what women actually find attractive in men (female gaze)

one of the biggest Lies We Tell ourselves is that women aren't just as visual as men this became very evident to me when I was scrolling through Instagram reals one day came across this real of a guy just getting a haircut but I did not expect this for the comment section to be a tsunami of women going rabbit for this man thousands upon thousands of likes usually you think of Instagram as a place where guys are thirsty but here I was deep into Waters that I didn't know existed but it gave me an idea in

my previous video on the female gays we focused on different aspects of Attraction such as personality Vibe and a little bit on looks a lot of you were more interested in the physical aspect wanted me to make a follow-up video on the topic initially I wanted to do it in a very scientific way where I look up studies and experiments that focused on different aspects of physical attraction but as I started writing the script it just felt a little boring soulless way of looking at attraction and to be fair other channels are already doing this

and they do it better than me so I scrapped it but seeing that real and the com comments gave me an idea could these social media platforms offer real insights into what traits women find attractive it was worth trying anytime I saw a comment section full of women fawning over a guy I let the real linger for a bit to train my algorithm eventually all the Real showing up were ones where the guy was getting a tun of positive attention my algorithm was fully trained I wanted to break down common factors I saw in all

of these guys that people found so attracted the first part of my experiment involved scanning the various faces to see how AI would rate them I did this using the rate by fresh app all of the faces scored in eight or above which is pretty rare this showed me not only are these guys deemed handsome by other humans but also objectively by AI next I used the dimorphic feature the average score was 8 out of 10 in masculine features and 3 out of 10 in feminine features which is typically what you'll see with good-looking men

next I set out to identify the common traits that made these men significantly more appealing than the average guy here's what I found archetype let's go back to the initial video that sparked this I sent it to my girlfriend and asked what's the appeal of this guy she said one he's manly has strong facial features beard Scruff and intense eyes and two he gives sugar daddy Vibes now the first part is evident to everyone watching this video but the second part is what's interesting throughout the comments you saw the same thing over and over again

the word Sugar Daddy what I've noticed is that a lot of attractive men map onto certain archetypes that are deemed attractive for example Michael morone became famous from playing a Mafia Boss on a movie called 365 days both sugar daddy and mafia boss are very common tropes in romance novels now you might say Well they're just attractive archetype doesn't matter but I saw evidence to the contrary guys that the looks maxing would not considered typically attractive they didn't have Hunter eyes or the perfect bone structure for example this guy now what archetype does he fulfill

he looks skinny older sleep deprived dresses decently and has some tattoos this is a classic mysterious loner archetype all this to say archetype does matter whether it's being an athlete a bad boy that drives a motorcycle or a muscular Lumberjack you'll notice throughout this video all of these guys can be mapped onto some type of classic romance novel Trope with the most universal being muscles and Tattoos every guy I saw either had muscles tattoos or both their physiques were muscular yet athletic I didn't see anything that was super unattainable without hard training and a good

diet you don't need to look like a rooted out bodybuilder to have a great physique like a lot of guys think literally get to a healthy body fat and build some muscle and you should be good to go a lot of these physiques can easily be achieved a year or two of solid training first tattoos go they're obviously a very personal and permanent thing so unless you're into them and won't regret them don't get them but there's no denying that they definitely up your attractiveness especially when paired with a nice physique grooming is everything grooming

was impeccable across the board whether clean shaven or bearder every detail was managed from eyebrows to body hair I strongly believe grooming is an art and skill every guy needs to get good at if you can't do your own beard just as good as your Barber can learn to do it you can't use a double-edged razor give yourself a pristine clean shave learn to do it invest in high quality groom gear it'll save you money in the long run and you'll always look fresh your hair is your crown hair played a major role each individual

featured had thick well-maintained hair styled with intention a few years ago you would have seen every guy here rocking a clean fade but just like we've been saying the trend was definitely more towards lived in grown out fluffy hair this doesn't mean the hair was unruly though all of these hairstyles were cut and styled with intention and most importantly looked healthy find the perfect hair sty for yourself I recommend using the rate by fresh app grow healthy thick hair by getting the right nutrients make sure you're getting enough protein iron and vitamins such as B12

and vitamin D invest in shampoos and conditioners that suit your hair type without chemicals that strip your hair of its natural oils glowing skin glowing clear skin was a universal trait among the men feature I guarantee you every guy here has a skincare routine and I hope you have one too by now we have a ton of different videos on skincare so check those out if you need help creating your own routine now it's not just about having clear skin you want that glow you can get this in a variety of ways usually I recommend

eating beta kerot this can be a slow process and you want to avoid getting a straight up Sun tag as the sun will age your skin and give you wrinkles lately I've been using something called tanning drops these are drops you mix in with your moisturizer it will give you an amazing glow depending on how much you use and it works in just a couple of hours I highly recommend trying this out if you want nice glowing skin I'll link the one I use below not sponsored at all aesthetic by aesthetic I mostly just mean

General style and fashion a lot of these guys kept it simple and most fit into two main categories clean simple old money look and a darker edgier star boy style both of these styles are super easy to get into and will always look good but if you really want to take it to the next level going head first into fashion be a huge marker of Attraction and of itself I'll be making a more in-depth fashion video soon but if you're not too into fashion and just want to look good stick with a simple style and

clean fits and remember the best fashion accessory is a nice physique don't be cringe when it comes to men trying to portray themselves as attractive if you're very direct with it it comes off terribly and turns people off instantly the best example is those clearly staged videos of a group of guys walking out of a the train and staring at the camera even if you're a 10 out of 10 you're going to get clowned on and seen as goofy the videos that got the most positive attention and a guy clearly doing some kind of activity

or action the best examples being guys on motorcycles I saw this a lot guys playing sports and a guy that just chops wood all day yeah some of it is still a bit cringe but it tends to actually work this is more just a bit of advice to tell you that attraction can also be very Contex dependent I think the great thing is I saw guys of all types here giving credence giving credit to the fact that you can become an attractive guy no matter who you are just hit the jib Doom yourself take care

of your skin find the style and the rest will fall into place thanks for watching make sure to subscribe for much more