HOW TO HAVE LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME: REAL tips to be the luckiest girl and attract your DREAM LIFE

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you are not going to have to watch another video on Lucky your syndrome after this you are getting your dream life in 2023 I'm gonna make sure of it you will walk away today knowing all of the techniques you need to use exactly how to do it the rules when it comes to look at your syndrome and making sure it actually works my success stories and how it's actually worked for me and right at the end I'll even give you examples of lucky girl syndrome affirmations just a quick note I've been on the radio twice
just to speak about lucky girl syndrome and I was even on the news to speak about looking your syndrome so trust me I know what I'm talking about let's get into it lucky girl syndrome is just manifestation repackage so look at your syndrome is all about reprogramming your mindset into thinking I am good enough I am smart enough I am capable enough and I am worthy of all of my desires our thoughts our perceptions are in a dialogue becomes our reality it creates it and it's true okay the best thing that Kanye West has ever
said is if you believe you can't do anything you won't do anything I always feel like I could do anything that's the main thing people are controlled by thoughts their perception of themselves they're slowed down by their perception of themselves if you're taught you can't do anything you won't do anything I was taught I could do everything you have to go through obstacles to get what you want in life and that is going to be really hard and a whole battle it will be lucky girl syndrome slash manifestation is believing you have an abundance of
good luck so if you genuinely believe that you have loads of good luck then you're golden because that thought will then create your reality on the other hand if you allow self-doubt to get the best of you and you engage with your inner critic and you hold yourself back from opportunities because you don't think you're ready for them yet or you're not smart enough for them yet you don't have enough money Beauty intelligence whatever then you simply won't get those opportunities so why is this let me break it down and give you two scenarios to
really help you understand and ingrain this concept in your brain Lola thinks everyone should just shut up and do the hard work because lucky girl syndrome isn't practical so when life goes sideways which is normal and things don't work out Lola blames it on external things she blames it on the government other people her boss her childhood Etc she feels unlucky in these situations when things don't go her way this then decreases her confidence so because Lola isn't actively affirming that her dreams are possible just from her believing in them she is then stuck in
the reality trap her whole mindset is hard work equals results and that is it this is a limited mindset and it will hold her back in life and this limited mindset will then decrease her confidence and due to this lower confidence she is then less likely to go after the bigger things in life the bigger opportunity cities for example because she's stuck in the reality trap and she cannot see past her own circumstances she doesn't believe that being a millionaire is possible for her so instead she just strives for a few thousand because that's all
she's striving for that's all she's gonna get so what do we see her with Lola because her mindset is limited and she's stuck in the reality trap her actions will then follow suit which then leads to the limited results she finds in life when you don't believe everything is easy it won't be easy you'll be less inclined to chase your wildest dreams in life therefore you'll never get those dreams because you're not even on the journey to go get them so that's Lola's situation over here let's go over to Athena Athena practices lucky girl syndrome
every day now she's not a manifestation expert she's just trying to have a positive mindset and go after her goals without questioning if it's actually realistic or possible for her she's just gonna go do it and hope for the best because she's using this approach to go and get her goals her self-doubt is now decreased and because she's decided to practice like a girl syndrome every day now she thinks I had really good luck and because of that now she has high higher confidence in her success rate in achieving her goals therefore she is now
more inclined to chase the opportunities that don't make that much sense right now maybe she's applying to modeling photo shoots even though she doesn't have any experience and she's not signed to an agency but if she had Lola's mindset she wouldn't have even thought to try out that opportunity in the first place her chances about actually being a model are 100 higher than Lola's so see how it works hard work of course it has a part to play but the mindset you use to accompany that hard work has just an important part to play as
well also why did I pick these names Lola is a name that literally means sorrow and Athena is a name that means goddess of wisdom be more like Athena and to conclude on the definition chapter of lucky girl syndrome some people will say that this concept is toxic positivity and it's not realistic but all it actually is is an empowering practice where you genuinely believe that you're capable of achieving your dreams why would you want to live any other way so many people are held back alive due to their self-perception lucky girl syndrome is making
sure that you have the highest most positive self-perception so you are not self-sabotaging how far you can go in life I came home again I don't look at your syndrome on manifestation is but does it actually work like has it worked for you what are your success stories that little modeling story I told about Athena yeah that happened to me I have always wanted to try out modeling I've never even applied to an agency but I was just posting pictures on Instagram and I have worked with actual fashion brands and been paid to model for
them I've worked with photographers I've been photographed in a studio like an actual model I am a content creator which means majority of the work I do is freelance there's no stability whatsoever and I kind of have to rely on Brands to reach out to me which means I can go months making zero pounds with no brand collab deals even when my following was small I think I only had 10 000 followers on Instagram I got a collaboration deal from ubereats one of the biggest companies in the world I was a micro influencer I'd probably
only done two or three collab deals at that point I was at the start of my content creation career I didn't do anything and it reached out to them I wasn't even following them on in Instagram I don't think they found me they skyped me they hired me and they paid me because even though things hadn't worked out for me so far I was still staying consistent with the content creation I was still putting myself out there because I genuinely believed things were going to work out for me if I let myself doubt get the
best of me maybe I wouldn't post as much maybe my post wouldn't have come in front of them for them to find me and hire me in 2022 I created an entire mind map of my goals for the year majority of them came true things like traveling things like graduating with a first class degree the exact amount of money I wanted to have saved in my bank account I achieved the list goes on the craziest manifestation success story that I've had actually happened like two weeks ago so the biggest problem I've been experiencing in my
life recently is I just moved back to my hometown it's hella small and I really have this urge to be around more like-minded people to network with other creatives people who are freelancing or content creators or models or entrepreneurs Etc but there's not really anybody in my area who's like that so I was really struggling and I was thinking how am I going to make friends that I like this anyways one one day I find this guy on Tick Tock she's a very successful entrepreneur I loved her content instantly when I saw her I knew
I just like had this feeling that we'd get along and read a line later on that night I was on the phone to my friend and I was telling them about this girl and I was like I just have a feeling me and this girl are gonna meet like we are going to be friends a couple of days later this girl reached out to me to say let's meet let's do something let's go out for lunch one week after that we were then having lunch another week after that we were going up for a second
lunch and now we're actually friends how did it start I was on the phone to my friend and I said I'm gonna be friends with this girl I don't know how it's gonna happen she didn't live in my city we've never spoken before I just believe it's gonna happen and I really want that to happen for me I didn't do anything that friendship came flying at my face another problem in my head about not being friends with like-minded people and other creatives has been solved through manifestation to finish this off I've gone through periods in
my life where I've been stuck in a state of luck well I think nothing's working out for me oh my god I've not been making a lot of money recently but if I don't what if this fails constantly questioning what if and how and but is the quickest way to kill any of your potential manifestations do not do it I believe you I'm gonna start using a heel syndrome to manifest all of my marvelous streams how do I do it I got you so there are four techniques which I believe are the most effective now
I do a combination of all four you don't have to but for this section of the video I'm just going to give you a quick explanation of how I combine all of these four practices and then at the end you'll have a full understanding of what these four practices are which one you'll choose or if you want to copy me and do the same combination so this is exactly how I manifest one I write a list of my goals in my phone in my notes app there are no limitations to what I write so I
can dream as big as I want this expands my horizons and that in itself already allows me more opportunities because I'm not being restrictive so that's essentially goal setting with a positive and abundance mindset two I look at this list of goals I find relevant images to each and every goal print them out and create a vision board this is my vision board it's directly in front of my bed first thing every morning this is the first thing I I see every single day I have to set at this board for one minute that's because
when you do have a vision board it's actually very easy to just walk past it forget it's there and never look at it don't let it be you so when I'm staring at my vision board for one minute every single day I'm soaking up all of these images of my dream lifestyle and while I'm doing this I'm reminding myself of the amazing life that I'm working towards every single day and most importantly when I'm staring at these images every single day for a minute I'm envisioning each and every image each and every goal coming into
my life into my reality and putting myself into that picture this then links into technique number three which is visualization this is the most powerful and popular manifestation technique ever this has been around for a while and like I said is basically when you like you could literally do this before you fall asleep every night you're on your pillow okay you're about to go to sleep and you just close your eyes and imagine yourself living out your dream life that in itself is an amazing manifestation technique and lastly technique number four are affirmations you can
see these first thing every morning but in my routine I Journal affirmations every single night I basically use scripting which is another form of affirmations and manifesting so when I'm journaling every evening I'll write a few bullet points of what I'm currently manifesting and then I turn this into an affirmation script so for example the goals I'm currently manifesting might be double my income work with my dream brand heal over a breakup I don't know those are just examples we're now going to turn that into a manifestation script with affirmations so what you're going to
keep writing over in your journal in your script is gonna read I am a successful content creator who is abundant in her collab Deals they flow into my email inbox every day I am spoiled for Choice with the amount of Brands I get to work with I have now worked with every single brand I could have dreamed of I worked with Asos pretty little thing Ted Baker Fenty Beauty Etc and write it like that you have to write it in the present tense and you have to put yourself in that situation another example I have
healed for my breakup I am the happiest I've ever been I can't even remember my ex's name you get the gist there are two very important rules when it comes to lucky girl syndrome and making sure that it works in your life let's go through it number one you must stay detached or it's not going to work you can manifest as hard as you want it's not gonna work if you're not detached from the outcome a really good example of this is like I said before I manifested every single one of my 2022 goals so
I made this mind map and fun fact I actually forgot about the Mind map like I didn't look at it again I found it again in December 2022 I read through it and I was like oh my God all of these things happened like I accidentally manifested but it wasn't an accident that's just how manifestation worked because I wasn't obsessing over the goals on that list they weren't in the back of my mind constantly and I was thinking okay how am I gonna make this happen I need to do this now what if this doesn't
work out okay but what about the logistics of this I just forgot about it I was detached I was so focused on working and living my best life every day and just believing somehow some way it's gonna work I am not going to question it because the universe has got me I'm protected it's going to do the work for me that then allowed the manifestations to come true on the other hand if I was stressing about how realistic it is and how it's actually going to work then it wouldn't work and this is because any
negative thoughts that you put out once again also create your reality and then rule number two when it comes to lucky girl syndrome is practice gratitude you need to put out what you want to receive be grateful for the things you already have no matter how big or small and while you're practicing this gratitude also remember more is on its way when you sit in such a high amount of gratitude for the life you have the friends you have the opportunities that have already come into your life how you've gotten to where you are this
just increases your motivation to go and get more but it also increases your confidence to be able to manifest more because you're like well I already got this and this and I'm currently living what my 15 year old self would have dreamed of so of course I can go and get more For My Future Self whereas if you're in a state of lack like Lola you're not gonna believe anything is possible why would you manifest because you're constantly like to say rubbish people are so lucky and nothing ever works out for me how are you
ever going to achieve your dreams when you think like that when you're operating at a frequency of having high gratitude more things will just flow into your life that is just the Law of Attraction and finally let's finish off this video with some lucky girl Center of affirmations that you can start using today okay I'm gonna send you off on your manifestation journey to get your dream life prepared girl just a quick reminder the essence of this is to have an abundance mindset you can make up any affirmation you want any sentence that works for
you is fine as long as it follows the rule of abundance of ease of good luck so some of my favorite affirmation examples that I use include everything I want is already on its way to me the universe has rigged in my favor I am a money magnet my goals are easily achievable everything is constantly working out in my favor my dream life is already on its way to me the universe is protecting me and looking out for me I am loved and appreciated I'm the luckiest girl on the planet and the list goes on
but the rule with this is you have to genuinely believe it if you are safe saying these things to yourself and also thinking it's not gonna work because you're at the end of this video I hope you guys hope you guys enjoyed it and learned everything you needed to know about lucky girl syndrome if you like this content then feel free to go and follow me on Tick Tock I have an entire playlist on my profile to do with manifestation techniques and you can go and check out my Instagram because I'm active on my stories
every single day so you can just see my daily life and my adventures and whenever I manifest a new opportunity I'm always posting it on my story and lastly it is the month of Love which means I'm going to be posting a bunch of Valentine's Day content this month so subscribe and stay tuned like this video if you find it helpful and I'll see you in the next one bye foreign [Music]
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