Killing Lust is Easy, Actually!

lust is a tough battle but you can win if you face it head on don't sugarcoat it don't blame others this is about you and your choices let's get real if you want to overcome lust stop making excuses and start owning up to your own actions no one else is responsible for what's going on in your head but you first stop blaming others one of the biggest Lies We Tell ourselves is that someone else is to blame for our lust you might think it's their fault for dressing like that or they shouldn't be flaunting themselves

sound familiar if you catch yourself thinking like this stop no one's forcing you to think lustfully it's on you no one made you look twice no one made you fantasize you chose to do that ask yourself if your sister mother or daughter wore the same thing would you feel lustful toward them probably not so why do you feel that way toward a stranger it's because you lack the love you should have for them lust and love can exist together lust turns people into objects while love sees them as human beings lust means you're lacking Real

Love in Your [Music] Heart recognize lust for what it is when you're lusting after someone you're not loving them you're reducing them to an object that satisfies your own desires this is the opposite of how we should treat others when you allow lust to take over you're rejecting love and letting selfishness rule you're not seeing them as a person but as something to use that's the brutal truth and until you recognize this you won't break free from the cycle you need to change how you see others start thinking of people as they are brothers sisters

mothers fathers friends people who deserve love and respect not to be object objects of your fantasies the enemy in your pocket if you're hooked on corn understand this it's poison pure and simple it's not harmless it's not just something everyone does it's evil cornography turns real living people into nothing but tools for your pleasure it twists your mind dulls your empathy and turns every interaction into something sexual corn doesn't just fuel lust it teaches you to see every woman or man as less than human let's be clear corn is addictive it rewires your brain making

it harder to resist sexual Temptation in real life the more you watch The Harder it gets to stop it's like feeding a fire that will eventually consume you if you think you're not harming anyone by watching you're dead wrong you're harming yourself your relationships and your ability to love others the way they deserve deserve you are not a victim of lust you have a choice stop acting like you don't have control lust doesn't just happen to you every time you indulge in it you're making a choice and if you keep letting lust control you you're

letting yourself become a slave to it if you don't choose to avoid what triggers Your Lust you'll lose control and become a slave to your own desires that's not some abstract idea it's reality if you don't stop it now it's going to get worse lust won't just stay at the same level it'll grow take root and control more and more of your [Music] life how to cut lust off at the root you can't fight Lust by indulging it a little and hoping it won't get worse that's like trying to put out a fire by feeding

it the only way to stop lust is to cut it off at the root get rid of the things that trigger Your Lust that means avoiding the situations media and thoughts that feed your Temptations if you're serious about fighting lust you'll have to make some hard choices don't hang out in places or look at things that you know stir up those feelings be brutal about it this won't be easy but nothing worth doing ever is you'll need discipline and a lot of self-control but if you don't take this step you'll never get free stop feeding

your desires here's a fact what you feed grows the more you feed your lust the stronger it gets the more you starve it the weaker it becomes every time you give in lust you're making it harder to resist the next time and every time you resist you're training your mind and body to break free from it lust thrives on Indulgence it grows when you keep giving in even in small ways so stop feeding it cut off its food source that means limiting what you watch where you go go and what you let yourself think about

be ruthless with yourself no exceptions build a new habit lust is a bad habit and habits can be changed but it's not enough to just stop thinking lustfully you need to replace that habit with something better start focusing on something important such as spending family time working on yourself and work towards your goals canot fight alone you can't beat lust on your own it's too strong and it gets even stronger when you try to fight it by yourself lust loves isolation it's easier to control you when you're alone and no one knows what you're going

through that's why you need someone you can trust to help you find a close friend a brother or someone you know will listen without judging you and open up about your struggles being accountable to someone else can make a huge difference when you talk about what you're dealing with it's like shining a light on it lust loses some of its grip because it doesn't have the darkness to hide in anymore just telling someone what's going on can take away some of its power you'll feel less trapped and More in control it might feel embarrassing or

hard to admit that you're struggling but it's the only way you can really start to make progress if you keep everything hidden you won't be able to break free from it but when you start being honest with yourself and with others it's like opening a door to real help you'll start to see that you're not the only one going through this the truth is everyone faces Temptation at some point it's a normal part of life what you do about it you have a choice in how you respond by talking to someone and staying accountable you

give yourself a better chance to win the fight you're stronger when you don't try to face it alone it's okay to admit that you need help in fact it's necess Neary you'll see that sharing your struggles not only makes you stronger but it also brings you closer to the people who care about you together you can work through it and come out on the other side better and stronger lust doesn't stand a chance when you've got the right support take action now don't put off the fight against lust until tomorrow telling yourself I'll deal with

it later is just giving lust more time to grow stronger in your life the longer you wait the harder it will be to control and soon it'll be a part of everything you do think and feel lust doesn't stay still it takes root and spreads if you let it so the time to act is now don't wait until it's too late to make a change to beat lust you have to go straight to the source and deal with it headon think of it like pulling weeds from a garden if you only trim the top The

Roots will still be there and the weed will grow back you have to dig it up completely this means changing the way you think about people and starting to see them with real love and respect treat people like the humans they are not just objects for your desires this is how you start winning the battle against lust remember fighting lust is a decision no one can make it for you lust doesn't control you unless you let it every time you give into it that's a choice you're making but every time you resist that's a choice

too so the truth is simple you are in control you are responsible for your actions no one else lust doesn't just happen you choose whether to fight it or give into it if you decide to fight know this it's not going to be easy you'll need to be prepared to work hard there will be times when it feels impossible times when you want to give up but don't the more you resist the stronger you'll get the longer you hold out the weaker lust becomes little by little you'll see progress and in the end it will

be worth it winning this battle will change your life for the better the fight against lust is one of the most important battles you'll face it's not just about stopping a bad habit it's about building a life that's based on love respect and self-control it's about becoming the best version of yourself someone who doesn't let their desires control them so start now choose to fight it's not going to be easy but it's a fight you can win and it's a fight worth winning if you like this video hit the like button it helps others find

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