Never Speak Three Things About Yourself In Public | Charles Bukowski Timeless Wisdom And Quotes

[Music] if you have the ability to love love yourself first what you don't see with your eyes don't witness with your mouth your ambition is handicapped by laziness your attitude towards your problem decides your happiness if you don't share someone's pain you can never understand it don't forget those hands who raised you among the fools a wise man will always be wrong the less you need the better you feel the only time most people think about Injustice is when it happens to them bad taste creates many more millionaires and good taste don't stay in one

job if you have potential to succeed in another if you don't take risks you'll always work for someone who does only you decide what to add to your character first people will laugh at you and then they will ask you for advice nothing kills you more than your own own thoughts inside your mind an empty mind makes the most noise understand the consequences of your actions genius might be the ability to say a profound thing in a simple way the day you lose everything is the day you'll know who your real friends are sometimes the

goodness of some people is just for show nothing is more stronger than a Broken Man rebuilding himself everyone has to Oz but no one have same view hard work in the beginning will allow you to achieve your goal faster knowledge is power the more you learn the better you will be able to make decisions about the direction of your life we must bring our own light to the darkness if the path before you is clear you're probably on someone else's do one thing every day that scares you with money in your pocket you are wise

and you are handsome too the lack of money is the root of so many problems everything in the world depends on the way you look at it stick to the people who want to grow with you opportunities lies where people complain your own thoughts enslave you everyone has a dark side which he never shows to anybody [Music] don't rush to help those who haven't asked you you have to die a few times before you can really live if you speak rubbish don't expect your kids to be polite we are born free but Society culture religion

and beliefs taught us limitations some people feel the rain others just get wet learn to win without destroying others chances what matters most is how well you walk through the fire find what you love and let it kill you a love is like a serious illness an illness from which you never entirely recover the balance between body and the mind is the best way to grow don't wait for the right opportunity just created we don't even ask for happiness just a little less pain trust is a dangerous game don't let your ego stop you from

being with your loved ones don't argue respect others opinion as well just because you fit in doesn't mean you are in the right place if you are patient in one moment of anger you will escape a 100 days of Sorrow you buy an enemy when you lend a man money where your fear is there is your task keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions [Music] upgrade your standards or separate yourself from those who interrupt your greatness dogs and angels are not very far apart there are only two things wrong with money two

much or too little effort is important but knowing where to make an effort makes all the difference your mom is always there to erase your mist mistakes we need to recognize and appreciate those who help us even when they are suffering never take life for granted many people are dreaming to have your life don't be afraid to choose a different path than others to get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with a father does doesn't tell you that he loves you he shows you don't be afraid of being different

be afraid of being same as everyone else distance doesn't separate people it's all about priorities and efforts never be too much available for someone otherwise you will loose your importance people won't see your struggles they will only see your success stay mysterious not everyone needs to know everything about you shame is a soul eating emotion your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart do something every day that you don't want to do this is the golden rule for acquiring the habit of doing your duty loneliness does not come from

having no people around but being unable to communicate better is poor man who walks in his Integrity than a rich man who is cooked in his ways don't care about others opinion you can't make everyone happy just do what makes you happy a good deed dies when it is spoken about the highminded man must care more for the truth than for what people think rejection can be very hard sometimes learn that the best methods that can help you to overcome it be someone who charges people up not someone who sucks energy cleverness is not wisdom

we must take care of our Minds because we cannot benefit from beauty to ask the right question is already half the solution of a problem thinking is difficult that's why most people judge everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves when you cut off someone from your life they will never tell people the full whole story they will only tell people the part that makes you look bad Detachment is power release all the things that no longer work for you haters don't really hate you they hate themselves because you're

a reflection of what they wish to be think as little as possible about yourself think as much as possible about others sometimes man needs difficulties they are necessary for growth where wisdom Reigns there is no conflict between thinking and [Music] feeling in each of us there is another whom we do not know confuse them with your silence and shock them with your actions love unlocked doors and open windows that weren't even there before you will never be able to escape from your heart so it's better to listen to what it has to say do the

hard Jobs first the easy job will take care of themselves until you change your thinking you'll always recycle your experiences inner happiness actually is the fuel of success don't hold on to anyone who's leaving otherwise you won't meet the one who's coming you don't always need a plan sometimes you just need to breathe trust let go and see what happens if you get married they think you're finished and if you are without a woman they think you're [Music] incomplete the woman who Smiles at you when you meet her is most likely just planning to feed

her ego if you focus on the known you get the known if you focus on the unknown you create a possibility never say three things about yourself your plans your income and the number of people you've slept with we cannot change anything until we accept it one of the best lesson you can learn in life is to master how to remain calm in every situation you can't begin to heal until you detach yourself from those who are still continuously hurting you being happy is a self- responsibility no one can do it for you [Music]