everything in your body is speaking this language it is dying and everything in the body is programmed and prepared for that so when you everything that you know is going to go just an empty space seems fearful if that is not there when the time to lose this comes you become desperate and it's natural so how do I prepare Namaste um my question is how to tune or prepare your mind for the certainty of death for your closed ones your family um something that we all know is real but to come to terms with it
during the process of life after especially uh mid-age life how does one live with that right this happened and uh in 2020 just before the pandemic 3 weeks before the pandemic there was a book that was in the writing process or in the editing process for almost 8 years usually that's not my time scale but somebody was editing it taking Limitless amount of time and uh they keep coming back to me one more question one more question one more question then I said it looks like like this is going to be a memorial book then
uh in February 2020 I said it must be published now they said no s Guru there seem some more work we need to do we need to do this we this and that I said no it has to go now they said why we waited so long some more little things sguru just spent 3 days with us we'll put it together I said no it must go now then the pandemic broke out the book got published and pandemic broke out and death was all over the place it's very important that you know especially Western societies
have made it like it's a taboo to utter the word death no no everybody should know that we are mortal because it's a limited essentially mortality means it's a limited amount of time if you know it's a limited amount of time you would organize yourself for that if you think you're Immortal you would live a stupid life yes or no see the biggest problem with most human beings [Music] is they think other people die they don't know this will die they know those dying people they die no no you and me die right now we
can say we are living or we can say we dying actually it's the same term right now we dying the process will be complete one day we hope to Kick the Can but we know we're dying if you know you're dying everything in your body is speaking this language it is dying doesn't matter how energetic you are how exuberant you are still it's dying isn't it so if you pay enough attention so instead of trying to make a philosophy out of death you must pay little more attention to the life that you are then you
know clearly you're dying and everything in the body is programmed and prepared for that except your silly mind and that's what you want to prepare I understand but everything in the body every cell in the body knows it's dying and it's preparing for it and of course it's trying to buy a little more time so how do I prepare see when it's close if you try to prepare somebody they will get paranoid because you must understand everything that you think is me is going to go right now your body is going to go your thoughts
are going to go your emotions are going to go your personality is going to go your house house your relationships and The Works your job everything will go so when you everything that you know is going to go just an empty space seems fearful you can't prepare against that you know when I was about two 2 and 1/2 years of age for some reason my mother was unwell and so I went and lived with my aunt for about nearly 2 years maybe a little less than 2 years she was only 18 years of age she
was just married and she was an exuberant joyful loving human being she took me as her own and uh not as her child I became her buddy so she took care of me while I was there for nearly 2 years and then I came back but we maintained that relationship more as a friend than than an aunt very joyful exuberant loving human being everything in her life well her children came and you know the usual things uh boys went to America girls got married as they wanted whatever whatever Indian dream happened small aberration maybe but
nothing major everything went well when she was 69 years of age she got some tuberculosis in the brain and uh the they said she has just a few months left she lost it it was so painful to see her such a joyful exuberant human being suddenly she lost it completely and then she passed on like that then I saw this is what spiritual process means that means something beyond your physical and psychological space there is another little space once you have this little thing suddenly losing the body losing the mind is not such a big
issue you have a place to stand if you don't have that then suddenly everything looks like hopeless just threatening so this needs to happen as a part of this we started in Southern India what is called as one drop spirituality everybody must have at least one drop spirituality they don't have to become you know enlightened and knowledgeable and stuff at least one drop something more than the body must be with you always if that is not there when the time to lose this comes you become desperate and it's natural this is very important St