RTT® In ACTION With Marisa Peer: Witness BEAUTIFUL Transformation | Rapid Transformational Therapy®

seen in your mind where you are now is it day tomorrow is it night time and are you inside or outside how old are you about six how do you feel my heart I can't breathe [Music] thank you so we're going to use hypnosis Megan to make you feel completely different to help you understand it's always the same thing how did I get to be the way I was and can the understanding be powerful enough to change and their answer is absolutely yes understanding is Powers I'm going to show you how where why when you've

got all these fears and issues and then we're going to remove them so they won't bother anymore so what we're going to extract them but in a way we sort of are we're going to get you to realize that that will never be you again that was then and while that wasn't right it doesn't have to affect your life anymore does that make sense hypnosis is not scary in fact it's amazing it doesn't send you to sleep it actually wakes you up the way to go into hypnosis is always to look up like that keep

your eyeballs up close the lids you go into what's called an Alpha Brain Wave well you're much more receptive you know to just have a look back at what happened and then let it go so look at my finger and thumb just look up as high as you can keep your eyeballs up but close your eyelids down and if you see that you've got Ram straight away so that's the sign you're going to be a perfect subject you already passed the first test so you're going to find this all easy so look at my finger

and thumb look up keep your eyes glued to my finger and thumb breathe in breathe out take another deep breath breathe in breathe out and just one final time breathe in keep your eyeballs up keeping your eyeballs up as you exhale just close your eyelids right down all the way down just close your eyelids down as your eyelids shut down I want you to drop your chin just a fraction so you feel that looking down sensation you're looking down 10 steps and right now you're moving on to step 10 as each muscle every nerve turns

loose let's loose and you go deeper you're taking step nine Annie you can see your feet hear your feet feel your feet treading each step as you go deeper deeper deeper into an awareness of yourself you're taking steps seven and six going deeper with every number I count you're going deeper with every sound you hear even the sound of your heartbeat is taking you deeper and further into powerful profound healing hypnosis you're taking step five and four going deeper you're taking step three and two and every sound and noise and movement around you is carrying

you deeper deeper deeper into hypnosis you're taking step one just go deeper deeper deeper and hypnosis is really about how good you are at accepting suggestions is a child you accepted all kinds of suggestions he didn't like you were told what to wear what to do how to be and you didn't have any choice but I'm going to show you how good you are at accepting suggestions I'm going to show you who is going to show me that you are really good at making suggestions really because when I know that and when you know that

you're going to give yourself different suggestions much better ones and make them real so I want you to just stretch your arms out like so lock your elbows close your hands and I want you to imagine in your left hand Megan you're holding an enormous red far bucket that's filled with about 50 pounds of heavy wet sand and straight away you'll feel that your left arm is pulling down your left arm is becoming lower you can feel the weight of that bucket pulling your left arm down as your left arm gets heavier and heavier and

heavier in this right arm you're holding an enormous helium filled balloon which is absolutely weightless lighter than air so weightless that your right arm has no choice but to float up lift up pull up and as your right arm is pulling up your left arm is getting heavier and heavier pulling down the weight of that bucket is in your left wrist in your shoulder in your elbow pulling your left arm down but your right arm feels so weightless it's floating out moving up traveling up lifting up higher higher even higher even higher still and you're

aware of something impressive one arm is weightless one arm is way down because of one thing your ability to accept a suggestion and then make it real and you're going to notice as even as I ask you try to lift up your left arm and find it's incredibly impossibly heavy so heavy the more you try to lift it the more the weight of it pulls it back down again and now try to push this right out I know it's like trying to push a beach ball underwater the more you try to lower your right under

where it Springs up pops up and keeps traveling upwards it refuses to go down it insists on going up higher higher higher and now let go of the bucket let go of and go deeper deeper deeper that's perfect you can see something that you should be very proud of you are really good at making suggestions real of course when you're that little girl with a controlling father you didn't have a choice today you get to choose to let go of that so before we let go of it we need to have a little look at

it not a big thing I'm going to have you look at a few scenes I want you to remember something important you are going to review not relive you cannot relive anything in any review it this has already happened to you all you're doing today is dealing with a memory and dealing with a memory far from hurting you can sometimes be powerfully freeing I'm going to go back to one scene to do with being controlled and feeling trapped and your brilliant mind knows exactly where you need to go and take a look at so right

now on the count of five you are going back to a vivid vital crucial powerful scene is significantly to do with having no power being dominated being controlled and feeling stuck trapped helpless hopeless you are becoming younger smaller lighter shorter is your brilliant mind takes you back to a vivid vital crucial thing to do with being controlled being restricted feeling helpless hopeless powerless just be there as I tap your head the scene in your mind where you are now is it daytime or is it night time and are you inside or outside how old are

you about six and here's the only question that matters the other's really not that important at all this is the only question that matters Megan in this scene where you are six what are you doing seeing feeling what are you asking would you see what you saw as I click my fingers and your ears open you can hear exactly what you heard tell me what you're seeing hearing and feeling in this scene I'm scared let me say I'm scared because I'm hiding running away I always say I'm scared I'm running around hiding because starting to

finish that sentence I'm scared I'll scare him I'm running away I'm running away I'm hiding because it's looking for me who is he my father so he's looking for what does that mean to a little girl of six that your father's looking for you feel like he's hunting me you feel like he's hunting you and when he finds you what will happen remember you're reviewing this even with Fascination I know it's sad I know it's painful I want you to look at it with Fascination that little girl feels haunted that's a very interesting she feels

Hunted and when he finds that little girl what will happen he's gonna hurt me he's gonna hurt you because I did something wrong I wanted you do that was so wrong I can't foreign and do you know how you disobeyed him I can't I can't see it and that's not because if children don't know that oh I put the milk bottle on the on the table and it made a ring or I filled up the bath and I let it run and it overflowed I fed the cat and the wrong food and it was sick

because when you're a little kid you don't know and that's what's so confusing you're being punished for something you've done and you don't even know what it is so let's go back to another thing to do with this same feeling of getting into trouble getting physically hurt and not even knowing what it is that you're supposed to do to avoid that's on the count of five four three two one your brilliant mind is taking you back to another Vivid vital crucial powerful scene all to do with how where why when you got this feeling of

being oppressed being controlled being dominated not being able to be free and have free will and how much that angered you but you couldn't even express it you're going right back to a scene all to do with all of those feelings right now just be there as I click my fingers it's rather like you've switched on the television set or your computer the picture's warming up you are right in the middle of that screen the scene you're in now Megan is it daytime or night time are you inside or outside on your own or is

anybody with you he's there he's there how old are you about 14. and I want you to describe exactly what it is you are doing seeing feeling as I count to three on the count of one two three your ears are wide open you can hear exactly what's being said and remember you're here with me you're completely safe You're simply reviewing a scene that caused you a lot of pain you're reviewing it you are not reliving it you can tell me all about it I want you to tell me what's happened to that girl of

14. he's telling me I'm stupid you're stupid you're stupid how does it feel to be told you're stupid at just 14. it feels true and why does it feel true she knows he knows how does he know he's just he knows everything so if you knew everything you might know not to tell his own daughter of 14 though she's stupid don't you think if he was that smart do you think a smart father who knows everything would know that you don't say to a kid your own kid you're stupid over and over again because I

don't think you knew everything I don't think he knew how to raise you properly because a good loving father even in moments of annoyance would not go your stupid stupid stupid stupid over and over again but you see that the control he had on you that you believed he was always right and when one person is right the other person has to be wrong so stay in that scene he tells you you're stupid and you believe him because he's made you feel over the years that he's right and if he's right that must mean you're

wrong is that right what else is going on in that scene towering over me is behind me it's really watching me all the time how does it feel to be watched all the time it just feels like I can't even breathe you can't even breathe that's right so I want you to imagine you're looking in this hand and you're holding just two scenes it's okay just let that go now just let that go it's a scene of many many scenes the story of your life being oppressed being judged being intimidated We Now call this coercive

control it's been made illegal for all the right reasons I want you to imagine you're holding some snapshots in this hand the one where you're 14 and your father is towering over you can't even breathe as he tells you that you're stupid stupid and you believe him when in fact the person who's stupid here is not you it's him because that is a stupid thing to do to tell a child your own beautiful daughter that she's stupid over and over again and the other little girl who's hiding because she knows her dad is going to

find a hunter Punisher for doing something and she doesn't even know what she's done but she disobeyed him so those two scenes are enough for you to look at and in this scene today is a picture of you today beautiful clever smart gorgeous kind and yet the beautiful kind adult you is very ruled by these scenes so if you had ticker tape running between your hands like they have in Times Square and it's explaining how these scenes in your past have led to all the issues you're going through today reacting to control getting angry will

tell you what to do feeling that you've got to be perfect and good all the time I I know how these scenes caused he you today but I want you to tell me tell me how those scenes those two and others just like them cause you to be the way you are today foreign I can't go after what I want to go after I want you to say I feel unworthy inadequate repeat after me I feel unworthy no unworthy I feel inadequate I can't go to what I want to go after what I want because

because finish that because I just feel like I'm unworthy I want you because I was made to feel unworthy it's made to feel unworthy it happened so much it happens so much it's all I know it's all I know it's familiar to be made to feel unworthy it's familiar to be made unworthy and not familiar to feel worthy I'm not familiar to feel Worthy so I want you to imagine going back to that scene and I want you just look at that little girl of six I want you to go that's not me it's not

me because if you weren't everything your father hunted you down so I'm gonna hit you wouldn't you call the police or walk out of a house so that's not really you is it and at the age when if your father said today you're stupid dude you might go you know what Dad I think you might be stupid because that's a really stupid thing to do to your own smart kid isn't that right he wanted to be a doctor but he told you you were stupid he knew that wasn't true because he would have wanted to

be a doctor if he thought you were stupid so it sounds like he was the stupid one isn't that right I want you to imagine your father's right in front of you and I want you to say Dad I need to ask you a question why did you try so much to control me and make me successful and then tell me I was stupid couldn't you see how counterproductive that was so imagine he's there and say out loud dad you tried to mold me and shape me you tried to warn me and shape me and

make me a doctor and make me a doctor you're obsessed with how my life would be yeah obsessed with half my life and then you showed me I was stupid stupid stupid I mean I was stupid stupid so you were undoing all the work you were doing and that makes me think that you're a bit stupid that makes me think that you're a bit stupid why did you do that why did you do that I thought you were so smart I thought you were so smart I thought you knew everything but you knew everything but

looking at it now but looking at it now I don't think you were very smart at all I don't think you were very smart at all because you really made me live a regimented life because you really made me live a regimen and it caused me so much pain caused me so much pain and my mother too and you could see what you were doing you could see what you were doing and you still did it and I'm now doubting how smart you really are I'm doubting how smart you really are why did you do

that why did you do that ask him what made you behave like that what made you behave like this it's not loving it's not loving it's not kind it's not kind and it doesn't work and it does not work so why did you do it so why did you do it as I click my fingers you can switch places become the father look out at your beautiful daughter and tell her the truth tell her the truth what is it about your life that made you behave like that because I love you mm-hmm and I want

the best for you I want you to have everything that I didn't mm-hmm I want you to go back and say no that's not love love is kind love is kind love is understanding I misunderstanding and love is letting someone be who they want to be letting someone be who they want they want I don't accept that answer don't accept that I needed better one I need a better one what made you treat me like you owned me and could mold me and shape me as if I was a thing what made you own me

and shaped me like I was a thing what made you think that was okay what made you think that was okay switch places be the father look again at your daughter and tell her the truth why did you act like she was your property tell the truth I own you mm-hmm go on you're mine I want you to go and I want you to be the father and say I felt I've always felt so inadequate my whole life I've always felt so inadequate my whole life I thought if I could make you perfect I could

make you perfect I wouldn't be so inadequate I wouldn't be so inactive and that's why I try to make you perfect that's why I try to make you perfect even though I kind of knew it wasn't possible even though I kind of knew it wasn't possible I needed you to be perfect I need you to be perfect to hide all my flaws and it didn't work it didn't work the sound Megan true or false of course it's true people who try to have perfect children always saying well I'm a bit rubbish but I have a

perfect kid and then I can convince the whole world I'm perfect but they can never convince themselves and there is no perfect in the race to be perfect there's no Finishing Line because your father is like all of us flawed having flawed relations with flawed people but he wanted you to be perfect he gave you he said enter that race and you can never even reach the Finishing Line and he kept you there for a long time and I want you to say to him I don't have to be perfect for you I don't have

to be perfect for you I thought you were perfect I thought you were perfect I had to live up to your expectations to live up to your expectations but I can see now that you're deeply flawed but I can now see that you're deeply that's okay that's okay I'm free now I'm free your flaws are setting me free you're setting me free I don't need to live up to any expectations I need to live up to any expectations don't need to live up to yours I don't need to live up to yours it's not my

job to make your life better it's not my job to make your life better it's not my job to make you look better I saw my doubt to make you look better my job is to live my life on my turn my job is to live my life on my terms when I was a kid I didn't have a voice when I was a kid I didn't have a voice but I have one now but I have one now and I can tell you anything I like tell you anything I like I can tell you

that you're wrong I can tell you that you're wrong you're not as smart as you think you are you're not as smart as you think you are and you don't own me and you do not own me and I owe you nothing at all and I owe you nothing at all what else would you like to say to him now that you can see the truth now that the scales are falling away from your eyes and you can see the truth and inadequate man thought well I'll make my daughter perfect and then it will hide

my flaws and that was a heavy price he put on you but you're free now you're free enough to go yeah I can look at that it was sad I can look at it even with Fascination and see wow I thought he was so smart but perhaps not so when you look over and around and look over and around and through the truth look over it look around it look right through it and realize that you never disappointed your father ever he was deeply deeply disappointed in himself and critical people have the most criticism reserved

for themselves and they simply reflect out of the whole world their dissatisfaction with themselves by criticizing everyone else including their own children so your father all that criticism he gave to you is about him being dissatisfied with his life is that true or false and now that you know that what difference does that make for you today knowing what you know I am worthy yeah I am capable yeah I can breathe yeah of course you can free so I want to go about the little girl of six who's hiding I want you to say with

some power in your voice that's not me it's not me I don't need to run I don't need to run I don't need to hide I don't need to hide I have a voice I have a voice and I can tell my father to back off I can tell my father to back off to go away to go away I can say anything I like to him say anything I like to him because he will never put his hands on me again because he will never put his hands on me again and I'm not six

not six and I can fight back I can fight back I'm smarter than him I'm smarter than him I know that I know that he probably knows it too probably knows it too I want you to get back to the scene where you're 14 and your father is tell you can't even breathe as he tells you you're stupid I want to go that's not me it's not me I'm smart I am smart I'm smart enough no better than to call people names smart enough to not call people names I'm smart enough to not try and

diminish someone smart enough to not diminish someone suffocate yourself or suffocate someone I'm smarter than my dad I'm smarter than my dad I don't have to prove anything to him and I don't need to prove anything to him or anyone else or anyone else I'm free now I am free now and I want you to imagine putting your arms that little girl of six just holding that little girl in your arms I want you to imagine taking her back Megan to where you live now where do you live now my house okay where's your house

and Austin but it's not near your father's house right so imagine taking that little girl back to your house and I want you to walk her through there and I want you to repeat these very words I want you as you walk through the door to say I'm upgrading you into my world now I'm upgrading in you into my world now and it's a better place and it's a better place it's a safer place it's a safer place you live with me you live with me and I love you and I love you cherish you

cherish you and I'm proud of you and I'm proud of you and no one no one in the whole world in the whole world play this world of loving parent to you okay this role of loving parenting like I can like I can I love you exactly the way you are I love you exactly the way you are I'll always have time for you I always have time for you I'll always listen to you not always listen to you and I always recognize that you're smart and I always recognize that you're smart and free and

free and you're a free person and you're a free person in a free one in a free world and I want you to imagine walking that little Megan through your house showing her your closet where you can wear whatever you like even if you've either hated it you can put on anything it's going to be outrageous or wacky you can be anything what do you imagine going into your living where you can watch whatever you like and you can stay up all night and watch TV because you're a free woman in a free world and

you can do whatever you like you can stay up all night you can have breakfast for dinner and dinner for breakfast I want you to go into the kitchen and see that you can eat whatever you want you can buy whatever you want you have a credit card you drive a car you are not six and you're not 40 and I want you to imagine driving the car thinking oh here I'm driving my car because I'm not six here I am taking money out of the bank do whatever I want with it because I'm not

that 14 year old girl take a minute and really install that little Megan into your world because when you install or into your world fully and probably you can never go back into the other world not even in your Daydreams upgrade her into your word and tell her I'm upgrading you into my world I'm upgrading you into my world this is a nicer this is a nice safer safer Freer funner place on her plan now that you live with me and now that you live with me and in me and in me now I've created

a place in my home now I've created a place in my home and in my heart and in my heart for you for you you never go back to the other world never go back to the other world not ever not ever and you can stand your ground with your dad you can stand to your ground with with your dad because he's just a flawed person because he's just a flawed person he's disappointed in himself he's disappointed in himself he's never been disappointed in you he's never been disappointed couldn't be disappointed in you and be

disappointed because you're amazing because you are amazing he knows it he knows it he just can't tell you he just can't tell you because you're a light because your light just makes him feel so dumb this makes him feel so dark but that's not your problem that is not your problem that's not your fault and it's not your fault and you live with me now can you live with me now and you're safe you're safe and you're free and you're free and you can breathe and you can breathe what else would you like to travel

that little girl who's now living in your world a Freer happier better place in every possible way what else would you like to tell her you're so worthy you're so loves I want you to say to her you're so smart you're so smart you're worthy of everything you're worthy of everything you're good you're good you're kind you're kind you're smart and you're smart you're beautiful you're beautiful you're everything you're everything and you'll always be everything always be everything you don't need him to tell you you don't need to have to tell you you need me

to tell you you need to tell you and I'm going to tell you every day in a minute tell you every day because it's the truth that's the truth what else do you need to hear laughs I can be who I want to be yeah I wish I could just be myself to be myself because that's good enough because that is good enough I'm good just the way I am I'm good just the way I am I don't have to earn love don't have to earn love or chase love or chase love I never have

to work for love never have to work for love it's available to me all the time it's available to me I'm worthy of it because I am worthy of it so just feel that little girl merging into you almost dropping down almost dropping down and merging into taking up resin and living in your body living in your heart living in your life and as I rock you ahead as I rock your head you are a raising eradicating eliminating letting go of that old stuff it's all behind you now it's out of your life as I

rock your head Megan you are a raising eradicating eliminating ending anything and everything that could have you feel like that little girl she is not you and you are not her and I want you just want to look over to look around to look through that little girl where she lived what she lived through I want you to look over it around it and right through it and as you look over it and around you so you see the truth and here is the truth it will never again for the rest of your long gorgeous

amazing free life it will never again be relevant or necessary or appropriate won't even be interesting you to ever again think or feel or act as if you were her because you're not her you're free and you can do whatever you want and be whoever you want and realize that people who criticize are full of criticism of themselves people who are critical are full of self-criticism Superior people pray together that's great you did amazing didn't have to be perfect you did your best it's good Superior people praise and inferior people criticize and you're not a

Critic because you're able to praise yourself and others and that's the best place to be so just let it all go just let it all go just let your mind clear as you go deeper as you go deeper into an absolutely relaxed stages you go deeper drift deeper sink deeper you can again look over and around and through that little child and see wow that's not me I'm free or as free as a bird you can run jump sing laugh you can be silly you can be wild you can be crazy you can be bad

you can be everything because you are free and as you look over and around and through the past that is not you it can't be you can't go back and be that girl even if you wanted to because life doesn't go back because it goes forwards like in a heroin just like an arrow your father was the bow and you left him behind a long time ago you're free now and you're free to be you happy fun Carefree you're able to live your life know that occasionally you'll be in situations maybe in an airport maybe

on a plane where someone says sit down put on your seatbelt and we'll give you instruction you know that they have really have your interest at how you're able to be able to say that's okay but most of the time you can break rules and do whatever you want you can have fun you can be wild you can do all the things you couldn't do as a kid stay up all night dress however you want to dress be completely inappropriate if it suits you and the safety of your own home because you will never forever

ever again be sick something you'll never again live with your father you'll never again think that he was so smart because you know the truth today he was deeply flawed and because he was so deeply floored he wanted you to be the opposite imperfect like being flawed it's what I call being flawsome you're flawed I'm flawed and floored people can have beautiful flawed relationships when they stop trying to make the other person make up for all their flaws you can forgive your father you don't have to because you're too busy living your life being great

so as you go deeper drift deeper sink deeper Megan every single day you are moving on from one phenomenal accomplishment to another every day you're moving on from one incredible that's even another every day you accept that you are deeply lovable just the way you are you never have to earn love work for love Chase love it's all around you and you are worthy of it you are worthy of love you are worthy of praise you are worthy of recognition you're worthy of care and kindness and you're worthy of being accepted just the way you

are and you know that and you let that sink in that's sinking into the way butter sticks and sinks into hot toast it's singing in the way lotion sinks into dry skin you're letting all the good stuff in and as you let the good stuff in you're letting all the bad stuff out so all that doubt all that need to be perfect all that need to earn appreciation is going it's washing off you like water washes off you in the shower in fact for the rest of your life that old Behavior will always be one

thing something you used to have that cannot will not does not influence your effect you ever ever ever again it's so far behind you it's out of your life it's in the past and you're not going there it's out of your life it's gone it's like the fumes coming out of a car that you're driving they're always behind you and you can't run back and get them even if you want them it's like the water from the bath or the shower you last took behind you out of your life never to come back and that's

a good thing that's a great thing so knowing Megan that you are enough that you matter that you are a smart kid when you were three four five six ten you were always a smart gorgeous kid your father just demanded Perfection to make up for his imperfections you can see that he was wrong and no one can ever do that to you again you don't mind these imperfect and that's why that was so hard for you to see an imperfect person demanding Perfection if that wasn't fair it was deeply hypocritical but it's not your life

it will never ever be your life again so knowing it feeling it letting it in feeling amazing feeling brave feeling free feeling liberated feeling empowered feeling even more free even more empowered even more liberated to live your life on your terms and to stand up to your dad and to have boundaries that work for you and to feel great about your life and where you're going and who you're with when you're ready just slowly calmly easily just let yourself come back to your full awareness just open your eyes just come back into the room and

just take a deep breath how do you feel [Music] like later it's good to be lighter a strange to remember that but it's not remembering it's remembering what it did to you but whenever what it did to you think well now you can choose to never let it affect you like that ever again and does it make sense when you realize that your father's imperfections made him try to make you perfect even though that's an impossible thing to do see it wasn't quite as smart as you thought he was and of course that's probably why

I had an affair too because people are in Perth I was looking for someone to worship them how do you feel now I feel well busy yeah it's very normal as you let go of stuff to feel a bit dizzy you might want to throw up sorry I feel like I want to throw up yeah well you know something okay but it's a huge letting go sometimes after hypnotherapy you can feel like you need to pee a lot some as you get discharged from your eyes and nose and sometimes you feel like you want to

physically throw up but it's just a massive letting go and that massive ring is a sign of how well you've done because you're bringing all that stuff up and you don't need to keep it anymore feel empty at the same time this is very interesting yeah that you've let go of all that stuff that took up so much space of course you feel empty because your whole Space has been filled with that need to be perfect to please someone else when it actually never pleased you and now you're free some of this freedom feels a

bit strange when you've never had it it's very nice you're in control but now you understand that your dad just felt flawed yeah there's like much clearer now check out my next video here