Stop dating broke guys

listen I am really upset with women okay I don't know who did this it was definitely not me it was not me okay but whoever did this stand up right now like stand up right now because I know some of you women out here have been making these men so spoiled they want new things now they want even more things that that women already do like we already do so much but now they want more now they want flowers now they want money now do you want everything these days women are expected to be mothers

women are expected to be a chef women are expected to be you know cleaner and Nanny every single thing your personal therapist and then you know like giving all of our energy to you making sure you're this big man and then on top of that people decided to say you know what let us also split the bill let us pay for these guys I just want to know who did this I want to meet this person in a dark alley and I just want to talk we as women today have no more expectations for men

we as women were happy when that guy acknowledges that he's dating us if he does that he's the king oh my God he told his mother that he's dating me oh wow amazing what a wonderful guy but did he tell his mom as well that he's dating 10 other girls at the same time listen I'm tired of this okay and I am gonna show you guys in this video how to accept stop accepting the bare minimum it is done we as women need to do better because these men are becoming spoiled hi guys my name

is this and welcome back to my channel okay first things first we are gonna start doing is having expectations for men men have so many expectations for a woman okay you're supposed to carry his child you're supposed to be a virgin as well you're supposed to be very beautiful you're supposed to never age um you're supposed to let you do everything he wants you're supposed to be his personal therapist Nanny cleaner Chef everything um but don't you dare as a woman expect anything from that man you want a tall man how dare you how dare

you ask for a tall man no no no no no no you should accept him being ugly and you shoot him except on top of that being broke as well because don't you dare don't you dare as a woman say that you think money is important no no no immediately they will start to go into a whole meltdown calling you a gold digger how dare you wanting money how dare you wanting to use this poor man honey you don't have any money there is nothing to be used there is no gold for us to dig

because you have no gold you should not be worrying about gold diggers you should be worrying about being broke as well these men love to say and what do you bring to the table honey there is no table for us to sit at you have no money to buy the table we're sitting on the ground so rather ask what do you bring to the ground and besides that me personally I do not sit at Empty Tables I sit at tables that are full I don't need to bring anything else than my presence my personality who

I am and my beauty I sit there and that's good enough for the guy what do you bring to the table it's broke I talk no guy that is actually willing to provide and actually take care of a woman will ever tell you where you've been to the table shut up so start having expectations Say Hey I want my man to have this this and on top of that I want my man to have money even if you don't feel comfortable uh to take money from the guy or whatever he has to work okay you

fine split the bills but make sure he makes money as well another very important thing is do not date broke guys do not date guys that have no money have no job do not date them now what is a broker a guy is a guy a broke guy is a guy with no ambition no Drive some a man with ambition and drive will always have money will always find a way to have money you know uh but a broke guys that expects you to like uh give him money that like doesn't want to do anything

and feels like the whole world is against him and he cannot figure it out whatever do not date these guys okay this is all fun and games like a guy doesn't have to have money when you're in your teenage years it's all fun and games but when you are a woman over 21 okay we all know what Financial stress is and especially when your man cannot provide anything me personally I am not attracted to guys that have no money I am simply not I am attracted to money I'm attracted to power I am attracted to

a man that is in his masculine energy and is willing to provide and protect that is what I want in a man I am truly telling you if a man is not willing to provide for me I would much rather date a woman I like to take care of them of the woman I will go into my masculine energy and I will take care of a woman why because on honestly a bit more beautiful to look at and I don't want to hear about like no like I can take care of myself like I can

do it on my own I can do it on my own as well like right now if I leave my relationship I can take care of myself and seven children literally I can live a luxury Lifestyle on my own with my own money but why would I do that so broke guys are very insecure okay when they see a woman making money when they see like a woman providing for them whatever building them up they start to disrespect that woman that's not the woman they want okay and once they are there and completely built up

they will actually leave you for the woman that they do want because they do not respect you they see you as a as like a competition they do not see you as a lover of their part or their partner why because these guys are not in their masculine energy men thrive on success men value themselves as well on their successes so this this guy does not respect himself so if he does not respect himself you will not respect you you don't go through Lanes to defend him listen the minute one of his friends says oh

my God your girl is so ugly or oh my God your girl's a hoe you know how quick they will be to dismiss you they'll be like oh yeah you're right she's a hoe uh yeah she doesn't look that great you know why because men don't like women men like men almost everything they do is for the validation of other men but we know we fight with our own mother with our sister with our friends when when the guy does something wrong and they say Hey listen he disrespected you no no he didn't Hey listen

he's quite ugly no he's not it's just a bad picture uh it was a bad day no no honey he hasn't been looking like this his whole life stop applauding and praising small things he does okay so imagine he treats you like complete [ __ ] like so badly has no respect towards you but you know what the other day he bought you flowers and you go to your friend to your mom you're like yeah but he bought me flowers well honey that is very embarrassing of you no that is really embarrassing if he just

does these things and it's just always nice like a good guy you know he's buying flowers he's writing me poetry writing me letters uh buying new stuff gifts and all things that's nice you know you should say oh thank you so much and we appreciate it from them that's very nice but him just like doing something so small or like oh yeah he cheated on yesterday but tomorrow he's gonna take you out for dinner okay um no that's not working that's not [ __ ] and do not apply these do not appreciate these you know

what get your ass up and leave out of that relationship because there's no respect there another thing is accept that you cannot change him listen I love it when girls say yeah he will be different with me I have that effect on guys I can change them honey you cannot do anything and you know what whilst you're at it there's a whole line of 10 girls waiting to change him so why don't you guys collectively yeah start thinking about a plan about how you guys collectively can change change this map this is who they have

been for years and maybe their whole life and you come in and think like oh yeah I will change him I'll check listen his own mother cannot even change him who are you like sit down okay and stop trying to change men improve them okay do not let them talk or treat you disrespectfully keep these guys in check okay listen if you are having an argument and this guy is calling you a [ __ ] or a hoe this is not normal okay and you should say that from the beginning you do not talk to

me like that because women always let these things slides oh it doesn't matter he was angry at me whatever and that's normal to you calling you a [ __ ] calling you a hoe that's that's respect to you this guy does not respect you by the way never in any of my relationship has a guy talk to me like that and this has been long-term relationship for years when we had an argument it has always been an adult conversation I didn't like it that you did this he told me I didn't like that you did

this or reacted this way okay and we resolve it this is communication but don't you dare in your life call me a hoe or a [ __ ] because baby I'm out you do not talk to me like that and I have told my friends when uh their guy was talking to them like that even an argument I told them do not accept this Behavior because this is gonna turn physical if they feel comfortable talking to you in that way later on they will also start to feel comfortable touching you pushing you even assaulting you

and extreme extreme lengths to go to analyzed you this truly happened and what I said came true the physical violence did happen the abuse did happen and then the women are shocked yeah but why did you first fall did not keep the check when they talk to you like that you keep these guys in check and you leave when you see the big red flags you leave you do not stay because this person will not get better if in the beginning right you show him you can you can talk to me like that don't know

what will you do he'll become nicer when where where has that ever happened if you are in the dating phase and you're not in a relationship you're just dating getting to know each other keep your options open okay who starts literally like you know what women do they see one guy they they go on one they tell okay this is the guy I'm gonna marry him have seven children with him whatever he's my guy you know what the guy does keep his options open goes on another date like she's this one Whatever why because guys

think with their mind they think okay which one would be a good mom which one would I want to introduce to my mother uh which one is a good fit they want to see you know they don't put all their eggs in one basket but we as women oh no I immediately we want you I want you and then we get disappointed when we're ghosted when we get uh when we get hard work we get disappointed okay but why in the dating phase did you literally date one guy and that's it why and make sure

they know you're keeping your options open make sure that literally because women are like to be like no you're the only one oh I love you the most blah blah when I started dating my boyfriend he literally asked me Liz are you seeing other people I'm like yes I'm dating other people and then he was like okay I have to win this girl over because there is no way that I want her to be in a relationship with another man and on top of that that makes you look very desperate because it's almost like this

girl has no options like immediately she'll throw like one guy she sees that she will latch on to him then the guy thinks like oh no other men want her and like I said before did you listen men like men so when they see a woman is very desired by other men they want that woman as well some of you women are dating literally a guy that is everyone's man and everyone knows everyone knows that this guy is a cheater and he's not even hiding it from you and you go into this thinking oh I

want a loyal guy and then you date him and then he cheats on you and you're shocked honey why are we shocked hmm why are we shocked some girls go to go on to date rappers artists whatever that I have with them just on substances they literally don't even know where they are and I'm gonna tell you honestly they barely even know you like I I can literally tell you you can put two girls in front of them they will not know which one the girlfriend is why because mentally they're not even here they're constantly

on substances so this guy then cheated on you and then you're also shocked who are you guys dating think with your head and not with your emotions we as women need to stop thinking with our emotions we need to start thinking with our head when you meet a man in your head should be okay will this guy be a good husband will this guy be able to provide what I want will this guy be a good father for my children think about these things okay he doesn't have money but he'll get better whenever no no

no don't let these things slide you think a guy would literally date you if you were not looking like you wanted you to look no you think he would wait until you get like beautiful or hot or whatever no simply he'll be like you're not my type bye and they also go on to just go see you without telling you anything making you feel very insecure your ego is hurt and heartbroken so we should start saying okay are you a Brokey yeah I don't want you broken never tell a man you have no one besides

him listen women think this is cute yeah you're my only one in my life I don't have any friends I don't have any family you're the only one how dangerous is this no no no no no how dangerous is this because you are literally telling this guy if you murder me tonight if you take my life nobody will care nobody will know because I only have you congratulations very smart reviews and if you have already told him that you don't have any family members whatever first thing you can do is you can make up something

you can say like oh yeah I contacted a family member here um you know I have family that I'm talking to whatever you make something up or what you actually do is you make friends make sure you have friends even if you don't see them make sure you always text someone make sure you have someone that knows about your situation knows about your relationship because these things can get very dangerous and when a guy knows that you have no one besides him you know how easy you are to control you know how quick they will

be to manipulate you do not do that to yourself make sure you always keep a social life um and keep having friends keep having Hobbies keep keep having things to go listen if you don't want friends have hobbies have people you know act like um as like the hobby whatever you do half people you know go out in Social because otherwise you will become so attached to this man to a point where you will become insecure even if he goes after his friends you start to become insecure like oh my God what is he doing

whatever and men can smell insecurity and nothing is more off-putting than an insecure and desperate woman it is an extremely unattractive so even if you are insecure work on your insecurities in private but do not let him know that you are insecure if he wants to go out with her and say go have fun go who is my Queens I hope you enjoyed this video I hope you learned something and you know what stop blaming yourself if the relationship did went South and uh it didn't work out or he cheated on you we women we

always like to blame ourselves oh maybe we are not prettier maybe I was not good enough no the guy you're dating was just a piece of [ __ ] okay he literally nobody would date him literally the fact that you dated him made his value go up look at some guys that are celebrities nobody would date them if the woman that were dating him were not dating him nobody would even bat an eye at them those women make them something literally make them look attractive in front of this other woman because otherwise nobody would even

look at them so that's how much power we hold the fact that he can say that he's dating you it's a blessing so you better start acting like a blessing okay guys I love you guys so much and I see you in the next video bye