No Excuses Assume Responsibility | Brian Tracy Leaves the Audience SPEECHLESS | Motivation In 2024

[Music] ladies and gentlemen it is with great pleasure that I stand before you today to share what I consider one of the most revealing insights of my life's journey throughout my career I've had the privilege of delivering countless speeches sharing wisdom and guiding individuals on their path to success but today I want to delve deeper to uncover the essence of what drives us what propels US forward in our quest for greatness this speech is not just about imparting knowledge it's about peeling back the layers of human potential about unlocking the secrets to personal and professional

fulfillment it's about delving into the core of our being and uncovering the principles that govern our thoughts actions and ultimately our Destinies we will explore the depths of the human psyche uncover the keys to unlocking our full potential and embark on a path toward becoming the architects of our own Destinies welcome to one of Brian Tracy's most revealing speeches welcome to a journey of Enlightenment empowerment and in less possibilities earn more money and more time Brian Tracy when it comes to achieving your personal and business goals money tends to be a major Focus for measuring

success the money mindset is essentially your attitude toward cash so developing a positive mindset about money is crucial for success and overall well-being to create a positive mindset around money you must rid yourself of all limit meting beliefs that prevent you from taking action and then start looking at the world through an opportunistic lens to achieve abundance in your life if you want to discover a positive mindset about money but what is a positive mindset towards money if changing your thinking about money is a priority you'll first want to understand what even is a way

of thinking about money a money mindset is a fundamental attitude you have about your finances your mindset about money drives your financial decisions every every day this can have a significant impact on your ability to achieve your goals it is vital for success to focus on having a positive monetary mindset while money can be a stressful topic for many if you change your thinking about money you tend to make better decisions about how to overcome challenges money and mindset go hand inand so understanding it and focusing on ways to see it positively is crucial for

lifelong success but here's the secret when you fix your relationship with money you'll transform many other areas of your life here are four steps to help you develop a positive money mindset first forgive your financial mistakes if you've never missed a credit card payment or a bill you might as well be a finance Guru however for the vast majority it's important to forgive their financial mistakes the goal is to shift your focus away from shame and make room for better practices and a more positive attitude toward money money in the future to forgive your financial

mistakes first acknowledge what happened apologize to yourself and then focus on moving forward if you start developing a negative mindset about money remember that your financial mistakes are not you you are separate from your past Financial mistakes second set financial goals once you've forgiven past Financial mistakes setting financial goals can be a significant step toward mastering the uh the monetary mindset when setting goals figure out what's most important to you and put everything on the table you'll want to delve into uh goals that are within your reach which will take some time and which should

be part of your long-term strategies once you've identified these financial goals apply a smart goal strategy to ensure that goals are specific measurable attainable relevant and timely third optimize your budget for happiness achieving Mastery of the monetary mindset is no easy task but optimizing your budget to include things that make you happy will make it a little easier if a gym membership or dining out makes you happy plan your budget accordingly to include these things if you don't feel deprived budgeting will feel less like a chore when budgeting A good rule of thumb is that

50% of your earnings should go towards needs like housing food gas and Medicine 30% towards wants likee vacations and finally learning to play an instrument and 20% should be saved if you have debt the 20% can be all icated to paying it off first fourth educate yourself about money lastly if you want to have a positive mindset around money educate yourself about money surround yourself with people who live by those values read books that promote positive mindsets and make sure your social networks don't promote negativity around money and spending it's good to have money and

the things money can buy but it's also good to make sure you don't lose the things money can't buy George lurer said to be fully rounded as a person you need to know the importance of time management you and your quality of life require a world viw that recognizes time as an invaluable indispensable and irreplaceable ingredient of a successful happy and highly productive life you need an attitude toward time as something more than the clock or the calendar get rid of all your time wasters time is the most precious currency we possess and it's crucial

to safeguard it with the utmost care every moment lost is an opportunity missed and as such we must employ our intelligence to maximize our use of time and seek to expand it whenever possible leaving no room for wasteful Endeavors one effective strategy is to leverage Financial Resources to buyb time money may come and go but time is irreplaceable therefore it's prudent to delegate low value tasks to others freeing ourselves to focus on activities that truly matter be it spending quality time with loved ones pursuing our passions or driving our professional Endeavors forward if your decided

in K is to 25 per then any task not yielding at least this amount should be delegated by Outsourcing tasks that can be done more efficiently by others we reclaim valuable hours to invest in Endeavors that yield greater returns both personally and professionally moreover extending the princip principles of effective time management to our personal lives is equally crucial just as successful Executives optimize their professional time they should also apply the same rigor to their personal domains ensuring that every moment spent contributes to a fulfilling and enriching life for themselves and their loved ones they encourage

them to hire housekeepers gardeners and personal assistants to do chores and run errands they buy their freedom to be able to enjoy a better quality of life and spend more time with family and personal activities the reward for both parties is often extraordinary improve your time management skills keep track of how efficiently you use your time the more you think about how you're spending your minutes and hours the better and more accurate you'll be at time management because they don't control the use of time most people aren't even aware of how much time they waste

every hour get a wristwatch with an alarm that goes off every 15 minutes every time the alarm goes off stop and observe yourself look at what you're doing at that moment if possible keep track of time and write down what you're doing every time the alarm goes off regularly ask yourself is what I'm doing right now the best use of my time life is all about attention the more attention you pay to how you use your time and your biggest time wasters the more efficient and productive you're likely to be the more aware you are

of the fleeting nature of time the better you'll use it while increasing your quality of life read books your feelings about money directly affect your financial reality while your parents and other external influences have ingrained various types of beliefs about money in your head the good news is that your thoughts about money can change the key is to constantly feed your mind with new and positive content that will teach you how to think about money in a completely new way books about money mindset Foster positive money spending habits and budgeting which are imperative for your

money mindset training Inspire yourself with quotes surrounding yourself with motivational and informative quotes will help you have the right money mindset look for quotes that make you feel good about yourself and your spending and save them on your phone or computer or print them out to have at home follow successful people stay updated with successful individuals whether it's on social soci media through a blog or via reliable news outlets following successful people will inspire you towards greatness these individuals don't necessarily need to be public figures aim to seek advice only from those who have already

achieved what you deserve these people could be family members colleu mentors or financial influencers whatever the case it's much easier to follow in the footsteps of someone who's already successful and emulates a positive money mindset set goals for a financially success UC ful future now that you know how to develop a positive money mindset start implementing these tips for a more successful future setting goals now can prepare you for financial success in the future have you ever thought someone was luckier than you or that great things always came their way do you believe it's possible

to create your own luck learning how to be lucky is easier than you think I'm going to introduce you to seven of the most useful ways to be lucky which you can learn each of these luck factors can quickly be incorporated into your life and can literally double its Effectiveness and results in a very short period of time now you can create your own luck one Clarity the first of these factors for creating your own luck is simply Clarity it simply means you know exactly what you want and is perhaps the most important luck factor

of all at least in the beginning the more defined you are about what you want the more alert and aware you'll be of opportunities and possibilities to achieve it faster be AB absolutely clear about what you want all successful people are absolutely clear about who they are and what they want and what they need to do to get from wherever they are to where they want to go unhappy and unsuccessful people on the other hand are usually quite confused about what they stand for and believe and what they really want in their lives as the

old saying goes you can't hit a Target you can't see lucky people seem to have very clear goals and the steps they'll have to take to achieve them write down everything you want to accomplish in the next 12 months one of the simplest things you can do to change your luck is simply take a sheet of paper and write down a list of at least 10 things you want to achieve in the next 12 months this doesn't seem like a very complicated exercise but less than 3% of adults will engage in this exercise in their

lifetime and this 3% will end up at the top of all organizations or companies they work with it has been said that success and prosperity begin with you a pen and a piece of paper the 97% of people walking around today have no goals the mere act of putting pen to paper and determining the 10 things you want to achieve over the next 12 months immediately moves you into the top 3% of people living today all you need are 3 to five minutes think about what you want and how to get it here's an important

part of how to be lucky lucky people are those who when they hear a good idea ask themselves how can I get it unlucky people on the other hand when they hear a good idea like writing down 10 goals always ask themselves will this do anything the difference between lucky and unlucky people is that lucky people always ask how when the lucky person thinks about something they want they always ask how they can get it or acquire it the attitude of always asking seems to trigger both their subconscious and unconscious mind to constantly see possibilities

and get ideas that will help them achieve it but when you ask if it seems to shut down your creative capabilities in your brain there's a small finger-shaped organ called the reticular cortex this reticular cortex is like a telephone switchboard that controls the messages that can reach your eyes ears and other senses since you're bombarded by hundreds and thousands of messages from all sides continually this cortex allows you to focus and concentrate on those elements of your environment that are relevant or important to you and ignore the rest for you and ignore the rest the

reticular cortex is activated with a clear goal order desire or even fear on your part for example if you decide you want to buy a red sports car and are really excited about the possibility of a red sports car you'll start noticing red sports cars everywhere even that same car turning the corner two or three blocks ahead of you will be picked up by your reticular cortex and transmitted to your conscious mind are successful people just luckier than the rest of us the truth is successful individuals train their minds to recognize opportunities and possibilities that

align with their goals effectively programming their reticular cortex to be more attuned to such prospects on the other hand those who perceive themselves as unlucky or unsuccessful tend to believe that their goals are unattainable inadvertently signaling their reticular cortex to disregard potential opportunities Egan look as a dimmer switch in a dark room as you cultivate absolute clarity about your goals and aspirations this metaphorical dimmer switch gradually brightens Illuminating the path to success with greater Clarity and precision with each step taken towards your objectives the once murky dart board of opportunity becomes Vivid and unmistakable in

its Clarity your likelihood of hitting the bullseye on such a dart board is much higher than if you were throwing darts from a far distance in a dark room the second luck Factor is the activity Factor high levels of activity especially proactivity increase the number of things you do and therefore immediately increase the probability of you doing the right thing at the right time and in the right way for example if you wanton a prize once you flipped 100 heads in a coin flipping contest the best way to ensure you won that prize would be

to flip the coin as many times as possible in the shortest period of time and if you did and won the prize it wouldn't be a matter of luck at all it would simply be a matter of how frequently you attempted to flip heads activity begins with an attitude of self-reliance because all high performance men and women are extremely action-oriented and extremely self-reliant they look to themselves for solutions to their problems they realize that no one is coming to the rescue when you see yourself as completely in charge of your own life your own career

your own health your own family and your own finances you stop looking for others to do things for you you start moving forward instead of making excuses you accept that you are where you are and what you are because of yourself if you want to be or do something different it's up to you to make the necessary changes starting right away if you want to have more luck develop a bias for Action develop a sense of urgency take action get to work move fast the faster you move the more energy you have the faster you

move the more experience you gain the faster you move the more results you'll get and the more success will come three Mastery another excellent way to have good luck is Mastery and it always has been knowledge and knowhow are the keys to success you will always be paid in direct proportion to what you do how well you do it and how difficult it is to replace you we have moved from the ER of Labor to the E of mental power your level of knowledge and skill in your chosen field will determine your luck and success

in that field as much or more than any other quality become a master in your field today people are not paid for their position or seniority but for their performance and results the better you are the more luck you will have your job is to decide decide to join the top 10% in your field and then pay any price and invest the time necessary to get there the luck factor of Mastery can do more to help you achieve great success than perhaps any other Factor on the other hand you can have all the opportunities in

the world but if you're not really good at what you do the opportunities will slip through your fingers four energy energy is another key way to have more luck all successful people seem to have much more energy than unsuccessful people they get up early in the morning and start faster work more hours during the day and night invest time in themselves and their careers during evenings and weekends writer Steven leok once said in a quote about good luck I believe in luck and the harder I work the more luck I have the more you work

the more you do the more you do the more you will attract the attention of people who can open doors for you and help you ascend even further and faster there's nothing like a reputation for hard work to put you on the fast track of any career you choose Five personality personality is key to learning and being lucky the more positive optimistic and cheerful you are the more people will want to be around you and help you in any way they can lucky people also tend to be happy and positive individuals they get along well

with others and have broad networks of friends and contacts in a variety of different areas the more people you know and who know you positively the more likely you are to meet the right person at the right time to open the right door to the right opportunity you'll find that almost every lucky incident in your life seems to be accompanied by a person who is standing there at that moment either with advice or with a hand on an Open Door the entire lives of many people have changed because of a casual remark or a friendly

acquaintance who has given them a key piece of information or an opportunity that has allowed the lucky individual to progress more in a couple of years than many people do in their lifetime the word most frequently used to describe successful people is the word nice let's talk about the power of character and integrity when you consistently demonstrate goodness and kindness you'll find that people are naturally drawn to support you at the core of this lies the Timeless principle of treating others as you wish to be treated by embodying positivity you activate the law of attraction

attracting circumstances and individuals aligned with your best interests it's a simple equation the Kinder you are the more fortunate you become six honesty and integrity these qualities aren't just admirable they're essential for building meaningful relationships and effective leadership think about the people you admire and Trust the most they're likely individuals of unwavering Integrity Shakespeare captured this sentiment eloquently in the phrase to thine own self be true being being authentic and truthful with yourself forms the Cornerstone of personal Integrity in business honesty and integrity are non-negotiables serving as the Bedrock of success across Industries now let's

discuss seven intensity a defining trait of Highly Successful individuals in any competitive Arena those who demonstrate unwavering dedication and persistence often emerge Victorious the more fervently you pursue your goals the more likely you are to uncover the necessary strategies for success this means putting in the extra hours exploring various Avenues and continuously expanding your Knowledge and Skills with intensity and perseverance as your allies you become an Unstoppable Force capable of overcoming any obstacle in your path when you become a positive and cheerful person known for your High character and integrity you put yourself on the

side of the angels and when you back every desire and goal with unwavering confidence and persistence and keep moving forward no matter what adversity you will turn out to be one of the luckiest people in the world you make your own luck create the life you want and as a result your future will be Limitless a boy becomes a man when a man is needed I've seen 40-year-old boys because a man was never needed you're about to hear a life-changing speech from Brian Tracy relax take notes and watch this entire video so you don't miss

anything that could have a big impact on your life ah taking control of your life is one of the most important decisions you'll make from childhood we're conditioned to see ourselves as children with children there are other people in charge of Our Lives making decisions for us telling us what and when to eat when to go and when to come buying us clothes taking care of us and so on we're conditioned and if we're not careful we're conditioned to believe that other people provide for us make decisions for us and tell us what to do

most people never get over this they never make the transition from child to adult when they grow up they think someone else should take care of them a boss an employer and worst of all a government the government should provide for me and I don't care how they do it but I think they should take care of me so we remain as children all our lives St wrote a book many years ago that I was asked to study in high school it talks about a young man who now has to make a big decision and

his friend says but he's just a boy she replies a boy becomes a man when a man is needed I've seen 40-year-old boys because a man was never needed and it's the same a woman becomes a woman when a woman is needed uh there are women in their 40s and 50s because a woman was never needed they would always look to someone else so we say the motto of the fully responsible person is if it is to be it's up to me we don't look to other people as solutions to our problems as Henry Ford

said never complain never explain in other words if you're not happy with something change it but don't complain complaining is a sign of weakness but it's also a sign of victimization a person who complains is basically saying I'm a victim I'm weak I'm small I'm ineffective I'm a child please pity me and what this does is undermine your self-esteem it simply takes away all your motivation and self-confidence even the choice of words can be very detrimental we say there's a deep valley between maturity and immaturity called the valley of excuses and this is one of

my contributions we say that in life you come to a valley in a canyon where the valley is childhood and immaturity and on the other side is adulthood and maturity where this is the canyon you come to this point and you have to make a decision to make the big leap but what most people do is they timidly take the leap and try to cross the canyon of excuses they try to cross it in two jumps and end up in the valley of excuses the valley of excuses is one of the biggest obstacles to success

in adult life we make excuses often I say that 80% of the population goes to suay Island every time they think about a change they want to make in their lives they think someday I'll do it someday I'll write it down someday I'll buy that book someday I'll improve my skills I'll lose weight I'll get out of debt and someday I'll change my bad [Music] relationship and so on and then they end up in the uh in the valley of excuses so your job as a fully functional adult when you get here is to make

the leap to the other side and once you've made the leap to the other side there's no no turning back and this leap of accepting total responsibility for your life is scary which is why most people don't do it it's also exciting because it frees you to say I'm in charge of my own life I'm the one in charge so your job is to jump over the valley of excuses accept total responsibility for your life and never look back looking back we say that excusitis which is an inflammation of the excuse making gland is invariably

fatal to success the reason people aren't successful is because they have excuses you can't imagine a leader crying complaining and making excuses as Mark Twain said there are a thousand excuses for failure but never a good reason so one of the things we do is there are no more excuses either you do it or you don't join or jump but I don't give excuses we say that accepting responsibility is not optional it's mandatory I mentioned it before but I can't be too emphatic that you can only give up control you can't give up responsibility you're

still responsible for yourself throughout your adult life you can give up control by trying to make someone else responsible for your life and you do and then you wait to be told what to do or not to do or to get a raise or to be promoted or demoted or hired or do something else or you can accept responsibility and accepting responsibility is mandatory Yak you can't move forward you're literally stuck in your tracks almost as if there's a wall in front of you until you accept responsibility and make the leap and and never give

another excuse again we say that the word responsibility can be broken down into two words response and ability it's your ability to respond the challenge response theory in history is a fascinating part of history that I discovered when studying the work of gunar mirall who received an award from the academy for his work he said that every civilization in history better point this out I don't want to rush you okay said that every civilization in history started with with a small tribe as small as three people the history of the Mongols the Mongol Empire which

was the largest Empire in the history of man on Earth stretching from the Sea of Japan to the danu in Europe and across the Middle East and all of China and half of India began with three people genas Khan whose name was timujin his brother and his brother sorry anyway they were three they tried to be eliminated they encountered the GOI desert and hid what Timo did was look for the tribe he was part of and so on what happens is that every tribe every group became an Empire starting with a major challenge they had

to respond to effectively well this was a major challenge the tribe was eliminated so it responded by joining his uncle's tribe and and becoming a valuable member of his uncle's tribe if you respond effectively the Empire will grow then if that tribe was attacked by other tribes and they respond responded effectively the Empire would grow again as it grew it would Clash with other tribes and kingdoms there would be conflicts and if they reorganized and responded effectively they would grow again this would continue until they could no longer or no longer had the will to

respond of the last 26 civilizations in history 25 collapsed from within the great civilization is the American civilization and they all collapsed from within because they became weak they collapsed as Rome collapsed with bread and circus welfare for the masses buying them off with massive taxes on the productive until finally they weakened from within and The Barbarians came from outside and took the city and the Roman Empire disappeared in our lives every time we effectively respond to a challenge we grow stronger more resilient more confident and more powerful so the only thing we can be

sure of is that challenges in your life will be an ongoing series they'll come like waves in the ocean problem after problem after problem the only question is whether we can effectively respond and if you do you keep growing as soon as we stop effectively responding to Life's challenges we start collapsing inward so every time you face a challenge just say well here we go again this is what I do I effectively respond to challenges and the wonderful thing is I learned this in metaphysics make the decision that no matter what happens you will respond

effectively and program yourself in advance that no matter what happens you will respond effectively no matter what problem you have in life you take and accept responsibility and respond effectively if you make that decision in advance when the problem occurs it's like they press the automatic button and you're already geared up to respond effectively you don't even have to think what should I do in this situation you just respond effectively you don't get Angar you don't get sad you don't cry you don't take it out on other people what you do is say it's a

problem so we respond effectively we move forward from here very very important this attitude is the attitude of a leader civilizations grow and decline to the extent that they face challenges and respond effectively just as individuals grow or decline to the extent that they face challenges effectively the three areas of life where responsibility is essential first are in the political realm the more you vote for politicians to do things for you the more you give politicians control and unfortunately every civilization in history has chosen politicians who promis to rob Peter to pay Paul and as

they say when someone promises to rob Peter and pay Paul they'll always have Paul's support basically this is modern politics in the western world today Japan has almost collapsed because of this most other Western countries are in a state of bankruptcy or collapse because politicians are too weak not to give people what they want which is free money so every time you vote for someone who promises to give free money to other groups remember they'll get it from you and and what happens is that the less money you have the less power you have over

your own life the second area has to do with the economic world the economic world is where you become an economic adult as an economic adult you take control of your own career you make your own career decisions you don't wait for someone else to give you a job and a place to sit and tell you what to do and what not to do you see yourself as self-employed you see yourself in charge of your own personal career I write about this regularly I make books and articles about it because there are a lot of

people going through Unemployment and what they do is go from hat to hat saying like please hire me please give me a place out of the cold please give me money for something instead of taking control of their lives they look to someone out there who's supposed to be responsible for them and this just makes you a child and you shift the focus from your parents' childhood to your boss and your boss becomes your new parent and the third area is health and well-being many of us don't take good care of our bodies we expect

the doctor to take care of us once we get sick if there were no doctors or if you were in a place where doctors were very hard to find you would probably take much better care of your health but responsibility taking control of your life is very important because there is a direct link between responsibility and self-esteem the more responsibility you accept the more you like yourself and the more powerful you feel on the other hand the more you blame your problems on other people the weaker you feel and the less you like yourself they

both decrease Together High responsibility High self-esteem low responsibility low self-esteem low self-confidence low potential to achieve everything you want for yourself so we say the important key is this you're always free to choose the quality of your emotional life you're always free to choose the quality of your emotional life your physical life and your financial life now this is pretty remarkable isn't it it's your choice Barbara and I realized this many years ago our daughter Christina confronted us and said we couldn't watch her all the time we were setting boundaries rules telling them what to

do and to call us here and everything else you can't watch over me all the time I'm going to make my own decisions you just have to trust that you've raised me well enough she said and we said all right from now on make your own decisions and we'll support any decision you make 100% that has become the Mantra in our family any decision you make we support you 100% I have a little joke with my kids I tell them I've never forced them to do anything and I've never forbidden them to do anything and

they have to agree I've never compelled them to do this and I've never prohibited them from doing that unless of course they want to spend V amounts of my money in which case we'll just have a longer conversation but I've always encouraged them to make their own decisions I don't always agree with their decisions but I always back them 100% and most of the decisions they've made have turned out to be very good it's amazing how right their decisions are when they're responsible for making them would you agree with that would you agree okay my

son is here and he told me not to mention it so I won't mention that he's here I won't mention that my son Israel might be sitting right next to you you never know which chair he's in uh well you're always free to choose the quality of your life you're always free to make your own decisions and that's important does that mean you always make good decisions no but you always know they support you 100% And there's nothing more wonderful than knowing the important people in your life support you 100% does that mean you always

make good decisions no but you know they'll back you 100% And you know if the decision doesn't work out they'll change that decision very quickly it'll be reversed very quickly if it's your decision as we come to the close of this speech I urge you to carry forward the insights and Revelations gained here today remember knowledge without action is merely potential but knowledge applied is power take the wisdom you've received and let it ignite a fire within you propelling you towards your goals with unwavering determination remember that you hold within you the power to shape

your own destiny to create the life you invest you on so embrace the challenges that come your way as opportunities for growth and never forget the immens potential that leavs within you thank you for joining me on this journey of exploration and Enlightenment may you go forth with courage confidence and an unwavering commitment to becoming the best version of yourself [Music]