get sucked into the drama you're not just protecting yourself you're showing her that you can protect her too and that's a game Cher number eight asking thoughtful questions most guys ask the same old boring questions what do you do for work what's your favorite movie

but here's the deal high value men go deeper they ask thoughtful meaningful questions that spark real conversations they're genuinely interested in the person they're talking to and they use questions to create connection women are used to surface level conversations so when you come in with something more meaningful it catches them offg guard they're used to guys skimming the surface never diving into what really makes them tick when you show a genuine interest it tells her you're not like everyone else you're not just trying to pass the time or impress her with typical small talk you're

actually curious about her as a person about what makes her unique here's why it's important asking thoughtful questions opens up a path for her to express herself in ways most men don't allow when you dive deeper you get to know her on a level that makes her feel seen and appreciated and when a woman feels understood she's more connected to you she'll remember that conversation long after it's over simply because you gave her the space to talk about the things that matter to her for example instead of the usual what do you do for fun

ask what's something you've always wanted to do but haven't yet or what's a passion you've had since you were a kid these kinds of questions make her think and invite her to share a piece of herself that most guys never ask about skip the small talk go deeper ask her about her dreams her passions or what really drives her in life you'll find that the conversation becomes much more engaging memorable and authentic number nine confidence without ego here's the thing about confidence it's everything but ego that's a killer high value men are confident but they

don't need to prove it they don't boast they don't try to dominate the conversation and they don't need external validation their confidence speaks for itself quietly and effectively this is the kind of confidence that isn't loud or flashy it's solid it's the confidence of a man who knows his worth but doesn't feel the need to advertise it when you exude that kind of energy women naturally take notice you don't need to tell her you're great she can see it in the way you carry yourself one of the biggest mistakes men make is mistaking ego for

confidence they think that by bragging or showing off they'll earn respect or admiration but here's the controversial truth the more you try to prove yourself the more you reveal your insecurity bragging about your job your car your status it doesn't impress women it repels them true confidence is knowing you don't don't have to prove anything to anyone you walk into the room already knowing your value and that quiet Assurance is far more attractive than any boastful words could ever be women are turned off by arrogance they can see right through it they want a man

who knows who he is and is comfortable in his own skin without feeling the need to shout it from the rooftops when you're quietly confident when you allow your actions and demeanor to speak louder than words that's when you stand out in the best possible way next time you're tempted to brag or seek validation don't let your actions speak for you focus on staying humble letting your quiet confidence radiate you'll find that women are far more intrigued and Drawn to your genuine self assurance than any ego-driven attempt to impress when you exude this kind of

understated confidence you'll command more respect and attention without having to lift a finger number 10 end with Grace lastly how you end a conversation is crucial and it's where a lot of men get it wrong too many men overstay their welcome thinking that if they keep talking they'll eventually say the right thing to impress her but here's the hard truth the longer you drag it out the more likely you are to make things awkward high value men know when to end a conversation great F leaving the woman intrigued and wanting more you don't need to

force it you don't cling to the interaction beg for validation or try to squeeze out one last compliment or joke to keep her interested high value men understand the power of leaving on a high note when you exit a conversation naturally and confidently you leave her thinking wow I want to know more about him that's how you create Lasting Impressions ending a conversation gracefully doesn't mean cutting things off abruptly it's about reading the room sensing when the conversation has peaked and wrapping it up smoothly instead of dragging on and hoping for a perfect moment you

create that moment by leaving at the right time think of it like this it's better to leave her wondering about you craving another interaction than to wear out your welcome and make the conversation feel forced or dull women remember how a conversation ends that's the last impression they take with them so when you end with confidence you leave her with a positive memory and that's what will make her think about you afterward you're not the guy who tried too hard or overstayed his welcome you're the guy who left on his terms gracefully and naturally Practice

ending things on a high note know when to leave and do it confidently smile give a warm but brief goodbye and walk away let her be the one thinking about what you didn't say and wanting to know more it's always better to leave her wanting more than to stick around too long and lose the magic so there you have it 10 powerful ways to talk to women like a high value Man by applying stoic principles remember it's not about what you say but how how you say it how you carry yourself and how you handle

pressure women are naturally drawn to men who are in control of their emotions and don't let external factors dictate their worth be that man if you're serious about transforming your dating life and becoming a high value man hit that subscribe button right now leave a comment below about which tip resonated with you the most and if if you're ready for more check out our other videos on leveling up your mindset improving your confidence and living the life you deserve thanks for watching