Focus on you until the focus is on you.

YouTube what it do man it's your boy Josh we back up in this thing with another one we woke up this morning another beautiful day all prayers to the most high man let's get it hey bro one quote that I live and die by bro when it comes to this self-improvement process and this journey bro focus on you until the focus is on you bro I know that you know we want the focus to be on us today but if we put the focus on ourselves like me putting the focus on me giving myself everything

I need to be successful giving myself everything I need to be competitive giving myself everything I need to be the catch to be the prize that's what I'm going to do when you focus on doing that fellas and you don't pay no mind to nothing nothing else outside of your control you don't pay attention to them paying attention to you when you stop doing that I promise you that's when the focus and the attention is going to be paid on you bro I promise you but if you are sitting there infatuating yourself with that wanting

that craving that today I'm telling you it's not going to happen you going to drive yourself insane because this is something you cannot control but I tell you boys don't focus on the things that's not in your control focus on the things you can control so focus on you if you focus on you the focus will then be turned to you the second day you start taking your focus off of your yourself and putting your focus on them that's when their focus on you goes away when you just be by yourself grinding not telling everybody

what you doing not checking in with everybody every single day doing your own thing not being bothered what she's doing not bothered by what they doing not worried about what they doing this weekend but when you truly lock in bro I'm telling you the focus is going to be on you dog and that's when you going to know that what you doing is the right thing to do trust me bro trust me I'm living Pro dog I used to be one of that dude that wanted to get all the girls I used to be that

dude that wanted to flex and look like he got it all and everything like that when we stop focusing our energy onto that and we start actually paying attention to actually become the person that can attract those things bro I'm telling you it's going to happen bro it's going to happen the skills that I've obtained the education that I've gone through I wasn't making no money beforehand but once I got through all the certifications I got through all the training I got through all the education bro I'm getting compensated for that the only way that

I was able to complete that education complete that training or get that trade bro was just locking in I couldn't be worried about what everybody else had to do I had to focus on what I had to do I had to lock in I had to get that degree I had to to get that trade I had to get X Y and Z so that I can flip it into some income so that I could be desirable so that I can sustain myself so that I can make a world for myself so that I can

make a world for somebody else to want to be a part of so that I don't have to you know what I'm saying Penny pinch or say I can't go out or say I can't pull up because I didn't have no money no I focused on myself until I could get it to where it doesn't have to be a problem no more you don't want to be that dude that's out there don't getting invited because you ain't got no money and you always asking for people for money and then and then they having to pay

pay and then you having to pay them back and then you probably not paying them back and they don't want to mess with you because you can't nah bro just focus on you don't focus on trying to be invited to the parties and being excited to the scene and making sure you in just focus on making sure that you can sustain yourself that you can beat him don't worry about the girls today go ahead hit that gy bro go ahead get that skin care right bro go ahead get them clothes fitted and start getting your

body right and that everything I just Nam and and then Watch What Happens focus on that and then watch watch what the girls do bro I'm telling you I'm telling you when you focus on you the focus will then be on you you can't focus on why you not getting this or why you not getting that unless you putting yourself in the best position to receive those things I'm telling you bro don't think about the women don't think about what you can get out of it don't think about none of that none of the external

stuff just focus on what you can do internally focus on trying to get your mind right get your mental right trans getting yourself better mentally getting that body right I'm tired of dudes walking around the beach looking ordinary walking around the beach with titties bro if you are a man and you got titties bro that is a red flag dog I'm sorry I didn't mean to be harsh about that but I'm serious bro you know you don't want to have no titties you know you if you could get rid of them titties like that you

would do it bro I'm telling you bro them titties might be the reason why no chicks want to be with you bro no chick don't want to not no girl that already got titties want to be with the dude that got titties bro get your body right bro stop playing around stop focusing on these women bro focus on removing I'm not going to say it again focus on I'm tired of we us walking around not having no confidence you want to know where you get confidence bro when you when that chest start pucking out when

them shoulders start getting a little cut on it when that back muscles is popping when we we wearing them right clothes man we got some clean presentable clothes on that's fit it to our nice new body that we got going on man then then they'll start focusing on you mentally man mentally physically spiritually emotionally everything bro focus on making sure that you are the best in all of those fields and I promise you bro life will get better life will get better you can't figure you can't focus on why you don't have it yet or

why you not getting it or this or that I can tell you why you're not getting it it's because you focusing on getting it you focusing on getting what you can receive bro it's crazy it's the opposite literally do the opposite don't worry about it you worrying about it right now don't worry about it the stuff that you're not worrying about like getting in shape going to the gym and proving yourself that's the stuff I need you to worry about not no stuff that's not in your control not no stuff that you can't change you

can't change how somebody feels about you you can't change whether somebody rejects you or accepts you or wants you or doesn't want you or likes you or doesn't like you you can't control it only thing you can't control is who you are being being the guy that can't say no to being the he's too cold we got I couldn't I couldn't resist he he's too much of a catch too much of a prize couldn't pass up on he look how look how much better he is than everybody else I couldn't pass up on that that's

what I want them to say that that can happen to you now as far as how soon it can happen that's all reflective on you how how bad you the more work you put in the faster you put it in the quicker you get your results bro but each day you choose to play around each day you keep you choose a day to say yeah I'mma do it tomorrow yeah I'mma do it next week yeah I'mma do it yeah I'mma do it yeah I'mma do it each day you keep doing that bro that's that's that

that that window for you to get all those things I just named all those nice benefits that you want bro just the window becomes smaller and smaller and smaller Ander father because the older you get the harder it's going to be I don't want if you're 26 today like me bro go ahead get to work right now cuz it's better than being 36 trying to learn all this trying to get it together the second that you say I'mma do it next week I'm G do it tomorrow I'm going do that you you just accepting that

i' rather push this till I'm 36 to where I get to a point where you know I reflect over my life over the past 10 years and realize I have nothing to show for it because I just didn't want to do the harder right instead you chose the easy wrong y'all fellas just want stuff to come to you that's easy bro y'all want stuff to just come to you you don't want to work for it you don't want to sweat for it you want it right now today no problems no nothing that's not how it's

going to work fellas you keep you keep oh I'mma start next week I'mma start next week yes bro you you know already know it's going to be a long process it's going to be a long process but it's only hard right now it's only hard when you trying to start these new habits you feel me when you start something new that's the hardest day you know whenever you in pottery and you trying to get that clay together bro the hardest part is at the beginning getting the clay to form like getting it to move into

something that that's not what it is today getting it to be something completely different the hardest part is at the beginning it's at the beginning bro but eventually once that thing starts spinning bro once you get it Formed up you know what I'm saying once you gotten through the hard phase after you get through that first month after you get through that first minute after you get through that first first three months after you get through those first three minutes that thing starts sliding a little bit easier then all you noticing you doing is you

just maintaining you just making sure that tidy that part up right here tidy this up a little bit oh let me turn that you know what I'm saying oh it's already it's already wet it's already spinning fast you know what I'm saying you already got it shape bro but the hardest part is at the beginning see y'all boys y'all thinking y'all start struggling at the beginning then you thinking it's going to be like that for the entire process no bro when it comes to working out the hardest part about working out is just at the

beginning when you first start after two months go by you know that hey this J getting easier after after four months go by oh damn man is it bro come on man you have to transform and you have to go through the pain of transforming bro it's it's a it's a it's a hard process getting that clay to you know what I'm saying mold into something that you feel me mold into something completely different a better something that's better you know what I'm saying it's going to take some time at the beginning to get it

right but would you rather not try or would you rather not go through that just to end up in a position where you got where you just f with nothing but regret dang bro I wish I had went to that pottery class and you know what I'm saying I was I was being too lazy cuz I couldn't wait for the first 30 minutes to get that form right but you know what I'm saying if I would have got it right then I would have had it easier all because you didn't want to take all because

you didn't want to go through a hard difficult time that was only supposed to be this much compared to the entire timeline only this this amount was going to be hard if you thinking about starting something new and we look at your entire timeline your life only this much of it is going to be hard and this is the only this is what's keeping you from obtaining your goals and this entire you are saying no to this all because you can't get through through all this just do a little bit of this just cuz you

can't focus on you for this much just cuz you can't focus on the things that are in your control and and saying to hell with everything that's not in your control you can't do this for just a little bit amount of time instead you CH to push it to the right so it comes over here and here and here and then it just you know what we're just not going to do it we just we just go through the entire timeline not trying all because we couldn't get through this little hump right here when I

first started working out bro the hardest time I was working out I've been working out for eight years now fellas you want to know the hardest part about working out was the time where I dreaded going to the gym bro was in the first three months 90 days 8 years compared to 90 days a life a lifetime compared to 90 days the hardest part of your business may just be the first month you think you think Grant Cardone highest paid salesman in the world right now you think he you think his life is hard right

now you think running his business is really hard right now you think it's hard it's the same amount of hard as it was years past when he was first starting out look at any successful person do you think that their business is as difficult to run as it was at the beginning it's not it's only it's only the transformation phase y'all probably looking at all these other actors and movie stars and St like how did they get that how did they get it's just because they had the decency or the knowledge to realize that they

had to get over this one little hump and then once they got over that it was going to be a part of their lifestyle it was going to be a part of who they were you know what I'm saying it no longer became a daunting task no longer became a chore it became a somebody who you know what I'm saying that's a part of them their lifestyle and then you meet other people that have similar Lifestyles I know all y'all dudes out there would love to have you a nice pretty chick that work out that

look fine bodyright what does it look like her lifestyle being matched up to your lifestyle when all you like to do is sit on the couch and play video games all day what type of girl you think you going to track if any if all if what you're doing is nothing just wasting time away not one focusing on things that's not in your control not focused on your purpose not focused on getting yourself better what type of woman you think you going to track bro because I'm going to tell you the woman that that that

that y that we all desire that's looking good that got that body looking right bro you want to know the type of guy she she she she going to be attracted to and ask yourself bro do you fit that mold are you cut from that same cloth and if not what are you going to do to get there because I know you want it I know you want it I know you want it I know you want to live that life where you got that pretty girl on your arm where you got the money to

go do what you please bro I know that's what you want and I'm here to tell you that you can work on it once you focus on you once you focus on you instead of focusing on why somebody want to accept the Lesser version of you right now today you don't even want to accept the Lesser version of you are today that's why want somebody else to accept you so badly I don't need nobody to accept me I don't need nobody to like me why because I look in the mirror and I love myself and

I like myself that's why it's so easy for me to focus on me and if and when it comes to focusing on you I'm telling you if you have an issue doing that remember what I said only this amount is going to be hard compared to the rest of your life the rest of the timeline whatever it may say only this part I know it's gonna be hard at first but you can do it you can do it question is how bad do you want to do it so that's all I got for y'all boys

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